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RomanceRe: How Do I Win Back His Friendship? by Reasonwithme2(m): 10:39pm On Oct 22, 2021
AquaPetals:
I will let her reason with you. grin
She says her boyfriend of 6months stays in Abuja but they haven't done intimacy.
I'm thinking she might be a virgin.
The long distance might be killing the relationship, where does she stay? how often does she met with her boyfriend? How often do they communicate?, is she getting the attention she deserves?

She is only attracted to akin because she sees him daily and his good and caring attitude has gotten into her head.

If she hasn't been intimate with her boyfriend, is it why she's craving for attention and Friendship elsewhere?
I understand that Ladies tends to love passionately after intimacy. Once you have had sex with a girl that likes you, you have broken her firewall, the love kicks in and becomes stronger. Infact even if a lady doesn't like you, but constant intimacy with her will cause her to love you, except she belongs to the street.

If truly she's a virgin, she should carefully decides who is worth giving it up for and when.. the trend of the society now is that many guys out there always want virgin ladies, they would go an extra mile to keep her, Guys have this notion that the lesser the body count of a lady, the lesser her chances of cheating.
She shouldn't rush on being intimate with whosoever.
RomanceRe: How Do I Win Back His Friendship? by Reasonwithme2(m): 7:48pm On Oct 22, 2021
AquaPetals:
This story happened to my roommate. She works as an admin officer is a company. She should be in her mid twenties. Her name is Sarah. (An alias)
..........................................
There's this guy in her office. Very cool and handsome. His name is Akin.
So she was always hanging around him. They play and joke a lot in office and always have their lunch together. Whenever they eat at a restaurant, Akin did most of the paying. People used to think they are dating but it's not so.
On this fateful weekend, Sarah asked Akin to take her out for sight seeing, that she was bored. Akin obliged. He took her to a recreational centre and bought ice-cream for her. Then they came back to Akins house towards evening.
At his home, the play kinda continued...she pricked his ears, knocked his head while they watched a movie. Now Akin tried to kiss her and she refused. He tried to touch her boobs but she vehemently disapproved. She told him that she doesn't want a romantic attachments because she already has a boyfriend. He didn't pressure her anymore.
Now recently, Akin has been avoiding her and even when she comes around his office to play, he would shove her away. She has been pleading with him to give her attention as usual but Akin says he just wants them to be greeting as colleagues, nothing else.

Please what can she do to win his friendship back? Should she buy gifts or wine ? Or huh
Firstly, she has fallen for the so called akin. Most ladies don't know how to express their feelings go a guy, they just emit some form of green light and hopes the guy sees it and ask her out. That is definitely what she was doing.
On the other hand most guys notice this green light but would prefer you come plain, with the probability of starting up something with you afterwards. The bad ones that ask you out immediately after seeing your green light mostly tend to take advantage of you. Only very few are genuine.
Secondly, Sarah was lying when she said she had a boyfriend, she's as single as *****. she was trying to put the guy to test. And was surprised things didn't go according to her plans
Thirdly, Akin is a cool guy, he doesn't want someone to friend zone him. So he's quitting all the games you both have been playing, because there's nothing in for him.

So my advice to you is just let the friendship go. He doesn't see any use of the friendship, stop trying to bring back what is lost

OR

You give in to his sexual advances and be hopeful a union will start. I'm saying this because of previous occurrences. Most guys takes ladies serious after being intimate with her. He could fall under that category.


Just reason with me too grin
Jobs/VacanciesScam Job Vacancy by Reasonwithme2(op): 10:07pm On Oct 16, 2021
Please NL!
Help me identify if this job interview is a scam or not. I stay outside Lagos. I don't want to waste time and resources travelling

RomanceRe: Been A Minute Guys by Reasonwithme2(m): 1:46am On Oct 12, 2021
Picture of you and the prime minister of Canada together else I don't believe you
Nairaland GeneralRe: Mention Some Character In People That Shock You. by Reasonwithme2(m):
7victor:
Another thing is Unnecessary wickedness.
OP. Wickedness is wickedness, nothing like unnecessary wickedness mbok. There's not a thing wickedness is necessary else you are trying to revenge
CelebritiesRe: How I Missed An Opportunity That Would've Made Me A Millonaire (check In) by Reasonwithme2(m): 12:59pm On Sep 09, 2021
Notyourtype:
after that day, i encountered similar case multiple times, were by a match will end and will still be available on their site. But you wont be givin the option to play it
I saw that too... But have you checked if it still happens
CelebritiesRe: How I Missed An Opportunity That Would've Made Me A Millonaire (check In) by Reasonwithme2(m): 9:42am On Sep 09, 2021
The person doing that thing in nairabet got so smart and discovered that Some people uses it to win on soccer and it was changed to ice hockey..
CelebritiesRe: How I Missed An Opportunity That Would've Made Me A Millonaire (check In) by Reasonwithme2(m): 9:15am On Sep 09, 2021
Yeah bro it's true.. I have benefitted multiple times from it on nairabet.

A situation where a game has ended and it will be on their live matches... The last one happened 2020 and I was credited though it took months actually, but since then I haven't been following them up..

I think it's one of the staff that is doing that...
RomanceRe: Why Do Most People Think Chubby Men Are Small While Slim Men Are Bigger by Reasonwithme2(m): 10:27pm On Sep 01, 2021
simple250:
Size of gbola not matter na how u use erm cheesy


barbeque griller MUST be a chubby man
My brother.. the size and how you use it matters, bigger penis tend to access a woman center of gravity, which is the point where she gets her faster and maximum sexual satisfaction. Smaller penis might not get to the center of gravity, so it takes a longer period of time to attain satisfaction
EducationRe: The Cheetah Is Not The Fastest Animal: Not What You Think by Reasonwithme2(m): 3:56pm On Aug 30, 2021
Shukusheka:
It is faster only relatively to its body length lol. grin
You have said it all. No need to argue. Drop mic*
EducationRe: The Cheetah Is Not The Fastest Animal: Not What You Think by Reasonwithme2(m): 12:58pm On Aug 30, 2021
Shukusheka:
What makes you think if the Termite is as big as the cheetah, it will retain the same speed?

And stop with the exaggeration, no organism in this world is 10X faster than a cheetah.
Read the content of the image below and tell me what you understand.
Note.... The source is Wikipedia,

Based on the criteria for comparison. It is faster than any other living organisms. More than 10X faster than cheetah.

EducationRe: The Cheetah Is Not The Fastest Animal: Not What You Think by Reasonwithme2(m): 8:09am On Aug 30, 2021
Let me educate some people here..

Cheetah is the fastest animal on land.
Peregrine falcon is the fastest bird.
Black marlin is the fastest animal in sea.

But they are not the fastest organisms.. the fastest organism on earth is a termite (southern Californian termite) which is 10X faster than a cheetah.. it is not considered an animal. That's why you don't see it in the record. If the southern Californian termite was as big as the cheetah, it will most definitely beat any living creature in speed.
What OP said is correct.
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Satellite Runs Out Of Fuel In Outer Space! by Reasonwithme2(m): 11:34am On Aug 23, 2021
Satellite uses fuel as propellers only to initiate thrust to the direction of the antenna. After the movement is initiated, it continues in that direction with solar energy installed in it.
So yes they use fuel and they also run out of fuel
Jobs/VacanciesRe: UBA Aptitude Test: What To Expect? by Reasonwithme2(m): 7:33am On Aug 07, 2021
rosalieene:
I just got a mail to proceed to the next stage.

Congrats guys
Please screenshot of how the mail looks like
Jobs/VacanciesRe: UBA Aptitude Test: What To Expect? by Reasonwithme2(m): 5:11pm On Aug 03, 2021
ditha:
I have 2018 past questions too
Kindly please forward it to my mail
coolcashcollins@gmail.com. thank you
Jobs/VacanciesRe: UBA Aptitude Test: What To Expect? by Reasonwithme2(m): 5:10pm On Aug 03, 2021
Alyssaaella:
just study the past question. Sent
can you please forward to my mail.
coolcashcollins@gmail.com
RomanceRe: My Watsapp Chat With A Hooker by Reasonwithme2(m): 8:38pm On Jul 25, 2021
SmellySperm:
With your battery level of 1% grin
Some things are worth dying for... grin grin
RomanceRe: Did She Cheat?? by Reasonwithme2(m): 8:57am On Jul 25, 2021
Opemiposii:
wow.. 8years of relationship.. o.k.. tell me you have never cheated on her all these years
What are you driving at? undecided
Jobs/VacanciesRe: K by Reasonwithme2(m): 10:33pm On Jul 21, 2021
chiefibeto:
I'm actually seeking appointment date with the polish embassy, to get call through to them is not an easy task, but it is achievable( call them unrelentless) .. If u are able to book the appointment on my behalf, d 40k is yours

Means of appointment booking is strictly by calling.. No email allowed or text messages.

Help a brother


Thursday 8:55 am to like 11:20am.

The earlier the better
I'm in. So what next
FamilyRe: Confession Time - Have You Cheated? by Reasonwithme2(m): 10:52pm On Jul 13, 2021
misskemi70:
Need a toy boy for 2 weeks. Pay is high Need a toy boy for 2 weeks. Pay is high
Go and buy toy from the toys shop.. they don't sell toys here undecided
Romance4 Ways To Keep Your Honeymoon Vibes Active by Reasonwithme2(op):
The honeymoon phase: You know that euphoric period of time at the beginning of a relationship where your partner seems perfect and you can’t keep your hands off one another? Fast forward a few months (or sometimes years) and that initial spark begins to fade and those feel-good chemicals start to wear off. What then? Today, I share why the honeymoon phase is so intoxicating, why our feelings change over time, and how to strengthen your relationship so that it survives the initial fading of happy hormones.

The honeymoon phase lasts about 6 months to 2years in average. when you are falling in love with someone, It changes what happens in your brain and body. Neuro transmitters responsible for love like oxytocin, dopamine are flooding your brain and the physical and psychological response of our body feels like we are on drugs.

Looking at the neurological response to people on cocaine and people falling in love, it was pretty much the same thing.

Here are some recommendations to keep your honeymoon active.
1) Talking about your sex life and fantasies: communication is pretty much everything. After sexual engagements, discussion about the sexual performance and pleasures derived should be communicated to give room for improvement where necessary. Talk about what turns you on and share some of those fantasies you have with your partner.

2) Find out what you guys are both into: <a href="https://www.operanewsapp.com/ng/en/share/detail?news_id=f852bcd35c15e377be20c4e8fb278a19&news_entry_id=s197f34d9210711en_ng&open_type=tanscoded&request_id=news_0cba412c-c7eb-4624-b67c-2a7bf86f6a70&from=news"> Readmore </a>
RomanceRe: For Long Term, Who Among These Two Ladies Will You Go For? by Reasonwithme2(m): 9:23pm On Jul 09, 2021
Your detailed description shows the one you like and prefer
RomanceRe: How Pressure Makes Women Susceptible To Temptations by Reasonwithme2(m): 9:06pm On Jul 09, 2021
I won't dispute the fact that women are being pressured, but it's worst in cases of men.
RomanceRe: How Pressure Makes Women Susceptible To Temptations by Reasonwithme2(m): 9:03pm On Jul 09, 2021
Quality20:
thats y I trust my local fulani women , they would rather work hardest to provide for themselves n d children than give in to prostitution.
What are you saying, it's obvious you don't know them,
Try approaching one with enticing money, and see if she doesn't give in.
HealthRe: Help Doctors In The House... WARTS Infection Is Killing My Friend by Reasonwithme2(m): 11:15am On Jul 09, 2021
Back then a friend of mine opened up to me about this warts when it developed and later on he told me it was gone..
When I asked him the treatment he used, he said powder.. ordinary powder.. maybe it was still in its early stage, that's why the powder worked..
PoliticsRe: Uzodinma Gives ₦5M To Each Of The 21 Police Officers Killed By Unknown Gunmen by Reasonwithme2(m): 8:59pm On Jul 03, 2021
The headline of this post is funny,
Did the dead policemen come out of the grave to collect the money or their families
CelebritiesRe: Ibadan Man Destroy House He Built For His Girlfriend's Parents After She Refused by Reasonwithme2(m): 11:35am On Jul 02, 2021
Maybe he doesn't own the land that's why he destroyed the house..
RomanceRe: Someone Save Us From The Hands Of The Federal University Of Technology Owerri by Reasonwithme2(m): 12:00pm On Jun 21, 2021
MrAligator:
There's someone even following up on it for me but still it's taking so long. When you meet this same people who work here they will blame the president for the situation of the country while they are doing worse in their own small sphere. Na we dey do ourself cry
Try and do it yourself, cos I know it's not supposed to take long,
I assure you, it won't take one week if you meet the right persons involved, hold small cash to ginger them
RomanceRe: Someone Save Us From The Hands Of The Federal University Of Technology Owerri by Reasonwithme2(m): 9:32pm On Jun 20, 2021
MrAligator:
Some couple of months ago I applied for a transcript from the Federal university of technology Owerri, hoping to use the transcript to apply for an admission into a University abroad but now it’s been months gone and yet the transcript is yet to be ready and no news as to when it will be ready. A colleague of mine also applied for a transcript from the University of Lagos and she said she got the transcript within a couple of days as it was even done online. Now i am asking the federal university of technology Owerri;

why does it take so long to release the transcript of students even after one must have paid such huge sums?

Don’t you want those who have graduated from your school to further expand knowledge by furthering their education in other schools?

Why is no one taking responsibility for this?

Do you have any idea how much people have lost because of this delays?

I would seriously like the management of this school to sit up and do the work you are been paid for because this is really sad and at the same time annoying that a whole federal University would allow such delays.
When applying for transcript in some Nigerian university, it is something you have to follow up every single day till you have gotten it. If you just apply and make payment and then sit at home, hoping for things to get done for you, you would likely wait forever. Just travel down to the school, make sure you follow them up bumper to bumper, and in less than a week, you'd see it..
FamilyRe: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by Reasonwithme2(m): 6:40pm On Jun 16, 2021
yum01:
See guys I have erred and I am trying to do better . No matter how we see this I am at fault and I am not the type that blames the devil for anything , I take responsibility.
My first child is a girl and recently I imagined what I feel if her husband is treating her the way I am the mother .
I told my side chick the same day that ha m done, alto she is still begging but I don’t think my home is worth the bullshit I am doing .
I have erred and just trying to be better . Like some people said it has always been in me and waiting for when to manifest . We married virgins guys , I never double dated as a young man and now I wonder why I am like this .
I will do better.
Thanks a lot . I deserve whatever you throw at me here .
I like the fact that you acknowledge you are at fault,
The reason why you don't feel attracted to your wife is because of a decline in your spiritual Life.

Forget all those people telling you it's normal, it's not normal and it's a big sin, you violated one of the ten commandments.
Seek forgiveness from God, and go back to your spiritual Life, when looks doesn't matter, you would definitely feel peace.
You are a good man, that's why it hurts you when you are doing wrong, so stop the acts, be more spiritual and carry your wife along if she isn't, everything will be alright..

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