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RomanceRe: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Rapmoney(op): 1:55pm On Sep 11, 2015
RomanceRe: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Rapmoney(op): 1:52pm On Sep 11, 2015
panachuku:
winkcalls u once in a while, in the afternoons, well shes one her way to anoda guys house, by callin u, u wont bother calling her till shes done in the guys house
Another plate of eba and banga soup for this guy! cheesy
RomanceRe: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Rapmoney(op): 1:50pm On Sep 11, 2015
gabinogem:
Nice observation bro...
Thanks man!
RomanceRe: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Rapmoney(op): 1:49pm On Sep 11, 2015
YourMain:
I live in Ireland and I know women who do that to their boyfriends.

So its not for the Nigerian environment no ?
I don't know about Ireland or South Korea! I have Nigerian babes in mind cool
RomanceRe: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Rapmoney(op): 1:47pm On Sep 11, 2015
Cutehector:
lmao, I dnt take plots, I take hectares of land... By derailing... Buh I dnt wana derail urs cheesy.

Oya thank me cheesy
Oya, I dash u 1 like! grin
RomanceRe: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Rapmoney(op): 1:43pm On Sep 11, 2015
RickRichards:
huh huh


Not just Nigerian women.
grin
RomanceRe: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Rapmoney(op): 1:42pm On Sep 11, 2015
Dafe20:
Lists everywhere!
Okay oga! Add ur own! grin
RomanceRe: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Rapmoney(op): 1:41pm On Sep 11, 2015
Cutehector:
what am I up to? wink
Taking a plot! grin
RomanceRe: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Rapmoney(op): 1:39pm On Sep 11, 2015
YourMain:
Any disloyal person. Just not Nigerian women.
The piece is for the Nigerian environment, romance-wise cheesy. Hope u understand huh
RomanceRe: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Rapmoney(op): 1:37pm On Sep 11, 2015
YourMain:
This describes anyone really
Really? Anyone? huh shocked
RomanceRe: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Rapmoney(op): 1:36pm On Sep 11, 2015
Cutehector:
Ok
I know what u are up to! grin
Romance5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Rapmoney(op):
It shouldn't be an issue to debate on that 'love' and 'loyalty' are two different phenomenons entirely, yet, they go hand-in-hand with each other. Getting loyalty from the 'modern' Nigerian city girls sometimes, could be like the proverbial camel passing through the eyes of the needle, as projected by Christ in the Holy Bible!!! wink...and especially, when your funds are low!

The average Nigerian girl that lives in the city might be a pain in the ass for you if you take her issues so seriously; carrying it on your head as if it was your destiny...especially, the flashy and trendy ones whose only dream in life is to surround themselves with as much material things as they can get wink. This situation might even prove worse when you are not aware of the ingredients that can bring about this loyalty. It is true that no one can be absolutely loyal, as other factors sometimes play their roles but disloyalty can be curtailed seriously when in relationship

1) She disappears during festive periods: If you are dating a Nigerian babe and she is fond of disappearing during festive times such as Christmas, New Year, Valentine's Day, Easter, Eide-Kabir, etc, just know she is the disloyal type. She fake herself to be so busy during these times and absolutely make herself unavailable to you! She's probably in the warm hands of another man who she feels can cater for her expensive taste and needs during the celebration season!!! Young man, you have no business with such a lady! I thought festive seasons were meant to be enjoyed together with friends and loved ones huh o:

2) She uses baseless excuses to explain her unavailability: Disloyal ladies hardly spend quality time with you except they stand to gain one material benefit or the other from you! To you, you are in a relationship. To them, it is 'business' as usual! cheesy. They always put the blame on rain, too much sunshine, breeze, traffic, friend's wedding, etc, to avoid meeting with you but just tell her to come and collect a large sum of money you promised her and she will happily take the next available cab even if the whole rain in China, Vietnam and Cambodia combined is nothing compared to the rain pouring in the area where she resides!!! grin. Observe watchfully, bro! wink

3) She is so familiar with the joints you have taken her to and the regular male visitors there: She would know the prices of the range of drinks they have and the amounts they sell the ranges of foods they have in these places!!! She attracts 'funny' eye contacts and body languages from male folks around often and she sometimes wave at them when you act as if you are not looking! grin. How did she come to know about these places and what they offer if she hasn't been taken to these places by different men on several occassions? huh

4) Her phone hardly rings in your presence: Yes! Funny as it sounds, it is true. It is a tactful act that you should be a aware of...'your' girl (everybody's friend) could be the disloyal type. If she switches off her phone, you might suspect so she might put an old sim card that no one calls to disguise as a 'good girl' in your presence. This is an expo...if you notice something like this too often when she visits, try to call her number on your phone and see if it goes. If it doesn't, don't try to bother her on why she is using another sim she didn't tell you about!!! Just know she is the disloyal type! You have an option...you can get up and dust your ass to save yourself further stress!!! wink

5) She spends your money but you can never see her penny: If she is the type that keeps her 20k to feast on your little 5k, just see her as disloyal! I wonder how some young men spend hugely on ladies who have never bought them a boxers or singlet before! huh Relationship is give and take. If she gives you sex and nothing more for the financial benefits she gets from you, then she's a pros!!! If not, what's the transaction between a guy and a pros? huh Money for hand=back for ground grin grin. After all, who yansh dor help abeg! huh

Shine your eyes and be a Realist!!!
In the name of success, all women are bound to be loyal and confess that you are the man!!!
FamilyRe: High Rate Of Unemployment: Where Nigerian Parents Fail by Rapmoney(op): 10:53am On Sep 10, 2015
austine4real:
Our parents b like go to skul& av good grades so that u can get employment in a big company.

Taju foganisa my 2ndary skul klazmate is living a comfy life wt 3kids while me dey wait 4 job
That mentality no longer works! Our young ones need serious re-orientation to be able to withstand the harsh realities that are inherent living our presend-day Nigeria! wink
FamilyRe: High Rate Of Unemployment: Where Nigerian Parents Fail by Rapmoney(op): 2:58pm On Sep 09, 2015
FamilyRe: High Rate Of Unemployment: Where Nigerian Parents Fail by Rapmoney(op): 2:52pm On Sep 09, 2015
Lalasticlala, RoyalRoy, pls this calls for an intelligent debate! cheesy
FamilyRe: High Rate Of Unemployment: Where Nigerian Parents Fail by Rapmoney(op): 2:50pm On Sep 09, 2015
MsBliss:
Pikin weh wan spoil go spoil.
How does that relate to the issue? huh
FamilyRe: High Rate Of Unemployment: Where Nigerian Parents Fail by Rapmoney(op): 2:47pm On Sep 09, 2015
ronald4lif:
Very aptly written. Not everyone is meant to attend a university and acquire a degree. It's true that education is very vital to the development and shaping of one's life but not everyone is meant to have one.

Like you rightly said while growing up there are some exhibitions kids display that could be intermediate to their natural inclinations and if properly harnessed from childhood they could become successful and well recognised in life. You see a little boy always gathering woods to construct chairs, tables etc and advised him to study medicine and other science related courses when he could learn furniture or if he must acquire a formal education he can settle for fine art, architecture and related fields.

Young adults should be encouraged to take up apprenticeship and learning vocational skills even as they're still advised to gain formal education. It's near impossible to find a vocational worker not fend for himself while some university graduates don't have any means of livelihood.

A person can acquire both if they have the zeal. Some unemployed graduates who have been out of the labour industry for long can delve into learning a handiwork since jobs aren't forthcoming. We have very few new industries spawning up so staying idle hoping for a white collar job could backfire at the long haul if care is not taken.

I think we Nigerians takes so much pride in parading ourselves as graduates even if we have nothing to show for it. And those without formal education are constantly being stigmatised. We believe that once we tell someone we're an economist, lawyer, microbiologist or engineer we should be accorded respect even if we don't have 1k to our names. Which is baloney.

Some choice ladies too might not look your way if you're a middle class without a university degree, so everyone want to enter uni by force or fire. Not always our parents fault.
Nice one bro...but parents should back up formal edu with relevant skills aquisition.
FamilyRe: High Rate Of Unemployment: Where Nigerian Parents Fail by Rapmoney(op): 1:50pm On Sep 09, 2015
ammyluv2002:
Read patiently? shocked shocked
Yeah, you need to.
FamilyHigh Rate Of Unemployment: Where Nigerian Parents Fail by Rapmoney(op): 1:47pm On Sep 09, 2015
Please, read patiently...

This write-up would better serve as an 'Eye-opener' to most youths and an 'Open Letter' to Nigerian parents, especially, those in the middle, semi-middle and lower classes in the society!

The bitter and devastating effects of unemployment in Nigeria have turned so many Nigerian youths into 'helpless kids' who still depend on assistance from friends and relations to survive!!! The havoc and wreck this situation brings can even damage somebody psychologically! If you have never been there before, you would not know how it feels! Idleness can actually make you to be seen in places you shouldn't even be seen if you were gainfully engaged wink. When you are broke and you can't even afford what you would like to eat, it is always so painful.

Most Nigerian parents do not make adequate plans for their children as they start growing. Most still believe in that 'train you in school' mentality!!! Yes, it is very good to give your children sound education because that is one of your duties as parents. On the other hand, it is not and cannot be the ultimate. Most Nigerian parents send their kids to school, from there, he gains admission to a higher institution, (those who are not from comfortable homes might even spend countless years before securing admission due to corruption in that sector)...and then he graduates...now, what next? huh He or she comes home to stay with you after all the resources you have spent!!! huh That must be a circular movement!!! This situation is very common because most parents fail to make adequate plans before time. A parent should be able to look at his or her boy and say, at 21, I would want my boy to be at a particular level of financial independence! Most parents do not look at the innate qualities and abilities of their children; what is your child good at? It must not always be inside the circle of formal education. Observe what he or she likes doing and very good at; encourage him or her and help build his or her talent towards that area. Save up money in an account for your kids so that they can start up with their skills and talents early in life. The money you earn while working or doing business should not just be a source of entertainment for merry-seeking friends and relatives!!! Nigerian parents, to make issues worse, do not place much importance on nurturing talents, developing skills and encouraging enterprenureship! Too much emphasis has been placed on formal/university education, knowing fully well that most of the functional institutions in the country then have collapsed totally!!!

Back then, it could be easy to get a 'soft' job immediately one was done with secondary education. Today, the case is totally different. UAC, Railway, Post Office, Leventis and many more are no longer there!!! Now, you see where many Nigerian parents still try to reconcile the two eras which are totally different and irreconcilable? huh

I still don't believe that jobless Nigerian graduates are lazy! The problem is that most of them were not given the right foundation and orientations, courtsey of parental wishes!!! My elder cousin learnt Auto Mechanics after secondary school at the age of 16. He started without informing the parents initially because he knew they would stop him. When he told them, he had spent close to 3 months and spent a total of 5 years to learn the field. He later went to the university to study Economics and I bet you, the last time he set his eyes on his certificate was the time he laminated it after NYSC...and that was in 2007 (that's 8 years ago!). The parents did not take note of him so much when he was building wooden and plastic cars with Rotors and batteries to power the cars as they move smoothly on the cement floor of their sitting room while the young man was growing up . The parents wanted him to be on suit and tie, sit in an office and punch the keyboard of a computer in a busy-like manner!

I think Nigerian parents should start realizing that those times and now are not same. Your degree gives you nothing more that what its value is in Nigeria!!! You can quote me if you like! winkThat's why some graduates receive what's not even befitting for a driver working in a small pure water firm...and many are still unemployed!!!

God, give parents the wisdom to plan adequately for their children!!!
Jobs/VacanciesHigh Rate Of Unemployment: Where Nigerian Parents Fail by Rapmoney(op): 1:34pm On Sep 09, 2015
Please, read patiently...

This write-up would better serve as an 'Eye-opener' to most youths and an 'Open Letter' to Nigerian parents, especially, those in the middle, semi-middle and lower classes in the society!

The bitter and devastating effects of unemployment in Nigeria have turned so many Nigerian youths into 'helpless kids' who still depend on assistance from friends and relations to survive!!! The havoc and wreck this situation brings can even damage somebody psychologically! If you have never been there before, you would not know how it feels! Idleness can actually make you to be seen in places you shouldn't even be seen if you were gainfully engaged wink. When you are broke and you can't even afford what you would like to eat, it is always so painful.

Most Nigerian parents do not make adequate plans for their children as they start growing. Most still believe in that 'train you in school' mentality!!! Yes, it is very good to give your children sound education because that is one of your duties as parents. On the other hand, it is not and cannot be the ultimate. Most Nigerian parents send their kids to school, from there, he gains admission to a higher institution, (those who are not from comfortable homes might even spend countless years before securing admission due to corruption in that sector)...and then he graduates...now, what next? huh He or she comes home to stay with you after all the resources you have spent!!! That must be a circular movement!!! wink. This situation is very common because most parents fail to make adequate plans before time. A parent should be able to look at his or her boy and say, at 21, I would want my boy to be at a particular level of financial independence! Most parents do not look at the innate qualities and abilities of their children; what is your child good at? It must not always be inside the circle of formal education. Observe what he or she likes doing and very good at; encourage him or her and help build his or her talent towards that area. Save up money in an account for your kids so that they can start up with their skills and talents early in life. The money you earn while working or doing business should not just be a source of entertainment for merry-seeking friends and relatives!!! Nigerian parents, to make issues worse, do not place much importance on nurturing talents, developing skills and encouraging enterprenureship! Too much emphasis has been placed on formal/university education, knowing fully well that most of the functional institutions in the country then have collapsed totally!!!

Back then, it could be easy to get a 'soft' job immediately one was done with secondary education. Today, the case is totally different. UAC, Railway, Post Office, Leventis and many more are no longer there!!! Now, you see where many Nigerian parents still try to reconcile the two eras which are totally different and irreconcilable? huh

I still don't believe that jobless Nigerian graduates are lazy! The problem is that most of them were not given the right foundation and orientations, courtsey of parental wishes!!! My elder cousin learnt Auto Mechanics after secondary school at the age of 16. He started without informing the parents initially because he knew they would stop him. When he told them, he had spent close to 3 months and spent a total of 5 years to learn the field. He later went to the university to study Economics and I bet you, the last time he set his eyes on his certificate was the time he laminated it after NYSC...and that was in 2007 (that's 8 years ago!). The parents did not take note of him so much when he was building wooden and plastic cars with Rotors and batteries to power the cars as they move smoothly on the cement floor of their sitting room while the young man was growing up wink. The parents wanted him to be on suit and tie, sit in an office and punch the keyboard of a computer in a busy-like manner! wink

I think Nigerian parents should start realizing that those times and now are not same. Your degree gives you nothing more that what its value is in Nigeria!!! You can quote me if you like! wink. That's why some graduates receive what's not even befitting for a driver working in a small pure water firm...and many are still unemployed!!!

God, give parents the wisdom to plan adequately for their children!!!
RomanceRe: Who's Your nairaland Crush? by Rapmoney(m): 1:01pm On Sep 07, 2015
Abuse of internet privilege!!! How many times will this crush crap come up? huh
EducationRe: Religious Propagation On Nigerian Campuses: Infringement Of Rights by Rapmoney(m): 10:44am On Sep 07, 2015
Bonapart:
Mr op , you're a true definition of wailer
Park well before omega bim pluck off your teeth

I will say this to you again and again Christianity is not a religion but a relationship.... we are in a relationship with our HEAVENLY FATHER

Thanks for not quoting me
Your reasoning is so myopic!!!
CelebritiesRe: Read What Osita Iheme, 'pawpaw' Has To Say About His Upcoming Wedding by Rapmoney(op): 9:16pm On Sep 06, 2015
Starships4u:
Media fit carry person death make money for themselves without even confirming....
Na so e just be oo!!! Folks trying to be famous through fake news! grin
CelebritiesRe: Read What Osita Iheme, 'pawpaw' Has To Say About His Upcoming Wedding by Rapmoney(op): 9:11pm On Sep 06, 2015
exhibition:
Hmmm....Meeeediiiiiaaa

Need anything from Jumia?
Contact me now!
huh
CelebritiesRead What Osita Iheme, 'pawpaw' Has To Say About His Upcoming Wedding by Rapmoney(op): 9:06pm On Sep 06, 2015
It was recently reported that popular nollywood actor, Osita Iheme a.k.a Pawpaw was getting ready to walk down the aisle with his

Ghanaian sweetheart.
Well, Osita has debunked the news saying its a lie.

Speaking with a popular daily, he said, ‘Na lie! There’s no such thing, they are just rumours.’

So, Osita isn’t leaving the league of bachelors anytime soon, he is still available.

http://tiwasblog.co/2014/02/read-what-osita-iheme-pawpaw-has-to-say-about-his-upcoming-wedding/

RomanceRe: 5 Ways To Identify A Love-Starved Guy by Rapmoney(op): 11:48am On Sep 04, 2015
esecoal:
na lie jo, expecially d porn part
people wash porn as adult entertainment
even u
abi u think say I no sabi ur username for xvideos
So u think u can gain something worthy by registering on a porn site? huh
RomanceRe: 5 Ways To Identify A Love-Starved Guy by Rapmoney(op): 11:42am On Sep 04, 2015
streetzdreamz:
your post was about love ain't it? If you accord no importance to it, you won't make that write up, any write up talking about 5,6,7do's and don't of relationships, method of approaching a lady, a guy, what guys, ladies does or don't, in as much as it relates to sex and love, then the writer sees these two entities as a big deal, and you my friend is guilty as charged, about your other question,go figure....
So is it a crime to discuss activities that occur in human life? huh Why do we have Romance section on NL? I'm sure it is not meant for discussing farm implements and kitchen utensils!!!
RomanceRe: 5 Ways To Identify A Love-Starved Guy by Rapmoney(op): 11:35am On Sep 04, 2015
sulmeza:
i agree wit all except no.1....u shud note dat not everyone makes sex or "gals" dere priority in life...(maybe some lowlifes does sa).....i do return ma missed calls from unknown numbers....plainly outta curiousity..it culd be something very important.......so pls don't generalize...

dat of dialing random numbers....who does dat??...lol....nice points tho...bravo
We disagree to agree! cheesy
RomanceRe: 5 Ways To Identify A Love-Starved Guy by Rapmoney(op): 11:26am On Sep 04, 2015
Toks2008:
LOL do you know i actually make my living 60% from the internet? and thats why i have the time to drop some nice write ups when im less busy so i do not agree with your stand-view.

Facebook owners,yahoo and the likes make their living on the internet and yes they spend virtually most of their time on the internet.
Lastly please remove that mindset that people who create threads in a prolific way are jobless.Do you know that freelance writing is very lucrative? more so its about passion.

Kaffee makes her money through dancing
Seun and the other bloggers make ample income from a blog that is kept alive by these threads so your passion may not be writing but something totally different so just take people as they are and let them indulge in what they are passionate about and also gives them joy.

My 20cents
Please tell him! I still think some folks should not be granted access to the Internet because they don't know the uses and importance!!! They think it is a platform for childish criticism and insults!
RomanceRe: 5 Ways To Identify A Love-Starved Guy by Rapmoney(op): 11:22am On Sep 04, 2015
badmrkt:
I am guilty as a f**k cry cry. How do then find love @op.
Just seek the help of wristbangle grin
RomanceRe: 5 Ways To Identify A Love-Starved Guy by Rapmoney(op): 11:17am On Sep 04, 2015
Rayhut:
@ Op, can a guy be love starved in this present day Nigeria where girls full street dey hustle day and night, even the compound/street someone is living na competition between the girls on who show their unclothedness pass
Your compound must be a 'face-me-i-face-you' house grin
RomanceRe: 5 Ways To Identify A Love-Starved Guy by Rapmoney(op): 11:16am On Sep 04, 2015
streetzdreamz:
Points 1&4 is pure bullshit, wonder when you people will stop according so much importance to sex and love, these two entities are just overhyped, am pretty sure the op himself is guilty of what he listed up there, idle minds.
You will have to tell us whether you live in a society or forest! huh Who accorded much importance to sex and love? huh

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