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Guys say no to single moms. Unless the father died or something.



It's a loose loose situation trying to father a ready family. It will never go down well.

Passed out or passed away

It's a bad reagent

How much of a yearly salary you need to spend to afford an iPhone 14:

Nigeria 69%
Bangladesh 59%
Egypt 50%
India 42%
Indonesia 39%
Brazil 28%
Turkey 26%
Kazakhstan 20%
Mexico 18%
China 12%
Spain 5%
UK 3%
USA 1.8%
Luxembourg 1.6%


Putting it in perspective, it would take 8.5 months to save for an iPhone as an average salary earner in Nigeria.

https://twitter.com/stats_feed/status/1569593036547694592?t=6S43lUxd-2ND-ilWq3KffA&s=19

The poster is being realistic and most men are still living in fantasy and delusional world.

Your father was never know for anything in the society, yet you want to miraculously marry Otedola's daughter or someone like Linda Ikeji and expect submission?

Hypergamy is real and you can never negotiate with it. Understand it and embrace it as a natural phenomenon in women.

Most marriages fail because of equal partnership, equal contribution. You can never ever sustainably get genuine respect if your wife is bankrolling things at home at 50%.


Guys need to wake up.

Sinners telling sinners to stop sinning after they are done sinning.

Go ahead

Women's peak fertility years is between 19-25
Women's max age to have a healthy baby is 32


Don't let this Mr and mrs "I'm educated", "She's a minor" mislead you.

Leonard Di Caprio does not date anyone above 25 yet he is in 40s.

Older women are not wiser or smarter they are only more dubious and manipulative than the younger ones.

@satandeterrible and ibkonekt hammered the issue well.

The fallacy of false equivalency. No sane argument can ever be made whenever people equate men with women.

man =/= woman.

A match for a virgin woman is a rich man => ( Ned Nwoke and Regina Daniels)

Quite frankly nobody has respect for an adult man who is still a virgin. Women are highly repulsed down to their DNA by male virgins.

Guys! Don't let society and these succubi mislead you. If you are a man you have above 75% chance of nasty divorce if you marry a non-virgin. The Stats are out there.

Marrying a virgin does not mean perfect marriage, but it cuts a whole whole lot of BuulSheet right off the bat.

1) Some old leaked nudes of your wife. Can you walk up tall and contest for governorship or presidency if your wife's private anatomy is on everybody's phone? Your opponent has campaign material right there?

2) Ex crawling back and still smashing and at times threatening or blackmailing the wife for cash if husband is wealthy. Just imagine your bang mate back in school was either Tinubu's wife or Peter Obi's wife. This a retirement plan if.....(Just think about,,,,)

3) STDs and womb imprinting.

4) Sexual dissatisfaction as a result of desensitization from a series of random instruments in your wife,

5) Trust issue right off the bat knowing your wife had part of her life she will never reveal to you.

Non-Virgins Women and Unaccomplished Men, Have No Business Being At The Altar

Hayee:
cry today, cry tomorrow and cry for ever

Non virgins will continue to marry, it was happening before your mother was born it cannot change now, neither will it change in the future

These are people who are normies. They account for people who still cheat in marriage, paternity frauds, divorce, and bicker every day. Marriage is the entrance ceremony and many fools think hoes will repent and stop their destructive ways.

Ignoramus kneeling down proposing to hoes that were once the town bicycle is not a win.

Dating is a form of prostitution if you thoroughly think about it how we do it.

Dating was considered prostitution and it was a jailable offence to entertain woman you were not married to.

Like I wrote early on one of my old posts

Free sex under the pretense of relationship or dating is the most expensive.

The Return On Investment on dating right now on a sub 200K per month salary is bad.

As banker who is perceived to be 'okay" he will be expected to come solid on birthday gifts, valentine, surprises.

Hanging out cost money, but fools and normies think they are holier than prostitutes or people who pay for prostitutes because they have never paid money directly.


Advantages of Prostitutes:

They are honest and they let you know they are for your money.
Respect your time.
You get premium play for your pay.
They won't cheat on you. Their commitment expires after service delivery.



Disadvantages of Girlfriends:

They are for your money and resources, but will swear that love don't cost a thing.

They Nag.

They Feel entitled to your valuable time.

They still have side dudes and sneaky links.

98% of the time you will not even meet them a virgin.( Not too different from 100% of prostitute that aren't)

She will leave you when better opportunity presents itself.(Just like prostitute will kick you out when a better customer comes knocking)

Dating these modern girls It is half step better than dating a prostitute... Instead of owning and personalizing just lease and move on with your life.

Hoeloshos.

Nothing new here. These are just harlots tuning into false alligators

missyojo:
Honestly you are very correct, they don't understand what the Op is going through at all. Infact that's what I'm facing right now.
Where I live is just 2 rooms on the compound, myself and the next door neighbor. Initially when I moved in there Last year I started hearing moaning from the girl, she lives with her bf. Each time the guy comes back from work they will start oo till day break.
It affected me that once they start I won't be able to sleep again, my BP started going up and I resorted to taking BP medication. Imagine a young lady like me already taking BP drugs.
I complained to my colleagues at work and they told me to call the lady aside as per woman to woman and tell her about it prolly she doesn't know her moaning is loud.

This January when I came back from Yuletide, I called the lady aside and pleaded with her that this is my condition ( taking BP drugs) that she should please try and reduce her moaning while in the act. She promised to reduce, she did that for 2 days oo. The 3rd day I started hearing moaning from her again.

I couldn't take it again, I reported them to their tribal man that lives opposite our house. The man an elderly man promised to talk to them. He did but still the moaning didn't subside. I have no choice than to report them to the landlord. Landlord talked to them on 2 different occasions but still same thing. Infact when landlord spoke to them, they stopped greeting me and the landlord too and I don't care.

One day, the girl was outside with some of our neighbors including the baba I reported them to earlier. I told my neighbors that they should please help me beg the girl and his bf to allow me sleep at night. I'm not saying they shouldn't get intimate oo but please reduce your voice. The neighbors told me that they are in their room and have right to do anything they wish. I said okay, no wahala what I'm pleading for is that they should reduce their volume.

I was using ear pierce whenever they start so I won't hear but it was beginning to affect me so I stopped. The girl has gone back to school for her HND, what the guy does now is to bring in different girls that he sleeps with and the different girls still moans loud like the GF.
What I do now before going to bed is to play music and put it on the highest volume so I won't be hearing their rubbish.

Will get a Bluetooth speaker and put it close to the wall so I won't be hearing them rather than using my phone to play music every night. Till now me and them aren't in taking terms and I like it that way. The money I'm supposed to use do something else is what I'm spending on my health.

I can totally relate with what the Op is complaining of because I'm currently in his shoes

Wow. This is a bigger vawulence-induced moan. I do hope your health is getting better or better get your own man and move away.

debbaron2011:
All past sacrifice is null and void if your continued association does not provide her with a tangible benefit. To simplify, if you cannot help her now, she does not care if you have helped her before. Like daily/weekly/monthly subscription of DSTV, recharge card or electricity bill etc. The moment you can't subscribe anymore, they yank you off the grid for a better subscriber.

You don't build points with women for your good deeds. If you can't sustain giving and charity your points will drop back to zero.

I thought this was Brifaults Law.

Nobody understands the trauma the poster is going through.

The worst feeling in this life is when a girl is moaning and not in your room.

I almost failed a very expensive professional exam when my then roommate brought a Zimbabwean girl that screams and moans when the vawulence was going on.

I had resigned to faith that I would have to write the exams again, but for divine grace and favour I passed.

Olajydeey:
You can't get an STD just by kissing
Lolz

Yes, you can get all communicable diseases by just physical contact.

The golden finger

Olajydeey:
Has he mentioned d drug?

Why are you all looking for drug?

Guys protect your self. The sad thing is women hate condoms. Once a woman parts her leg she doesn't mind what goes inside. You have to use your discretion.

Over 35% of sexually active women have one type of STI or more.

In USA, more black women (50%) than white women (28%) reported a lifetime STD. - Stats from Journal of Women's Health.

The vagina hosts a lot of scary things. The pharmacist and gynaecologists know this truth.

If you know what's on you won't even be kissing any girl without a condom on your mouth.

Cypress042:
If the sidechick has a good character, nothing would have stopped the man from marrying her.

It's funny how some woman think they can trap a man with pregnancy

Most have zero self awareness. Men can bag anything and does not mean automatic commitment.

Men can bang women they hate and zero respect for. Women can never do the same.

It's fairly normal. It's symptoms of very low body count or none.

After getting sloppy toppy from more than 5 girls come back here if you still the symptoms.

LonelyLucifer:
I always commend guys that stay away from free pussy. A free pussy is a dangerous pussy, don't be fooled because there's always a hidden clause somewhere.

Spend your money on clean pussy and make sure you get the worth out of it while it last.

Abi it's a hard to grasp concept for many people.

While I don't recommend patronizing prostitutes, free sex under the pretense of relationship or love is the most expensive.

Birthday gift, valentine, surprises, hanging out cost money, but fools think they are holier than prostitutes or people who pay for prostitutes because they have never paid money directly.


Advantages of Prostitutes:

They are honest and they let you know they are for your money.
Respect your time.
You get premium play for your pay.
They won't cheat on you. Their commitment expires after service delivery.



Disadvantages of Girlfriends:

They are for your money and resources, but will swear that love don't cost a thing.
They Nag.
They Feel entitled to your valuable time.
They still have side dudes and sneaky links.
98% of the time you will not even meet them a virgin.
She will leave you when better opportunity presents itself.

This is a poorly done skit

youngstrow:
was your mother a virgin before getting married to your pap?

@jeromestarks

Simp enforcer detected.

Another man down in Hollywood. His third marriage with a feemale and he still has not realised nothing is about love but the [b]Fee[/b]male

@Omawumi17

Amala Skye is VIP amala, You didn't get the memo that girls don't go there without their Sugardaddy.

Evidence evidence evidence.

Record with your phone camera.

I know few occasions where the woman changed the whole story and she barely got a small smack on her wrist while the investigator got the whole blame even with some flimsy evidence.

If there's no video evidence it does not exist and you might end up looking like a fool.

Study the family dynamics.

The husband might be aware of such or he is henpecked husband, or a simp like someone called it earlier.


There's something they call revenge cheat. This is what some women do, they want their husbands to cheat on them just once so they can have opportunity to throw the marriage open and cheat with whomever they want.
Case in point of this Jada and Will. So your uncle might be aware. Just do your thorough study before you become The Mr Fixit.

phelonrays:
Chai ! Op this your write up no follow na

When did copulation residue automatically got an apartment in a womans gene?

Chai ! Iya-mmi !

It is called Microchimerism.


Even google hides these stuffs from normies.
You will only see what they want you to see.


It is a dirty science. It's old age wisdom that women retain DNA of their demised husband.

You think these women running around swallowing semen, doing abortions and letting random men raw dog them excrete 100% of what is deposited in them?

BDSM and Hybristophilism

Women love dominance and authority not weaklings. This is why you wonder why a woman will go for terrible men.

She is on the dark side of women's nature. Every woman has some level of this her, Some will beg you to please choke her so she will feel like dying and want you to stop when she is about to pass out.

You will get confused if you see the darkside of humanity.

Female hypergamy shot up and male virginity went astro, marriage and stable relationships started collapsing, and even resources needed to get into a decent relationship with an average girl has never been harder since the invention of iphone to Fakebook to Instascam to Snapsham and the last one dikThots.

Some inventions are good and some will bring chaos in ways you can't quickly identify.

Danycrusoe:
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I won't lie, I was taken aback, before I would have showed it but I then went on to tell her how people misjudge me to be perfect and innocent when in fact I have made out with someone in a secluded open space, and also levelled up with some truths and half truths and blatant make up of my sex life so as not to make her feel weird.


In the days of 2go, there was this lady who was extremely naughty with me for over two years. We chat video call and all. I had never had sex then and the day I came out clean like babe I have never had sex before was the day I chopped blocking and lost all connections.


Of course she said something like "and u made me spread my bad side with u all along by pretending what u r not" before she blocked me.

So yep, I'm not making such a mistake again.

Nice analysis by Ubunja as always on this topic.

Female virgins of marriageable age are valuable, respected, scarce and as a matter of fact rare.

Male virgins of marriageable age are seen as losers, women don't respect them as they lack the experience to give them the big O, and as a matter of fact your male friends don't respect you and male virgins are common.

Removing masturbaetion and paying for hookers and lovepeddlers, I strongly believe true male virginity rate among unmarried adult male will be more than 70% now.
The last stat pre-pandemic shows 27%

In my bluepill days, I used to think women who are virgins or lack experience will love to get involved with a virgin male, but the reverse is the case as the poster above revealed. The more experienced, the more toxic you are, the more women want you and the can instinctually smell
your level of experience before you even open your mouth.

Sadly, In the upside world we live male virginity is nothing to brag about.