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There is nothing wrong with what he did aside politics Obj is old enough to be his father so to me is a sign of respect and fatherly blessing that's all....

Omo they should forget about collecting the previous loan o, cos then the country hard people barely feed even the one I received I use small pay for gbese and also how person go give you 750k then some people chop 250k (remitted) then bank collect 47k and from 750k you're left with 403k and Dem call am loan..... rubbish government

thunder fire all the satanists and supporter of evil..... Father God plz order the sound of the trumpet....

buy antibiotics for her and always apply Ori on that place plz stop using hot water to massage it......

oga if you are not ready to marry her now then don't do it and also if she truly loved you that much she should be the one telling you to Wait till ur weeding night cos her being a virgin is her pride so me I feel she wants to double date and there's no way other guys won't want to have sex with her...is strange for her to be forcing you to disvirgin her when is not peer pressure, oga something is wrong somewhere......

Dude don't give up on God, he will set u free from whatever it is that ur struggling with cos same with my friend who introduced me to porn and letter became an addiction but trust God to bring you out.....

maikbanj:
Good morning dear Nairalanders,

Thank you for being there in the past with your timely advise(s). I am here again just to get some more on a case.

I have a girlfriend which I plan getting married to as both families are all involved. My girlfriend has had a bad past. She was once abused and all but then I was able to help shape her when I got into her life. I have been there for her in my own little way but lately, she has not been behaving too well and I am not happy about that fact.I will itemize these:

1. She once borrowed her friend her school fees to rent an apartment with the promise the friend was going to pay her back before exams started. Her friend failed to pay her back and I had to provide her with the money in order not to miss her exams. Note, the said friend is a female.

2. Second semester, her pops gave her school fees which I saw the alert. Yea,she travelled down to see me from Lag and she spent some but then I told her she would not have spent her school fees to come see me. Infact at that time I never knew she was going to come because I was sick but she did. So I told her not to touch her school fees again that I was going to refund her the money. She left and I refunded. I paid her flight back to Lagos.

I later found out my girlfriend didn’t pay that school fees. She spent it and when it was time to pay she kept complaining. I was mad at her wondering what she must have used it for. I scolded her and gave her part of the money.(N100k)

3. I have paid several debts for her as she made some mistakes in her online business and was swindled. The most recent one now, she went to get loans from apps online. I don’t even know what would have made her do that as I try assist her when she’s in need. I have warned her severally against borrowing but she went to borrow and now she’s into debt.

I have asked what she used the money for but she can’t even point to one thing. She said she used the initial loan for her personal needs and when she couldn’t pay back, she had to borrow from another app to pay and all. That’s how she kept borrowing to pay another till she borrowed from over 15 loan apps and her debt is running into 350k as at today.

I honestly can’t pay such an amount as I have my own personal problems to carry. I was mad because in the past I have warned her against borrowing and all. Now she’s in trouble and they’ve been threatening her to pay back.

I have told her I don’t have such monies to pay back and even if I had I won’t pay back. I have advised she talk to her parents and siblings about it but she has been scared. I have that money but I can’t pay back as I have more pressing needs to attend to. Since she has refused to tell her parents, I am thinking of telling her parents. I am very close to her family.

This is someone I wanna get married to but with all I’m seeing, I am already having doubts.

She’s from a very good home. Deep down, I love her and she does too. But why these problems, I don’t understand.

Please I seek your advice on how to handle this as I can’t pay such debts. I have done several in the past

Thanks

am sorry bro but you are in a big trouble if you marry her because she's supposed to be ur financial manager, a woman who doesn't know how to spend money wisely would be a big problem in the home especially if she can't account for money she spend and I bet you bro if you go ahead and marry her she will continue to put you in this kind of situation and of cos how do you take care of your children with this kind of situation or woman.....this is bad

VladimirPutiin:
Happy birthday Mummy G.O

Will the redeem church campaign for Tinubu like they did for Osinbajo since Remi is one of their Pastor ??

if I hear!!!

feminist or no feminist, women are ment to submit to whoever becomes their husband and besides I don't know why we go too far looking for solution, let's start from our home we all av parents bar so my question is how do ur mother treat ur father plz let's be frank with ourselves cos am sure is one of the reasons we all came out from a good home because of culture and traditions and also our mothers submitting to our fathers so plz don't let the western world deceive you that ur sanity is still intact and as for the issues of feminism to me I think is devilish cos the bible made us to understand that a "wise woman builds her home but a foolish woman pulls it down with her own hand " so no wonder they are always single awon Feminist....

is now clear that kanu has no evidence against him cos they would have use it to nail him down but is now clear for all to see and again what happened to the sponsors of boko Haram, why can't they release their names and also why are they pardoning bandits and killer herdsman......I don't believe in one Nigeria anymore I pray God intervene, if Nigeria can be structured then no problem but if not then disintegration....

plz Yorubas should leave tribe aside and consider doing what ipob is doing or what ESN is doing cos of what happened at owo and also where are the OPC and amotekun plz you guys can not afford to be toothless, me am from delta state and of cos naija delta militant no dey slack so my people even if our language are different south should unite first and fight until we gain our freedom before we can go our separate ways......plz there's power in unity I tell you if not it will be difficult to fight what the north are bringing which majority of us av no idea....

God bless mazi nnamdi KANU..... Nigeria will definitely split case closed...

Yoruba should do something fast o, those full can't try this nonsense in south south at all cos militants dey wait for them ....by the way what is opc doing since amotekun is toothless, no weapons nothing....

Oga governor dey there, no talk true, see amotekun no proper gun to fight bandit and killer herdsmen plz do something fast cos if not it will be like Kaduna but I hope not, I pray the will of GOD be done, let God rule in our affairs cos we are tired....

honestly am disappointed at what am seeing especially from the south, am ashamed of jagaban to be honest, no wonder the north will keep ruling why because there's no co-operation in the entire south becos by the time you share the vote north wins period so the south west should come together and talk tinubu out of it and pick osibanjo cos he's credible and on per with Atiku in terms of getting vote even me from the south south will vote the prof and plz we don't want any northerner again plz let's work together cos there's power in unity and as u can see the northerners in apc are not saying anything cos to them party does not matter, in their heart they want Atiku and trust me this people are very wise....

xpressionx:
I bet many people didn't know america had this because they don't advertise them.
They thought America stopped developing weapons

America has about 10 wicked weapons that no one knows of,know this and know peace.

it was use during trump era wen they killed Iran's general.....

Tomek09:
E pain am well well
Kpele....cry more

I tell you

Tomek09:
E pain am well well
Kpele....cry more

I tell you

Deborah or Fatima non is good as a nation but truth be told the northerners started it first by saying war against Boko Haram is war against the whole north and nobody said anything to the extent that they spoilt Jonathan's Government and also made him to step down and til today we don't know why he said "My Ambition Is Not Worth The Blood Of Any Nigeria", am against what the they did in the east honestly but you see wen it comes to insecurities, oppression and poverty it was the handwork of the northerners because of their wicked and greedy act....I pray God help us.....

am sorry to say, u're ungrateful....

kenzysmith:
Obi own bad gan , wike own mama be like u come here come shout for me

I swear you no well

kenzysmith:
Obi own bad gan , wike own mama be like u come here come shout for me

I swear you no well

for Finland and Sweden to want to join NATO is enough info that Russia can't take over Ukraine, because which is also a sign that Russia is not that powerful as people portray it to be yes they might av weapons of mass distruction but for those two countries to ignore Putin and want to join NATO just know that they're not scared of Russia maybe except Putin use nuclear that's the only way....

can't we read between the lines that they're through with Kaduna now its Kano they're focusing on, see I tell people that Nigeria has a faulty foundation and that we're not supposed to be together as one in this country, am sure is Christian dominated place they bombed......

I don't believe their rubbish lie and if BBC sit down write this thing, its means they're part of the problem because UK will lose everything, their free oil and exploit of Nigeria, that's why whatever the north does they won't say anything about it or do anything but God pass them because Nigeria will eventually disintegrate and there's nothing anybody can do about it because it is ordained.....

If their sultan wan collect make he collect, nothing concern us Christians... enough of their rubbish am saying it I will still say it again before north go acknowledge or recognize their wrongs it will be tooooooo late for them.....9ja go divide e sure die.

kmarerin:
This Deborah case has changed my perception about this Country. I don't believe this Country was designed to work from the beginning.

Baba na now ur eyes clear.....thank God o

gmb, the biggest disaster that has befallen Nigeria......

successmatters:
The North may never recover from the self inflicted terror they have unleashed unto themselves.

It's a pity.

I said it before and will say it again, before north will realize the evil and atrocities they committed it would av been too late for them.. their cup go full very soon.....

habsydiamond:
The way forward will be separation... If we can't be one or act like one since the inception... Am not sure we can now.. Though every region with their own problems but the northern part are riding the other regions in every aspect and yet we are still claiming we are one... If we are one everything should be done equally in every aspects of this country but that's not the case. They are everywhere in government, in ministries and so on... Even the security problems we are combating in this country begins with them.. It as been said if u can not cater for the poor man's children, one day they won't allow ur own children to eat in peace... It's happening now.. When u give birth to multitudes of children and at the end of the day give them bowls to go fend for themselves, what do u expect in return a good citizens of the country or what

God Bless you for this plz say it out loud let them hear, Nigeria can no longer function as a country cos it has to be divided, the north are the major problem of this country so we need to split this country into two as southern Nigeria and northern Nigeria simple cos they're blood sucking demons with evil religion and doctrine....

wow this is Great and it shows GOD'S GREATNESS, and plz forget science, this is what the scripture says and after all the bible came before science and the bible has been accurate all along so rapture is near the end is near also JESUS CHRIST IS COMING SOON.....GOD PLEASE HELP ME TO MAKE IT O, I KNOW SAY I NO PERFECT BUT PLEASE SHOW ME MERCY......

am not surprised at all, Nigeria as we know it has collapse and trust me things will get worse and I pray God intervene because it will shock so many people that is if there's no civil war in Nigeria, people are angry, student can't go to school, unemployment with insecurities everywhere and yet people don't see what is about to before this country of ours but I PRAY GOD SHOW US MERCY.....

am sorry to say, why do we av to compare what she did to those in the North because nobody is condemning the act though am not saying you should condemn the girl but what she did is an abomination infact it only God's mercy that can save her and for crying out loud we should not compare it to those in the North cause nothing concern us with those people and the moment you begin to compare it means you're defending what she did just like if you don't beat ur own child for an offense commited does not mean I should not beat my own after all we all av our values so she commited an abomination which is a terrible thing to do and before you know it young girls will follow suit which will eventually destroy our society and guys who don't av self control, even the word of God is against it and the bible makes it clear that both the animal and the person involve should be put to death just to tell you how big the offense is but thank God for Grace o I pray God will touch her heart and save her in Jesus name amen.....

RickSanchez:
Thank you so much bro. About the crypto part it's challenging to start now. I'm not in the right head space but I'll try teach you some things. Email me.

and me too please I need a little bit of tutorial too on crypto, coins to buy and coins not to buy...