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AudioMonkey:
Don't worry, you'll submit next year.

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Fred166:
My younger sis just rounded up her NYSC, she told me she would like to learn how to bake cake and other small chops like chin chin, puff puff, donut, egg rolls, sausage rolls, e.t.c.. from my wife. Indeed my wife a pro in baking.

I told her that's not a problem, I will inform my wife about it. I even told my sister to come over to my house this weekend because definitely she would be staying with us.

When I discussed it with my wife she said my sister would have to pay, that she's not running a charity organization... I was really mad at her.

She said she would collect 100k (for 6 months learning) from my sister, and she is doing that because of in-law stuff... That I should go and ask her clients currently learning in her school how much she charges.

I offered my wife 50k. She rejected it, she said it won't be enough to buy baking utensils not to talk of baking ingredients. Mind you she sells baking utensils and ingredients.

She also said she issue her clients certificate when they're done learning, she refers customers to them as well...

Please note: I have invested heavily in her business, Infact it was my money she used in starting up her business. Yet she refused to help my sister even with the 50k I offered.

Please is this proper? Is she being greedy? It's really causing serious problem between us. I'm so angry. My younger sister is not even aware of what is happening right now.

You have tried my brother, Talk to your wife. Your younger is coming around is the best thing that will happen to her life right now, make her see reasons that your younger sister will stay in the shop and assist her instead of locking it up. After the delivery, she would definitely need extra hands in that shop.

gypsey:
Rubbish! go and read your so called fairytale bible. There were more wars in ancient days than now. They lived by wars! wars was there economy then.

Jesus doesn't exist, the world will never ever end, you goons claimed this same rubbish during covid lock downs now you are claiming the same rubbish..

What are you afraid of? you don't wanna die and go meet your sky God?

Abeg no quote me again, me and you no get talk

PRE4:
The Bible Said in Matthew 25 that we will hear wars and rumours of wars but the end is not yet come but its a sign that the end is near but at the same time,GOD have given us power to restructure things to our Favour..wasn't it written in your BIBLE?
God hears the cry of his Covenanted children and turn their captivity around just like many instance sited in the Bible.

War is not the only signs of end time currently happening today that the Bible stated.
You can't pray against what God has destined to happen. Even Peter tried to stop the crucifixion of Jesus. God will hear your prayers in other things, that's why I said channel your prayers to other things

This war will definitely end. And so many others will arise. All these are just fulfilling God's word. If you start praying against wars not happening, you are trying to pray against the second coming of Christ.

PRE4:
I pray and decree in the NAME OF JESUS...The living GOD that the war will not lead to a world war in JESUS NAME.
God said the heart of Kings is in his hands..may Good GOD lay a reconciliatory hand on the heart of PUTIN in JESUS NAME.

THIS WAR WONT LAST FOR TWO WEEKS AND THEN DISAPPEAR.
RUSSIA AND UKRAINE WILL SOON MAKE PEACE.

Stop wasting prayers.
In the end times, nations will rise against nations. Abi you no dey see the signs of end times already...
Wetin Bible don talk, is that what you are praying against.

Mbok channel your prayers to other things

Datboredberry:
After going monk, they venture off into the wilderness, leaving behind a society that's been corrupted by 'feminism'...

Sounds good to me... The trash taking itself out...

What would be left; men of higher intelligence, overall good genes, better mates to breed with who aren't scared of their responsibilities, it would be easier to find a suitable partner (less incels, less mistakes and do-overs)...etc

I stand with MGTOW... It's the most effective way to know the irresponsible men with -0 IQ...

It's a slow process... But eventually, the results... It would be worth it!

Mbok what's the meaning of MGTOW

Magnoliaa:
You can see that some of your gender people are confused, lmao. Funny thing is, the guys you're addressing consider themselves alphas and legit redpillers.

You can't claim alpha or head of the family if your responsibility is being shared, what is that thing that makes or qualifies you to be called the head if you need help doing it.
Be the provider, your wife is a helper, she will help you when you are low. And not sharing your responsibility 50/50. As the head of the family, shame suppose catch you if you ever mention such to your wife.
Most of these men, their parents didn't bring them up to do house chores, it was only their sisters doing it. It's now when you are married that you think you can do house chores... Ordinary market to buy things to make food, they can't try it

PaNnamdi:
Women like u are the reason some rich guys treat ladies like bitches and scum
U can't share with a man but u only want to collect.
My wife is not like this,infact from the day one we meet I studied her critically,there where times she even paid for me when I made some purchases without asking.after critical assessment we got married.

Any woman that can't share burden with a man Is nothing but a gold digger because from what u are saying,if your hubby gets into a difficult situation that requires perseverance and patience from you,u will dump him and run away.

To all young unmarried guys out there becareful of women like this that say I can't share problems with a man,I can't carter for a man and he will disturb me at night.this women will run away and leave you miserable when u need them the most.

Ladies like you are better of for baby mamas not marriage.

Well said, but do you and your wife share responsibilities in the house 50/50 or she helps you out sometimes when you are low..

I agree with the OP. Most of all these men saying they want a woman who brings something to the table or share responsibility 50/50, and yet they will be controlling her and telling her what to do and don't do, they forget that once a woman does that (brings something to the table), it revokes you from being the head of the house, you can't make any decision without the approval of your wife. Most of them aren't submissive

Women are built to feel the needfulness of men. And loyalty and submission comes with that as long as you are needful. If they can offer something that you can offer, the loyalty and submission won't be there...
People here quoting white kind of lifestyle and marriage, they don't know that their divorce rate is higher than what we have here. Those men who share responsibilities with the women are the so called SIMP and TAMED DOG who can't even bark anymore.

Location please

onthehill:
A bride has been spotted pushing away a member of her bridal train who was twerking on her husband at her wedding.

Judging from the video, that person is neither the groom nor the best man. Looks at the prints on the jacket of the guy dancing, it's the same prints in that man on native I pointed out with arrow. The bride's reaction too shows it can't be the groom or best man but a family member of the bride, probably her younger brother. She was just catching cruise. Nothing to worry about...

ufotty2001:
Please, I need your advice Nairalanders! I met a girl I love so much 2yrs ago. My plan was to settle down with her but something happened yesterday night. Last year after her birthday, I stopped giving her some stipends reason is because I wanted to pack out from my current apartment to a better apartment and I needed a new laptop for my online business. I needed to save some money to achieve that. So I stopped giving her some cash just for a while. Yesterday, we had misunderstanding and I notice some strange behavior in her. she opened up to me and told me that she is in need of a man that can make her have peace of mind, make her happy and love her but before then I have been suspecting her due to our distance relationship. Sometimes she does not pick my calls and reply my massages.. please! I need your advice what will I do?

Did you at any point tell her the reason why you stopped her stipends? If yes what was her reaction? If no, you ought to have let her know. Some people don't know how to handle such sudden change and from her words, she's one of them. she probably misunderstood the stipends stopped. Maybe as a sign you don't love her, or care about her, or probably you have someone else you are sending it to... Just try to communicate better with her next time. And if she insists on her words, then you bounce..


Reason with me too

Some persons here haven't lived or taken care of old people before and as such, don't know how difficult and annoying they might be. They hate someone telling them what to do even even their life is at risk, only the learned ones can adhere to such instructions. In one way or the other, everyone failed in his or her responsibility.

DroppingLiquid:
You don’t even understand English. All these men from Indomine household. Anything that your wife or gf says, you will just say yes ma’m and do it. I’m sure you will not be able to force your will on your girl. Weakling.

You that can force her to do your will, what if she doesn't do your biddings after all attempts to force her, and you guys are probably married by then, what will be your next cause of action

beauty16:
Hello.....,,

I followed your first post earlier but I didn't comment. Some things are better left unsaid,no matter how honest you want to be. Your number one mistake was telling him you entered the relationship for financial gains. Even dangote will hesitate about it, if he was told that.
Love is synonymous with giving. you can't love a person and not give to that person. I don't know your boyfriend's condition, but from all what he promised you, did you think he was capable of fulfilling them?.
He may just be scared of all the financial responsibilities or maybe he is just being honest. To some extent I think he loves you, but doesn't know what will come next after shouldering your responsibilities.
My advice to you, Try not to go into a relationship for financial gains, so you may not regret it a lifetime and even if you do, never let them know. Just strive, things will definitely fall into place.

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yinkaOdutuyo:
I read alot of sense in this your contributions.

But everybody know that marriage is not a rush in affairs, bro I need to take my time, to avoid regrets. That is why am giving myself some few months. But she staying in her parent's house within this period is a free will to her to do anyhow and an opportunity for any guy to come to her.

You didn't come here to seek advice, cos you have made up your mind already, do whatever you want bro..... What will be will be

Generalwoodz:
Where should I start from ?
My telegram has stopped working since yesterday. I got a message from them that I need to update my app.

I'm in sever pains now because the app won't just update, and I've tried since yesterday like a man trying to sustain an erection to no avail.

The app keep saying "pending" for so many hours on play store. I just can't update it.

How do I make it work?

How's my babe connected to this? Okay. I moderate a telegram channel for one guy from France, and he pays me in dollars weekly.

Now the app isn't working and babe says if the app doesn't work she'd leave me very soon.

Pls, how do I make the app work again?

The problem is from your play store, just clear data on your play store, sign in your Google account again and it will work... Send me card if this works

kapelvej:
Mine is very embarrassing, I get sleep paralysis very often at least once in 10 days. I will just be screaming and screaming and disgracing my self up and down, I wish I can just be quite while it last. I really need help on this

I've been having sleep paralysis from childhood, then I could only shout Jesus in my mind severally before I wake up. I got tired of it happening to me every now and then till I sorted out a solution..
I discovered a solution by God's grace, one that does not involve struggling and shouting.. one time when it happened and I was resisting and trying to shout Jesus, but to no avail, I mistakenly hit my leg on the wall and that was when I woke up. But since then when ever it happens, with my mind consciously awake, I try to focus all my energy, attention and muscle on one part of my body either my fingers or toes. If I can successfully move them, I'd wake up, the movement can be as little as just a tip of the finger or toes moving eg like when a patient recovers from coma, that little finger push, is all I need and I'll wake up. So since then I'm not afraid of it anymore, once it happens I do what I have to do, wake up and then go back to sleep afterwards. I'm sharing this because it works for me, you can try it too..

Mark Zuckerberg and Steve jobs (late). Didn't come from a wealthy home, they struggled so hard for success

nurez305:
fake, nothing happens when fuel finish why working , I have been using my gen since 2016 with no issue and most time fuel finish inside why still working and no happen to it

You might not notice anything but the efficiency reduces, before you know it small small repairs kicks in

Flier:
Why not everyday lol,you sure don't have a generator
I believe he should change it every month or anytime the oil is short

You just open your mouth 'waaaaaaaaaaaa'
Anybody who knows much about generators and how to maintain it would know that you don't change oil only when it is short

Every week, the oil should be changed and try as much as you can not to let fuel dry in it

Where's the location

judatech:
In case you have been wondering what 1billion naira looks like, this is it

Did you know??

If you are to spend 50,000 daily from 1 billion, it would take take you 54½ years to finish it...


Now you know...

FORWARDEVERLY:
First time I am seeing a sensible comment from your handle..

I'm impressed..
Nice one Kid.

Please what is sensible about that comment.. I'm not trying to pick on the commenter but all what he said isn't making Sense.

The rejection is not about women and the hatred for themselves.
And you don't know the kind of job she's applying for, in this case body nature matters.

You asking them to employ her first, what if they do and the stomach doesn't go down.. she got it from pregnancy, and some changes in pregnancy are mostly permanent.

Even if it is modelling, why don't they engage fat people as models and give them ultimatum to reduce to the size they require. Most of those activities he mentioned are what models do to stop them from adding weight.

Her body nature probably didn't fit the job and that is it.. (employ her and tell her to reduce the big tummy my ass)

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ChiefSosa:
It's a physical test ma'am. Looking at his leg(s) is enough to detect. Or is there any other thing you want to detect?
*bows to her too

I just want to ask you this

If you can detect it by mere looking at the pictures of the legs, what makes you think a doctor who has seen the legs physically and even examined it, hasn't detected such and carried out necessary test for confirmation??

Honourable is that you??

You can proceed with the marriage if you have money and I mean plenty money. Science and medicine have improved the world today that something can be done in cases like yours.
Surgery can be done to ensure you don't have an SS child but it's very expensive.. Go go an adequate hospital to learn more. This is 21 century, AS and AS marrying isn't a problem anymore..