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One day, government will award securing North East to ISWAP... Well, Tompolo is a local man so he must protect his territory. It is even better than for them to share the money in Abuja alone. So Tompolo don't forget your comrades in the trenches.

Gosh234:
I will go straight to the point and make this brief. Recall this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6990203/should-marry
On March this year I got a job as ICT officer in a firm which made me move to Lagos ,we are super excited about this development and everything working out fine (No relationship is perfect, understanding kept us going)

I served in a university, towards completion of my service year, I accomodated a guy who got to know about us
One day we were in a arguement of dating or marrying someone older than you.
I stood my ground that I can marry irrespective of age, provided it is what I want
The guy came to conclusion that it seems my spouse is older than me, we laughed over it (That ends it)

Secondly my friend Davidson that live in the same compound who is done with his studies, working while waiting on NYSC.
I told him about my woman , how I love her and ready to settle down as soon as things go as planned for me (he have seen her visited once but they never met)
He asked me if she work, I told him
He asked of her age, I JUST TOLD HIM THAT SHE IS A BIT OLDER THA ME.

While discussing with my woman last night , I was assuring her how much I love her irrespective of anything then I pointed out the two above incidence
To my greatest surprise she became angry eith me
In her words
a) She detest dating underage, how she found herself in this mess she can't tell

b) I should go ahead and tell my mum and elder brother (they just talk via phone) and even all my friends

c) I make her look desperate, that she is loosing interest already

d) I insulted her and she can't trust me again

NOTE
a) I promised her that no one will know of the age difference even if they know she is older

b) I never mentioned her age to these people or the age gap

My crime is that I admitted that she is older and I am proud and love her wholeheartedly

I don't see this working out again
I feel so belittled
Gosh

This is where you have the show your mental age and maturity as a man. No matter the age of a woman, there is that point they act the same way. Calm her down and continue. Don't make her remember she is older than you ever again and don't ever mention it to anyone. The most important things in marriage is not age. When you marry you will find out.

Passing by... Let Abuja peeps make this thread work like the Lagos o. It will really be helpful

Vawulence gradually resurrecting after a brief break...

Air France is notorious for compromising safety standards. If you check now maybe they were fighting over one of the beautiful air hostesses.

They thing wey punna go cause for man head no historian fit write am yet.

ASUU should not back down. I suspect Ngige is using this strike to get back at Tinubu cos he knows the longer the strike, the more anger Nigerians will feel towards APC.

If ASUU should call the striker off without tangible achievement next time they won't be able to mobilize for strike. And I hope those profs are not planning to announce unpopular results for politicians during elections? They can see the attitude of the politicians they so love to please.

Barbiturate:
I don't care the amount. If I can't afford it, I won't mention it. You don't know me in real life. I go the extra mile just to bring peace n love.

Anyways, with his....and supporter(s) reply, he's got his mind made up. Goodluck to them!

When be the Abuja version of this jollification boss?

Nifemi2020:
Abeg ooo I need car for rental. Please I can also drive a manual vehicle. Weekly remittances is sure. God bless you

You no drive that mama again?

muyico:
Nah weather bandits dey get like winter and hot sun dat can dry up river

Okay we go manage am. Economic prosperity no easy. See value of naira na

But Canada no get bandits na

MikeofAfrica:
What if the Atiku and Wike camps reach a compromise that Okowa should resign as Atiku V.P and be replaced by Peter Obi.
If the law permits that, will it not be better for Obi since an Atiku/ Obi ticket in PDP will surely win the 2023 election while he will likely finish 3rd in the Labour party?

By law, Obi can still be a VP to Atiku... Well, let us watch cos politicians are full of intrigues

Willie2015:
Peter Obi said there is no need for alliance...
D masses in Nigeria are enough...

Hehehe that will be political naivety.

chrisxxx:
You are right. Like I said it was a reward for betrayal. I wouldn't support him picking Wike. But for the obvious polarity in the party Atiku would have brought Wike in by asking him to make a choice of vice for him. Buhari did the same when it was obvious he wouldn't use Tinubu. Until this is balance it won't end well.

That would have been a good move and Wike would have felt important. Actually Atiku looked down on Wike very well. If not for the fast rise of Obi in the polity Atiku would not have gone to Wike. Because he felt the anger against APC was enough to win the election.

backtovillage:
Another room for gender equality distraction.

Hehehe abeg don't Stoke vawulence

chrisxxx:
No. Atiku most concede either the Chairman or VP position to Wikes camp. He can't have it all. Secondly Okowa as VP us a reward for betrayal. Okowa called Wike into the race and ended up selling out Wike. Having him as the VP is a reward for betraying his people.

If not for money I don't know why Atiku picked Okowa cos he is not even the best performing PDP governor. I was expecting Atiku to pick Udom or Makinde as for Wike he won't have picked him for obvious reasons. But the current PDP chairman has experience and it will be needed in election.

Nobody is talking about the masses again

chrisxxx:
Two conditions for Atiku to choose one.
Ayu resigns or Okowa resigns.

If Ayu resigns it will affect the PDP in the election. If Okowa resigns who will they pick? Maybe Udom Emmanuel cos to me that is the right person for Atiku. But let us see

My question is, what is the role of Peter Obi in London if Wike and Atiku are there to settle their issues? Peter Obi should not dash the hopes of the masses else he will hate himself. He should be forming alliance with other smaller parties that are strong in various regions. That is how to establish a clean break from the establishment.

Sweetplum:
Ok. You are right, life's unpredictable

You are still awake?

Those cities are beautiful. But I think the London trips were disguised medical vacations for some while others went to watch EPL matches.

Sweetplum:
I can't marry you

When you don't even know me? Don't say that because life is unpredictable

Any state university that doesn't have internal ASUU will be left at the mercy of the governor and many senior lecturers won't like to work there.

Sex sex sex... Okay o. Ordinary sex o

pope191:
Seem we can be mean with the way we reason as human. On Tuesday some thing strange happened to me. I got a request around 4 30pm from PGD's to Surulere for 3200. Rider called and ask me to please pick someone there and I should use Adeola Hopewell while leaving there to pick him too. I was like that won't be possible unless he will be adding to the fare. Back and forth will settled for additional 500, since they have learn the habit of saying that is how we use to take it and no driver has ever ask us to add. Got to PGD's and call the person I am supposed to pick. He replied with" I am on my way down". 10 mins of waiting, I have to call him again. This time, he replied with we are almost down. In my mind "WE" I dislike that word like mad. I ask, did you just say we? He replied with yes... please how many is we? 3. Told him I will get back to him. Place a call to the person that book the ride and his reply was... no nah! They should not be more than 2, because we are 2 here the way I changed it for him oga! Please cancel this trip, what kind of rubbish is all these nonsense. You just successfully waste my time. Set of mad people contributing 700 hundred each and yet will inconvenience my life with different complain with preferred route.

Immediately he cancelled the trip, I got another to Surulere from Oriental for 3100. It took me 2 hrs to get to Surulere on Tuesday. I can't even imagine going to Adeola hopewell with the construction going on around there to pick someone. I would have been placeing curse on them right from the car.

Potentially you would have carried five ppl in your car like you re doing kabu kabu. Funny ppl

Sweetplum:
So...how come he's uncomfortable earning N63K. Abi you no know that if his penni s no commit offense, baby no go show.
We advise all of you to v money before dating. It ll be like we are giving Olosho advise. Isn't it for his own good to v a family at a comfortable time?
And to you this RaptObserver. If you are unmarried and you aren't earning well and you go born peren, your eyes go see ween more than that boy called djkirkoo2

Having a baby is not an offence please. Having sex too is also not an offence as far as it is not rape. Everyone can't be rich before dating. We are humans and will always have emotional needs.

Btw who told you I will suffer if I give birth and I am not earning well I will suffer? This is not mathematics. It is real life issues. Abi you want Mek we marry?

Sweetplum:
As he no come use condom sotey he don make mistake to v baby nko?

Having a baby is not a mistake. He is actually proud of the child. It is not easy to have babies you know.

djkirkoo2:
hmmmmm. Wonderful. Me I earn 63k as salary and my rent is 210k annually. Below is how I disburse it:

Kitchen stocking - 25k.

Soup for the month (we cook soup 5 times in a month) - 15k.

Baby mama - 5k.

Light bill - 2k.

Purewater - 4k.

Stew, Beans, Moi moi: 5/6k

Gas - 5k.

Fuel: As the Lord leads but I do put on Gen almost everyday as far as there's no light.
Now if you observed you will see that I don't have any money for myself nor my baby, make sure I run other deals to meet up my rent and cater for my son.

Yet my baby mama go out to tarnish my image outside saying that I am treating her as a house girl, saying that she's like a slave, that she's in an abusive relationship this and that all the young ladies around my vicinity are all keeping malice with me because of her stories, they all believed her story.

Even when I try to talk people don't believe me. I got tired of the quarrels and nagging so I had to throw her things out and asked her to leave my house. Neighbors came in and intervened then asked me to consider my son that he's still a baby. I succumbed and left for work only for me to come back home that evening the 22nd of July and found out that she have left with my son that I love so much and yet all her things are still in my house.

Bring my baby sef all to no avail, oya let me be seeing him at least still no way. I've talked to her mom and siblings and all of them are taking her side saying a man is not supposed to throw a woman's things outside (even my family blamed me for throwing her things outside) oya I don agree sef still dey are hiding my baby that will be a year old on the 29th of this August from me.

Honestly her family wants me to settle with their daughter but to me I am no longer interested before I die of BP, so now they are using my son to blackmail me emotionally to accept their daughter back because they know that I love my son. If really I am suffering her and treating her like a slave like she always claim then I wonder why her family would want her to come back to my house to suffer.

Mind you, I don't even beat o, I only have bad mouth to reply her if she pisses me off. Honestly I am confused and don't know what to do because I really miss my son.

Go and apologise to her and let her return so you can monitor the growth of your son. Then make sure you quickly impregnate her once your son reaches 18 months and have a second child then close shop. Also try to establish small business for her. Don't allow people dictate how you live your life. In the end you will carry your cross alone.

Glithronix:
I don read tire, my head don dey comot smoke like when Tom and Jerry got exploded on their head.
It's been hell of a beef all the way.
It is well with all of us sha.
Make I dey read jejely, before I even quote myself on top matter wey no concern me.
Much respect, baba.

Enjoy yourself man!

Glithronix:
Boss, I no dey any WhatsApp group ooh.
Much respect, sir.

That was a metaphor for ppl who abandoned their main hustle not literally referring to a WhatsApp group

Population is a blessing. Once we get it right here in Nigeria and Africa, Oyibo will struggle to compete with us in many things. Take a look at sports, virtually all top countries have black athletes.

Na the male teachers there suppose protest.

Just to further weaken the naira