blinking001: Leave her alone and move on. Please for the sake of your own sanity let her be and move on. Trust me they'll always be a thought of her cheating whenever you two are not around each other. Besides the thought of her past deeds will always hunt you.
This is very complex. Men are wired differently from women.
Women love they game of you cheat, I cheat. No man should ever play that silly game.
The thought will continue to haunt the OP for the length of the union.
Op have you ever even thought of the following:
What if she had multiple orgasms in the few stints.
What if the guys dinkum is longer and curvier than yours
What if she quickly inserted back the dinkum into her portal when the guy was fumbling around the entrance.
Maybe she is still retaining dna material from those guys because they went in raw.
Do not proceed unless you seek proper counseling from an elderly person you trust or pastor.
Cheating is bad and pre marital sex is still wrong.
You are not a saint for sure, but a girl cheating 2 times is worse than a man cheating 15 times. Don't let people confuse you with equality.
That is why the good book said leave the bed undefiled.
Guys, pay close attention to this and all the redpill posts on here. I would agree some posts do sound toxic and bitter, but that is not the end point.
Try and understand the mindset of an average modern woman and try not to get entangled in their antics by volunteering yourself in their model of what they call dates, romance, besties, boyfriends.
These aforementioned areas are their playing fields where the will drain your MEATS Money, Energy, Attention, Time and Sanity. Their Machiavellian nature is a survival trait to make up for the lack of strength and their small frame. Stipulate how you want to deal with them and make it fair otherwise they will manipulate you till kingdom come.
LordReed: You find this worse than telling children boys who love boys are worthy of death? Instilling hate and contempt in young minds is better than Instilling acceptance and love?
Where do homosexuals tell people that pleasure is more important than anything else?
Go to California, NY, Greater Toronto Area. There are school curriculum for the young minds
redcliff: until they go and loot the store, keep your analysis to yourself. What happened here is that a pregnant black woman was shot in a not so needed scenario which has far less impact than an individual who went to a school and killed over 10 poeple and you are here saying there is not a fundamental cultural problem with institutional racism and how black people are perceived as less human anywhere in the world. If you have not travelled outside Nigeria before please let us hear word. Even in the same Nigeria, you are being racially abused by the Lebanese and Chinese... Shiiiiiiiiii*****
People got overly emotional and started throwing the racism card in the air. Being a police is one of the riskiest job anywhere in the world police are overly portrayed as evil trying to maintain peace and order from the defiants of the society.
These are the ignored details:
A career criminal She does not physically look like she was pregnant and no medical test has confirmed if she is pregnant. Had a gun on her hand Refused to surrender or corporate with the cops Tried to aim at the police officers with the gun The male accomplice fleeced the scene
LordReed: LoLz! Are gay people asking you to become gay or are you attracted to it? How is the promotion not good? Like the environment gets destroyed because gay people exist or some other disaster happens? And what do you mean by not sustainable?
Catching them young approach. Teaching little kids it is okay if a boy loves a boy or a girl finds another girl appealing.
Telling young minds pleasure is more important than anything.
redcliff: until they go and loot the store, keep your analysis to yourself. What happened here is that a pregnant black woman was shot in a not so needed scenario which has far less impact than an individual who went to a school and killed over 10 poeple and you are here saying there is not a fundamental cultural problem with institutional racism and how black people are perceived as less human anywhere in the world. If you have not travelled outside Nigeria before please let us hear word. Even in the same Nigeria, you are being racially abused by the Lebanese and Chinese... Shiiiiiiiiii*****
What happened here is that a pregnant black woman thief was shot.
What makes you think I'm even Nigerian? People deliberately do wrong things and expect to be pampered. She knew the consequences of what she was doing and need not cry foul if things go awry.
redcliff: it had to be a black woman but an armed white male will come out alive.
Do black people have to commit crime? There are consequences for bad behaviour. She was not shot because she was going to the library or church not because she's graduating first class. She was doing something foolish. Now the Black Lesbians Matriachs (BLM) will encourage some silly black folks to go and loot the stores.
FalseProphet1: All the Nigerian girls I know in Canada are all above 30 and still single. One even came back to Nigeria last December for the sole purpose of finding a man.
The problem here is guys over there are doing menial jobs to survive, while the ladies are schooling, so by the time they're done with Bsc, Msc PhD...etc. the guys would be to low for their standard, and white guys who they hope to settle down with just wants sex with them, so they'll end up coming back to Nigeria to find a man.
JovialJune: Men started the cheating process for years saying polygamy is the black man's nature bla bla bla, women took the template to a whole new level yet y'all be tripping? Una never start, women cheating has come to stay because we are also polygamous in nature, know this, accept it, and know peace
Women can be promiscuous which they are the moment they are not moderated. They cannot be polygamous. Maybe when abortion is fully legalised and birth control pill turns to candy you can house four men and take turns on them every other night without mother nature not dealing with your womb.
Guys the cats are out of the bag already, brace yourself be ready for devolution
kazyhm: The problem and the solution is you and your brother..
No dey allow women dictate for you either directly or emotional....
And you also no dey talk about your brother anyhow in the presence of your wife.
From my experience, women are most often times mischievous, the most painful aspect of their chaotic misbehavior is that, they have no end game nor anything tangible to gain for herself, you and the family as a whole.
So therefore, men/husband need to hold there ground very tightly in order not to be drawn into aimless misadventures by their women.
You and your brother should instruct the wives to stop the nonsense, else (state the consequences).....
You said it well. When women take control chaos ensue.
I'm from what is considered a "good family" but there's still rift from 1980s cropping up in 2022 because the men refused to chaperone the women and put them in order, all in the name of 50/50 equal partnership.
elated177: You really are advocating same-sex sexual relationships. Actually, homosexuality will always be one of the worst things that any human being will ever engage in. Do you know the kind and level of uncleanness associated with homosexuality? It wasn't for nothing that the Creator of the heavens, the earth, the seas and everything in them, the one and only true God, YHVH Almighty, called it detestable and abominable. It is a vile affection.
Spiritually sensitive persons, including those who engage in it, know that homosexuality pollutes the environment spiritually.
Aren't you one of the lgbtwhatever? Aren't you trying to do that here and failing miserably? With what are you going to "flaw" an unimpeachable fact? It is the eternal Covenant - eternal truth, if you prefer. The penis and the vagina are made for each other, as long as sex is concerned. The only hole that the penis is supposed to penetrate sexually is the vagina. Any other hole is unnatural and abnormal. Sticking the penis into the anus is an aberation.
Why didn't you refute the assertion that the anus is not a sex organ?
Why is it not possible for the penis of one male to open for the penis of another male to penetrate during the abominable act of homosexuality? Why do they resort to evacuation of excrement?
Why can't one female use her vagina to penetrate the vagina of the other female during their detestable sexual activity? Why do the still revert or resort to prosthetics and other penis-like objects?
Answer those questions?
If nature wanted two males to have sex with each other, males would have been equipped with both male and female sex organs - penis and vagina. The same with the females - both vagina and penis.
Why is it that between two people of the same sex who are in the abominable same-sex sexual relationship with each other, one acts like the member of the opposite sex? Do you have any explanation here, redpillanalyst?
How would you define an "accomplished" sex?
You haven't said anything.
As a saint, servant and messenger of the one and only true God, YHVH Almighty, the Creator and Father of all spirits, fellatió and cunnilingus are outside scripturally recommended sexual activities. We, the saint, servants and messengers, of YHVH Almighty, of Yahushua the Messiah, do not engage in such. Our mouths and tongues are not for such acts. Such acts are probably the inventions of demons.
Which people would say such? Who are the "they"?
I don't know what you are talking about?
I'm not advocating for any type of relationship, there's no need to throw the homo words on me.
Not all sexual acts turns to reproduction and not all sex acts include vanilla penetrative sex between a man and a woman.
Mouth Gig, anal intercourse and other non-penetrative sex between husband and wife is not condemned in most Abrahamic religion including Christianity and Islam.
Sister Deborah can swallow brother Samuel's Instruments if they are married and they are still bonafide Christians.
Even in Islam the case above is under what is called Makruh, i.e Not Forbidden ( not Haram) and not mandatory (not Halal). It is common sense and It is not just recommended married people who engage in MouthAction have not sinned.