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It appears that the Nigerian custom service website for online interview is down as at 3:10pm today. Those who made it through the first stage were shortlisted for the next phase. It was scheduled to candidates that made it through the first stage that online interview is today 22 September by 3pm. Candidates are trying to log in and the site appears not to be working.
What could be the problem.
Are you experiencing such, or do you have anyone experiencing such. Leave a comment and tag the appropriate bodies.

Please how can one pay for his Canadian tuition fees from Nigeria.

Which app offers favourable rates

Can you kindly share the app you use for foreign transactions, their rates in naira and charges per transaction.

I want to pay my Canadian tuition fees. I'm looking for the best rates. Thank you

Reading all comments...

I was having couples conversation with my girl. And she told me that she don't want to change her last name after marriage.
She wants us to emulate Olu Jacobs and Joke Silva.

Please what are the consequences of not changing her last name..

Waynesteave:
yes yes yes, you're so damn right. Cuz after my uncle died in 2004 it is the same st Mary's I went to finish my primary cuz I had to go back to meet grandma at village.
But are u sure they will still have that registration considering that time of storing data on paper

You say St. mary.. if indeed it's a Catholic School, I'm 100% sure they still have the records... Catholic keeps records more than Guinness books of record..

If the primary school you attended before your uncle took you out is still functioning. Go there.. they should check your results and probably your registration... You will find the answers u seek

Tell him that you'd like to marry him but not in this condition. give him time.
Talk more with him about his vision and give him ultimatum to get his ass together else you're calling off the relationship...

There must be something about this vase we don't know about. People bidding that high amount on vase knows something we don't know... Maybe it's not ordinary vase as you think

ezenwaez:
Locate the local government area secretariat in your zone.

As batch C stream 1 is wounding up this month. Any NEXIT program for them

ezenwaez:
Send your Npower ID and complaint to Npower twitter handle @npower_ng.

I've done that, yet no response..

ezenwaez:
May stipend had been paid weeks ago.

My may payroll is still showing processing, meanwhile my colleagues have been paid. Why is it taking so long. I use first Bank

Link not working

Demobbb:
Help me please. Me & my husband got into an argument. He said something that made me think he is putting a female friend’s feeling over mine

I guess i got so jeolosy & so angry withought thinking my immediate response was to raise my hand as it to throw something i was holding at him. I quickly realised what i was about to do & i stopped myself. I didnt hit him.

He was shocked too & he just said what kind of a wife is this. He also stated that action shows that i dont value him. I apologised yesterday but i woke up today feeling regret, and shame. Should i apologise again? But then the initial argurment i still feel like he was in the wrong?

My marriage means so much to me. We have come a long way from not having a cent , gave up my career to support his own career, raise our kids. Now he is a successful man . But i feel its now in vain.

I don't care about who is at fault... My only problem here is your last paragraph.. when you begin to harbor such thoughts, you are digging the foundation of your marriage. Once in marriage everything should be centered around family. FAMILY FIRST! And if you regret what you did or you feel it's now in vain, then when an issue comes up, you'd start thinking of solutions outside marriage rather than settling it inside marriage.
Look at the popular actress SHOLA SOBOWALE. She gave up her acting career when she was at her peak for family. Now she's back in the industry doing better than some others that have been there.

Repeat after me! Family over everything.
I will not harbor such regretful thoughts.
I will do everything possible to make my family work
I will not plan any back up plans Incase my marriage doesn't work.
So help me God..

Reason with me too

OMOJOHN001:
I have been Dating this babe for the past three years and it has not been so easy funding the relationship and other expenses, but God do come through and I still do achieve lots each year.

But this year have been so worse on her own part, because as for me my income still comes on a steady but I felt I need more money to do lots of things at the moment.

Since January this year, I have be the one Financing this babe, To an extent that each week I will ask her to go withdraw money and prepare what she will eat throughout that week, But to my surprise her family will join her in consuming the dish before mid week, atimes Wednesday, a times Thursday, and She will start crying again of not having anything to eat, They do not have anything in the house, No gas, no oil, no garri and all sort of Nonsense...

Her family is just to broke, She has a single mother, though her dad is dead. RIP to him,he was responsible while on earth.

She has been loyal, good and supportive to me the best way she can, I don't even have sex with her on regular bases, Reason is that I am on a course in UniIlorin presently and she stays in Ile-Ife so the distance is another issue, but we still see at least whenever we feel like.

Guy's, I am planning of getting a car this year and start a new life in another state, all my effort have been stagnant a bit because of this babe, She does not just have #5 on her own, She's not working because there is no work in ile ife that can fetch her above 12k, unless she wan add olosho to it though and the only work there is Filling station attendant and Hotel work couple with part time olosho.

Ordinary weaving of hair, I will carry it, Every Penney she has spent this year is my money,

Her mom too, lacks maturity. Imagine her having the gut's to demand me for meney as in-law few weeks ago that she's sick, though I sent her little cash sha, but I decided that same day will be the last day she will hear from me, as I have a plan that very day to break up with her daughter this month and I have choosing today.

Guy's I love this babe and I really want the best for her, For the past three years most of her friends have try to convince her that I will break up her heart and Jilt her, But she was adamant and keep believing I will not, seriously I didn't have such thought in my plans for her.

But with her level of reachedness and Level of needs and Demand and I deserve better, I am moving on with my life, My pastor said something in church today as per fathers day... HE SAID PRAY NOT TO MARRY INTO A FAMILY WHEREBY YOU WILL START FIGHTING ANOTHER SPIRITUAL BATTLE OF POVERTY AND BROKENESS. .

I felt so down, cuz the prayer is the definition of my babe's Family. local man is tired, But the only fear and my concern is (How she will be mocked and laugh at among her mates that told her this prophecy before, This babe so much love me and she will cry hell today,).

I am feeling guilty, How will she cope without having an helper, No Father and Mom is useless. She will have no choice than to start fucking dicks up and down to survive, that's certain, and she knows it.

PLEASE HOW CAN I STOP FEELING GUILTY, because she's really put all her hope in me and my plan us to help her with a shop once I am through with my course,but Omo the billing no be here oooo, I will still send her money today to prepare this week food and her family will devour everything again before Wednesday.

What's the best way to approach this issue. Help a brother.

You have tried my brother. But ending this with her isn't the best option, have you tried discussing the matter with her?
Tell her that if you continue spending on her and her family like this, that you won't grow, you want the best for both of you, and she had to do something about her family else you can't bear the burden anymore. I'm sure if you complain, she would hear you out and perhaps admonish her family. If you think you have a future with her, the best thing to do is to move her out from her family. If she can't stay with you, Link her up to squat with a female friend of yours or hers, and she can get a teaching job. (Maybe minders or daycare assistant) while you take care of her there.

As for her people they should get something doing, or are there not anybody old enough to take up that filling station or hotel job or even teaching job? They will learn to survive without her.

You might be giving up a good woman if you end it up.. just try to look Beyond this present situation, think about things that made your love grow. Do you think you can find it in someone else. Cos I think you got her at a very tender age, and getting girls at a tender age (catching them young) and grooming them around your world makes them the perfect partner.

Reason with me too

Noblewealth:
Have said this severally to her, she said if I don't love her that won't stop her from loving me.. Always giving me things freely without even asking.. she's over choking me

Tell her that, if she had used this same energy to chase her husband, she won't be here trying to cheat.


I think you are somehow holding back on things you are supposed to do or tell her, to make her come back to her senses. Just threaten to report her If she continues misbehaving

EmekaBlue:
I want something open before i drop my contact.
你会说中文吗?

我可以用我的翻译器翻译中文

Please I need the job. I can relocate to ogun state

Dreadlock69:
There is this girl/lady of mine , dark tall and good looking, how we started talking and dating was a coincidence ,she was speaking rudely or not fairly to my cousin and I interrupt and cautioned her never to try that or repeat it again cause me get “gbana" for head i know dey take disrespect/nonsense.
she later calm down and became gentle like pikin wey Dem shout for ,after advising her and her later gra gra like I do am bad thing but me know send , how we start dating is a history I don't know how it happened.

Now she got this problem she get very sharp mouth how do I go about it ?
It only when I'm around she tries not to do anything stupid and talk pass herself because I do give her this stare warning eyes and she go respect herself ,like the one wey “ my mama go give me if I wan collect sweet from stranger or person she no like when I dey small".
She always feels she can get away with anything cause I'm around and no one will/dare to touch her .“ she get this kind mindset like nah cultist she dey date nobody got touch am".

My cousin bro and sis sometimes are like I know blame you anytime your husband dey you dey get wings.

She sweet and all to me and everyone but her mouth to sharp and ee dey off me sometimes , how do I manage her behavior I'm a cool / mind my business kind of person.

I see nothing wrong but a perfect relationship. If you can tame her whenever she misbehaves then it's all good, the problem is where you can't control her, and she doesn't listen, then there's fire on the mountain... All aboki with his own kettle

One of the funniest thing I've read on nairaland...

arleck:
This isn't a Nike slide. This is nonsense

Vayolence everywhere, peace was never an option

The headline is misleading, it doesn't depict the story you wrote..