₦airaland Forum

Cholls:
my brother nice observation.

Someone sent me a mail suggesting we look in the direction of white babes.

In as much as I don't support the campaign of that NL dude 'searching4love', I just feel relationships in Nigeria is becoming meaningless and empty! My opinion

Cutehector:
With all pleasure.. At the poster above me

So you accept am?

starlingslimnet:
That will be the mentality of the poster below me..

How did you know that?

In this part of the world we live, relationships are mostly started and sustained on some typical beliefs and conditions, ideas and strange societal traditions. The unnecessary commitments attached to most Nigerian relationships, especially, the emotional and financial aspects, to me, is often dumb and one-sided!!! Below are some of the typical beliefs attached to most Nigerian relationships which I detest passionately!!!

1) When a girl visits, her t-fare must be footed by the guy: I often wonder whether there's any book or document where this trash is written as a commandment that the guy must incure the cost of transportation whenever the girl visits. If you claim you really love someone, then you should be able to transport yourself to see them. If you wait or expect him to always pay for your transportation, then I must sadly tell you that I doubt your love for him!

2) Only a guy seems broke: I just find it annoying when some young women say 'I can't date him; he's broke'. Gush! What about you? Are you that rich? If he's not broke but rich and he decides to date you, what are the contributions you would be making in the relationship? Is it just to come and 'eat'? The fact is that most of our young women have failed to see the need to work on their lives and make themselves independent; they still want to depend on men for their needs and upkeep! So who told you that you are not just as broke as that young man you condemned?

3) The guy does the spending and the girl provides sex: This is another trashy idea that most Nigerian relationships are started and maintained on! In fact, to some, it is a pre-condition that must be met before the relationship starts! The young man in this setting is either dumb or one with no future ambition and emotionally weak while the girl is no better than a love-peddler! People who are emotionally fit know what they want; they don't accept stereotyped beliefs and ideas!

4) The first date must always be in an eatery with expensive foods and drinks: Only in naija!!! Why can't first dates be in a serene park, the zoo, museum, etc? Must it always be in a big hotel or eatery?

5) A man must always be the first to propose love to a woman: If you are in Nigeria, don't ever you wait for a woman to show you how much they care first. It must be the other way round! If you intend waiting, be sure of having grey hair and still waiting

Nigerians have copied nearly all aspects of western lifestyle but we have been very reluctant in copying their relationship style and how it works! It is very funny!

Feel free to post yours.
I know most of my threads in this section don't make front page because am not one of the mods' favourites...but I still remain myself!

soe:
are you alright?

Yes, he is alright!

tosyne2much:
Who tell u my age ?

I am a Mathematician na! I dor calculate am tay tay

HBD young bro! . Hmmm...26...my younger sis just turned 26 too!

Kastonkastrol, see the way people just dey insult u any how because of foolish comment! Will u ever have sense in ur life time?

ECOTERRORS:
Nlanders describe this olodo in one word;



Anu mpa

That guy is just a fool!!!

kennygee:
That's why a woman should be financially okay before she marries.

A man is not FG, he can't provide it all.

You deserve 1 cold Coke for this one!

kennygee:
Only Porn addicts will do a study like this.

Just enjoy sex and leave

Don't go all "Masters of sex" about it.

...and that's why over 85% of Nigerian women are unromantic!!! They hardly learn. Most times, it seems you are making love to a log of wood!

Bonapart:
To what use is this trend... where can it help...
We bigger than this plz!!!

People like you hardly learn! People like you easily fail! If you are bigger than it, others want to learn. Don't discourage them with your 'bigger than' attitude! SMH!!! Nansense!

dcaliph:
kindly remove Edo from that map. Thanks

Some people have been quoting me and saying all kinds of things. The one I can't take is calling Edo people weak or playing second fiddle. It is proven that an Edo/deltan man can never play second fiddle to anyone. Until the punitive expenditure we were never conquered but we were the conquerors.. Though we might be called minoriy, we championed the minority course to leave the shadows of the 3 major tribes by having our own region as far back as 1963.
Presently the chairman board of trustees of the PDP is an Edo man, the Chairman of APC is an EDO man. The Edos can never play second fiddle to anyone.

Proudly an Edo man.

Your mates in developed societies are thinking about and workinkg on using science, technology and art to create a better living environment for their society and here you are screaming 'this and that is from Edo'! Of what benefit is it?

emusmith:
Thanks bro...e be like say you dey tok from experience

Nah...far from it. I don't waste my time stalking or chasing ladies! I'd rather spend my time on profitable things . Na who get woman time na e woman dey form for.

Emusmith, u try for this one. I dor dash u 1 like . I like that last point

kambili999:
smh. what is your point Mr Rapmoney Coz I cant seem to comprehend why you wrote dat.

Chill na...na play we dey na

Kambili999, how market? The thread make front page o! U come back again?

carterkelly1:
okay....whr is tonto dikeh

If the list was up to 15, she would have been there!

odince:
Kcee no supose dey there.

Why shouldn't he be there?

Kpimp:
I really hate his dressing always dressing with stupid color and too much jewellery which makes him look like fadeyi oloro

Still wondering why that dude likes bright and outrageous colours!

FriedPlantain:
From the list I can see up there, obviously the Op doesn't know shiit about fashion either. Denrele, Charly boy, Tiwa Savage and that Prince guy shouldn't even be on he list.

Oga okay, I hear u. Post ur own make we see. The last time I checked, you told someone their post wouldn't make front page and it did! You said if it made front page, you would trek from PH to Lagos! So have you started your journey?

Penssuwa:
Are Denrele, Kcee, Charly boy & Tiwa savage in Nollywood? Plz help my confused mind.

It will be modified

AyoTizzy:
add kida kudz to make the list complete...nd replace mocheedah wif tiwasavage#noted

Mocheeda is not a weird/bad dresser na! Haba!!!

pretydiva:
Following..buh dat prince of a guy abi gal luks so gayyyyy

He and Denrele are brodas frm different mothers

missKiffy:
Mercy Johnson must be in this list

Is she weird dresser? Me don't think so.

Sarimah:
between prince and denrele I no no who worst pass

Both of dem na crase!

I swear No. 10 looks like a vampire

10. Prince Uzoegwu


Priince Uzo’s Bad Fashion Sense

Prince Uzoegwu is a celebrity stylist and actor. But it doesn’t prevent him from being a bad dresser. His style is almost similar with Denrele’s.

http://www.ngtrends.com/2015/01/10-nollywood-stars-weirdbad-dressing-habits-2/10/

9. Cossy Orjiakor


Cossy Orjiakor’s Bad Fashion Sense

Cossy is a lover of strange outfits as well. For all the events she picks too revealing dresses. And this is one of the best way to show the curves, but many people consider it as indecent.