₦airaland Forum

ease06:
Hmmm iribotor wow I don miss am wiv usi.so guy u b from our side (area).....mehn u dey rep well

I be typical warfi guy o! I dey chop iribotor like say tomorrow nor dey!

akinsal:
My guy u a chef ni??

My own pass chef! Hotels and eateries they find me sef

I hate girls who bleach! Some look like ghosts! They give me malaria and fever sometimes

elantraceey:
It depends on the kind of people around you, i for one have never felt intimated because of my dark skin instead i appreciated it and it everyone around me (that black beauty) and i've never being an attention seeker, if you don't like me the way i am then move on.

Hehehehe

I love black gurls! That dark skin gives me the thrills . Am a sucker for black girls!!!

No woman go fit make yanga for me when it comes to cooking I can cook any type of soup...ogbono, egusi, banga, eribotor, afang, oha, okazi . Hehehehe. Abi na rice and stew? No go there! When a man doesn't know how to cook, he is in for it! A woman can easily get you starving

Who gives a fvck!!! I'd rather sit and watch one of Mr Ibu funny flicks over some bottles of Orijin than to watch that boring good-for-nothing professor!!

B69U:
true talk!

Yeah, you gat it!

Mirexxx, when did you get married? You didn't bother to let me know?

Mods, pls move this to FP. It might change lives

Allwility:
Word!

Thanks

ayanbaba2:
na God go help me bless you OP...
more anointing to your source of knowledge...

God bless you and your family too.

obiak4:
search look see find and you shall see
who no find no go see,.....bible
who no ask no go recieve...iwe mino

so brother ask google your best friend about female performance in engineering majority are first class grade material
my 100m cowries contribution

Ehen!

B69U:
Very hardly u find a igbo man with second wife or even divorced. It is rare. Even Peter and Paul are example of how much igbo men are affectionate to wife and children.

dewapella:
..True! But I'd say it's not necessarily a FEAR thing. Trace the problem down to a faulty academic foundation. Females are also interested in solving society's problems via Engineering. Their major handicap is the shortage of quality education in most Nigerian secondary schools especially in core science subjects....

How are the males coping then with the same shortage of quality education in Nigerian secondary schools? Don't you think there's a loop hole there?

*These steps aren’t rocket science, and on the surface they aren’t that difficult. But they’re not that fun, and that’s probably why this advice is often spurned.

*Many young people suffer from what Galston calls a “magical outlook”: ask them what they’ll be doing ten years from now, and they talk about having a nice house, a great entertainment system, a fancy car, trips to the Caribbean, and more, but they don’t do anything in the here and now to give this a chance of happening. Our kids are taught to dream, but not to do.

*Study hard in school while learning a trade, business or skill. After that, take a job or start a career in your chosen field, trade or business. Even if the job is not so well-paid, you can still gain one or two reasonable and valuable experience. Don’t wait for your dream job, but get the experience that 'small' job offers. Minimum wage jobs may not be fun, but they’re usually short-term and can lead to better jobs in the future. Those who are willing to work, even for less money than they would like, find themselves more employable down the road. You can work while developing your skills!

*Don’t have a baby without getting married. For the young men, don't impregnate a girl when you are not ready and strong to take responsibility for extra mouths that you would need to feed and toil for. Marry wisely!!! Marry someone who can help you build a lovely home and strong financial base together. She should be into one profession, trade or business. Don't marry an idler or a woman who has nothing to bring to the table or nothing to be celebrated for (Except for her 'pretty' face, big boo.bs and as.s). When you hear of Chimamanda Adichie, what comes to your mind first? A sex figure? NO!!! A woman with a robust intelligence and a high level of creativity. Your would-be spouse should not just be seen as a sex figure to suit you as a life-partner! Not one who might just turn out to be a parasite and time-waster. For the young women, don't marry a loafer please!!! Don't marry a man who is lazy and does nothing but collects money from you for his little needs! It is an embarrasment!!! Stir clear of abusive men who would want to turn you to a punching bag! Any man that is in his mid-twenties and above, still living with his parents, not doing anything and doesn't have plans of improving his life and leaving his parents' house, should be your NO GO AREA!!!

*Stay out of trouble. And that’s it. Of course, you probably will still experience rough times, and there are no guarantees. People you love can leave you. You still have to be careful with credits and debts, with savings, with spending. But these steps offer you as close to a clear future as anything else we’ve come up with. So don’t ridicule it. Just do it, and make poverty history.

*Live within your means. No credit, except for an investment that will yield profits for you! SAVE! SAVE!! SAVE!!! Save money regularly...there is a thin line between wealth and poverty!

Goodevening everyone!!!

obiak4:
true !!!!!! May eledumare guide you so that who would not kick the bucket like sawyer via ebola
in engineering women are better most times than men
most women that studied engineering are simply the best #firsthand testimony

But I can't see any sign of that

Habayomie:
na fear of PHYSICS nd FURTHER MATHEMATICS dey grip most of dem.

There is point in your opinion

dewapella:
OK..
...I'd say your observations are quite correct...though may not be 100% true for some Nigerian universities....***back then in school I had female engr colleagues constantly topping the charts amongst ENGINE men, whether in examinations or competitions...(not Runs o)***
...Well! The basic challenge here isn't about the quality of a lady's grey matter...it's purely a problem of weird societal stereotypes...***the usual "women are the weaker vessel " cliche ****
....whether na woman o abi na man, ENGINEERING no get any discrimination based on gender....so far you dey determined to reach your set goal...
....in fact sef, ladies are better mathematicians, scientists or engineers (so I've discovered)....

I don't believe women are better mathematicians or the likes based on what I'm seeing in our society! I stand to be corrected with proofs and evidences!

It is very obvious that Nigerian girls are very few in faculties of Engineering in our universities. Are they scared of studying this professional course or is the capacity of their brains not strong enough to withstand and understand Engineering concepts, formular, language, topics or lectures?

Mechanical Engineering, 2006 set in my school had only one female...Elect/Elect had 3...Civil had none ...Chemical had 3...Metallurgical had only 4!!!

Then go to Mass Comm; it seemed males were given a stern warning that they would be hanged if they ever apply . Go to Sociology, Environmental Management, Law, Agric Economics, etc, you would be amazed by staggering number of females you would see

So why do the females run away from Engineering courses and the profession?

layinkakeem:


Gej your people are dancing/celebrating for you they know you'll be home soon,
They already know you're packing your lauguage and about to leave aso rock,
No more gej,

Sai baba
Sai buhari
Vote change vote buhari

See ur life? U couldn't even spell the word 'luggage'

Xiadnat:
NL-ians and lists. Lists, lists and more lists.

All complete and utter nansense.

All these stereotypes and prototypes.

Nawaooo....

#getreal-o

I don't understand what NL is turning into! Lot of people in here are not just creative! First, it was pics with silly questions that go with them! Now, it is 10 reasons to marry this and 10 reasons to marry that! These are all trash and bullshi.t!!!

Op, you goofed big time!!! All what you wrote are TRASH if you are referring to Nigerian engineers!!! Pipo wey nor fit connect lamp holder or manufacture common wrist watch? Abeg, make I go see wetin dey happen for other reasonable threads jare!

What sort of rubbish is this? First, it was 'Mercy' and now 'Blessing'? You are jobless!

mickey45:
I Came across Coldplay late last year and they were ok(no Cursing, Etc.) but I've always liked passenger n blunt.
But u can hardly go wrong with Hillsong, Maybe Cos Of their Spirit-feeding angle(if U Get Me).

These names would be strange to those peeps who only listen to Nigerian dancehall

Bliss4Lyfe:
Igbo men dont joke with their children. That is one fact that i know. Secondly, they take their marriage seriously. They are family orientated and focused.

You go marry better husband!

MIB1:
Buy Jeep for my wife and be using golf?.. Which kind nonsense be DAT one na?

We know ur type! So don't bother

Woged2005:
I like your write up but I have problems with equating care for woman with giving her money, gifts and materials. Women are not domestic animals abeg. It would have made more sense if you highlighted the fact that Igbo men are prepared to to put up a lengthy passionate custody battle for their kids rather than let go, sometime loosing their wealth, which shows their love for their children. Moreover, they are very proud of their daughters and show them off. They also sell property to give their children good education.

I simply don't like insinuations that suggest that all we Igbo girls want in relationships is money and gifts. We want stability and family too.

Sister, that's not my write-up. I only saw it somewhere (Ndi Igbo page on facebook). Thanks for your understanding

K9blunt:
warrisdiss!!!
Igbo men, caring ke! that's a big fat lie my dear, except for the very few I know that are good. Igbo men should be treated with the greatest caution you give a suspected criminal.
*shaking with fear* caring indeed, pfft .

Which planet are you from? You sound like an alien!!!