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fernandez1:
Dis one get tendency to cheat

We have tradition down here in nsukka,she can't dare do that,and besides with who?me?... she's not the only girl that still roams this Earth...

I don't do any how cus I hate it's results—seeing anyhow!

Patented:
Jejely block her everywhere. As for the pain....e go pass with time. Much faster if u city off all communication.

Doing that first thing tomorrow morning after my last marriage wish to her,almost allher friends have been calling me just know where I've been, I only picked those that I know what they stands for...most of them are even in shock too.

Educationalserv:
U be simp .she scopping you we called it soft landing make u no retaliate. a richer guy came in the she grap the oppurtunity.

Lol...if that's what makes one simp,then I am one,but for sure he's not riche than I am and that I know with facts...she alone knows her reasons,but money can't be one of them...


Thank you.

Nezzjnr:
Please if they're sharing rice in the wedding... Do well to inform us abeg.

That's the only thing that matters

Abi?,bad luck cus I've been on isolation since morning,how could if attend even if I'm willing to?I can't cus I fit just collapse or go insane...

Educationalserv:
U be simp .she scopping you we called it soft landing make u no retaliate. a richer guy came in the she grap the oppurtunity.

I doubt that, did my research, dude is an electrician, no way he can be richer... Than I am... I'm not bragging bruh I'm doing well financially with multiple investment and other source of income, there's more to this than meets the eye, but which ever way, she's made her choice and I respect and wish her good...

BREYZ:
Young man, concentrate on yourself. Leave girl matter and make money

I believe with this,I'm balling more than you...

I'm heart broken and in pains...


We have dated for like two years+ now, she was 18+ when we met, after some time, I was deeply in love with her and I believed she loved me too, so with that thought I asked her out for marriage, though she was excited over it but she said that she's not ready, that she just finished her secondary school and have to learn some business first as she's not going to further her educations, that she will consider marriage at the age of 22+,I was ok with that and so we kept going.


She learned food stuffs for like 4 months, we were supporting each, I assisted her to secure a shop and she was doing well.


Her ex came back and all of a sudden, we start having issue over unnecessary things, this prompted me to bring up marriage issue again, she maintained her stance, so I called off the relationship, and kept on being friends with her.


The break lasted for some months and we somehow managed to reconcile, we were back like never before, everything was so cool, I always tell her we need to prioritize the relationship so that it will have a clear direction, I wanted to tell her my mind, which is if you can't marry me, then let's quit for good, all that was on my mind but time and business never let me air it out.


Due to business, I have been traveling here and there, but we do talk frequently.We haven't seen for like two weeks cus I'm busy traveling (courtesy of my business).


I traveled last week Thursday, my mum got sick and was admitted to hospital while I was out,she always visits my mum at the hospital, I was worried with so many things that I didn't call her for like two days, so on Saturday, she called me in the morning which we talked very well, I noticed that something is off with her, I inquired but she said all is well, she asked if I'm coming back that same day but I was not sure cus I'm not done with my biz, she say that we need to see, which made me to ask her if there is any problem at all but she said no.


I was done with my biz towards evening,I was not fit for traveling that same day,but cus of my mum and the way my girl talked about seeing me,I decided to be on my way that same day.


Midway through the journey,my phone bleeped and it was text message from my girl,that she is getting married and that she has been trying to tell me but there's no chance for that...after reading the texts like about twenty times,I was confused and disturbed,I replied her saying that she's not serious...


Nairalanders,I came home that same night,went straight to the hospital, after seeing my mum,I went home and took my bath,then I went to her house,I refused to get inside,so I forced her to come out to come see me,she came out and was looking tattered and unkept, unlike the way I know her...I was eager to know what's going on and so I went straight to the point.


Hmmm,she was shaking, subbing and crying at the same time, she told me it's true, she's getting married, and that I shouldn't blame her,that everything just happened so fast...that it is not up to a month she met the guy,that since then he and his family has been disturbing her and her parents, and with that pressure she said yes without thinking, and besides, ever since we came back together that she can't exactly tell if I'm still interested in marrying her or not, that I never voiced it out or talked about marriage with her again like before...That she thought I no longer wants to marry her...


She said that it was on Friday that they came and said that they will be coming to take list on Saturday and then on 16th of June they will come and pay her bride price... She was not at home when all this was happening, she came back from shop and her father gave her the news, which was shocking to her.


I asked her, why didn't you tell me all this? Why didn't you tell me that you're ready now?
All she could say is that she still loves me and she's sorry... She keeps blaming me for not asking her out again...


We both cried like babies out there, till it was very late, the next I woke up wishing that all of the incident should be just a dream,I called her,she picked and her voice was down, truth is that,we haven't been the same since then, and as I am typing this, my girl is being married off to someone else, what I don't know is if she's doing it against her wish or she's doing it willingly?.


She's been calling since yesterday,that she wants to see me.

The last time we saw each other yesterday evening, I requested to be left alone, but she pleaded that I should not block her from communicating with me.

I couldn't sleep last night, and I believe she didn't as well, our last call was around 10:36 pm... She's not relaxed on the call which I noticed and asked her what is the problem again, she then said she will text me later...


Please, I need advice on how to move on from all this, and while doing that, I don't want to hurt her cus I'm certainly going to block all our communications after today...

Juliusmalema:
Is Ejiofor a lawyer or an Ipob member.

The lawyer is fast becoming a nuisance to oraifite community and the earlier the community give him a sound and final warning the better for him.

Nonsense.

From lawyer to Ipob member, no go face your career as a lawyer and built it up, continue waiting for 20 dollars from Kanu.

Before you realise it, your colleagues have left you behind.

The Lawyer/Ipob is not on nairaland, but u can find him on Twitter, but be warned, MALAMI IS ON LOOSE!

ablejesus26:
Sebi them see how we protest against any senseless form of uprising and insurrection in IMO State, any group who wants to drag Igboland into their selfish fight with the fg, thereby putting the lives of the common Igboman in danger,will be receiving the shock of their lives.
Sabotage from every quarter is what they will be receiving.
Igbo says no to insurgency.

Clap for yourself!

MalcoImX:
Is this not Kanu-like or what?

So you agree that Nnamdi should stay away until the battle is won to reapper and lead those who may be alive.

Its only a fool that jumps into a fight because some fools are calling him coward…

MNK will surface at the appointed time and will lead the battle himself…

BigSarah:
Because they felt like it

So nigerians did not ask for freedom?

BigSarah:
You think Igbos are being maltreated now, you can imagine the treatment they got after the war ended. Clans that could deny and erase their Igbo roots did so for the sake of survival. And Stupid IPOB is trying to start an agitation out of hatred and threats, that tactic will definitely fail and the result will be more clans dumping the Igbo Tag..
Drop MNK he's not resourceful enough he's an embarrassment

What reason made Britain give Nigerian Independence?

BigSarah:
I thought NK said he's not interested in Leading and obviously NK isn't fit to Lead, he's even mildly incompetent in the struggle

That handle do not belong to him…

As it stands, buhari has not been to borno talk more of being in sambisa, do you remember Idrisa Derby of chad ��?he died forming strong man , though it's encouraging for a leader to be with his soldiers both emotional and some time supportive visitation, BUT A WISE LEADER SHOULD NEVER BE AT FRONTLINE…His death can ruin everything he ever stands for!.

MalcoImX:
"WHEN we win, I will come back from UK to lead my people" - Nnamdi Kanu.

Meaning: He won't be among those doing the fight, but would be the number 1 beneficiary when prize is won.

Olodo, that's not his handle oga

mekaboy:
I dont need a prophet to tell me you dont own a single structure home and abroad.

You are the ones that believe your miserable lives will be better in Biafra. While kanu has made his life better with the biafran business.

Saying I am miserable just tells the kind of person you're…


Even MNK that you're insanely obsessed with don't spend half of the time you spend pretending to one of us(while doing his evangelism of Biafra) your history online only portay you as jobless asshole, an inconsequential entity trying to be relevant through any means possible, even if it means losing your insanity cus as it stand, you have nothing valuable to do with your so called life which in reality is a sham…

mekaboy:
You will not loose some valuables.

Those are nothing, we most build greater ones castle � after the battle…

You can't change the mind of a determined Igbo person, ask yourself why we do most things other tribes finds hard to the? Because we Igbos, nothing else

mekaboy:
At least his followers are dying faster.

Like wise Nigeria �� personel…


Let this sink deeper, most or all Igbo are pro Biafra by birth… and mind you, Igbos are very brave than you will ever think, remember when you guys were calling IPOB's peaceful protests shambolic and mere chest beating? Now some tones have changed…

I for one know that freedom isn't given, rather freedom is taken by any means possible…

I support Biafra restoration not being IPOB with it affiliates or any other pro Biafra group, but I won't stand doing nothing and be killed by the caliphate, NEVER!


Las Las we all will lost one or two valuables in this battle, but the righteous will surely emerge victorious!

Op is dying slowly, courtesy of MNK and IPOB recent activities…


His type will always be around to die someone's else death!

post=101909950:
This is Barbaric and getting outta hands.
Peace is all we want in our nation.

Every evil and killer herdsmen
All the ritualists, kidnappers, Cultists, armed robbers, Baby factory owners, Child traffickers, cannibals all over the South, East, North and West of Nigeria causing chaos and unrest in our darling nation will not see the end of this year.
And to anyone supporting such devils and unrest.
Painful ends awaits them all.

No be curse,
Na FACT


God bless you and yours.
You are a good Nigerian who is not in support of kidnappers, murderers, rapists and criminals, unlike some that are pained by our innocent prayers.


Oh really?!
Goodness us! Thanks Goodness me!
How could we ever forget that?
All those killers and evil vices above including ipobs, they all will never end well in this life.
All ipobs responsible for the killings of innocent citizens and our military personnel will all die gruesome deaths.
All evil Fulani herdsmen responsible for this killing will die terribly.
Same for all those happy to read that Shekau is only injured and not dead, BIG BIG BOMBS Gbooooosssaaaa on the roofs of their various houses wherever they live.
Thanks for reminding us kiddo!


No wonder, na dem!
And you have families and friends in this nation.
Characteristics of a kid!



Please don't die Joe.
Never give up.
All the evil people behind all this violence and deaths will all die before you in Jesus name.
You will read about their brutal deaths soon.
#NeverGiveUp.

Keep praying, but while on that always have it in mind that lot of prayers will never be answered, because it's within your power and reach to do that which you ask of God, you can't give Peace to who don't want peace, Israel for example are the center for most religions on Earth, but instead of only prayer, they remixed it with action which resulted in war against their sworn enemy... They defended themselves and became victorious not doing nothing while praying but by being decisive against their attackers.

Down here, y'all will be far away from trouble zone and be saying some unnecessary prayer while people are being massacred in their land, any one who stands against them, you call them names... But what I believe in life is that what goes around surly comes around, don't ever wish to encounter all those barbarian called herdsmen, cus the very day do, you will begin to question God and yourself towards the unity of this country called Nigeria!.

Juliusmalema:
All the mosque been built? All meaning you are aware of the mosque and on such case the large number of worshippers.

Well Islam is a religion and Nothing to argue just that Nsukka peop, most of them have embraced the religion.

Stop confusing your soul, yes the mosque are for Muslims and the Muslims are Hausas... A man once sold his land to Hausa for them to build mosque, he was thoroughly castigated by his kinsmen till he recovered that land... Nsukka people are not for Islam, take it to the bank

Juliusmalema:
The whole population we are seeing are somalia Muslims. You lie alot. The other day someone said Nsukka is 90© catholic, 8% traditionalist and 2 % Muslims..

Today according to you it is 50:50. When people lie alot to cover their weakness thru ends up messing themselves.

Yes, 50:50 Islam with zero percent, anything otherwise is false... I'm not saying there's no Muslim, but they're Hausas not indigenous Igbos... Take that to the Bank!

Juliusmalema:
0.00001 percent and mosques are springing up left right and centre synonymous with places with over 65% Muslims.

Who is the liar or is there something you are not telling us?

Lie with dignity.

Nsukka is very allergic to Islam, All the mosque being built within it is being financed by the north in their bid to lure our people, Igwe Patrick Mama (Waziri)d of Amalla-Egazi tried it and built a mosque in his trailer park at Obollo, against the warning of the people and by the people, now he and his community are being punished for such arrogance... I'm telling you that we are not and never let Islam eat into us as u people are praying... The little one that are into the franchise are being considered for brother's sake... Even those practicing it, their wives and kids are CHRISTIANS...

Juliusmalema:
Akiko...

When lies become a virtue, people now do it to save face.

Nsukka is largely a muslim community..

Stop calling Igbos up and down to a thread that was specific. THE mosque without doubt was built by Nsukka Muslims.

Stop disgracing yourself, Muslims in Nsukka are Hausas, Indigenous Igbo Muslims are very tiny that even their family do not take them serious... Nsukka Is 50%Christians and 50% Traditionalists... That mosque being the central mosque in Igbo Eze south can not boast of 10 Indigenous Igbos worshipping inside it every Friday even as big and as magnificent as it looks, Hausas are the one nacking head on ground inside it,

Juliusmalema:
Say Something else.....we have been hearing this for long

Ebonyi, Enugu and Imo state has a large percentage of indigeneous muslims.

Moreover nsukka has a Muslim population of Roughly 49 percent.

Igbo eze in nsukka are dominantly muslims

Lienus...

I'm from Obollo-Afor, Islam in the whole Nsukka is not up to 0.00001, who ever tells you other wise is massaging your erratic brain and the ones that are Muslims are inconsequential in reality, no one takes them serious because it's all shambolic congregation for the dough, you get?

Please I need Chargers in quantity and also good quality ones, if you deal in them please lemme know let's get in touch for business... Thanks

AmazonTopaz:
I am igbo you dummy.
I am an igbo woman inheriting from her father

I don't care about any culture the only culture I see and respect is my own.
Also the only law I respect is the Nigerian law.
Every other customary law is subject to Nigerian law.


There are no consequences those consequencies are only scare tactics that exist in your imaginary head.
Go and use those consequences on the supreme court to change it's stance on the issue

Please can I ask you some questions regarding your submission on this issue?

omenka:
For President, Professor Yemi Osinbajo, I know.

Anyone else, I don't.

EoD.

You are doomed!.at your age you still can't delete yourself from failures...

Sanusi Lamido Sanusi was not just dethroned because he is no friend of Ganduje and northern cabals, but they just produced a special breed of Presidetial candidate...

So y'all should quit all this undeserved pity for the man, the north is about to play the south again with saint painting of Sanusi.



#SelfOpinion
YouDeyGet

Lewandoski20:
Nanny boy and His Endorsers might not find this ur assessment of him funny. What about the Monetary largesse he has been doling out to Support groups from Nsukka. You mean to say you are not a beneficiary?

That's the problem, money meant for something reasonable being disbursed to irrelevant and greedy few/fools for no just no good cause...Nsukka is finished... Nanny is just nobody to me as far as politics is concerned

NonsoWow:
Ayogu Eze is not clannish or incompetent like Muguanyi. He will take real development round Enugu state and solve the water problem that enugu town is facing which has made almost every house in enugu to have clogged toilets as the state struggles to import water from Anambra via tankers.

That's your wish...but he will deliver nothing in terms of governance rather than enrich his never insatiable pocket

bubu2019:
ThankGod you mentioned one project gburugburu brought to orba his home town.pls mention one project ayogu Eze have achieved since his time in politics to his hometown umuida?.NOTHING

That's why I called him a clown...Ayogu can't deliver any vote from his immediate and extended families...he's a big failure to Ezike in general