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YourMain: ![]() |
panachuku:Another plate of eba and banga soup for this guy! ![]() |
gabinogem:Thanks man! |
YourMain:I don't know about Ireland or South Korea! I have Nigerian babes in mind ![]() |
Cutehector:Oya, I dash u 1 like! ![]() |
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Dafe20:Okay oga! Add ur own! ![]() |
Cutehector:Taking a plot! ![]() |
YourMain:The piece is for the Nigerian environment, romance-wise . Hope u understand ![]() |
Cutehector:I know what u are up to! ![]() |
It shouldn't be an issue to debate on that 'love' and 'loyalty' are two different phenomenons entirely, yet, they go hand-in-hand with each other. Getting loyalty from the 'modern' Nigerian city girls sometimes, could be like the proverbial camel passing through the eyes of the needle, as projected by Christ in the Holy Bible!!! ...and especially, when your funds are low!The average Nigerian girl that lives in the city might be a pain in the ass for you if you take her issues so seriously; carrying it on your head as if it was your destiny...especially, the flashy and trendy ones whose only dream in life is to surround themselves with as much material things as they can get . This situation might even prove worse when you are not aware of the ingredients that can bring about this loyalty. It is true that no one can be absolutely loyal, as other factors sometimes play their roles but disloyalty can be curtailed seriously when in relationship1) She disappears during festive periods: If you are dating a Nigerian babe and she is fond of disappearing during festive times such as Christmas, New Year, Valentine's Day, Easter, Eide-Kabir, etc, just know she is the disloyal type. She fake herself to be so busy during these times and absolutely make herself unavailable to you! She's probably in the warm hands of another man who she feels can cater for her expensive taste and needs during the celebration season!!! Young man, you have no business with such a lady! I thought festive seasons were meant to be enjoyed together with friends and loved ones o:2) She uses baseless excuses to explain her unavailability: Disloyal ladies hardly spend quality time with you except they stand to gain one material benefit or the other from you! To you, you are in a relationship. To them, it is 'business' as usual! . They always put the blame on rain, too much sunshine, breeze, traffic, friend's wedding, etc, to avoid meeting with you but just tell her to come and collect a large sum of money you promised her and she will happily take the next available cab even if the whole rain in China, Vietnam and Cambodia combined is nothing compared to the rain pouring in the area where she resides!!! . Observe watchfully, bro! ![]() 3) She is so familiar with the joints you have taken her to and the regular male visitors there: She would know the prices of the range of drinks they have and the amounts they sell the ranges of foods they have in these places!!! She attracts 'funny' eye contacts and body languages from male folks around often and she sometimes wave at them when you act as if you are not looking! . How did she come to know about these places and what they offer if she hasn't been taken to these places by different men on several occassions? ![]() 4) Her phone hardly rings in your presence: Yes! Funny as it sounds, it is true. It is a tactful act that you should be a aware of...'your' girl (everybody's friend) could be the disloyal type. If she switches off her phone, you might suspect so she might put an old sim card that no one calls to disguise as a 'good girl' in your presence. This is an expo...if you notice something like this too often when she visits, try to call her number on your phone and see if it goes. If it doesn't, don't try to bother her on why she is using another sim she didn't tell you about!!! Just know she is the disloyal type! You have an option...you can get up and dust your ass to save yourself further stress!!! ![]() 5) She spends your money but you can never see her penny: If she is the type that keeps her 20k to feast on your little 5k, just see her as disloyal! I wonder how some young men spend hugely on ladies who have never bought them a boxers or singlet before! Relationship is give and take. If she gives you sex and nothing more for the financial benefits she gets from you, then she's a pros!!! If not, what's the transaction between a guy and a pros? Money for hand=back for ground . After all, who yansh dor help abeg! ![]() Shine your eyes and be a Realist!!! In the name of success, all women are bound to be loyal and confess that you are the man!!! |
austine4real:That mentality no longer works! Our young ones need serious re-orientation to be able to withstand the harsh realities that are inherent living our presend-day Nigeria! ![]() |
Lalasticlala, RoyalRoy, pls this calls for an intelligent debate! ![]() |
MsBliss:How does that relate to the issue? ![]() |
ronald4lif:Nice one bro...but parents should back up formal edu with relevant skills aquisition. |
ammyluv2002:Yeah, you need to. |
Please, read patiently... This write-up would better serve as an 'Eye-opener' to most youths and an 'Open Letter' to Nigerian parents, especially, those in the middle, semi-middle and lower classes in the society! The bitter and devastating effects of unemployment in Nigeria have turned so many Nigerian youths into 'helpless kids' who still depend on assistance from friends and relations to survive!!! The havoc and wreck this situation brings can even damage somebody psychologically! If you have never been there before, you would not know how it feels! Idleness can actually make you to be seen in places you shouldn't even be seen if you were gainfully engaged . When you are broke and you can't even afford what you would like to eat, it is always so painful. Most Nigerian parents do not make adequate plans for their children as they start growing. Most still believe in that 'train you in school' mentality!!! Yes, it is very good to give your children sound education because that is one of your duties as parents. On the other hand, it is not and cannot be the ultimate. Most Nigerian parents send their kids to school, from there, he gains admission to a higher institution, (those who are not from comfortable homes might even spend countless years before securing admission due to corruption in that sector)...and then he graduates...now, what next? He or she comes home to stay with you after all the resources you have spent!!! That must be a circular movement!!! This situation is very common because most parents fail to make adequate plans before time. A parent should be able to look at his or her boy and say, at 21, I would want my boy to be at a particular level of financial independence! Most parents do not look at the innate qualities and abilities of their children; what is your child good at? It must not always be inside the circle of formal education. Observe what he or she likes doing and very good at; encourage him or her and help build his or her talent towards that area. Save up money in an account for your kids so that they can start up with their skills and talents early in life. The money you earn while working or doing business should not just be a source of entertainment for merry-seeking friends and relatives!!! Nigerian parents, to make issues worse, do not place much importance on nurturing talents, developing skills and encouraging enterprenureship! Too much emphasis has been placed on formal/university education, knowing fully well that most of the functional institutions in the country then have collapsed totally!!!Back then, it could be easy to get a 'soft' job immediately one was done with secondary education. Today, the case is totally different. UAC, Railway, Post Office, Leventis and many more are no longer there!!! Now, you see where many Nigerian parents still try to reconcile the two eras which are totally different and irreconcilable? I still don't believe that jobless Nigerian graduates are lazy! The problem is that most of them were not given the right foundation and orientations, courtsey of parental wishes!!! My elder cousin learnt Auto Mechanics after secondary school at the age of 16. He started without informing the parents initially because he knew they would stop him. When he told them, he had spent close to 3 months and spent a total of 5 years to learn the field. He later went to the university to study Economics and I bet you, the last time he set his eyes on his certificate was the time he laminated it after NYSC...and that was in 2007 (that's 8 years ago!). The parents did not take note of him so much when he was building wooden and plastic cars with Rotors and batteries to power the cars as they move smoothly on the cement floor of their sitting room while the young man was growing up . The parents wanted him to be on suit and tie, sit in an office and punch the keyboard of a computer in a busy-like manner! I think Nigerian parents should start realizing that those times and now are not same. Your degree gives you nothing more that what its value is in Nigeria!!! You can quote me if you like! That's why some graduates receive what's not even befitting for a driver working in a small pure water firm...and many are still unemployed!!!God, give parents the wisdom to plan adequately for their children!!! |
Please, read patiently... This write-up would better serve as an 'Eye-opener' to most youths and an 'Open Letter' to Nigerian parents, especially, those in the middle, semi-middle and lower classes in the society! The bitter and devastating effects of unemployment in Nigeria have turned so many Nigerian youths into 'helpless kids' who still depend on assistance from friends and relations to survive!!! The havoc and wreck this situation brings can even damage somebody psychologically! If you have never been there before, you would not know how it feels! Idleness can actually make you to be seen in places you shouldn't even be seen if you were gainfully engaged . When you are broke and you can't even afford what you would like to eat, it is always so painful. Most Nigerian parents do not make adequate plans for their children as they start growing. Most still believe in that 'train you in school' mentality!!! Yes, it is very good to give your children sound education because that is one of your duties as parents. On the other hand, it is not and cannot be the ultimate. Most Nigerian parents send their kids to school, from there, he gains admission to a higher institution, (those who are not from comfortable homes might even spend countless years before securing admission due to corruption in that sector)...and then he graduates...now, what next? He or she comes home to stay with you after all the resources you have spent!!! That must be a circular movement!!! . This situation is very common because most parents fail to make adequate plans before time. A parent should be able to look at his or her boy and say, at 21, I would want my boy to be at a particular level of financial independence! Most parents do not look at the innate qualities and abilities of their children; what is your child good at? It must not always be inside the circle of formal education. Observe what he or she likes doing and very good at; encourage him or her and help build his or her talent towards that area. Save up money in an account for your kids so that they can start up with their skills and talents early in life. The money you earn while working or doing business should not just be a source of entertainment for merry-seeking friends and relatives!!! Nigerian parents, to make issues worse, do not place much importance on nurturing talents, developing skills and encouraging enterprenureship! Too much emphasis has been placed on formal/university education, knowing fully well that most of the functional institutions in the country then have collapsed totally!!!Back then, it could be easy to get a 'soft' job immediately one was done with secondary education. Today, the case is totally different. UAC, Railway, Post Office, Leventis and many more are no longer there!!! Now, you see where many Nigerian parents still try to reconcile the two eras which are totally different and irreconcilable? I still don't believe that jobless Nigerian graduates are lazy! The problem is that most of them were not given the right foundation and orientations, courtsey of parental wishes!!! My elder cousin learnt Auto Mechanics after secondary school at the age of 16. He started without informing the parents initially because he knew they would stop him. When he told them, he had spent close to 3 months and spent a total of 5 years to learn the field. He later went to the university to study Economics and I bet you, the last time he set his eyes on his certificate was the time he laminated it after NYSC...and that was in 2007 (that's 8 years ago!). The parents did not take note of him so much when he was building wooden and plastic cars with Rotors and batteries to power the cars as they move smoothly on the cement floor of their sitting room while the young man was growing up . The parents wanted him to be on suit and tie, sit in an office and punch the keyboard of a computer in a busy-like manner! ![]() I think Nigerian parents should start realizing that those times and now are not same. Your degree gives you nothing more that what its value is in Nigeria!!! You can quote me if you like! . That's why some graduates receive what's not even befitting for a driver working in a small pure water firm...and many are still unemployed!!!God, give parents the wisdom to plan adequately for their children!!! |
Abuse of internet privilege!!! How many times will this crush crap come up? ![]() |
Bonapart:Your reasoning is so myopic!!! |
Starships4u:Na so e just be oo!!! Folks trying to be famous through fake news! ![]() |
exhibition: ![]() |
It was recently reported that popular nollywood actor, Osita Iheme a.k.a Pawpaw was getting ready to walk down the aisle with his Ghanaian sweetheart. Well, Osita has debunked the news saying its a lie. Speaking with a popular daily, he said, ‘Na lie! There’s no such thing, they are just rumours.’ So, Osita isn’t leaving the league of bachelors anytime soon, he is still available. http://tiwasblog.co/2014/02/read-what-osita-iheme-pawpaw-has-to-say-about-his-upcoming-wedding/
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esecoal:So u think u can gain something worthy by registering on a porn site? ![]() |
streetzdreamz:So is it a crime to discuss activities that occur in human life? Why do we have Romance section on NL? I'm sure it is not meant for discussing farm implements and kitchen utensils!!! |
sulmeza:We disagree to agree! ![]() |
Toks2008:Please tell him! I still think some folks should not be granted access to the Internet because they don't know the uses and importance!!! They think it is a platform for childish criticism and insults! |
badmrkt:Just seek the help of wristbangle ![]() |
Rayhut:Your compound must be a 'face-me-i-face-you' house ![]() |
streetzdreamz:You will have to tell us whether you live in a society or forest! Who accorded much importance to sex and love? ![]() |
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calls u once in a while, in the afternoons, well shes one her way to anoda guys house, by callin u, u wont bother calling her till shes done in the guys house
