₦airaland Forum

bayocanny:
I studied mass communication, I just finished NYSC.
Prior to my POP I started a POS business and it's moving well, infact am loving it. Drop that certificate and hustle.. Nothing beat self employment

Studied Estate management now a farmer.please how can I get started on this Pos bizness?

Perfectdanny:
which kain work come dae for police station? Abi you dae help people write statement?

Hahahahaha

englishmart:
Judging by the unreliability of certificates/degrees in Nigeria, medical doctors end up becoming caterers, some banking and finance graduates goe into auxillary (useless version of) nursing, and lots more.

Well, my computer science education has met parochialism here in one company where I work as an elevator technician/engineer.

Do we have any chemist selling Akara? Please talk to us

Studied Estate management now a farmer.(poultry)

miclef86:
Sure, I can

hmmmmmm then press hearder and stop flirting much with ladies in ur unit.

DNSPro:
bad advise. He should ignore her completely

hmmmmm ok ooh

miclef86:
I doubt if she truly have a relationship as she claims because after she broke the sad news to me, she later called if I have reached him and I told her it's none of her business.

Moreover, the following day, she came close to my cubicle asking me if she can drink out of my bottle water and showing me how beautiful one park close to her house is

If u have good intentions keep pressing.

miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

Hahahahaha women na so I tell my husband then that am engaged,I have someone the guy man dey look me with one corner eye then hahahahaha nobi him dey in charge of my territory now? Forget some ladies and their big mouth.

cRobo:
Na their life be that

She is dying for you but because of pride she won't accept

I won't say a word

Gbam seconded

miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

That ur babe is single like A is for one apple,if u really Love her for something serious push a little further.and she is in love with u.seems u flirt around with ladies much in dat ur organization?

Psoul:
May God bless you @Rejoice.

Exactly what I have bn saying and ppl are ranting that the man should just accept the boy no need for begging.

I maintained that all the woman need is persistent talk with the man. Making him see reasons why they should bring the boy home. Assure him that she will make sure that she rehabilitate the boy.

It's not a matter of the woman telling the man that she has enough money to take care of the boy. Some men will see it as an insult.
Also, it's not a case of bn angry with the man and refusing to talk to him.

She need to keep talking to the man and at a point, she will succeed in breaking the man, then he will agree with her.

Yea you are right seconded.

Vyvyanvyvy:
Thanks for nice advice. You are right my son has become a thief due to the way my sister in law has being treating him , depriving him from food and many bad things the boy had no other choice than to steel. Since I’m alive I want him to be with me and I will take good care of him

Believe me ur son is not a thief.keep begging ur husband to allow him stay with you please am feeling for that boy he is the same age with my son.please try ur possible best to train him by urself he needs ur Love don't brought him to this world to punish him please.and this type of kids are always great.and don't ever think of contacting his daddy.the issue here is ur husband keep begging him.he is ur husband u know how to enter him for him to accept him.

Vyvyanvyvy:
He will be 12 years in August , my daughter is 6 years, I have one daughter for my husband she is 2 years and I’m pregnant with another one. Their father is not in Nigeria and I don’t have his contact or his siblings. Yes I have a grocery shop I foot 70% bills in my house

My dear keep begging him ur son needs ur Love and care.if possible start telling ur husband that ur son is a changed person now@12yrs he is still a child maybe he does not feed well there that's what pushed him into stealing believe me if that son is with you that rubbish statement of him stealing u won't hear it again am telling u out of experience.

Oyindidi:
You love the mother but you no want her son in your house. Yeye husband

God bless you.yeyeish husband indeed.who knows tomorrow.

Vyvyanvyvy:
I foot 70% of the bills , I pay my daughter school fee including my first child with my husband I pay half of her school fee ,all my son need is a place to stay, my husband won’t be the one paying his school fee

Believe me that ur son is not a bad son he needs u around him pet and be begging ur husband to accept him.and the fault may come from u by telling ur husband abt the behavior of ur son atimes we need to keep quiet in some issues.

Romangalactic:
I'll try to keep my predicament short. I registered a new account for this purpose but I'm sure many of you will understand that sterility is not something to be announced which is exactly how I got myself in this situation. I am 35 and engaged to a beautiful woman who completes me in every way. As much as it hurts me to say this, I have not been totally honest with her about everything.
Just yesterday while we were home together, she told me that she is pregnant . I asked her how sure she is, she said she had done the pee test and that she knows how she is feeling. The issue here is that I am sterile but I have not told her this before so it is impossible that I am responsible.

Please before anyone tells me I deserve this for not opening up to her, I have been undergoing treatment secretly and they say I will be able to father children when it's done so of course, I am hopeful and have not bothered to inform her about any of this. I can't stand losing her for any reason. My issue right now is that I asked my endocrinologist this morning if it's possible that the treatment is already working and he said we have not gone far enough to see any results yet. This means I am definitely not the father of the child she is carrying.

Only one other person in this world knows about my health challenge and that is my cousin. I told him and he told me to break up with my fiancée, someone I have already done introduction with and families are involved. I told him I cannot and that he must take the secret to the grave, he thinks I am making the biggest mistake of my life.
Well I told him my plan is to accept the pregnancy and continue to make her think I don't know she cheated on me. I am doing this with the hope that after we get married, my treatment will be completed and everything will be back to normal. But at the same time, I still can't shake the feeling that I am about to marry someone who cheated and is passing off another man's child as mine, I feel cheated and it hurts.

Can anyone else please tell me what to do about this situation I have found myself? Please I just need to hear from other people besides my cousin. Another thing, he has never really liked my fiancée so I feel that also may be his motivation.
I need neutral opinions please

You are the father of that child.forget doctor's report.Dont u believe in miracles?

Osasnidas:
Before you Blame infidelity on the girl, try and check yourself again in another lab or hospital, let them analyse your semen again... Unless if you know your stuff isn't fully operational..

Nice one seconded.

fergie001:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/photo-of-sydney-ogudoro-who-allegedly-shot-the-aa-senatorial-candidate-in-imo-ndubuisi-emenike/

Dog don bite the owner

Daumandu:
Can This Lead To The Downfall Of Someone?

I just moved in to a bigger city and a better and bigger apartment. I co-rented a flat with a middle aged man.

Now here is the problem, in my business at least in a week, I attend to nothing less than 20 clients but since one month I moved to this apartment I have not seen a single client.

Any day I do my digital marketing I am sure to see at least 10 to 20 enquires but since a month I moved to the apartment no body ever chatted me up for business.

Today I had to withdraw the last 5k in my account. The least amount I ever had in my account was 20k now I only have 500. I am someone that always enjoy the grace of God in my business but now its as if heaven has turned it's back against me. I am seriously thinking of leaving the apartment.

Any Advice?

only 500naira in ur account how u wan take park out? There's time for everything u need patient.

Mispreeti:
Please I need your advice.

My sister is at the hospital with one of her twins who is seriously ill and I'm in her house taking care of the other twin. I have been here for a week and her husband has been disturbing me for sex. I refused but he is not listening. He touched me while I was asleep and I felt it then I immediately woke up. He pretends to be covering the baby sleeping beside me. I told him i will report him to my dad in the morning. He has apologised and promised not to do it again but I know he is lying because this is not the first time it has happened since I came here.

I can’t go back to sleep and I'm afraid if I close my eyes and sleep, he will come again.

Please should I report him to my dad or give him another chance?

The room no get door?

agemmy113:
Pls Nairalanders, I need your advice. My boss traveled out of the country and she posted a picture on her WhatsApp status which I commented on 'what a nice pics'.

But to my surprise she is taking it up.
Pls what should I do?

Edited: I wrote Good pm ma, what a nice look.
She hasn't confronted me but she told her housegirl that I will have to explain what I mean to her when she comes back.

Oooh you are dating the house girl too?

@op go look for ur own woman or u expect the worst,if u are in the other guys shoe nko?

omokoginimi:
okay sir

Pesin future wife ndo.

omokoginimi:
okay mr rejoice

Mrs not Mr biko

Liftkid:
Our Traditional marriage Held on 23rd November. wish us something

Picture 1 and 2 when she was being prepared

picture 3. when she came out to welcome guests

I Love dis May heavenly father bless ur home ijn Amen.

omokoginimi:
If I talk wetin dey my mind, my account will be deleted by séun

Wetin u wan talk DONT BE JEALOUS

Breast feeding mum that breast is painful,see her face no laugh she is not finding the press funny.

majamajic:
the immediate customer, what's her Faith now

she go carry her half baked body dey run for her life na.

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

On point

viceddy95:

This one is looking for who will pay her Christmas bills,,where you be dey since?,you should have waited for the child to be ten years old ,,ole buruku.............

Odikwa too much

While in Labour room a nurse beat hell commot for my eyes her words I quote ooh,U bi witch,u bi Mami water,Dem send u,wizard hiaa,ur delivering date is on Monday u came on Sunday hiaaa NA ME BI GOD WEY DEY GIVE DATE OF BIRTH.nobi small thing ooh,am calling doctor he is not picking my call I said dis yellow pepper is from river etc dis are her words.see me ooh on top giving birth ooh.i no talk ooh see her five fingers on my lap thanks to my Mum she gave it to her hot hot.dis nurses Dem dey try BUT..........................most of them are very wicked.

mysticgal:
This happened recently. I was admitted into the school clinic and I was on bed for 1 week when this nurse who had been nice to me previously said she was going to kick me out of the hospital if I didn’t get well the next day. I sighed and told her off. The next day, she legit was dragging her feet to give me my drugs and injections. Trust me, my mother changed it for her in seconds .

When I was leaving,she took my apples and my milk but overall, she was nice and other nurses. I think in my existence in life, nurses have been good to me. Extra nice infact, that’s why I revisit the hospital(s)

Revisit? Ok

Doing the birth of my son,when I was rushed to the hospital the nurse on duty dat faithful Sunday sat down mooping at me unconcern,madam nurse give me bed na forwhere and it's a private hospital na me find my way upstairs ooh go sat down first for one bed.its not dat am a stranger in that hospital ooh na where I dey do my antinatal regularly ooh.SOME OF THIS NURSES ARE AGENT OF DARKNESS.