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OP, the signs are clear as crystal, you know what you should do.

Hopefully the fasting and prayer will break whatever spell she has cast on you to keep you in love with her even when she is seeing other people.

Be wise!

iamrealdeji:
If she old pass you,you fine reach am?. Why are you on this girl's neck like a butterfly tie? It's ok na. Juliet is so gorgeous and nothing can change that

I no fine reach am but atleast I no fit lie reach am also. She's gorgeous i agree but she's also older and a liar, and nothing can change that also.

Na your type go come open thread on Nairaland with the topic. 'Nairalanders pls help, I just found out my girlfriend has been lying about her age. She is actually older than I am, what do I do, please advise!!'

This Mr Nigeria no too fine sef.....if na that hunk inside that Juliet video..chai, that guy still fine till tomorrow......

And Juliet should stop lying, see as she look like my elder Aunty and she talk sey she be 30 years, meaning I old pass her? Hoowwwww?

neoapocalypse:
She's his ex , and why is a beautiful lady like you admiring another ladies bo'obies


Modified : Oh I see she's still his girlfriend but my question still stands

I'm just giving honour to whom it is due. When I see a good thing, I appreciate.

But the bo'obs on point sha, no wonder ice Prince is hooked silly.

Good move they didn't do much for her music.

Oh my God

Na wa o... So the thing now is to involve everybody in your private relationships because you are a yeyebrity?

Who cares sef?

You should thank you stars OP. Instead of cursing him,you should be thanking him for saving you from your second hurtful marriage.


Move on with your life and focus on other things jare, he's not worth the mulling over.

Destined2win:
Next one will be 'olajumoke in the toilet'

hahahaha, na wa for you o.

coolviv:
Abeg o..abortion now is tantamount to cutting up a new born baby and throwing it away because it's father does not have sense.
5 months baby has full functioning brain, heartbeat, hands and legs, and it even kicks and smiles in the womb.
Abeg born d child give am to the father's family. If the mother gets older and wants to join them, then no problem.
Please don't visit d sin or the father on the child. God knows all things...
May God help us

which father? Yunusa? The same father that abducted the mother from her parents? What do you want the child to become? You have sentenced the poor child to the Almajiri system.

You have to look at the father's family and be sure they can cater to the child before you lump upon them a burden that they will also abandon.

If the mother can't care for it, she should give it out. Simple.

vipez:
when the post states pant, some werey go dey expect to see pata

lmao!!!!

gcode123:
This woman is not 30. She should be at least 34-35

exactly! Or older sef! See as her face don over mature and they say she is thirty!

Laiye laiye, this babe is not thirty years! If she is thirty years, then me sef go claim eighteen years... Which kind lie be this na?

She mean to tell me sey I old pass am? For wetin!

1miccza:
Sent pls reply ASAP

done.

1miccza:
Aunty wa can i pm you,we need to talk a bit oo

okay, you can.

Why take it out on the innocent baby na? People are looking for children, she can born and give it to a family in need or a home. The baby is already about twenty weeks old, it's too developed now to be killed.

lekjons:
you see? didn't i tell you..

everything is buhari's fault, isn't there a governer in the state

some people will even call buhari if two people're fighting on the street.. WTF?!

oh but everything that went wrong with this country was Jonadafts fault, right?

She looks like she is dodging his mouth. That is not how I know kiss to look like

You try,OP.

chriskosherbal:
I hope this is not another chibok version, please the government should swing into action immediately.

lol...which government? Same one that hasn't found the Chibok girls?

Guys dey vex, dollar is too expensive.

See the old Agbaya forking 13 year old girl, Gosh!

uckennety:
And so Hw many men r successFul!99.9% girls are into runs!love is 4 d highest bidder!

you obviously don't know much about the female folk, I hereby rest my case.

When you rush so quickly to lump all women together as prostitutes, keep in mind your mother and sisters and whether they are part of the 99.9%

uckennety:
IF I couldn't pay her bills!will sHe agreed?

seriously? That's the best argument you could come up with?

Maybe you need to wake up and see that its the twenty first century, umm, I think women go to school now ......maybe you also didnt realise but women have jobs and careers now .... some take it further and establish successful businesses, so therefore many women don't need you to pay their bills but ofcourse they would prefer to marry a MAN who's got his own, so as not to make him feel emasculated.

But maybe you prefer the ones that need you to settle their bills so you can sustain your ego by acting like the dictator?

This guy has come again....

rahman3853:
Reading this thread reminds me Shaggy's song "It wasn't me" lol. Back to the matter, OP I congratulate u for nothing but for being lucky. Couple of weeks ago we read abt a wife stabbing husbby to death on infidelity but on different scope like urs. Why cheat in the first place? It baffles me o, the same thing u are putting ur joystick into ur wife has it, the same front grapes u suck and caress, ur wfe has, except if the other lady's is golden, wch is imposicant. The deed is done n no need of crying over a spilt milk. Trust me, I am saying this from experience, it takes ur wife time to trust u, let's me give u an allegory, imagine a house built to 5th storey for 1year, then in 30mins the caterpillar crushed it, do u think the builder can rebuild it to that same stage within a month with same workers? Am sure the answer is no. But perhaps they can build it in 2 or 3 months, with conditions, like trippling the worker, pay for extra time and wrong the clock work. So my dear OP, u have demolished the trust, u can't attain it quicker than before, but u can still acheive it by being remorseful, sobre, loving n caring than before, come home at right time, no secrecy, no passwording fones, no closest chat on fone, be nicer to her and rebuff her insolence, she is trying to get at u, if u react to it, my guy u just detonate an atomic bomb in that relationship. U are the man in the house but nw u are the wife, trust me. Be calm, she knows wat she is doing. We men usually think ladies have fish brain, abeg no think am o. Only sometimes the are emotionally fragile, but they have nothing like fish brain. If u do this and constantly apologize, even if it means going on ur kneel abeg do am. No pride abt it. She is ur wife. Just try and turn the table around. Wat if she was the one that cheated, will u easily forgive n forget it? Of course no!!!!! So pedal softly, pray hard and be genuinely change. She is nt blind. She is human. She come around. Good luck.

wow, I'm so surprised this is coming from a man. Your wife will be a very happy woman.

I just wanted to ask, don't you think the wife is going too far, not feeding the kids and bringing in strange men into the house, along with the phone chatting?

I don't think the OP should condone it.

It's okay if she acts out her anger but threatening to also cheat and starving the kids is going too far.

uckennety:
Nooo dts nt wt am saying!exactly but He who plays d piper dictates d tune!i married her,she didn't marry me!marriage is not relationship!let her gt matured and deal wid it

this your post funny no be small, if she didn't marry you, would you have married yourself? Lol.

Have you noticed on wedding invitation cards that it is the woman's name that appears first, e.g. daretodiffer weds uckennety? Why do you think that is?

It is because she 'chose' to marry you, you didn't just pick her off the side of the road and force to live in your house. So wipe that mentality that you do women favours by marrying them. She agreed to your proposal and that's why your bride price was received or you would be looking for another woman to beg to accept your proposal.


And marriage is not a relationship, seriously? I guess to you, its a dictatorship then.

She should get over it already jare.

She can act up anyhow but not feeding the kids is a no-no! She can decide not to feed you, but the kids? Haba!

You have to talk to her o, that you can't take her attitude any longer. You have apologised and she should either forgive and let the marriage work or she should move out so you know you are single.

The way she is handling issues is not nice at all. Cheating is painful and she might be trying to get back at you but she shouldn't make choices she will regret later in her bid to hurt you.

I knew it!

Keyamo will still win in the elections, if the powers that be want him to win, whether no one supports him, that's the reality of this country.

So when asked to chose sides, obviously he chose the powers that be.

Lol, blackface is just plain frustrated.

If the ode knew anything, he would know the term Techno refers to a form of dance beat. I have a feeling that's where Tekno gets his name, being a producer.