₦airaland Forum

Maybe Buratai will be the next chief of defence staff. That is the only way that promotion will make sense. It means Buhari is not ready for a paradigm shift in the war against insurgency if he retains Buratai and even promotes him. I am observing...

The man na short man. Short men don't age fast fast. Especially stingy ones. But the family is a happy one. Great job to the wife cos na woman dey hold the key to a happy home.

How about that lady who allowed a man suck her boobs two years ago? This one madness never reach that level yet na. BBN is the opium of lazy youths that is why the govt allows it.

All these drama is just business strategy by.the church. The man runs his church like a regular multinational corporation. He is a modernist!

It is so easy for BH to have spies in NA but the NA can't have spies on them. That is terrible. Since they love food and other banalities it means defeating BH shouldn't be a problem if they want.

Islamic burial that is so cheap to carry out? What if they were Christian? Little wonder, Kogi govt ppl said, thier own 15 million for burial is small compared to other states. Now we must hear from southern states too.

His knees, his problem. I just don't want to hear stories of how NASS is not supportive this time. They have everything going for them now...

Naija is full of drama. So five days to swearing-in, suddenly all the preparations, anticipation and excitement comes to an end. What happens to the awaiting first lady? Shock I guess. Some ppl will be in hospital by the end to today.

Vultures that feed on carcass will now eat 5k fresh meat per day? See una lie for on top counter dey smell? Okay how will they investigate allegation of witchcraft? Has the criminal code been amended?

Colonelswitz101:
Hello guys, please can someone give me an idea of what could be the cause of this problem, my car doesn't accelerate buh is actually moving on its own at a particular slow speed whenever I engage the drive or reverse gear....
Car model is Camry 04. My mechanic says it's an electrical fault n iv taken it to an electrician buh he still cant detect the fault..

My mother's vehicle had similar problem. I guess it is the brainbox. Cos when I asked her she said the matter has been fixed that the mechanic said, it is brain box. Though the guy said she should bring money to collect it. I told her to tell him to drive the it to her cos a lot of drama had gone down for some months on that. But that is the issue with ur car if the mechanic is to be believed.

Over the years, Nigerian govts are fond of accusing someone or groups of crimes without taking action. How can a whole minister make such allegation without prosecuting the suspects in such a sensitive matter? I thought it is even the interior minister that should be talking not defence. Wetin I know sef?

The man should have played his game earlier before 5 years of marriage and with another woman. But considering the kind of woman the late Doose was, it maybe be Judith might have lived a wayward life in the past which might be responsible for her barrenness. Just thinking...

Baba should calm down let us see our front first.

I was expecting to see some real stuffs not knowing he moved around with band boys like salvation army church members... Lazy COAS

Na today? Even the late Amodu Shuaibu was owed till his death.

Beyond the postponement. Time for prophetic postulations.

In 2015 APC fielded a Northern candidate (Buhari) to rescue power from Jonathan because they banked on SW votes in addition to his customary 12 million-strong votes from the North. They won.

PDP realized the game and quickly resolved to zone their ticket in 2019 to the North to give Buhari a run for his money. It is happening.

Now, if Buhari wins a second term, expectedly APC will zone their ticket to SW in 2023 according to their imaginary power sharing formula. But...

PDP will zone its ticket back to the North and pay APC back in their own coin they used in 2015. How?

The SE and SS will support a PDP northern candidate (maybe a Kwankwaso) with a running mate from SE/SS and the northerners as usual will vote for their own in a win-win situation and abandon the SW candidate in APC. Because as expected SE/SS is a PDP strong hold and you know the tribal sentiment associated with voting here.

I know Nairaland will remember this post in four years time. Time will tell sha!

Postponement of election is now a tradition in Nigeria. But what happens to those who travelled down to their villages, towns and states to vote? What happens to the international observation missions and their hotel reservations? Who will refund the monies spent by every stakeholder- including myself to ensure participation in this election? What happens to the schools that were closed? What about people who have events like wedding on those dates? Too many questions mehn!

Former Chief of Defence Staff, Air Marshal Alex Badeh assassinated!!! Over the weekend his thoughts came to my mind strongly and I was wondering why I have not heard anything about his corruption case for long. Then I remembered how his village was attacjed when he was is service and so many other things that happened during GEJ administration. Little did i know it was a premonition of his demise. RIP to him.

When a woman does her own the whole world will say the man should bear it and move on. Women abandon men more than men do to them. I don't feel pity for her because if the roles change she will do worse. Let us face reality in Africa, most men can't keep one woman because they need to massage their ego not just sexual demands alone.

For real?

I can see many people are shouting and blaming the man but if it was the other way round the reactions will be different. Do you know how many women abandon their husbands and run after other men too? Women can cry foul more when they re on the receiving side

PrimadonnaO:
There's a lot more that's not being said here. But in all of this, you two shouldn't allow pride and anger which should sooner or later dissipate, to ruin your marriage forever.

If you keep the faith and determine to get past this, y'all would and in time to come, you'll be wondering why you wanted a divorce in the first place.

I didnt send her away, she left on her own for no tangible reason and she is not ready to return even after family intervention. I tolerated alot from her and if she feels she wants to end it, I have no choice cos it is like flogging a dead horse. Moreover the manner she left has made me to even be afraid of living with her again cos she can kill me before my time.

GIDIBANKZ:
Young man is like am getting ur view nw.......her income is higher than your own right??

Her income is not higher but she is so attched to her family that they control her cos she tells them everything in the house so whenever we have misunderstanding they end up giving her wrong advice especially her sisters and it has gotten into her head that she told me she puts them first before me and she has just proved that.

GIDIBANKZ:
Hmmm.....is it that you are nt playing your Role As THE MAN of the HOUSE or she is the one Footing the bill of the House??

I rented a two bedroom apartment which am still living in, I pay the bills and buys foodstuffs, if at all she does anything, it is out of her own wish and it is mainly for the baby cos she works and I work so, she has no complaint. She is just having an over bloated ego that will not allow her accept her wrong doings. And the mother just cant also control her or tell her the truth of life. in fact when she left, the food stuffs she left behind angrily is what am still eating and that is because I gave her the money to buy them so paying of bills is not the problem.

MissRaine69:
I read your post as to what transpired. Maybe wait until you are not so angry .Any decisions that are made when you are in an emotional state are usually regrettable. If your wife is serious about not wanting to be in the marriage she should get a divorce as it’s her that wants out.

She may not get a divorce because she feels she has achieved her aim of leaving the house. Secondly I don't want her to keep having any right over me incase she sees me with another woman some day, I don't want her to harass the woman. The annoying part is that she is damaging my image by peddling lies against me and the mother even told my mother that if I accept to move in with her dota all these talks will end. And my mother asked her if her son told them he can't afford a house or he is homeless?

GIDIBANKZ:
Raptobserver......wow did both of you Have mis-understanding b4?

we had misunderstanding several times but we settle as usual. On the day she left, we didnt quarrel but she always threaten to leave me or sometimes she will tell me to go bring divorce for her

PrimadonnaO:
We won't tell you anything. That's not how we understand marriage to be.

Just see how you came online to post this kind of nonsense. You two just had a fight? Lol.

She actually left my house suddenly and called me on the phone that she has packed her things out of the house. She left with my kid. I asked her if she has told her mother bout her movement and that she should tell her she informed me over the phone, that she should call me back and tell me what her mum said. I was thinking she was joking so I didnt believe it. When I got home in the evening I was shocked to see she has left truly to stay in her own apartment. I called the mother the next morning to tell her and she said she was not aware that she will visit us that day or the next to settle things but when she came the next day, she started avoiding me and telling me to come see them at her new apartment, I told her I cant because her dota offended me and they should be the one coming to meet me. These ppl stood their ground until my ppl went to meet them at her aunt's place and the both families agreed she shud return and apologise to me, but she came briefly to ask me if I will join her or I will relocate to a new place where she will come visiting. I told her I wont, she also collected some of her remaining yhings and left so at that point I concluded she is gone for good. So I need a divorce!

GIDIBANKZ:
First of All.
(1) why do you choose to breakup with her

(2) what will happen to your kids if any

(3) when you marry her you let us knw[b]First of All.
(1) why do you choose to breakup with her

(2) what will happen to your kids if any

(3) when you marry her you let us knw[/b]First of All.
(1) why do you choose to breakup with her

(2) what will happen to your kids if any

(3) when you marry her you let us knw

She actually left my house suddenly and called me on the phone that she has packed her things out of the house. She left with my kid. I asked her if she has told her mother bout her movement and that she should tell her she informed me over the phone, that she should call me back and tell me what her mum said. I was thinking she was joking so I didnt believe it. When I got home in the evening I was shocked to see she has left truly to stay in her own apartment. I called the mother the next morning to tell her and she said she was not aware that she will visit us that day or the next to settle things but when she came the next day, she started avoiding me and telling me to come see them at her new apartment, I told her I cant because her dota offended me and they should be the one coming to meet me. These ppl stood their ground until my ppl went to meet them at her aunt's place and the both families agreed she shud return and apologise to me, but she came briefly to ask me if I will join her or I will relocate to a new place where she will come visiting. I told her I wont, she also collected some of her remaining yhings and left so at that point I concluded she is gone for good. So I need a divorce!

Hi guys, I need a legal expert to advise me on the procedure for divorce because I urgently need to divorce my wife. Thanks as I await your help.

observing closely

hmmmm what of that infamous hardship allowance they do collect?

the headline is misleading. There is only one National Assembly clerk. And he is the administrative head of that institution. U could have said, a committee clerk or any other title suitable except the one used. Thank you! RIP to the gentleman. I hope his village people are not involved sha cos he just returned from there.

cummando:
Dead man walking! Jealousy kills. Where women yapa!!!! Them plenty gaan!!!!

Everybody should be like me on women affairs
Girl vex me.....drink Goldberg
She dey cheat..... Drink Goldberg
She be olosho... Drink Goldberg
She get belle outside.....drink Goldberg

They aren't worth the stress!!

Tiri Bosa for u sir!!!