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Thats why SE is safe, We don't strap bombs on ourselves and scream Allah Akbar and blow ourselves up neither do we hack innocent children to death in the name of rituals...

CandyOps:
Terrorism in the North is a scam. I think they see that shii the way Niger Deltans view oil bunkering as a cash cow.

Sign up and get paid. Give intel and get paid also

Commendable gesture but so sad our soldiers are moving around war zone without vest...little wonder we have casualties.

Let the govt emulate US Army, we see how they kit for battle....who knows our the US soldiers looked like in their kits during the rescue operation in Nigeria.








quote author=envoymedia post=97032452]A Facebook user, Bello Inua Anka on Friday, December 11, posted photos of Nigerian s[b][/b]oldiers guarding and assisting the people of Zabarmari farming community in Jere Local Government Area of Borno while harvesting their farms produce at Koshebe village, IgbereTV reports.

Bello wrote:


https://www.facebook.com/733999670/posts/10158145042089671/?app=fbl

This is coming weeks after Boko Haram terrorists slaughtered over 43 Zabarmari rice farmers at Koshebe village in Mafa Local Government Area of the state while working in a rice field.

While many commended the military for their efforts, they, however said guarding farmers is not sustainable.

Another Facebook user Hadiza Suleiman wrote;

"This is good but unlikely to be sustainable. The army needs to be proactive and not reactive. They need to take offensive action against the terrorists and not wait for them to attack. The US could rescue one of their citizens in Nigeria using intelligence that I hope is also available to our security age"

See photos below.

https://igberetvnews.com/1375251/photos-soldiers-guarding-assisting-zabarmari-people-harvest-farm-produce/[/quote]

Rubbish!!! Buhari a failed leader....am glad the northerners at least know in their hearts about their inability to lead Nigeria right. Spits!!!

powerfulguy:
https://www.channelstv.com/2020/12/13/katsina-abduction-333-students-missing-says-governor-masari/amp/?p=545169&__twitter_impression=true

Guy hold it!! IGBOS CAN BE KNOWN FOR ANYTHING BUT THEY ARE NOT BLOODY EXCEPT WHEN PROVOKED....IGBO GUYS CAN RAPE BUT CAN NEVER RANDOMLY KILL A GIRL JUST LIKE THAT....AM A FULL BLOODIED IGBO GUY AND I KNOW THE LIFE OF MY PEOPLE....IF ITS RITUALS ITS EVERYWHERE BUT RAPING AND RANDOMLY KILLING A GIRL OR LADY....IGBO GUYS DONT DO THAT.

SO SHEATH IT.










quote author=AdesegunSanni89 post=73008343]Later Basterds from the yeast will be shouting 'Afonja skull miners. IPOBS are the worst of humans.[/quote]

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THIS GIRLS DEATH MUST BE AVENGED BELIEVE ME, DONT THINK AM JUST A KEYBOARD WARRIOR.....HERDSMEN SEEN IN ANY BUSH IN IGBO LAND SHOULD BE KILLED COLD BLOOD ESPECIALLY THOSE IN THE RURAL AREAS....NO THIS IS EVIL VERY VERY EVIL NO WAY THIS INNOCENT GIRL......OH SEE HOW SHE WAS BRUTALISED MERCILESSLY...OH GOD!!! OH GOD!! IGBO GUYS WHAT ARE WE DOING? DO WE WANT TO LOSE OUR LAND BECAUSE OF OUR QUEST FOR MONEY?


PLEASE I URGE OUR BROTHERS TO AVENGE THIS GIRLS DEATH...ITS TIME TO SEND MESSAGE TO THE HERDSMEN AS FOR ME, I RESERVE MY COMMENT BUT I NEVER FORGET THIS PICTURE TILL I DIE.










quote author=hammerFC post=73006822]This is the earlier thread.


https://www.nairaland.com/4565071/girl-raped-killed-oba-anambra[/quote]

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Chai evil world thatd why am not moved by anyone's riches especially young guys....most of them got them in an evil way.

Women becareful...this month more death traps will be waiting.










quote author=BoneBlogger post=73006113]Nigerian ladies have been warned to be careful of whom they follow and relate with especially this critical time of the year.

The warning is coming following the gruesome killings of two young ladies by men suspected to be ritualists in Anambra.

According to Prince Chijioke, the two ladies were found dead on Wednesday morning (yesterday) with their private parts and breasts cut off in Umunze, Orumba South Local Government Area of the State.

Their naked corpses were left abandoned by the roadside to the shock of the villagers. 

Some months ago, a 30-year old woman was found dead opposite Saint Mary Catholic Church, Obieze village, Ifitedunu in Dunukofia local government area of Anambra State.

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/11/two-ladies-killed-by-suspected-ritualists-in-anambra-state.html[/quote]

I advice you to leave him, as a guy he is just sampling the two of you, he may not marry either of you.

By the time he is done with you, you end up been a play girl, you know that really love doesnt exist in Nigeria.

Like my bro Rughteouness always says flee!! Flee!!! Fleee now before its late!!! Like seriously..

Gayatri:
I do not know how to start this but i will write as it comes... I was in a 2 year relationship that ended in march this year.. I was so commited in it like naturally when im dating, i DO NOT notice other guys and i DO NOT ask my boyfriend for financial assistance because i feel im not his responsibility,, what i do appreciate mostly were little things like, chatting, kindness, hugs, opening and closing of doors for me,, just little things, coz i adore them so much.. But anyway it ended.. And i vowed never to date again come what may.. During the break up process, all my friends (guys, hardly have a girlfriend) were there to help me pull through.. Calls and texts constantly because, according to them, they knew my type, thus the help.. Funny enough, i never got attracted to any of them (even the ones that initially asked me out when my friendship with them was fresh) and im not the sex sex type to just fall for any to satisfy my desire.. Though i got advice from neighbours to find someone else than staying alone, i said no especially as i am a loner but a happy loner.. I keep myself busy with work or any stuff that makes me happy.

Fine, two months later (june), some guy reached out to me even as he knew he's got a girlfriend, whixh according to him later, they were in an open relationship.. He stays in oshogbo, his girl stays in kaduna while im in sagamu..Before then, he reached out online by first stalking me on facebook (even though we did same online business), after a while he got talking with me.. At first, i was harsh, very harsh to him but he never minded.. At a point i stopped talking to him.. A month later he reached out again, asking if we were still friends.. I was like yeah, not nice to him at all but he was patient with me..

From mid-july we started talking well as friends, he was very open as i was to him. We flowed well that things were happening to us coincidentally.. Whenever he yawns, i do at my place, if im having a scratch, he does too.. There was just plenty of this connection that we never got tired of each other.. In the procesa of our been honest, he told me about his girl and how she was still keeping her ex and all whatnots... I didnt feel any iota of jealousy because i had not feelings for him yet.. I asked to talk things through with his girl and he says well if she gave the chance.. So laters, by august, september,october, feelings grew.. He got so fond of me... According to him, he has not seen my type before.. Fine! During my birthday, he wanted to do something for me, i said no, then two weeks to his birthday in nov, he asked that i visit him at their family house, that i did..

What struck me most was how the elder brother (married) took care of me... I was not allowed to do nothing.. The brother even cooked for me.. God, it made me fall more for the family.. The kind gestures i have never experienced in my life.. There are kindnesses but there is kindness, the real one.. I felt it.. Every thing that i want in a man, those little things, this guy has them all.. According to him, it baffles him that with the little he shows me, i do not take for granted even before he told me he's having a girl..

When i returned home, we continued our normal talks and he then said, that his girlfriend would be visiting during his birthday.. At that point i went silent.. (Meanwhile he met his girl this year but before me, also during her break up).. He was unhappy that i displayed this little jealousy.. So he says he has not broken up with his girl to start a new relationship and he is hurting that he is hurting me.. He's got feelings for me but he loves his girl.. So i said i was going walk, even though i never meant it, twas hard to even say that but i had to and he says no... That he's become so attached to me even his family thinks he's dating me.. That he controls his feelings for me, could i do same and i said no.. I could not be friends with him when i know that feelings are involved.. Finally, we came to terms to just flow with things since he was not engaged or married to her.. Even so, this guy just lost his job and he says unlike his girl, im the one pushing him to have something doing, he says i help him alot but i wouldnt know.. So we continued to let the whole feelings to flow until last week, when with my help, he was called for an interview in lagos..

As usual we talked and i wished him well.. I always pray for him.. In lagos, we talked well until the third day, our communication changed and before it did, my heart was literally aching, so i knew something was wrong.. I called to know why but he was telling me that he'd let me in when he got back to oshogbo, which he did.. He said his girlfriend who was having something to do with her ex, called him and wanted to settle things with him.. But the truth is, because this lady already had his facebook password when they were together in kadauna, she 3 days before her birthday on the 8th of this month wanted to know why her boyfriend was no longer perturbed over her behaviour, so she saw my chats with the guy and decided to do something,,, this now pushed to talk things out with the bf and apologise to him.. Then she asked him if anything was going on between is and he said no.. That we just friends,close friends.. He lied to her but opens up to me.. He says he doesnt want the girl to ask him to cut me off totally.. So the whole thing got him confused.. He says he's never double dated and he isnt happy that he's hurting me and im taking it... I asked him again if i should walk and he says no.. He does not want to lose me and i do not want to lose him either but i want to prove my love for him so that he one day sees that the girl, probably loves him but she's got no integrity.. And i purely love him.. But because i respect his relationship, i CAN NOT TELL HIM TO BREAK UP WITH HER but wanting him to see things himself but the question is for how long.. He says they are working things out now but he doesnt want to lose me esp as a friend... Difficult.. Out of God knows what, we agreed to let things flow since i will respect his relationship, like whenever his girl is around, i should make him believe that i will be fine.. Now, he isnt happy because he said if he hadnt met the gf, he'd have gone ahead to date me.. For me, i cannot sleep, ive been typing this since God knows when and this is 3:36am.. Since he is confused now, please people, friends, family, can i use love to make him see the difference between his girl and me.. He loves his girl, he is controlling his feelings for me and afraid to let it grow because he knows we'd bond, while my feelings toward him is real.. Money has not been involved in this.. We are 6months now.. I believe in true love and that it does not come easy.. Talk to me Y'll because i have no parents to talk to,, i would have talked to my mum now but she isnt here... I want to win with true love.. I turned 27 this past november and he turned 30 same november.. Thank You and God bless..

See how you are so happy bro, its no big deal..havent you seen girls paying for hotel rooms to have guys Bleep them? If you doubt ask Madonna University girls Okija.





quote author=josen16322 post=88508006]I have a girl I used 2 nack wit out giving her a dime even though she knows am not her boyfrnd she just can't live wit out me [/quote]

I think your prob is psychological, if care is not
taken you may not really enjoy sex with your man or husband due to your past.

I wont bash you because from what you i can
see the reasons you against men and its
natural so guys shouldnt just diss you.

You really need an understanding patient guy
that can also DICK YOUR BRAINS OUT to make
you see the sweeter part of sex life.

As for your dad, you did a brilliant job we
hope he learns his lessons.

Becareful of your neighbour, he may rape you
in two ways either coming as robbers with his friends or accosting you on the way after he
has mastered your movement.

For him to knock on your door shows he
couldnt control himself, if your story is true then you need to be very mightful.

BaddieFreak:
I am paranoid when it comes to men maybe because I never had the chance to see my father or the fact that I was raised by a step dad that harassed me sexually and usually beat my mom or perhaps it is the fact that I was raped by men when I was young. I just feel paranoid when men gets creepy towards me. Not that I hate men though, my boss is a man but he is a nice man.

Did you later see lady koi koi, heard she has a smooth face with no eyes and others.

She used to sit on peoples beds at night and be staring at them...then you feel a hand moving on your body as you lay still with sweats all over...

AuroraB:
Please na night be this

Haba how kwa, can somebody grab a girl by the pussy?

Please where will the person hold except sliding fingers inside and what happened after the prefects grabbed both the grabbles and non grabbles?

BigSarah:
Boarding school? No! My parents enjoyed having me around.

A roommate in final year , did share a story of a certain prefect that specialized in grabbing ladies by the p*0sy, ti0ts and etc

We did love to hear some, sounds interesting...

Thattallgirl:
Nahhh...was a day student all through except in Uni. My roommates would be gisting me about what and what happened in their boarding schools. So many things went on in boarding schools that parents aren't aware of till now.

Here to read comments.

Am now more focused than ever....women matter no dey finnish.

baralatie:
dude!
your story of your journey of sexual mishap is funny!

well I could have said something but it is of no use now .the experiences have played out .
just try and be safe

Bro why do you think i become wayward? You think i just came on earth to be messing with ladies, nah!

I give you a little of my life before i became a chronic sex addict.

I had a relationship of 6years, she was my all(very fair and hippy plus busty). I wanted to
marry her because i met her when she was
registering her jamb exam then(i could
Remember entering bike to pursue her, the first day i saw her on bike) yes i did that
because she was so innocent and perfect and i was ready to follow her enter her papa house
even if they kill me no prob but thank God she
stopped at Registration Centre.

To cut it short,i escorted her to a business centre one evening, when i left to greet a family friend and came back i saw her clothe rumbled she told me d guy wanted to rape her. A smallish guy she could easily use her hands and clapped to death like mosquito.

She once told me, she met her former school mate, she spent a night with him and also her dads tenant a married man used to buy gifts for her, she slept with him.

I never cheated on her, believe me i was more handsome and very cute then than even now but i kept myself.

Bro i have been depressed bro, i have called a girl and she picked it and was mumbling in other words while she was been humped by another guy.

All i can advice you is you either you sort it out with her remember its for better or for worse. If there is no remedy, you divorce her but never you inflict bodily harm on her.....i feel your pains neither should you tke your life, you are not the owner of your life bro remember its express way to HELL FIRE WHERE U FEEL PAINS YOU NEVER FELT BEFORE! THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU LEAP TO THE OTHER SIDE.









quote author=MeeztaFabulouz post=96827806]

You can call me a fool, its fine. But I don't wish you my situation and pray you never meet depression.[/quote]

My pleasure dearie....stay tight









quote author=Debra911 post=96873921]
Thanks dear[/quote]

Yes bro its not that they dont have their problems oo.....depending on the girl you met but i have this pride in me about my tribe, i dont care about others say about the igbos....i love my tribe just that love of money and disunity which am happy we are beginning to work on has been our prob.

I wouldnt want my daughters or sons to marry outside our tribe, its not bigotry bro its love for one's root except its really Gods will only that will i succumb.

sonsomegrigbo:
Wow! You comment is convincing. I'm beginning to change my perspective towards Igbo girls..

Lol abeg nsiralanders no go kill me.. which one is you doubt if those words came from your mouth abegi.

Women are gifts to us, yes i have really been heartbroken and seen their bad sides but the best a man can do is to leave the relationship or stop paying them attention.

To engage in degregoratory words or beating them is inhumane, you can just quit the relationship, you can see you regret more now

Kunja2:
I regret the break up we had. It's been 3years and I still think about her. She's grown to be a fine woman that I would really love to end up with. I was so insensitive when we was dating, I cheated on her, I cared less about her and even said some nasty stuff I still wonder if those words could ever come out of my mouth. Well, na so e be sha

You are totally wrong, about tits, you cant give t to a particular tribe.

I have met almost every girl from almost all tribes in Nigeria....they all have ther peculiarities.

I have stayed in all the regions in Nigeria....igbo girls are wonderful oooo i can never get tired of them.

To me, am proud of our girls no matter what....all Nigerian girls get their wahala but am proud to be a full blooded igbo and am proud of our girls and will end my life with one of them.

sonsomegrigbo:
I miss her boobs mehn!








Yemi get a perfect nice tits...







Unlike small titty Igbo girls... Tufiakwa

Bro thanks, it was nothing bro and please am no Boss buddy, am just a simple carefree guy that loves life and what it offers.

Kudos to this thread.

Stay safe

igbwmedia:
Great thought boss. Thanks for your awesome contribution Sir.

Sorry Deb, but you made a wise decision.

We shouldnt compromise our values because of love or beauty....our heritage and values are more important than those.

If not, i would have ended up with women from other tribes i have met.

I hate lies, i dont just lie even if i slept with another girl, i say the truth you either stay or leave or we work it out.

Lies is a snare and poison in marriage or relationship, one should always try the best to say the truth.

Debra911:
Initially I regretted, cos I felt I was at fault. Later I knew I wasn't cos I loved truly & sacrificed more. My ex lied to me. I never knew he practised Islam. I loved him despite knowing he cheated on me, but d lies about his religion was what I couldn't withstand, I had to break up, cos certainly there are more lies I'm yet to know about. So I'm not regretting anything. These days I don't love with my heart anymore but with my head.

Am proud of you dear...its good to marry from your roots.

Am an Igbo too, i have met nice wonderful ladies from other tribes but i cant just dive in truly our root is very important and to always protect our pure stock is vital in future.

Many will say this and that but have in mind that the right one will still come, always know there is always a spare part God prepared for us all.
Take care

igbosoupkitchen:
Yep, his only offence was not being from my tribe
He was all a woman could want , a great companion, knew me like the back of his palms, knew how to get me out of a moody situation and had the keys to my mumu button.His sense of humor was perfect ,his heartfelt laughter was infectious, was hard to be sad with him..

The best gifts i ever received from him, he was genuine and sincere , treated me with respect and dignity..... he actually wanted me to pick a woman for him since I didn't agree to marry him, wish I summoned the courage to damn all consequences...

We are still friends, turned out he may have been my soul mate and we missed each other .... Ohhh, memories

Hmmmmm..........

Sorry bro she must really be a dirty girl.

I like clean girls cos they are free from such diseases(most of them insert special tablets in their vagina once in 3months to cleanse such).

The only fear one can have, is HIV with them.

These dirty smelling girls can make me to vomit....and they are the carriers of infections.









quote author=paulolee post=96838705]sure na....once regretted bcoz I stopped getting the free meals n plenty meats each weekends bcox her mum owns a restaurant close to me bk den in school n dts where i met her
had to breakup bcoz she was too promiscuous n kept on blessing me with diffrent brands of Infections whenever c.d burst n i turn customer for skul clinics n was chewing drugs like food...
broke up n decided dt I av had enough after treating one wicked gonoreah bcoz my health is more important than the free n delicious soups with plenty meats..[/quote]

The guy that said joblessness dey worry una is really out of this world.

Maybe he doesnt know that we are in computer age, hence u can chat from anywhere.

Back to your question, yes i have met so many wonderful girls that would have made better wives but due to my playboy nature, i lost such rare gifts.

I rememer my Urhrobo ex by name Joy, this gurl was complete in everything.

Back then in School, guys used to envy me cos of her beauty and decency(she is from Jehovah witness).

I cant narrate everything here, but Joy know that i have always loved you so much and i missed the chance to be your hussy

igbwmedia:
It has now become the norm of the day that relationships don't last anymore.

People you see in relationship today might tell you a heart-breaking story tomorrow.

Some do regret leaving their ex while some never regretted but rather became happier and stronger.

Did you ever regret leaving your ex?

If YES please state your reasons.

If your answer is NO, please give us your reasons too.

Bro you talk am well till you mentioned Supremacy, if white people talk supremacy, fulani will follow talk supre what?

Who is he superior to ibos or yorubas(oh i forgot the way its called flat heads or cone heads ?)

Abegi.....









quote author=Racoon post=96808055] This statement is self indicting. It still affirms that Buhari is sitting atop the presidency of this nation but so thoroughly disconnected from his citizens that until he is briefed, he is not aware or shocked as usual.

Just imagine how a man that attained the rank of a Major General through quota system have bastardized the career of many young prospective military officers with his bigotry, clannishness and ethnic supremacist thinking Buhari have destroyed productivity in the military with his obstinacy.[/quote]

There is a secret the service chiefs know about him, we dont know so he is scared so they wont let the skeleton out.

Let it enter Nigerian history that BUHARI WAS OUR WORST PRESIDENT SINCE THE CREATION OF THIS COUNTRY.
THE MAN IS SO SHAMELESS AND HEARTLESS...

truthfulparrot:
Why is PMB still retaining the service chiefs despite their obvious poor performance and the fact they are long die for retirement? Are they the only capable hands in the military?
Is there anything between the service chiefs and PMB that Nigerians are not aware of? I am confused because even several APC governors and supporters had called for the sack of the service chiefs.

PMB should remember that he took an oath before God and men to protect Nigerians and our constitution. The President is expected to put the lives of Nigerians above his own.

Nigerians are bring slaughtered like chickens on daily basis. We cannot travel to our villages because of kidnappers. We cannot go to our farms because of bandits. Is PMB aware of all this? What are his aides telling him? If his aides are shying away from telling him the truth because of their selfish gains what about his immediate family? What are they telling him?

Where is the National Assembly? Nigerians should now under the benefit of having somebody like Saraki as the Senate President..... Everything is not about tribe, religion or party. We need competent people.

After they don chop tire, they wan go silent
mode but Bubu no wan gree them.

nairavsdollars:
Temidayo Akinsuyi, Lagos


https://www.independent.ng/service-chiefs-want-to-exit-but-buhari-didnt-give-them-directives-fayemi/

I got the message.....lol

I guess your testimony will be one of a kind.

On a serious note, I did love to partake in it....PM me or call or make a way for me to be a partaker because that outlet is gift to you.

Good morning.

Raychee:

I dont think he is an Ibo, he is trying to create more enimity btw the Ibos and the yorubas against 2023, this is POLITICAL bro, everyone should watch out such unwarranted remarks.

I feel he may be a core North or Northern stooge used to create division in nairaland.

Just check out the statement so baseless and you see beyond the horizon.

Techydude:
You're absolutely correct. This is the reason Yoruba land is full of Igbo people. You guys have selflessly left the comfort and opulence of Igboland (sorry Canaan land) just to bring Civilization to the unfortunate Yoruba people.

It's amazing reading comment like yours on Nairaland. You attack without being provoked. Always looking to pass comment along ethnic lines.

How can you have so much hatred for someone from your own race. Ditto for all tribalists on Nairaland. Your guys all need too see beyond your nose.

We're all trapped in this contraption called Nigeria. Instead of facing the real issues holding us back you chose to bicker using tribe as a basis for classifying your enemies. Your true enemies have evolved beyond tribe or race. They're united in looting this country and their group involves almost all the tribes in Nigeria. Stay there and be waiting your brain power.

Bro i dont agree with you, it depends on the part you are staying.

Naija girls dey try even in world matters.....forget bro with the harsh weather and poor living conditions they are still beautiful.

Can you compare even South African girls to Naija girls in beauty not having arse pass but facial beauty and overall elegance?

I love our girls die....even if i travel out i can only Bleep the white girls but i still come back to our girls....though our girls can be really annoying but AM PROUD OF THEM!









quote author=womenareapes post=96756977]look at beautiful women!

I don't care will marry from there! unlike those ugly piece of shiit of a Naija women

I urge Discovery and National geo channel to document our women as the ugliest women on earth [/quote]

Why did that photographer come up with such lies?

Even at first glance, i had my doubts....to me its a movie though the environment os so serene and beautiful, i feel like lying down there with a beautiful sexy girl for 3weeks just eating, swimming and ........










quote author=nyiamfrank post=96756612]Why e no snap where them dey sleep? Those people look like people wey no dey rob cream? Na movie costume and makeup joh![/quote]

You get sense bro....look at the way their guys hair are carved seems they have clipper because raw objects cant give a clean cut like that.

Either this is a film or a tribe that people have access to as any other exposed tribe in the world.












author=ItrendNaija post=96710829]This one's be world most isolated tribe? Marquesan tribe Wey don cast since nineteen gbogodo. If you see isolated tribes no be person go tell u[/quote]

Lwkmd.... i never knew every tribe in
Nigeria has a peculiar shape of head used to
identify them....


Abeg the shape of my head is like a typical negroes, like Trey Songz.









quote author=Mabizela post=96706491] But I'm cone headed[/quote]