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valmunich:
TOL: Could this be joblessness

Yes, it is the highest order of joblessness!!!

Wedon:
I have nothing to be jealous about . . . . I am not just Igbo, am also married to one.

I don't believe my husband is caring 'because' he is Igbo . . . but because he was raised right.

This blatant generalization and tribalism is annoying abeg!

Ok

JahzaraAde:
I fully understand you. But you have to consider that some people's love language (guys & ladies), may be gifts (a Gary Chapman philosophy).

Abeg tell MZNelly o!

Wedon:
Mtcheeeeeeeew!!!

Jealousy go tear ur belle for u! Nor worry!

An0nimus:
I fear for this thread if it hits FP.

You will eat your head when it finally makes it to fp

alberto2k:
you cant judge millions of the igbo guys with just a few that are bad... in basket full of the finest eggs, you'll also find bad ones

Rapmoney... your head dey there!

Abeg tell dem my guy

Richy4:
I will appreciate it more when you use the word most. Because it is not everyone that measures up to what you are saying here.

Read the post again and you will see the name of the writer. I only shared because I hold a similar opinion and I love the write-up. So chill...its not a crime!

nanauju:
I know that wen an igbo man likes infact loves you, omo just get ready to enjoy. Even when he has little, he's still willing not to let u suffer

God go bless you sista!

tiredface:
I know they're are fearlessly competitive in all areas and yes, proud. Not sure about caring.

They are very caring! Know that

pinkycute:
****I support fully****

Igbo men hardly get marry to a second wife, no matter how troublesome their first wife is

You can't never see an Igbo man discussing or complaining his wife to any....


You can't never see an Igbo man neglecting his in_law "No matter the tribe...

Igbo men "rocks" they're the best and I Love *****

You are correct! Your mind is there!!!

Saw this and decided to share...

Ifunanya Opara:

I love igbo men. Whenever an igbo man decides to move you from the list of his girlfriends and put you in the list of "wife to be " things will change, levels will change. Even if he wasn't spending money on you when you are still at girlfriend level he will start spending on you as soon as he start considering you
from his heart for marriage if he has the money . He starts to draw you more closer to him , his family and friends .

If you are married to an igbo man you are at least 85%-90% sure dat he will not marry a second wife when he is still married to u. Most igbo men that married
second wife must have had a serious problem wit the first wife which lead to separation. Unlike other tribes like yoruba, Hausa, Edo/benin etc who will marry a second wife even when there's no problem with the first marriage.

Igbo men don't impregnate women in every state they go to .

Thirdly, if you want to know if an igbo man has money, check their wives and
kids. Not even himself . An igbo man will buy a jeep for his wife but drives a gulf himself! Unlike other tribes like yoruba where a mistress drives a bigger
car than a wife! A real igbo man doesn't depend on a woman's money(except those of them living in Europe who marry white women because of money.
We understand they are doing it for a purpose) .

A real igbo man is very smart and hard-working. He takes proper care of his family even when d wife is working! A woman doesn't feed a real igbo man!
Unlike other tribes like Edo/benin, delta etc where the woman goes to hustle and brings d money home to take care of d man.

Even if I don't marry an igbo man in this life. In next life I must marry igbo man because they are unique! They respect the institution called marriage more than every other tribe in nigeria.

UMU NWOKE, obu asi?
https://m.facebook.com/Ndi.Igbo/posts/10151814830098409

kitnah:
It shld be like this
"broke guys dont deserve gifts"

Do broke girls need gifts?

ifex370:
Its not, but they too self centered

That's what some of them call 'wisdom'!!! I just dey laff sha

kitnah:
pretty girls dont go broke

Why not rephrase it: 'Runs girls don't go broke'?

kitnah:
Not funny

Did you visit this thread from the Jokes section?

ifex370:
a friend you say... learn not to expect much from people

Learn not expect much from ladies you mean?

kitnah:
150??haba

Yeah, makes me wonder whether they are broke or just being stingy!

kitnah:
So wetin come matter??

I will buy your idea if only babes have been seeing it that way that it is the heart that matters and not the gift itself

kevinberry:
Story...I bet if any guy tell you this,you will tag him...

......“UNCARING”....

Na story for the ancestors

kevinberry:
Where will they get such money from


MODIFIED

My last birthday one ediot said to me that she has no money,so she came to use her presence to replace the gift...na your presence I wan chop..

At the end I was not able to yansh her self...

Some girls repackage a gift that an ex gave to them for you as a birthday gift! So terrible!

Nneka123:
So op what exactly is your point?

From whom much is expected, much is also given!

kitnah:
It's the heart that matters.

Na lie you dey talk, babe.

2SWT:
lol....




you're expecting iPhone from a gal when she has Brazilian, Peruvian, mugolian......and d rest to buy.....

Me nko? I need to buy some pairs of new shoes, fuel for my mobility, some set of Paul Smith shirts, bottles and bottles of Orijin, nice perfumes and many more

MzNelly:
It's not the gift that counts

Shey na only when babe give such gift dem dey talk dis one? If na guy, e go turn news headline

ronald4lif:
Hehe make I just dey wait for comments sha

I cover myself with the blood of Jesu

I often wonder why most of our ladies are allergic to giving gifts that are worthy and valuable to the men they claim to date The two common things most naija babes get for their guys during birthdays are the usual boxers and singlet! If she adds a handkerchief to them, that means she is very generous...in fact, far too kind!

Can't we have gifts such as an iphone, ipad, 24 carat gold wristwatch and the likes? Are you people too stingy or broke to surprise us with these things? We do more than these most times, yet una nor dey stop to dey give out lakpalakpa gifts all the time!

Even the ones that claim to be 'working class' are also guilty of this. Una nor dey try...una dey fall hand!

Some pipo wan use money wey dem go take chop for 25 years take bet say Jona go lose! Chai! Dis na the beginning of dia hunger days!

danvault:
Funny how these new generation pastors hit on tithes and offerings almost every sunday. They'll never preach against covetousness and keeping the sabbath day holy and these are clearly among the ten commandments... I attend winners till date but my eyes are now open to my own bible. Happy sunday

Happy Sunday to you too

CounsellorWise:
Here is a self-righteous bloke chasing the wind. I wish you would impute this same fervency into perfecting your own salvation and winning souls as well. Remove the scales in your eyes first!

there are no scales covering my eyes but am sure there are thousands of scales covering your eyes, which have gotten you blinded from the truth!

Frank317 and danvault, you guys can reason logically. Kudos!

danvault:
Funny enough tithes were not paid in cash back then but as foodstuffs from harvest and cattles e.t.c Ever wondered why goldsmiths, blacksmiths and carpenters don't pay? Why only farmers and herdsmen?? And do you harvest every month?? Its not a monthly thing. That there may be food in my house, does God need meat in heaven The tithes were meant for the less privileged in the church and not for the pastors extravagant lifestyle. It was not paid in hard currency back then either. I never heard of Jesus paying tithes but taxes... And i used to be a tither too

You see! Today these pastors live in affluence while their foolish members live in abject poverty and confusion! I pity some people...they will never learn! So sad.

frank317:
When yahoo yahoo boys deceive their magas to pay, do they force them? Does that make what fraudsters are doing right?

Its called deception... I only pity ur likes because u can be decieved over and over again. What is Gods blessing? Tell me one man you know that has ever received Gods blessing?

Anyway... If you like give all your property and even ur wife to ur pastor and wait for Gods blessing.

... I will soon open my own church.

Your post shows we still have some sensible people in this part of the world!