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Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.

Go after him then anything you see you take.

emae009:
it'll end in tears...

Honestly

Aliencraft:
His name is Eddy Omodiaogbe. He was last seen in Sango area, Ogun state. He left church on Wednesday 19th March 2020 and since then we are yet to see him. If you find him please take him to the nearest police station or contact 0.8.1.3.8.1.5.8.6.4.6.

Take him to nearest police station,him dey sick? Abi mad? Grown up man like dis. I pray he is safe.

rottencorpse:
Which celebrity's death made you lose appetite? Which celebrity's death made you cry? So far I'd say Michael Jackson and Kobe Bryant but if I were to choose one, I'd pick the King of Pop Michael Jackson.

What's yours?

MUNA OBIEKWE

Ayomideayo:
I doubt this story joor...u mean u did all that to her and she's still with you

Yea some women can endure.they believe there's light at the end of the turnel.

Samrocker:
I met her in my 100L days... But she said she got a boyfriend in Lag. But she made it known to me how really bad her boyfriend is treating her.
She is very loyal type of girl that she told me she can't cheat on her boyfriend despite all my trial and effort to win her heart to me!

Fast forward to 100L second semester, she called me on phone and asked if I was around that she has something to tell me. She came to me sobbing really bad and crying. She explained to me her boyfriend called her on phone and asked for a breakup.

I felt sorry for her because she narrated how she was dis-virgin by the guy.

So she slept over that night ... And eventually we started dating......

It's been over a year we have been dating now... She is so sweet and loyal ...

Not until she called me last month, her ex came with his new car to see her at home.

I was very surprised about this... But she said nothing attached, he just came to apologise...

But after few days... Her ex began to chat her up on insta... And promising her heaven and Earth that she should give her another chance....

She screenshoted everything to me herself.....


Plz I deeply need advice... What should I do to keep this girl from going back to her ex... Cuz her ex is financially okay than me....�...


Am afraid... Plz what should I do guys?

Go make �.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Read the handwriting on the wall

Biafrannuke:
Smh for the zoo.

Biafra g'enwe mmeri!

Iseee

SonOfEl:
thank you so much, you know the drill jaare. it was even worse back then. it has reduced now.

Welcome, it has to reduced because majority has known the truth.

Giwoni:
My Love Experience

Good day NLanders

I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).

It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents.

Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.

Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.

In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.

I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.

She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.

In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...

This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.

This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.

Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.

Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.

In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.

Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.

thanks

Anambrian that's how most of their ladies behave and reason.they so much believe that apart from Anambra state any other state is like a waste bin. Am from Anambra married to Imo state man and am enjoying my home ad I keep thanking God every day for not making a mistake of marrying from my state.thats how I introduced my friend to a guy from Imo state she said Noway that she must marry from Anambra for sure she got married to Anambra man as am typing this she is no longer in the marriage and she is regretting her actions.@post what will be will be.try ur best to win her over if she still insist.Let her go.

Amotolongbo:
Can they find a way of importing them to Africa instead of destroying them?

With the way things will start going this week, NCDC will start getting their confirmed cases mixed up, thinking that the deaths recorded are COVID-19, not knowing that majority of the deaths are from HUNGER-20.
And we know that when one is severely hungry, it can manifest with different symptoms. Too much hunger can show the combination of symptoms of Ebola Corona and HIV in just one manifestation.

Hahahahaha hahahahaha you made my morning joor.hahaha me ad my kids are all lol nobi small symptoms.

meetme01:
Sit your Mum down, show her this video and ask her what she feels. Be ready to be emotional because you would hear all she has passed through for you to be where you are today.

God bless our mothers.

hmmmmmmmmm going down memory lane,to all the mothers we must eat the fruits of our labour in Jesus name Amen.

Brandstudio01:
This should serve as a lesson to the government

Anyway, guys I will advice You to work from home under the Lockdown with your smartphone
See my signature Below

work from home how pesin wan take start?

Nickymichy:
For those that are yet to have the fruit of the womb...may God Almighty hear your prayers and request today....may you also celebrate as by this time next year... amen

Amen

Not expecting anything from the fg instead I share to the poor living around my vicinity.God pls help the less previleged.

Acmepreneur:
If your aunts talks like that, there's probability you inherit it from her, so I'm sure you are no different from your aunt, but you won't know. Its a family problem

Biko how did I inherit it ? And u said family problem? Are my coronavirus that lock u indoor.seems u need some help.pepper body.

Honeydenz:
Today makes it exactly 5 years one of my aunts said a very painful word to me which I can never forget.

She said and I quote [b]"the rate at which you are going this girl, 5 years from now you would have become a mother of 4 kids, all borne out of wedlock" [/b

Today I have been able to prove her wrong, doing my masters program now whereas two of her daughters are university dropouts, as a result of unwanted pregnancy.

Hmmmm... How time flies, share yours.

hmmmmmmmm my Anty once said to me that once she is married and saw me walking along the road that she will use her husband's car and and dirty my cloths with gutter water and funny enough then I never know anything I have not entered University then but God the rightful judge the very day she saw me at the market shame filled her face she can't look straight to my eyes and she can't reverse her words and the to crown it all she looks like a hmmmmmmmm.am married now she is married for a long time she no see car talk of keke.she is also shock when she heard that from my mother's house to A Landlady in my husband's house.Hmmmmmm man no bi God why do some pple talks anyhow.

Franzinni:
Too big ? I am confused ...


But a child's head can pass there now!!!

Yes once in 9months.

lefulefu:
u can make her ur fuckmate nau.she is offering her kpomo to u on a platter of gold and u cant even code.its left for u to reject or accept the kpomo

Free things dey run Belle ooh

helinues:
Why should I give to church when there are obviously people around me who deserved the help..

Bible said love your neighbor as yourself but you sheepish love church more than your neighbor.

Hahahahah

God bless you.na there I stand ooh.i believe in giving a helping hand to the poor than adding water inside the ocean.

[color=#006600][/color] My daddy told me then my daughter before you collect a ring from a man make sure he has come to see ur parents,make sure all test are done,make sure he is ready etc to avoid wasting of ur time and denying other suitors from coming.it helped me I got engaged like today not up to 2 weeks I did my traditional marriage,white wedding.@post na u wear the shoe pull it off if it's paining u.though for some LORD OF THE RING DUE WORKOUT FOR THEM LAST LAST.OOOH.but u are still very young for this shit.just pray you are not pregnant .

NextD18:
Give him money to rent another apartment if you can't cope with him and his family in the same building.

Or better still, give him money for wedding expenses if you can't wait or exercise some patients till he's ready for wedding!

You are 24!
-Do you work?
-Are you a student?
-Are you learning any skill?
-Do you have any meaningful thing to boast of?

Who and what are you exactly to the society and what exactly are you impacting in his life to warrant such thoughts of pressurizing him into sending his families out and marrying you as soon as possible!!

Smh! Keep fvckin him with reckless abandon, until you get pregnant, then will you understand the gravity of your fvckery!!

No use your head now wey you young!
Kpata kpata you'll turn to a single mother and a feminist wannabe, nothing go still change! Men go still dey ball higher!
Ask single mothers and feminist wannabes how they ended up and if anything changed in their lives after ranting and hating on men.

Heh! Very hot pepper soup but u are right.

2goodbobo:
If you dont talk to him, you will never know.

You are right

Adesucess1:
I met the man i married 2 years ago, it was like a joke, we started like a friend, i never knew we could even be together because he was always to joffier, he was a cool headed man, he is caring and loving and he is also very rich, though his money is not what i was looking for, i was looking for true love and what truly felt them was love.

He always say to me that he loves me and use to ask me that if am not in love with him, i should let him know that breaking a courtship is better than breaking a marriage. I dont even know maybe something was truly wrong with me then because i told him i do love him too, truly, i thought i did, because as at then, i dont usually remember my ex boyfriend, he was the only in my heart, so, i felt i love him.

Now, we are in the marriage, but the thought of my ex boyfriend keeps coming to the extend that when we make love, i always remember my ex boyfriend. i just dont understand all this, i had to reflect in my past that how did we started i remember that i had forgotten my ex boyfriend, now am so confused how his thought started coming again, and this bitters my heart.

My conscience is beginning to hunt me, i never knew i still love my ex until i got married, i dont want to hurt my man and i want to protect my marriage but all i use to remember is my ex and is affecting the marriage, its not as if my ex boyfriend called me, all these just started of a sudden, am so tired of all these nonsense . Please what should i do? I need serious help?

Devil at work madam face ur home and marriage.dat ur remembering will put u in a fix,that u will regret for the rest of ur life.who Ex help

femi4:
Go and make money, don't waste his time too by being poor. Don't just be at the receiving end AT ALL TIMES

Thank u jare tell her.

englishmart:
That's beautiful. Keep it up, ma'am. Happy Sunday

wish u the best

bayocanny:
Good morning, you mean you wants to start POS in Paris lol

Hahahahaha 9ja abeg

englishmart:
Still in line. Hope you're doing well

Yes by his grace.

borngeologist:
My story might be lengthy with a lot of grammatical blunders.. But my elders Abeg help me just manage read am and advice me because am really confused..

I have a boss who actually loves me. He likes me like a son and he always wants me to go out with him. We are actually very close pal.

There was a day he went out with his girklfriend. I was at home when my phone rang. He told me to bring 3k to where he was with his girlfriend. When I got there he told me to sit down and drink and eat dog meat with them. But I don't eat dog so I only drank one bottle. The lady and I later talked and I left them.

She came to our place this Wednesday. I was inside my room, she was just insisting that she wanted to see me. When I got there, she was just telling me my boss drinks a lot which is quite true but he dosent misbehave. That it is too much. As a guy man I covered up for my boss. And I left her and my boss.

Today we went to her shop. My boss ordered for drink for us. We started drinking. Later I went out, she followed me. We sat together and started talking. She started telling me that If she actually saw me first she would have dated me that she loves me that she doesn't like my boss. I was quite shocked and told her that since she is already dating my boss it is not possible. Then my boss and one of my other colleague with a lady came out and joined us. That was how we started gisting again. I had an important call to pick so I later entered her shop because the outside was noisy. That was how this lady came inside and kissed me. I was really shocked I have to run outside.

My boss and I later left her place for a burial where a friend of his (a lady) invited us to a burial. When I got there this lady started saying she really likes me that she wish she meet me earlier that she would have dated me.. That she really likes me a lot. My boss now jokingly asked me that I want to take all his girls from him. Mind you that my boss girlfriend calls me her husband even people close to her shop call me her husband.. And these ladies are way older than Me..

Please all I need from you guys is advice on what to do cause am confused.

There is also a married lady too that told me she wished she met me earlier that she would have dated me. And other older beautiful ladies. In their early and middle thirties and am just 23.

Don't play with fire @23

Iogobenz:
Smart man!
I love opportunists.Believe me many of your counterparts would have neglected this same business and be chasing pipe dreams.
I saw one lady tell you that "you are still growing" and I just laugh
Like wtf
1)you are in a rural area meaning you might have so little competition and a huge customer base.
2)your pos charge might be higher.
I see you possible making 10k a day in profit or more....
One monkey say you are still growing
Of course you will grow to expand that same business in other limited markets and cash out na.
You might probably build your brand while she is still earning their usual.
Them sabi neglect business ehn,all this school people
Goodluck to you mate,
Cc deepwater,no be everything you go know.

Please put me Tru in this Pos bizness

Favourflavour:
I studied law, practiced without pay for a long while, and now I am desperately looking for a job.

Hia! Nigeria hmmmmmm I told my daughter dat law thing is a No No make she no look for job till her shoes enter alignment.now in nursing school.

ChrisKels:
Microbiology and currently heading the microbiology section of a pharmaceutical company and also a quality control officer of same company.

My main income though, is from my side hustle as I co-own an agency that deals on landed properties.

My boss once told me, I would never become rich through my monthly salary, and he was right. Guys get urselves side hustles

seconded resign as a banker after 8yrs now a farmer it pays and enjoying my freedom.