Thank God!
what annoys me is guys who blame dia wives..
ignorant buffoons...

HOW ON EARTH DID HE GET IT
if he cheated ..am leaving him o,provided i dont have d virus..( bible supports dat)
but i do...mm, live in misery for d rest of my life ni oo...

would LOVEEEE to be a working wife..to support my family..cos my degree cant go to waste
but then, i fink eventually am going to take time off to raise my kids. be d best mum!

nicetohave:

in addition to showing her the way to the gym.id put a picture of her good old days by the dresser as a constant reminder of why shes in the gym.

lol..datz not nice..
all of you dat suggested gym..u are all meanies... ah ah
lol

visited ontario, CA this summer
then went to Niagra CA too
was fun...more homely but mehn, the traffic is like 9ja
nobody stops for u ...
bla bla..
itz good sha..and then money..i prefer US dollars

there is no contradiction..read outside the box
if there isn't ANY kinsmen ( which i doubt) , someone wld take up d duty!!!!!

lol...tsunami...son, please...we are talking abt 9ja here..
they wld have thier culture...and i believe they wld follow it

layi:

...and couples without parents or kinsmen (e.g orphans) cannot get married right?
...and if my parents don't want me married, then i can't be married..right?

please be logical...
ppl get prayers from whomsoever...

u getting married w/o ur parents consent is a different issue.

@ Layi ..o really
marriage is a legal union of a man and woman as husband and wife
and when u say "legal" is anything concened with the law
To me and my opinion...Traditional wedding is more like an introduction while
a church/court wedding seals the d deal legally !

and ur definition of marriage is kinda of fault it cos from time in memorial , couples have always
needed the blessing/prayer or kinsmen ( most times the parents)

my opinion...if u dont see my point..then, i guess we just have to agree to disagree.

Itz kind of funny sha..the way life comes and goes
she was here in houston tx ministering..all bubbling and stuff..with her daughter ..just less dan a month ago!!!!!
only find out that she wont even finish this yr...even when she had plans for the next

just teaches me that i can die rite now ( and life continues) > Just live life like Jesus is coming soonest...
itz scary sha.

layi:

GOD is there wit you @ the traditional marriage as well. Ur Parents Seal is God's seal. GOD isnt against custom. Who was the priest at ADam and Eve's wedding?

then explain to me why noses are raised when a wife moves into her husband's house after trad wedding...
ok, am talking abt d yoruba culture cos i dont know how it goes for d rest.

davidylan:
saw that when my aunt had her first baby, she won't even look my uncle in the face,

ok, there u go..i bet she understand what i mean...

for d odas,
it not the fact that he has seen me b4...but this is anoda level...d pushing and stuff
like i was telling someone, it like u are crazy abt someone ( u are not embarrased to be with them) but u want them to see u dat way. labor aint a cute thing..legs up..pushing...blood...fliud..mm no! ( but like i said, if he wants to..be my guest)
true, he put it dere but still...

mm...just loving the name Renike
not my real name tho

they dont know Jesus!

ofcourseeee!!!!!
and prayer oo

and please..itz not just nigerians

very ( if not extremely ) normal!
even ppl u dont know dat well..friends..relative..etc
when ppl achieve what u cldnt or are higher..what do u expect?

am not feeling the idea ( of husband/home & wife/work)

I dont fink i like the idea
but if he wants to..good for him
if he doesnt...itz cool
but i wld love someone else.
.itz kind of embarrasing , if u know what i mean

the norm (at least for me)..the couple dont get together until after church wedding
i guess the church wedding is some kind of seal and uve got witnesses under God that u guys are legally married now
anything can happen now and u guys are not sinning

very correct, but if the guy is not the breadwinner or not bring more bread..we have a problem
and very true also, it does not matter watever work a guy does ..itz the insecurity thing
but not to generalize, u see most of this things happening if the lady is higher.

the problem is not with the kind of job
the problem is with the troubles dat comes along..see, i have no time for a guy to be putting me down cos there is a "gap" in our working condition
or for a guy to be cheating on me...etc
most times, guys of those caliber get intimidated easily and are not easy to deal with...why put urself thru all dat all in the name dat "i dont want to discriminate" or " o well, itz just a start"

ahloy LT..lol, i know rite
ppl around..so if one goes to sch, anoda wld be around

because u dont want something doesnt mean one is discriminating..they are 2 different things..

true dat vexxy
but the thing is dat not all blue collar workers make $35 an hr.
when u mention blue collar to anyone...they go "someone who is not well to do as any professional is"

someone gave me the link to the guy talking abt fanning the alhaji while he had sex with his gf
i found it hilarious..and going thru oda posts, i registered

Fish any day ..any time..
but from ur options...prob.chicken, maybe goat...lol

lol @ icingbaby...
true dat...neva dated one..
but seriously, they shld leave the poems at home lol

I.B.:

I believed he got intimidated by me because I was making most of the money working in the office.

that is the word rite dere..intimidated ...(sorry about that oo)
but what i don't understand is that..even if u are a degree holder, why shld u ever be intimidated ( i heard it happen most times) ..arent they meant to be supportive/happy or what?..na wa oo

5 is what i want..that shld be enough
i love a large family and by the grace of God, i wld be financial stable to take care of them.

wow..am loving dat..planing ahead...
well, got one advice for ya...
just be d best wife and mother u can be..
when the time comes, u wld definitely know what it approriate and how to handle things.

am leaving the guy.
there is no hard and fast rule abt it.