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TravelHelping New Nigerians in Diaspora by RedCapChief(op): 9:48pm On Mar 02, 2015
I'm so not sure what to title this...if any of the mods has better title, then fire on

Year after year, people all over the world attempt to migrate to developed countries in search of the golden fleece. Many are coming from developing or underdeveloped countries and they intend to become ambassadors of their familes and communities, remitting hard currency to the hungry mouths they have left behind. When a young hot-blooded man from Nigeria realises that the minimum wage in the United Kingdom is about £6.50 an hour, the calculation that he could make nearly a thousand pounds every month is enough to spur him to sell his father's house and get a one-way ticket to come to 'jand and hustle'. After all, 1000GBP can make over 300,000 naira. Imagine making 300,000naira over 12 months!!! By the time he comes back to Nigeria, he should be a big boy.

The Travel pages of Nairaland are replete with individuals who are desirous of leaving Nigeria for anywhere. I literally mean anywhere. They will literally go anywhere in the developed world, from Quebec to Copenhagen to the faraway lands of Adelaide and Brisbane. There is absolutely nothing wrong in seeking for a ticket to a better life. Yours truly was (and is still) also a silent devourer of pages of Nairaland Travel information and I'm grateful to God everytime I think of my PR card resting somewhere.

The subject of this my write-up is mainly about the poor Nigerian éspirit de corp among Nigerians in the diaspora. I'm familiar with the attitude of the Indians and the Caribbeans in this regard. From my observation, it is so much easier for a Jew or and Indian or even a Somali to be 'helped' into the United states than it is for a Nigerian to make the jump. Even when they settle, they assist each other to get jobs and all other support mechanisms they'll require. Let's call our new Indian immigrant, Rajesh. Rajesh is filed for by an Uncle/Aunty in Ohio. He comes into the US and starts living with his Uncle while working at the petrol station of his Uncle's friend. Rajesh continues to climb, go to school, gets a degree and opens a restaurant where he can employ other new Indians who migrate. . .OR . . .Rajesh is smuggled into the United States and his relatives quickly find a legally landed immigrant for him to get married to. Some years after the marriage, Rajesh gets his green card and the marriage is dissolved, everybody is happy and the Indian community is +1. . . OR. . . Rajesh's uncle travels fro Houston to New Delhi to adopt all his Uncle's children. The children, who understand the sacrifice being made, study and make a success of themselves. Later, they file for their parents who are getting old and would benefit from American healthcare.

I understand the plight of many Nigerians who are reluctant to help other Nigerians migrate to better climes. I have heard of a few cases where Mr. A gives Mr. B his documents to work with and Mr. B goes ahead to put Mr.A in soup by getting in trouble with the law. The one thing you do not want to do is get in trouble with the establishment. They keep records and on the day of judgement, you go hear am! Many people who are sponsored, arrive and lose track of why they are in the States or the United Kingdom and they fall by the wayside, doing drugs or chasing some of those delightful destiny-destroying Jamaican girls. I have no problems with those who avoid people like this.

However, a candle loses nothing by lighting another. You may not have the resources to file for somebody, but ask questions about your relatives. That your brother's son who has just landed in the US, can you help with accommodation? Are you actively seeking for employment for the child of your kinsman who needs a job but doesn't know how to plough the system. Why not encourage your female relative to come to the United States and Canada and have that her baby? You should also provide financial encouragement o! The truth is that there are many Nigerians who just want to come and work hard. They want to maximise the opportunities availed to them by the system. It is not enough to sit in your fancy house in the US from January to November, then come back to Nigeria for Xmas, sharing small small dollars everywhere.

There are many ways we can help our nation grow. As destitute as Somalia is, it still receives millions in dollars in remittances from Somalis working in the United States. It is not only Senator Obanikoro that should benefit from having Nigerian & American citizenship, we can do it too.

Ka Chineke mezie okwu


ps: to all the NLders working hard to find legit means of finding a better life outside the shores of this house of Lord Lugard, may God bless your hustle
TravelRe: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by RedCapChief(m): 2:44pm On Feb 28, 2015
ccaramel:
Having lived 15 years in Toronto/ Calgary. Beelon1020 is absolutely correct. You guys that immigrate to Canada from Europe ( mostly fake refugee claimants grin) always complain and can't cope here because you don't have a plan and mix with people that can't give you sound advise. Get away from the Jane/ Finch crew and mix with bright minds. I came to Canada as an international student for undergrad without knowing one person in this country. You can get a good car for $1000 max if you have the right links( bought a car within a year and had own basement apt working just a student part time job) you can Rent a very clean 2 bedroom apt/ condo. $1200 max per month Or not so clean for about $900. All utilities included. Heat in winter, ac in summer, water, hydro, laundry.

The best option is the skilled worker program or Manitoba provincial nominee program. You become a PR upon your arrival in Canada and entitled to free health care, local tuition fees, no need of work permit. It will be very expensive coming as a student. You pay for healthcare out of pocket which is pricy and you pay intl student fees and you can't really work full time. Everything you need to make a decision is at www.cic.gc.ca don't let anyone discourage you. It's yours to discover. Canada is a great country! O Canada, we stand on God for thee grin meanwhile the cold is BRUTAL o. -35c just the other day...Arghhh. Nigeria will always be home anytime.
Get away from the Jane & Finch crew grin grin
TravelRe: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by RedCapChief(m): 5:11pm On Feb 26, 2015
irridemi:
Thank u so much, I really appreciate this very insightful. My sis in law is in Vancouver and she stays with her fellow course mates, so we can't even stay with her and from what she suggested Ontario or satsachewan are good province for us. Am an auditor by profession that's why hubby wants me to follow him and work while he enhances his skills. The course he wiLl be going for costs around 15,000 to 20,000dollars for the whole programme, so u are saying we should av additional 20,000dollars for upkeep?. Thank u once again, God bless u
Yes Ma'am, you'll need between 15,000 -20,000 CAD on ice after paying the tuition; if you want to make the plunge. You probably will not get a job as an auditor immediately, so you will need a survival job. You need to start NOW to find out how foreign-trained auditors can fit into the Canadian system.

Keep exploring other options and may God bless your hustle.
TravelRe: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by RedCapChief(m): 4:28pm On Feb 26, 2015
Speaking as someone who has actually been to Canada, I can tell you that:

- Canada is a beautiful country. When I travelled, it was so cold but yet everything worked - light, water, roads.
- Canada is an expensive country. If you don't have 20,000 dollars on ice, don't migrate. I'll advise you to take a 'testing the waters' trip first. Tell your relatives to invite you and see what it is like. Another very important factor is accommodation; tacitly ask your relatives if they can accommodate you for six months. You find out that good housing can be bloody expensive, nearly 1800 CAD in some areas of the Greater Toronto Area.
-What happens if the working spouse is not able to make enough money to pay the bills, and the studying spouse is draining the saved up cash?
- An amazing advantage is that any child you give birth to in Canada becomes a Canadian citizen. You will even get some government benefits on top the pikin head.

In all, I really wish you the best as you mull this decision. Get a lot of information, ask a lot of questions and save a lot of money. But, don't jump into the water with both feet!
FamilyRe: Funniest And Craziest Things You Did When You Were A Kid by RedCapChief(m): 9:46pm On Feb 17, 2015
When I was in Primary 2, I had 'gastrointestinal emergency' after the morning assembly. After struggling(and failing) to hold it in, I had to let it rip in my shorts.
Long story short, I had to run from one corner of the school to the other clad in just my white little boy pants. If you had looked out of your classroom window that day, you would have seen a little lad running as fast as he could to the wash house.

Needless to say, I did not win 'Mr Primary 2' that year grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: How do I see her again? by RedCapChief(op): 12:44am On Feb 08, 2015
I'll be off for a bit to conclude this wonderful experience.

Who moved my thread from Romance to General. sad

Is this experience not romantic?

@farano, do the needful
Nairaland GeneralRe: How do I see her again? by RedCapChief(op): 12:38am On Feb 08, 2015
Part 6

The entire exchange had taken less than 10 seconds but was intense. She thought I was fine. I thought she was fine. There would be nothing wrong in hanging out to discover whether we had any other similar interests.
Itire road was much freer than Akerele Rd, so I got to LUTH in less than two minutes.
As I got down from the Keke Napep, I looked at her to see her alight

She didn't come down. I just stared at her with a funny expression on my face.

Before I could say 'Jack and Jill', the driver fired up his machine and sped off. The only thing I could muster was a goodbye wave.

Apparently I had presumed that she was going to drop off at LUTH. Apparently I had presumed wrongly. Initially I wanted to walk to the final bus stop because it was nearby. In the end, I decided against it.

It was a heavy-hearted individual that walked into LUTH that evening. I kept on thinking about her; her simplicity, her diction and the quirky way she stuck out her tongue. She even told me i was good-looking.

How was i ever going to find her againhuh
Nairaland GeneralRe: How do I see her again? by RedCapChief(op):
Part 5
We continued to move on as we came out unto Itire Road. Another passenger alighted leaving her as the sole occupant of the back row. I had now made up my mind to 'follow up' this pretty lady when we got down.
At this point, I assumed she was going to LUTH which was also where I was going.

Few minutes to my stop, she tapped me.
I turned back to hear her lovely sing-song voice.

"Hello, I think you are very good-looking"

WHAAAAT!!!!

In all my twenty something years on God's green earth. I had never had a female not biologically related to me tell me anything like that. But now my pretty crush was telling me say 'I be fine boy'
I honestly didn't know what to say but I recovered my senses to say
'Thank you. You are very pretty yourself, even without ear-rings'.

Yes, she wasn't wearing any ear-rings and she still looked banging.
She smiled at me and I faced forward. I couldn't start any reasonable convo inside a Keke napep. Inside my head, I was singing 'Hakuna Matata'
Nairaland GeneralRe: How do I see her again? by RedCapChief(op): 8:47pm On Feb 07, 2015
Part 4
Trafffic lightened a bit and we picked up a bit of speed. One of the passengers alighted at his stop leaving only two people in the back seat. 'Cynthia' stayed put in her spot. Part of me wished she would move a bit so that our little game would stop; but that was only part of me
I was now looking everywhere but at the mirror. Being in the front seat and avoiding looking at the mirror is like trying to avoid people touching you at a crowded market. It was near impossible. Sometimes I would make mini-glances as I swept my eyes from one side to the other - sometimes accidental, sometimes to see what she was doing. Sometimes we would make contact, sometimes we wouldn't. I lost count of the number of accidental and deliberate looks.

Then, I adjusted my sitting position ever so slightly and saw her braiding her black and yellow hair attachments in the mirror. She was looking elsewhere and then she turned to look at me looking at her. I don't know why I didn't turn away at this point. She just gazed at me. Then after some seconds of more eye contact, somebody turned away. I can't remember if it was her or me.

It was like she was mind-phocking me.

I found her very intriguing and was even rehearsing a bit of the stuff I would say to her when we alighted. I definitely knew I was attracted to her
Nairaland GeneralRe: How do I see her again? by RedCapChief(op): 8:21pm On Feb 07, 2015
Part 3
When we crawled to the area near Havana hospital, I was morbidly afraid of looking in the mirror again so I kept my eyes fixed to the side of the road, just looking at pedestrians and wondering when the road would open up a bit.
Then, another tricycle crawled up. Apparently, she knew another girl in that keke napep because that person called out to her.
''Cynthia" (That isn't her real name; for privacy sake)

'Cynthia' - so that is her name

'Cynthia' turned and waved upon recognising the person calling her. Apparently they were friends because she then stuck out her tongue at her in a very 'cute-ish' girly way and laughed. I was watching all this because i had been watching the side of the road and the mirror
I found the tongue thing she did very funny and I smiled a bit. When she caught me looking after turning away from her friend, I felt like the proverbial kid who had been caught with his hand in the cookie jar. I knew she knew I was looking at her. This one don pass 'accidental eye contact'
She then looked down her top and adjusted it. I felt she thought I was looking at her chest, even though she wasn't particularly showing any cleavage.

The only thing worse than being caught checking out a fine girl is when the girl thinks you are staring at her chest or derriere. I made up my mind to make an apology to the girl for creeping her out when we got to where I thought was her stop.
Nairaland GeneralRe: How do I see her again? by RedCapChief(op): 7:51pm On Feb 07, 2015
Part 2

Traffic was heavy and we were snailing through the traffic jam. Sitting beside the driver is always uncomfortable because there is always a bit of your rump that hangs in the air. Even though I'm not a bulky dude, I had to adjust periodically during the ride to relieve the discomfort.
After one of my adjustments, my eyes honestly wandered to the mirror because my new seating position prevented me from looking straight up at the road. Then, honest to God, our eyes met in the mirror again. Chai!
This time, I was sure she caught me. Maybe the first time I was 'scoping' her but this time was definitely not my fault. I was sooo embarrassed. This time however, she was the first to avert her gaze.
She then rested her hands on the metal barrier that demarcates the passenger row from the driver row and humming as if listening to a song from an invisble ipod. I couldn't lean back properly because that would mean resting against her arms. I was feeling more discomfort, but somewhere deep in my head, I kinda liked all the tension
At this point we had gone about 20% of the journey
Nairaland GeneralHow do I see her again? by RedCapChief(op):
I had a weird experience some days ago. It was one of those experiences that messes your day (or even your week), because you can't stop thinking about it. If this experience was a movie script, I wouldn't know what to title it. I'm not even sure which segment of NL to post this in. I had to create a throwaway account sef.

Let me tell you about it.

Where did it happen? - In a keke napep (tricycle) on the way from Shitta to Idi-Araba, Surulere

When did it happen? - One uneventful evening, the day after APC shut Shitta Roundabout for a rally.

Principal actors - 'Myself', 'Her' and the tricycle mirror shocked

Part 1
I was the last person to board the four- seater keke napep and thus, I had to sit beside the driver at his right hand side. Anybody familiar with a keke napep knows that there is a mirror at each side of the machine. Anybody sitting beside the driver can look into the mirror and see the person in the backseat. Sometimes, if the physics is just right, it can become a two-way, with the person at the back looking at the person beside the driver via the mirror.
The driver then proceeded to collect the fare from all his passengers . Maybe it was the way she said 'Thank you' to the driver after collecting her balance/change that made me look in the mirror to see the owner of that sing-song voice. (After all, not everybody says 'thank you').
I looked at her for a bit. She was pretty(but not in the conventional sense) and 'full-bodied' grin . Let me describe her for a bit. She barely had any make up on, yet, she would command a second look if she walked down the street. She had black-and yellow hair braids up to shoulder level.
Before I finally turned away, she looked up from tucking her money into her bag and looked at the mirror where our eyes met shocked. I quickly turned my eyes away. I didn't want to be accused of staring. Besides, innocent eye contact between two people happens all the time, doesn't it.
The driver kicked his engine and we started moving.

EDIT: Mods abeg, help me move my thread to the appropriate section.

Cc: ishilove, lalasticala

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