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Crime › Re: Muhammad Alfa Who Raped 40 Women In 1 Year In Kano Arrested By Police by Rawhumper(m): 4:41pm On Aug 17, 2020
My lady,you did the most honourable thing,dont relent even if she lied to you.

Owing to the fact she is with child,you can refer her to any NGO you know.

But never you stop helping her,u can even set a small business like selling of pepper and tomatoes around your sharwama so that she can have something doing.
I bet your biz will be blessed the more.

I have been duped in the past when i was in Lagos,i only learnt my lesson but it doesnt stop to help when i can.

I have met a pregnant girl that ran away in my house before,never knew her before.
I gave her food and some money,thats how life and the society should be.

At least we should not be all bad in every aspect of life.










quote author=Denique post=90546684]Hi guys!
I have a rape case at hand and I really don't know how to go about it.
A young girl at my shawarma spot told me she was raped by a 42yr old man and the incident yielded a child...a child he doesn't take care of!

According to her, he brings a paltry N700 which is not everyday. She said the man's mum threatened to make her dumb if she goes to human rights.

I plan to tell a popular Lady in the area whom I also relate well with about it, so she can meet with the father of the girl who also owns a shop in the plaza.

Her parents asked her to let go since she has a child by the man. Their reason is so that, the child does not grow up to be tagged a rapist child.

People in the neighborhood call her demeaning names cos they all think she slept around and that resulted in the pregnancy.

It was also this same man that deflowered her. He admitted raping her to her parents and he is still friends with her uncle. The only thing the uncle is suggesting is changing the boy's surname to hers since he has refused to support her with 15k on a monthly basis.

I am also being careful as I am new in the area.

All these came up when she kept coming to buy shawarma on credit citing she hadn't eaten...her father sometimes gives her N150 to eat and feed the child also. He didn't give her the day before yesterday but gave her yesterday to take the boy to the health centre. cry

I wept yesterday when I saw how she beat up the child like an adult...clocked a year old this March while she's just 24. Neighbours abused and hit her for beating him. I understand her pains but couldn't do anything.

I feel so sad right now.

Should I tell the woman in the plaza as her father listens to her?

Pls note that the man has also raped another girl. The victim's elder brother only beat the abuser up and that was it...

Modified:
I just confided in the said woman and she told me to drop it as nothing of such was told to anyone.

Her words...

She was impregnated by her father's apprentice not the alleged 42yr old man she mentioned to me. She also said she lies to get stuff from people and that she has let go of all the monies she owes her as she can't pay. She sold the lies to me knowing that I am new in the area...she currently owes me 2k worth of shawarma that I was ready to write off but not anymore after this. In fact, I don't care about the money anymore...like I am so emotional right now cos she came to tell me she hadn't eaten today and I believed her...told her to check back to see what I can do.

I don't know who or what to believe anymore...

Creating a thread to seek justice on her behalf...

Had to do this to update y'all so you don't think I backed down from helping her. I would only suggest to her to go to a nearby human rights in Lagos to seek justice if she knows her story is true. Don't want to be caught up in a web of lies and deceits...

Thanks to everyone who reached out and was willing to help.[/quote]
Crime › Re: Girls Who Dress In Sexy Cloths Are Askn 2 Be Raped “don't Rape, Don’t Get Raped“ by Rawhumper(m): 4:24pm On Aug 17, 2020
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A true real Alpha is one that majes a lady to beg to be bleeped.

A real Alpha is one that can manipulative a responsible girl into sex after she realizes,she hates herself for falling for you.

A true Alpha male is one that does not and will never hussle for pussy even if you end up not having it,you smile and walk away knowing you can have it all but many more are there for you.


A TRUE ALPHA MALE is one that shuns rape,even if it was done on a lady that snubbed or proved stubborn to him in the past(He knows there is no pride in raping the lady because he is not a real CONQUEROR).

Meet the REDPILLERs to boost your confidence and manner of approach.

Since i was born i detest rape with passion and spit on any guy that physically forces a girl against her will and murder her.

Curses are upon such,but he may not understand till its too late.Think twice!










quote author=Rilwayne001 post=92917373]I believe women exposing their cleavage should never call for rape. Come on, real men, I mean alpha male will look beyond breast and V to achieve is aim. Talk more, those things are now so easy to get for as low as 1000. Why should you even look at a mad woman walking around exposing all that's expected to be covered? Obviously they're seeking validation, and by validating them to the point of rape which i see more as really a disgusting thing to do is the greatest action of SIMPing. I understand how hard the urge to stay glued to an half naked lady may arise, but it takes lots of alphaness and manliness to ignore her to the point of frustration for her.

Sex is so cheap that you can get it for as low as 1000, don't forget. You can even get it for free if you're playing your game in the right direction. Alpha never ever rape. Only disgusting SIMPS do.

Say No to rape!![/quote]
Celebrities › Re: COVID-19: Kate Henshaw Reacts To Claim That Celebrities Are Paid by Rawhumper(m): 2:38pm On Aug 17, 2020
Be it as crazy as it may sound,its a big scam in Nigeria but real in overseas.

The people who got it are mainly those who had contact overseas.

If its real in Nigeria with d ever increasing number of patients,we would have heard of neighbours contracting it.

What amazes me is that people dont care about wat happens to them if they cease breathing....

We all know the people and platform responsible for the hardships and looting,still the blame the previous platform for it as if Nigerians are fools.
The only real fools are those who fight and kill for them.God help us as we work against corruptions in all spheres!

SOCIAL JUSTICE WE STAND!!!









WebTutorial:
My mom never believed Covid-19 is real up to this moment. Lots of people believe its a scam, I no blame them sha
Christianity Etc › Re: Bishop Oyedepo Fumes Over Plans By Government To Close Accounts Of Churches by Rawhumper(m): 9:55am On Aug 17, 2020
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To be candid with u i have a Mixed feeling about this but i am uncomfortable because it came from a muslim leader.

It seems these evil politicians want to exploit more of our resources during crisis.

Thats why i said the Hausa/Fulanis are really brainless,havent the crisis in the north weakened both the military and the region.

Do they think they can win if there should be religious crisis,who are the masterminds behind this useless schemes.

Well the govt should remove their focus on the christians and concentrate on bringing the country from the mess they have put us in.










quote author=Richdad50 post=92905597] :I

Any Christain who moves oyedepo for this proclamation is nothing but a fool.

You will sit on Nairaland until you places of worship is taken from you.[/quote]
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rawhumper(m): 2:32pm On Aug 16, 2020
Well lets see,at least she is not on leave yet that i know and i have at least 4 sexy girls in my Estate alone i meet( one in same compound with me) whenever i want to ease myself.


I dont really put my mind on her,am not d type that gives or takes shit cos of whats btw their legs.
I dont call her even at all cos i have others.

My prob is 2settle with my sweet that has rejected suitors cos of me.

Wish am younger,i like this game but i dont wish to keep playing it till old age.

I appreciate alot all the contributions,i keep in touch in this thread as we exchange ideas.

Happy sunday.












Regex:
Then forget about her. It's not improper for her to call you and tell you when she's on leave. It's all in your head.
Romance › Re: Secondary School Students Caught Having Sex In Festac, Lagos by Rawhumper(m): 2:20pm On Aug 16, 2020
Thanks i will get in touch when am ready.

I appreciate.

Happy sunday and Gods blessings.










quote author=KevUnique post=92867415][/quote]
Romance › Re: Secondary School Students Caught Having Sex In Festac, Lagos by Rawhumper(m): 10:50pm On Aug 15, 2020
Where is it bro?










I have the video, incase u need it I can send u the link. It has been on xvideos for more than 2 years now . grin grin


Quote me if u need it.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rawhumper(m): 10:47pm On Aug 15, 2020
Bro you are intelligent but not perfect,yes you sensed my concern and mistook it for neediness.
Its just that she has really kept me in suspense,why i didnt delete her and gave her benefit of doubt is her work closes 8:30pm from Mon to monday.

Just 10mins ago my neighbours niece called me telling me do i want to kill her for not calling her throughout today?

Sure i have game and it has really put plenty women and girls for my pleasure.

You have to understand to everything,there is modification but we ask if that modification can be of help or not from this statement one can deduce that Redpill theory can be modified to suit a particular situation.

Hence i can say that if the advice of a lady will be of benefit to me and prevent me from doom,i will heed it bro sometimes in life its good to be flexible for two heads are better than one.

I appreciate your teachings and i always learn under you guys and know am willing to learn more from you and others,tapping from your wisdom.
Thanks man smiley











SkyFlint:
Listen here, Rawhumper:

Rollo Tomassi said something that I find exceedingly interesting in Positive Masculinity.

He said "Redpill is theoretical. Game is the Practical"

Ordinarily, the practical would be superior to the theoretical. But not in this case.

The theories of RedPill are the FUNDAMENTAL FOUNDATIONS that are necessary for what we call game.

They help you UNDERSTAND what makes game work. And until you do, you'll continue to fumble.

Not minding the fact that you have GAME...or a semblance of it - which I absolutely believe you have.

You have game (that's why you were able to bed the girls you have)...but you DEFINITELY do not understand the FUNDAMENTAL principles of REDPILL.


So I am going to tell you this ONLY once, so pay attention:

NEVER IN YOUR LIFE ALLOW A WOMAN TO TELL YOU WHAT TO DO...NEVER!!!

No amount of excuses/reasons would justify allowing that rubbish.

What's so difficult in calling you. And you're even trying to justify her actions that "she can't be calling you to come and f*ck her."

Here's a fact:

You're NOT going to f*CK her.

You want to F*CK her.

And she wants to F*CK you.

You both want to F*CK each other. It's a two-way thing.

So let that SINK in...

I'd advise you to FORGET about that girl completely...

Your neediness is already seeping through your posts, despite the fact that you claim otherwise.

Do yourself a favour and READ "The Rational Male: Positive Masculinity" by Rollo Tomassi...so you can refine your crude game.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rawhumper(m): 10:26pm On Aug 15, 2020
I will do bro that but if i stop talking to her whenever i visit her office she may think am childish maybe because i have not heard from her.So how do i go about that when i come around her workplace.

Yeah bro,i have received calls in her front before telling girls on phone how i enjoyed sex with them,she heard them even when they call me asking me when i visit them again.
To crown it all she knows am having something with her senior colleague so i dont want to compound the whole thing by telling her about love or wasting my time to date her.

Giving her space will be a good idea,but one thing with me is if i lose interest in a girl i have lost it forever.

Same thing happened with a girl,she was delaying till i travelled and came back 2years later,when she met and told me about hanging out i told her to forget about so i never slept with her.
Same will happen to this one,and i dont give a shit if i bleeped her or not.

I dig it out with the ladies,the know i dont really give a crap but at same time i like them...thats the mystery about me.


Thanks so much for your invaluable advice smiley










quote author=Vecto post=92862587]

Quite true.


However, like you said, the lady in question has been forming hard-to-get and turning down proposals from many guys. And since you already know this before hand you should know the direct approach might not work out like it has been working out for you with the other ladies

If you give her some space she will come back to her senses cool[/quote]
Family › Re: Wife Bites Off Husband’s Private Part Over Boyfriend In Imo by Rawhumper(m): 10:02pm On Aug 15, 2020
I read it but well there is an atom of truth in every lie especially one put into a narration.













Tominix:
read her cock and bull story line
Family › Re: Wife Bites Off Husband’s Private Part Over Boyfriend In Imo by Rawhumper(m): 10:01pm On Aug 15, 2020
I read it but well there is an atom of truth in every lie especially one put into a narration.











quote author=Tominix post=92861437]












read her cock and bull story line[/quote]
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rawhumper(m): 9:54pm On Aug 15, 2020
I feel you bro but you gat to know 40% of the girls i bleeped i told them straight on,even virgins among them...like the last girl i met in the bank and bleeped within two weeks turnef out to be a virgin(Corper serving in Jos but family resides here).


It has been working for me oo,its either they accept or say no but its not i tell them straight i want sex as if they are my wives but i use a pattern cos we all know,even a redpiller knows that once a guy approaches a lady,she already knows in her mind is sex we want but will pretend to find out the guys intentions.

Anyways i dont feel a thing if i dont blerp her,i have no emotional aytachement to her and i dont call her(sent texts).

Anywhere i visit, i like to keep one or two chicks around be it Church, School, Banks, Market,Hospital,Police Station,Barracks etc. I must have a chick standing by so i dont feel anything if anyone dissappoints.












Vecto:
I think it all boils down to concealing your intentions.
You already announced your motives, lol.
This is where you fück**d up.
This door is already closed and might never open again. See, everything about seduction is based on schemes. You should always conceal your intentions. You do not announce your intentions or reveal them directly in words.
If she has no clue what you are up to, she can never prepare a defense.
What you did is the same as walking up to a girl and telling her you have feelings for her LOL
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Remembering Sexkillz And His Lover Ogugua88 by Rawhumper(m): 9:37pm On Aug 15, 2020
Oh bri,did she bring him to stay with her overseas or what?

You guys shouldnt be startled he caught her thru pms










quote author=Pdizzle post=30681021]The life and time of killz, that dude caught ogugua into his net from naija to yankee. Very sharp nigga[/quote]
Romance › Re: Experience As A Pervert..... Touching Girls In Crowd, Or In Keke Or Bus by Rawhumper(m): 9:34pm On Aug 15, 2020
Aawwwwwwwww.....xoxo touching dear cry.

Am glad you did that,i take care of my friends and i make sure they follow the right path and choice.

Dont allow that guy around you to distract you from your dreams.


Stay well,i visit you from time to time.










quote author=emmysolo2001 post=92860554]
I've been ok
and yes I already enrolled in school
but corona made me stay home

i am studying a course I like
biochemistry
it a bit easy to comprehend
i enjoy the course

and no
no one deceived me into the wrong
choice in.my career and it's nice to know you are looking out of me[/quote]
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rawhumper(m): 9:24pm On Aug 15, 2020
I made it perfectly clear to her,i also told her i dont want to date her and she knows i have many girls so i dont need to lie by telling her about love, that was why i went straight to the point.

I forgot to tell u that she knows am dating her Boss but i dont care if she told her about what i said to her. Though i have not seen any change of attitude from her boss(her boss is sexier with balanced wicked butt that makes one scream dammnnnn!!).

You are right,that was why i dont call u her,i think why she said i should be the one to call is because she felt i wasnt serious by calling her often when she gave me her number.
Secondly, it will be improper for her to be one to call me when she has leave to come and fvck her.
She also has a boyfriend but i convinced her to skip her Bf for me,since mine is temporal.

I have not given a kobo b4,she even once said am stingy to her,i dont like to spend.

















quote author=Regex post=92858785]

The last thing a lady will tell you is she's not interested(no) when she can keep you around to inflate her ego and for other resources. Her actions should tell you whether or not you should continue.

From what you narrated, she's using you for a cruise. She told you to call her, that's the time you'd have asked her if she wouldn't call you when you don't. Her answer will tell you if you are going to stay or not.

Plus you wanna fu<k her, did you make it perfectly clear your intentions?[/quote]
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rawhumper(m): 5:55pm On Aug 15, 2020
If you didnt have an advice for me,u would have kept mute not just saying u fumbled.

I dont like ladies bothering me with love and affections,except when am married.

Thats why i make them realize its just physical no emotional connection.

Its just that all women are not same(different approaches for every lady).

I forgot to tell you she knows am a playboy and am dating her Boss as well.
But am an Oliver Twist and d ladies know it even mere looking at me in actual life so nothing to hide.











quote author=nuelsam post=92852208]you fumbled....I mean, big time[/quote]
Romance › Re: I Smush A Girl While We Are Standing In Queue At Bank. by Rawhumper(m): 5:21pm On Aug 15, 2020
Will you do that to me dear cry cry cry?

I really dont encourage such,i have got the chances but what i do is to collect number if i like the lady.

In my good old days,i have dated bankers mostly through touching body in the buses i was with them,most were sexy bankers then few students.

I still see it as sexual assault whether man or woman is involved.












LadyGCrueDKilaB:
well bitch you ain't Idris fuccking elba
you don't have his looks, charm or money
you're just a wretched , broke and smelling boy in Abia state
just because i'd let specific niggas smash doesn't give you the right to bring your filthy dick near me
the audacity of you ugly niggas tho
I wish a stupid nigga would try me
in times like this I'm glad I always carry with me my Swiss army knife
next thing you know, you're missing a dick and spouting blood from the new knob on your pelvis
I've done it once, last last I paid the dumb molester off and the case was dropped
I dont mind doing it again but it seems like you idiotic niggas can spot a bitch not to be messed with a mile away
Romance › Re: I Smush A Girl While We Are Standing In Queue At Bank. by Rawhumper(m): 5:09pm On Aug 15, 2020
Because he may be ugly or inexperienced u never jam fine guys that are very good in it...

I guarantee you no matter your training,u may succumb just for that day i tell you.










Phenomenal16:
..this has happened to me at one ATM inside my school...
I screamed at d young man to back out....like I yelled at him
I made sure I embarrassed him......he was so ashamed of himself that day.......
I hate that thing with passion
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rawhumper(m): 5:04pm On Aug 15, 2020
How did i fumble,your advice is needed but note i dont call her for like in 2weeks i may call her once sometimes one full month cos i have othet girls and i told her i dont love her (cos i dissappoint her) though i find her attractive so please tell me how










quote author=nuelsam post=92852208]you fumbled....I mean, big time[/quote]
Romance › Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: On Scantily Dressed Women. by Rawhumper(m): 4:48pm On Aug 15, 2020
I used to be his number opponent but to be honest, 75% of his posts are true about women.

About the scantily dressed,from experience i think it depends on you and the girl involved.

I also believe there is no easy to get,and there is also no hard to get girl everything about bleeping ladies is hinged on choices.












Defenderalert:
Op

Women who dress scantily are only passing one message, "Pay me to lay me" if you doubt that ask tbe filthy hookers on Allen& the filthier ones you buy sex from why they are ALWAYS scantily dressed.

You get just the seduction part because you are broke AF. You cant afford the punnah. Flash the cash and see the scanty clothes drop. Don't be a dumb analyst. You ain't making sense.

All you are saying in a nutshell in all your dumb
WASTE OF TIME epistles. I will summarise thus "Abeg dudes i am fvcking sex starved because you keep pampering,appreciating and spending on your women," grin

Thats not gonna change svcker. Go get your jobless ass to work and irk a living instead of sitting home all day waiting for that cougar that won't come. shocked

Why wont you be broke as fvck when all you spend your time on is fantacising about sex from butt and chest implant hoes .

Go and marry a decent wife and stop being a fool. Your life is too messed up for redemption clearly
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rawhumper(m): 4:31pm On Aug 15, 2020
Bro please i seek your advice,nobody knows it all thats why i need you to clarify this: Plz be patient to go thru it.

There is this chick i met somewhere,she should be around 20.
She has turned down multiple guys that have been asking her out.

I want to bleep not inlove with her,so i met her one day and told her i find her attractive and would like to take her out far away from the Estate where nobody will see us together.

She told me all those girls that call me on phone whenever i was in her workplace,am i not satisfied?

I told her its my nature,thats why am telling her am not in love with her cos if i said that i would be lying and also put her thru many hurts.

Las las she agreed and gave me her number,she said we only hang out when she is on leave cos she works from monday to monday and comes back 8pm everyday,truly no chance but whats bothering me is she doesnt call me nor reply my texts but told me to call her not later than 8:30pm in the night.

I seldom call her,but she makes me feel she isnt into me by all this though she accepted to have a fling with me(Even requested we spend time in a place far from our area when she is free).

Note during that time i told her if she doesnt want she should just tell me no so that i can move on,since love or sex is by force but she said i should be calling her from time to time to know when she will have leave,that she wont call me to inform me if i didnt call her.

I will appreciate your advice alot...
Thanks alot












quote author=Vecto post=92841069]

And this is why the player always have an edge over others. When a woman sees you have many women at your disposal, she believes you must be special, and like a prize, she tries to get you for herself. She tries to win you over. Unlike guys, she isn't in the least bit concerned if the guy is a flirt or not. She just wants that guy every lady wants. This is why the player will always have more women to his side, lol. With women, he gets MORE women. It's just the gospel truth. But the good guy, who tries to stick to one girl and be faithful to her will always have nothing but tears. cool

Truly women don't reason like men. They reason with their emotions.[/quote]
Romance › Re: Is It Bad To Date My Sister's House Help? by Rawhumper(m): 4:14pm On Aug 15, 2020
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I wont be mad at your sister because of the following reasons:

*Its women nature to tackle one another especially when it comes to relationships.

*Your sister has good intention towards you,she feels the house help isnt up tp your level.

*Remember you are under her roof,she helped you to give you shelther and you met the girl under her.

My advice is dont fight your sister because of a girl you met under her,try and reason with her.

There is what we call power of conviction,its a skill.

Most importantly bro,distance yourself from the house help during the period you trying to convince your sister to accept her.....this will have a psychological impact on your sisters if she notices this,she see it as a sign of respect and truly your feelings is based on love not lust.

Dont play with her again whenever your sis is around,so that your sis wont send her packing and if that happens,the battle has really begun.

Be prudent!









quote author=landmark86 post=85487290]Am a fresh graduate that just got a job with a private organisation. Last month I was transferred from our headquarters to one of our branches here in Akure, Ondo State.

I stay in my elder sister's house right now cos I moved in last year December but have met with an agent who promise to get me a good apartment soonest.

To cut my story short, my sister has a house girl/lady which was so caring to me. Am 29yrs and still single not that I have never dated before, just that it never worked well while I was in school.

The house maid of my sister is 25yrs and a school cert holder but due to some reasons she couldn't further her education but still willing if she can get help.

She's a pretty, caring, very neat and also intelligent. And my sister also takes her as a sister not an house help.

Lastly weekend, my sister came back from an event and saw me and her catching some fun (I mean gisting and playing games) in the house and she got provoked.

She called me in and asked what is the relationship between me and her but I told her the basic truth that though we are just friends but I wish I could date her and my sister shouted on me NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not even when am alive.

Now I keep asking my self some question;
Is house help not a human being?
Is it a crime in dating/marry them?
Is it a crime for a graduate to marry non graduate/illiterate ?

Please help a brother cos am in love with her.
Thank you.[/quote]
Romance › Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Rawhumper(m): 4:00pm On Aug 15, 2020
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I understand your point.

I was once in his shoes,but mine was my bros wife we used to be close cos i was the only one that stood by her when my other sisters were not for her as a newly married wife.

She is sexy and would even rub her big boobs whenever she close by and am carrying theur baby,i wanted her so much but i didnt allow that urge to get a better part of me.Though my bros suspected and accused us.
It was a serious case,i stopped coming to their house for a year.

Though my bro is more handsome been fair and i on the chocolate side,i didnt understand why.

My point is that its natural to feel sexually attracted to the opposite sex irrespective of who he or sge belongs to,but how we go about dealing it,is what makes us RESPONSIBLE MEN.












quote author=daddytime post=87323689]God forbid....

You ain't no close friend nigga but a very close enemy.

You were already coveting the poor guy's wife until his death, how are we sure you ain't responsible for his death consciously or unconsciously when you'd seat and keep dreaming to have his wife as yours in your mind. There is power in our thoughts and subconscious mind.


May God guide and guard me and whoever is reading this from the likes of you.

With the likes of you who needs an enemy?

Dig your grave man, you'd be needing it soon.

So, of all the women that are in the UK and now Nigeria, no one is as 'set' as the iyawo in question?

You are an oloju Kokoro

Tuehhh[/quote]
Romance › Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Rawhumper(m): 3:42pm On Aug 15, 2020
Love doesnt ask why,it speaks from the heart and never explains....

From experience,women of nowadays like more action, less talk.
I have been in position where i would have lost several opportunities because of too much talk,if not cos of my looks the ladies would have been turned off cos some of them told me i talk too much(i like been honest with myself).

If you want the lady,you should have just created the atmosphere,take her out,tell her how attractive you find her...let there be that tension btw u two, make the move to touch her softly....kiss her when you see the hidden signs from her i bet you she will respond except you are not attractive bro.

If you do more of talking you end up been rejected and friendzoned,that was your initial mistake by telling her about relationship.

Take the lead by talking less and doing more action,once she does it with you try to reassure her you really love her,if not guilt can make her keep off from you forever after it.

Have a nice day.














quote author=Timson01 post=87323435]Good day everyone,

My issue is with a very close friend of mine. We live in the same compound for years. Actually, her husband and I were buddies as bachelors. He brought her in as girlfriend,they dated for two years. I was like a brother to them,although they are like 3 years older than me.
From dating,they got married and she became our iyawo. This lady is dead gorgeous and I counted my friend (Dalton,not real name) as very lucky. Iyawo is any man’s dream:sexy and a good cook. Plus her figure na die.I used to call her sister mi or iyawo.Them getting married brought me even more closer. I ate in their house most times. Their first son came and was actually 9 months old when Dalton passed on in a motor accident. All our worlds stopped. It was the most painful time of all our lives. I mean,he was a young father and husband,friend and son.
I was dating someone at the time. Later on,I traveled and was in UK for 3 years. I kept in touch with Iyawo. Sent her money now and again even though she didnt need it.I relocated back to Nigeria last year. And Iyawo looks even more stunning.I was perplexed that she was not dating yet. She was like,she is still mourning her late husband. Its been four years later. I think she should move on and get married again but she was like,no one wants a single mother with a kid.She used to tell me how lonely she gets and all that. I knew I liked her alot but we are just like family. The more I saw her,the more I wanted her. I was single. I am 36 years,she is 39. I thought about this for a long time and I told her how I felt about her.She laughed and said it would never work. According to her,I was like a junior brother to her and too close to her late husband. That people would think we were having an affair while he was alive. I see reasons with her but I think there is no excuse good enough to let her go without a fight for her heart.Please I need directive..advise…how do I convince her that all her excuses do not matter..will people actually disapprove of our union…I just want to know what chances I have or concerns that anyone may raise about this before I push further for her love. I love this woman and her son with all my heart.
If there is anyone who has been in a similar situation,please advise also thank u as u offer ur advice no insult please[/quote]
Romance › Re: Juhayman by Rawhumper(m): 1:43pm On Aug 15, 2020
Mh sisters have not complained about their hus beating them so i dont know what to say.And there are seven of them i have.










quote author=PrecisionFx post=92453056]


Any woman whose husband beats up should leave the marriage[/quote]
Family › Re: Wife Bites Off Husband’s Private Part Over Boyfriend In Imo by Rawhumper(m): 1:40pm On Aug 15, 2020
And whats picture of pen?

Couldnt relate








quote author=Queenlovely post=92846823]

pic of pen is first[/quote]
Christianity Etc › Re: Day 1: Prayers To Destroy Permanent Delay In My Life by Rawhumper(m): 1:38pm On Aug 15, 2020
Amen i say to you!!!!
Thanks and God bless for sharing this wonderful section.
grin cheesy cheesy










Brachaa:
DAY 1: PRAYERS TO
DESTROY PERMANENT
DELAY IN MY LIFE

USE FOR

Fasting. 6am –
3pm (No food nor
water).

OR

MIDNIGHT PRAYER SESSION

Revelation 10:6, ”And
sware by him that liveth
for ever and ever, who
created heaven, and the
things that therein are,
and the earth, and the
things that therein are,
and the sea, and the
things which are therein,
that there should be
time no longer:”

Isaiah 40:31, ”But they
that wait upon the LORD
shall renew their
strength; they shall
mount up with wings as
eagles; they shall run,
and not be weary; and
they shall walk, and not
faint”.

INSTRUCTION: Write
your names, partner
names etc in a piece of
paper and begin to
rebuke the spirit of
delay in their lives. Pray
it harder please!!!!

Thank you Jesus for this
fasting programme.

1. Father, have mercy on
me and let my
stagnation ends today,
in Jesus name.

2. Father, if
this prolong stagnancy
is from you, O Lord,
forgive me.

3. O God of
signs and wonders
accelerate my progress
this month in Jesus
name.


Powers that
anointed my hands and
legs with permanent
delays, break by fire, in
Jesus name.

O Red Sea
that swallowed people’s
progress at the edge of
their success, dry up by
fire.

O ye Pharaoh of my
destiny, I command you
in the name of Jesus, let
me go.

Father show me
the way where there
seems to be no way, in
Jesus name.

Every curse
of permanent
stagnation in my life,
break by fire, in Jesus
name.

The wicked
people in my family that
have succeeded in
destroying my glory,
Jesus Christ, the Son of
the Living God, destroy
them by fire, in Jesus
name.

I receive the
anointing of double
speed, in Jesus name.


Spirit of procrastination
affecting God’s agenda
for my life, depart from
me now, in Jesus
name.

No power shall
monitor my movement
again as from today, in
Jesus name.

By the power in the blood of
Jesus, I receive my total
freedom from the cage
of permanent delay, in
the name of Jesus.

All
those that are delaying
my marriage, finances,
businesses etc, today is
your day of affliction,
receive your day of
death, in the name of
Jesus.

Lord Jesus, work
on my speed this year,
in the name of Jesus.

Every evil dream that
introduced the spirit of
long term affliction in
my life, I nullify you
today.

Every foundational household
wickedness that has
amputated the legs of
my progress, die by fire.

Holy Ghost fire destroy
anything that makes
your promises to fail in
my life in Jesus name.


Father, if my destiny has
been in Egypt for many
years without my
knowledge, By Your
mercy, take me out into
my Promised Land, in
the name of Jesus.


Every spirit of fear that
is fighting against my
early success, go away
by fire, in the name of
Jesus.

Arrows of
permanent stagnation
affecting my destiny,
backfire, in the name of
Jesus.

I refuse to stay in
a house of permanent
delays, in the name of
Jesus.

Sand of delay
trapping down my
progress gradually,
roast by fire, in Jesus
name.

Every anointing of
sluggishness at the
edge of breakthrough,
dry up and expire, in
Jesus name.

Lord Jesus,
remove strange curses
attached to my hands
and legs, in Jesus
name.

Every
generational curses
covering my original,
break by fire, break by
fire, break by fire.

The children of Isrealites
suffered delays for 430
years in the land of
Egypt.

I decree, that will
never be my portion and
that of my children, in
Jesus name.

Father, if this prolonged delay is
as a result of my sin of
the past or the evil in my
family which has made
you not to listen to me
again, O Lord, raise me
up by Your eye of mercy,
in Jesus name.

Every wasted months,
seasons, years,
opportunities, be
restored by fire, in the
name of Jesus.


Strongman of delay
attaching themselves
with my glory since the
day I was born, die by
fire.

From henceforth,
the veil of delay upon
my life is over today, in
Jesus name.

Every pattern of stubborn
delay in my family,
break by fire, in the
name of Jesus.

Every
foundational power,
holding down my
progress unaware,
catch fire, in the name
of Jesus.

You strongman of delay in my life, I am
no more your candidate,
you have two options, it
is either you destroy
yourself or you expose
yourself, in Jesus name.

Pray for Evangelist
Joshua, team and
partners. Thank you
Jesus for answered
prayers.
Family › Re: Wife Bites Off Husband’s Private Part Over Boyfriend In Imo by Rawhumper(m): 1:32pm On Aug 15, 2020
What is it you dont believe, the storyline or the narration?












quote author=Queenlovely post=92846591]I don't believe this[/quote]
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Urgent Vacancies by Rawhumper(m): 1:28pm On Aug 15, 2020
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Shut up there why dont you give specified address?

For credibility sake,not your client this and that,whether you like it or not and others like you in this nairaland,know this a change is coming to Nigeria and it starts from here for corruption to be wiped out it must start from the grassroots.
And we are the grassroots!!

Heartless people!!










quote author=lizzybett post=83823767]1. Operations Manager

Our client, a premium women’s wear fashion brand located in Ikoyi, is looking to fill the role of an Operations Manager. The ideal candidate must have strong leadership skills and the ability to manage people. The responsibilities for the role include:

Key Responsibilities:
• Supervise the operations of the store
• Responsible for managing employees
• Prepare and send report to the Creative Director
• Schedule appointments for clients
• Respond to all enquiries via phone and email
• Manage the facility
• Create and post on social media channels
• Work with the production manager to monitor store inventory
• Work with the Creative Director to develop and manage sales campaigns
• Responsible for managing customers
• Responsible for ensuring regulatory compliance e.g tax
• Manage the website
• Prepare and circulate newsletters
• Supervise all staff
• Document all new orders
• Hold staff meetings
• Ensure staff compliance with company’s policies

Educational Qualification
BSC in any related discipline

Experience
 3+ years’ experience as an head of operations is required
 Experience in the fashion industry is a plus

Skills and Abilities
 Digital marketing skills
 Highly analytical with a drive for numbers
 Good networking, prospecting and closing skills
 High level of professionalism
 Exceptional leadership skills
 Ability to multi-task and work under pressure
 Result-oriented team player with exceptional motivation and interpersonal skills.
 Relationship management skills and openness to feedback
 Excellent selling, communication and negotiation skills
 Good written and verbal communication skills
 Able to work in a fast pace environment
 High proficiency in MS Office Suite
 Must be able to prepare management reports and correspondence
 Good initiative, time and stress management skills

Work Conditions: May be required to work overtime
Job Type: Full time

Remuneration: N80,000 -N100,000

How to Apply:
Interested and qualified candidates should forward their CV to recruitment@owensxley.com

2. Retail Store Manager

Our client, a premium women’s wear fashion brand located in Ikoyi, is looking to fill the role of a Retail Store Manager. The ideal candidate must have strong leadership skills and the ability to manage people. The responsibilities for the role include:

Key Responsibilities:
• Oversee daily retail store operations
• Creates and implements relevant checklists
• Supervise staff to ensure that staff actively carry out their roles
• Ensure strict compliance and monitoring of organizational rules, policies and standards
• Prepare daily sales reports
• Ensure the business environment is properly cleaned at all times
• Arrange for regular maintenance services for all equipment
• Handle and resolve all customers’ complaints
• Reconcile payments received with sales officer
• Plan the distribution of inventory to retail stores
• Work with the digital channel manager to effectively fulfill all online orders
• Monitor logistics and distribution activities
• Prepare delivery documentation and other related paperwork
• Oversee space management and allocation

Professional Qualifications/Experience
Educational Qualification:
• Minimum of HND/B.Sc in a related role
Experience:
• 2 years’ experience in a similar role
• Experience in the retail or fashion industry a plus

Skills and Abilities
• Proven integrity
• Highly analytical, driven and focused.
• High level of professionalism;
• Networking, prospecting and persuasion skills with the ability to identify the needs and challenges of clients.
• Must have knowledge of business process and functions (finance, HR, procurement, operations etc.)
• Proficient user of MS Office (MS Excel in particular)
• Must be able to prepare management reports and correspondence
• Good initiative, time and stress management skills
• Leadership and organizational abilities
• Interpersonal and communication skills
• Problem-solving attitude
• Keen eye for detail
• Preferably lives within Island axis

Remuneration
N55,000

Method of Application
Interested and qualified candidates should forward their CV to: recruitment@owensxley.com using the "Job Title" as the subject of the email.

3. Sales Associate

Our client, a premium women’s wear fashion brand located in Ikoyi, is looking to fill the role of a Sales Associate. The ideal candidate must have good communication and customer service. The responsibilities for the role include:
Key Responsibilities:
• The Sales Associate is responsible for driving sales by attracting new customers to the business
• Build, grow and maintain relationships with new and existing customers to ensure increased businesses for the company
• Providing outstanding customer service to clients
• Maintaining an orderly instore atmosphere
• Keeps management informed by submitting activity and results reports, such as daily call reports, weekly work plans, and monthly and annual territory analysis.
• Monitors competition by gathering current marketplace information on pricing, products, new products, and delivery schedules, sales techniques, etc.
• Recommends changes in products, service, and policy by evaluating results and competitive developments.
• Works with management to resolve customer complaints
• Keep a profile of the current clientele of the business and regularly update the database
• Works closely with the business development team to develop and implement marketing campaigns and strategies.
• Introducing promotions and discount offers to customers
• Cross-selling products to increase purchase amounts.
• Contributes to team effort by accomplishing related results as needed.

Requirements
Educational Qualification:
• HND/B.Sc/B.A.

Experience:
• 1-2 years’ experience as a sales rep or similar role is a plus
• Experience in a retail outfit is a plus
• NYSC candidates can also apply

Skills and Abilities:
• Highly analytical, driven and focused.
• High level of professionalism;
• Networking, prospecting and persuasion skills with the ability to identify the needs and challenges of clients.
• Basic knowledge of accounting
• Must have a positive and respectful attitude
• Strong selling skills
• Good written and verbal communication skills
• Must have sound judgment
• Must pay great attention to detail
• Must be service-minded.
• Must present herself and act in a manner that is appropriate in order to protect the organization’s image and reputation at all times.

Work Conditions
• Candidate must reside around Lekki
• Might be required to work outside the store

Remuneration
N40,000

Method of Application
Interested and qualified candidates should forward their CV to: recruitment@owensxley.com using the "Job Title" as the subject of the email.[/quote]
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Urgent Vacancies by Rawhumper(m): 1:23pm On Aug 15, 2020
Shut up!!!! angry sadYou are a big scammer why didnt you give specified address for verification?

You just blabbed Victoria Island as if the Island is just one small street.


We are here talking on how to better this country heartless goats like you are here still trying to steal the little these people that are suffering from the wicked corrupt society have.

Do you really enjoy this ill gotten wealth,knowing someone is out there crying his or her eyes oit and in some cases committing suicide.

Wish am a Mod,any ad without proper address and location will be banned and the money will not be refunded.
Am going to visit other posts of yours to make you dont succeed EWU OHIA!!![color=#000099][/color]

Get lost!!! sad










quote author=lizzybett post=92671238]Our Client, a luxury Interior Design store in Victoria Island, Lagos, is currently recruiting a suitably qualified candidate to fill the position below:

Job Title: Luxury Retail Associate
Location: Victoria Island, Lagos

Job Responsibilities
• Create content Calendar for social media
• Take and post pictures of products on Social Media platforms
• Post relevant content on social media
• Respond to enquiries across social media platforms
• Prospect and close sales
• Welcome and attend to walk-in customers
• Process payments
• Build and manage customer data base
• Arrange the store on a daily basis
• Constantly ensure that the store is clean and smells fresh at all time.
• Display and arrange existing and new products in an organized manner.
Educational qualifications
• HND/BSC in a relevant field
• At least 1 year in a similar position


Requirements
• Previous experience in a luxury company is a must
• Passion for Design and has an eye for aesthetic and colour
• Passionate about creating exceptional shopping experiences
• High level of energy and enthusiastic
• Sales success in a retail interior design store environment
• Strong verbal and written communication skills.
• Excellent organization and time management skills.
• Attention to detail.
• Must be able to multitask.

Remuneration
N60,000 – N80,000 monthly.

Application Closing Date
12th August 2020.

How to apply
Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV to recruitment@owensxley.com with the job role as the subject of the mail[/quote]
Phones › Re: I Have Just Been Scammed by Rawhumper(m): 1:16pm On Aug 15, 2020
This your story vet as e be,u be Jesus? angry





quote author=Openbusiness4 post=92677579]that will be too expensive. I remember years ago, maybe like 7 years or more, when i owned a bus and paid my mechanic around 60k remove and fix new engine. D guy was my usual mechanic so I trusted him and paid him in full upfront even before we started anything. I paid him d time we went to Ojuelegba together to buy the engine. As I pay for engine, I just went to ATM and withdrew cash for him too. It was on a Saturday. We agreed he should take Monday off and start d job on Tuesday. D bus dey parked for my street in front of my house. Fast forward, one week he didn't come to my house as agreed. No calls, no text. I just brush it off say d guy don start him scoin scoin behavior. By d second week, he no call, na me come dey call am. He no go pick. I called him many times, no answer. I still ignored like I know he was probably busy as usual, cuz i know how his work is at his yard. But I was expecting that he will call be back in d night at the close of d day. But he never did. Den I used another line to call him around Thursday after he no pick my line or call me back. He picked d call. Na him I para for him say, so him dey deliberately ignore my calls wey me I still dey reason am say na cuz work plenty for him hand for shop. D guy was apologizing, that make I no vex, na some work tie am down for shop wey no give am chance come and he no want to lie for me etc. Ok na, as per old levels say me and him don know ourselves for years, I excuse him and forgive. We agree for the following week Monday. Fast forward, Monday cum, d guy still no show, na him I vex. I find am go shop, he wasn't der. They said he went to do outside work. Can u imagine? My head spark like warifuk mehnnnn, I call am dey threaten am say make he refund my moni since he no wantu work, may I find anoda person wey go do d job. He beg me, say him go come following day. Tuesday come he no show. He no call me, he no pick my calls. Naso I vex, I didn't call him again. I just went to his yard and reported to his co-mechanic friends there and their union chairman say he b like d guy want make I follow am drag trouble. Dey beg me say dem go talk to him, he will cum d next day. For wia, d idiot still no show. Now to the main point, I just go arrange for Kirikiri police, dem give me one officer wey dey attached to SARZ. Mobilization fee alone dah time na 30K. Dat was about half d money I paid mech dat I wanna recover. But anger no gree me reason am well. I said no problem. I pay d guy d mobilization. I still settle some officers 5k and 2k. Following day, dem call d idiot for phone say dem wan give am work to repair a car, say some one recommend am to dem. Na woman police call am for station, say na him husband car get d fault, d guy come say make d husband come meet am so so place, say him dey do outside repairs, him no dey workshop but him go soon finish d job and from der he will follow d man to where is car is to check it. Na so me and the SARZ guy come go. He say if i fit drop like 20k more, den him for mobilize like 2 more officers to join us and then use their patrol van, I go just buy fuel inside. I said no, make me and him go alone, I don't have dah kain money. Say besides, d guy we wan catch no be criminal and na short man with one bad hand. One person is enuf. Na him we cum go. Long story short, dey arrest am, cum carry am go station, dey wan dey beat am, I say NO, may dem no beat am, d idiot na my guy, I just wan Kno d devil wen enta d fool head make am dey misbehave. D guy cum dey beg, say make dem let am c me, make we discuss. I say No, I vex comot for some hours, later d mech yard pipu cum dey call me say dem hear wetin apin. Him boy don run to shop go tell dem. Dem cum dey beg me. Their chairman na elderly man wey I respect and d man dey very respectful despite his old age. Na him I reason am. I call d SARZ guy wey be d IPO for d case, say make he release am we go settle tins, d guy cum say d guy no dey him hand again, say him don hand am over for station to d inspector etc. Later d police station say dey can't release him like dat, wat he did was a criminal offense, dey have to teach him a lesson. He must pay bail before dem release am, so he won't try such next time. My mechanic beg me say make I juz talk to dem die d mata say me and him don settle, say dem say him muz pay bail moni. I ask dem how mush na d bail. Dey say 20K, kikikiki grin, I no fit laff oooohhhhh. Was just shaking my head say c dis idiot mechanic wey just cum create unnecessary and wasted spending for him papa head, not me. D guy say him no get 20K oh, las las, I we agree I drop 10K, him drop 10K wey we take settle d bail. But him no hold moni sef, so na me still cum bail am oh grin, with 20K, plus initial 37K or so, making 57K, if I add my transport, d moni don reach 60K and pass sef. So I spent 60k tryna recover 60k, I cum dey reason am wen I dey wan sleep for night, say which kain mumu I be grin 60K gon laidat grin. So using police for recovery can be expensive in some situations and not worth it. His best bet and cheapest path to recovery is to involve the bank he transfer d money into. But anyhow, he can do anything he likes. I wish him success in his recovery[/quote]
Nairaland General › Re: Personal Development/ Self Help/ Mindset Shift/growth/hope/lessons by Rawhumper(m): 1:05pm On Aug 15, 2020
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Yeah i have been trying to create posts that touch on those spheres of life but am still trying to learn how to create a new posts so one can educate him or herself.


Nairaland is a wonderful platform for the Good, the bad and the ugly.










quote author=Fonpeter post=92793038]So I’ve been looking for a forum like this and I think it’s sad there isn’t one.

Please a forum should be created for Personal Development/ Self Help/ Mindset Shift/Growth/Hope/Lessons.

These are things that would help us on here, that is my niche and I can’t find any forum that I belong to.

Please Nairaland, do something

Meanwhile, I guess we could use this topic here to share such content and discussions.

You’re welcome ❤️[/quote]

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