1) You can shift the marriage forward a bit. Your marriage is starting on a rough path if your wife is aware of it. Most likely won't go well, so be cautious.
2) There is pre-birth DNA Test, but expensive and has to be at a later trimester in the pregnancy.
3) You must be a good man. Women know guys who are good step daddies or good father who won't smell paternity fraud.
4) Fornication never results in anything positive.
Bonus: Where is her dad? Is her mum still married to her father? If she is a single mum. They are both scammers.
Nice write-up, However, marriage in the olden days was not about love, it was about building community and a covert business transaction between families. Man has resources and he is willing to exchange his resources with a young, pure. undamaged lady to start a family and build community with. Most times(not all the time), love would naturally come into play after growing and respecting one another.
Now, it is still a covert business transaction, but we all use love to scam one another so as to sound progressive and new-agey. Women still place priority on finances and resources and men still place priority on youth, beauty, and purity.
Like puritans. All alternative attempts to ignore old ways have largely ended up in disaster. If you are looking for a 50/50 strategic equal partner you are on the path of premium top quality mid-life crisis.
Why are people getting in their feelings like a little girl? @Konjiboii is just reminiscing and catching fun, nothing immature about it. He has not revealed her identity or snitched on her to her "lucky" husband.
By the way, these are the average "lucky guys" we see getting married on weekly basis.
We are just having fun over here. It is not true hate like it is being portrayed here sir. Many of us have relationships and many come here to share ideas and have a laugh before we log out and go back to simping.
Simping is very addictive and not a lot of people can be a true redpiller through and through.
No, they are not the same in the sense that one has been through a storm of penile mileage, the other kept herself despite all temptations.. Virgins are more likely to submit to their husband than non-virgins.. the fact that people dumped a non-virgin girl means she's not a wifeable person..the ability to pairbond is more higher in virgin than non-virgins, virgins are more agreeable than non virgins.. virgins are more happier than non-virgins, non-virgins are more entitled and materialistic than virgins, the hypergamous instincts of virgins are more in check than non-virgins... virgins are more teachable than non-virgins... being a virgin is one of the characteristics of a high value woman amongst other things and so on.. so, how will you even be comparing both together...? it's like you comparing black and white, the difference is clear... if a lady has passed the age of 24-27 and still a virgin till marriage, she's more likely to remain faithful to her husband than a non-virgin...
a virgin woman and non virgin are the same in the sense that... they both require masculine men, they both give shit tests, but more for non-virgins, they both love attention (also more in non-virgins), they both love alpha men, they both have intrinsic value, they both friendzone, they can both use you for your resources if you let them, they both love to be dominated.. a woman, virgin or not can only turn a redpill man into a bluepill if only he wants to turn or he decides to simp not because of the fact that she's a virgin.... even a runs girl go turn a jaguar into a rabbit if he simps or allow himself to be manipulated...
I'm not saying a woman who got married as a virgin can't cheat, but the probability of cheating and going astray is more higher in non-virgins than those who kept themselves...
You said it better People make this mistake and complain later in life. It is not even about virginity or hymen. Men care about this not because they care about bloody intercourse or hymen. It is about self-preservation and trust. A marriage with a virgin has about 80% chance of success and marriage with a [b]female more than 5 bodies has a high failure rate of more than 70%.
People lie, statistics don't lie. 31 percent who lost their virginity as teens divorced within five years, and 47 percent divorced within 10 years. = published in the Journal of Marriage and Family.
Last redpill to understand is women have a very strong attraction toward evil, dangerous and manipulative men. DARK TRIAD PERSONALITY I have come to believe it is ingrained in their DNA. Some people know this truth that is why some cultures chaperone and monitor their daughters because they know their daughters have a deep instinctual attraction to bad guys.
As a challenge, if you can, ask your sisters, your aunts, even your wife or your now girlfriend to describe their first 3 guys in their life you will validate the fact that a good person is the last resort for women.
This is becoming a common thing now. I see some girls in secondary school who squandered their youths on guys who are up to no good because they wanted mysterious, unpredictable guy.
Feminism is a little branch on the tree of Satanism. Satan has infiltrated our culture, churches, mosques and other religious places.
Women will do what you allow them to do and the future is bleak and it will definitely get worse. Weak men paved ways for the foolishness we experience today and men have fallen from grace. When everyone thinks it is okay to commit and marry a non-virgin. Not only that, it is still okay to grace the pulpit and wear a white gown after series of abortions.
Just think about it why would you not do whatever you like if you were a woman. There's no standard for a wife or even a husband anymore and anything goes.
So, not Feminism. Weak men gave in to Satanism and women are just the agent.
BigBashiru: The girls dad passed away when she was less than 2 years old and from my experience, girls without their father around from à young age have SEXUAL FREEDOM like oloshos because theres no strong male figure to restrict it....
True.. Fatherless girls are to be well vetted out before any real commitment. I am yet to see one decent fatherless lady.
But here's the twist. If her dad died when she was young, her fatherlessness was robbed by death. Not that her mama was loud and uncooperative that papa had to leave and not stay with her mama.
If she has a masculine figure around after the demise of her father and she is femine and cooperative give it a try. If she has more than 2 red flags talk to your leg.
BigBashiru: That's not how God or mother nature made...its not the same in the north or in muslim countries...its this way because men failed to assert their rights.... and ur post makes a lot of sense.... most men and women dont realize the reason there are issues in their marriage today is due to the past of both the guy and the girl...
I hv a question for you....by the special grace of God, im well to do guy (financially OK but not rich)... my family introduced me to 27 or 28 yo girl for marriage - the girl is "ready" but unfortunately is from a very poor background..... i am not comfortable with it because i feel she wants to use me as a Poverty Alleviation Scheme but also i feel i will hv a lot to rehabilitate.... Marriage isnt fun for guys....to take those 2 burdens, whats the gain for me!!
I'd recommend you give it a try. However, proceed with caution. If you were introduced by friends or family that's a good way to vet than meeting some random retired whores online or the street.
Marrying down shouldn't be a big deal for men . You will almost never see any woman in your financial bracket ready to settle for you. Hypergamy is okay and you can't negotiate hypergamy.
Marrying an uncooperative LovePeddler is the big deal. Found 2 or 3 red flags. Run.
He was totally confused why she'd do that despite the fact he spent money to support his partner through school and ponder why she would still throw those feet up in the air for another man to inseminate her.
kingthreat: Women 1960 to 1980 — Marry them and sleep with your eyes closed Women 1981 to 2000 — Marry them and sleep with one eye closed Women 2001 to 2020 — Marry them and don't sleep. Always be on the watch Women 2021 and above — Don't marry them at all
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So many fishy stuff here.
Whoever bought that house for 10M should be jailed.
The problem is simping is deeply ingrained in us in our society. TV, Social Media, Church e.t.c. encouraged men to be romantic.
I tried to unplug many friends and family members being manipulated by their partners in the gynocentric world, but they think I'm the weird one and the Red pill must be some form of cult.
Yet these people are never happy and are so plugged to the matrix to break off the loop.
Reminderz: mehn I miss some redpillers input on this forum, zabiboy, mrpaedo, glycolysis, pansophist, theundercover, dpsychologist, hardon....mehn... they all made this place fun back then.. I've known them before I even registered this account. i only wish they are safe wherever they are now.
Felimax: Very funny! Mine will tell me to start raping her from the door soon as she step her legs in the house, Omo, the thing almost turn me to mad man.
Met another who will not wait to tear you up once the door is about to close. Some women get spirit I swear.
Have you not heard I am all yours KILL ME! eat me. What are you doing I said KIIILL MEE! O boy come see where man go turn to animal.
RaptorX: Only weak pussy ass men still marry in this Western countries. The satanic globalists started the experiment with the African Americans in the 80's, now they have 80% out of wedlock birth, no father's in the house to instill discipline, most of their children are running wild on the streets commiting crimes and killing each other rotating in and out of prison.
When they saw it was successful now they have tried to implement it to other races especially the Caucasians, but men over there are now refusing to marry again because of the horrible anti man laws, they have all swallowed the red pill. Once they achieve their objective of total destruction of the family structure, all this rights they gave women will be quickly taken away, because it is not about women but a larger and bigger agenda of population control.
You understand the drill sir.
Feminism is rooted in evil and the powers know that is how to put men under control. Our daughters, sisters, wives have swallowed feminism.
Dshocker: That is the reason why most men don't like taking their wife aboard.
Especially if you enroll her into nursing or to study medicine, by the time she is through studying such course, then the chances of her being your wife is like 20%.
And it is her fellow colleagues that will brainwash her into believing that being single is the best and her husband has no right to question her decision.
Dear men; If you ever plan on relocating your wife aboard, make sure she signs a prenuptial agreement.
Better to sign explicit prenuptial agreement before saying "I do" in Western countries.
Get a good lawyer to read and explain ALL the clauses to both of you before signing anything.
Prenup does not work. How does that even sound "Babe, I love you, let's get married, but first sign this pre nuptial agreement just incase you go cray cray in future"
I know two people recently kicked out of their matrimonial homes to go sleep in shelter where the homeless and drug addicts reside.
One of them is at the verge of going to jail as the allegations the wife tendered to the court will be hard for him to fight. He is not only restricted from his own house, but the environment and the whole city because the wife claimed he wants to kill her. Yet the man still pays for the house and information reveals she is asking around how to sell the house.
Another recent case an Access Bank manager experienced same thing. Within a year of migrating to Canada. The wife tossed his belongings out and divorced him for some flimsy excuse of man being traditional or not romantic enough.
The current trend now that sends men to verge of insanity is that the husband raped the wife or the man is touching the kids private part. In some places you will instantly loose your job and livelihood even when there's no evidence.
This issue is not only black women, but women of all races.
I have seen the evil women commit and you will understand why they are severely admonished by the bible. The restrictions and rules in the bible came from the understanding of female gender and not hate.
WatchYourSix: No need to hurt anyone...you lose guard..you got used...thats the trend these day..
relationship has become eat or be eaten. If you are too weak, vulnerable, too agrreable, too naive, show too much love, you will be devoured without mercy by the female gender.....
Besides, Its the 21st century.... The bar of morality is very low...
The definition of good girl now, is a babe with 2 boyfriends at the same time, a couple of other guys lined up buying gifts, one or two abortions to match, and at most 5-6 body counts.... once you know this..u will have peace of mind... and not expect too much from any girl
No need to ask any girl about her past...u can't get true gist...boys on the street are not smiling.. ..economy is bad...ur babe does not work in oil company, doesnt have filthy rich parents and doesnt have investment, yet uses iphone 13promax...
.and u dare call her ur girlfriend... it's not fair you are trying to customize a babe that others are enjoying..
U will cry last last...because she's not yours..never was...and if you are stupíd enough to hang around, she will decide to use you to gain the Mrs title and continue her hoeing life codedly.
..if you are lucky u will get to raise another man's child unknowingly....if you are unlucky maybe HIV or herpes
The emotional and psychological abuse is a feminine diction to dissuade men from asking questions or pointing out the obvious.
A lady accused a friend of same because he thought it was wrong for her to hangout with her single friends or go out on a ladies night where debutcherous things happen.
Getting married in western world with this modern ladies is like sleeping on a bag of grenades it is not worth it.