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[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=816395.msg9682467#msg9682467 date=1322876754]White ppl, always so frigging happy to report ish like this.

Mtchewww!!![/quote]For the love of God, what flipping difference does it make? Seriously, is it a lie?

Perhaps that might be the impression you get on Nairaland, but I suspect that is not the case in the real world.

I should also add that I do not harbor a sense of entitlement, so I don't expect people to respect me just because I'm a man.

I'm not impressed. My grandfather was a better $lut-machine.

The disparity in pay between SuperMajors and other entry level jobs in Nigeria is so enormous that it saddens me.

The One:
The reason why shell figures are poor comparatively is dat PENGASSAN is almost dead there. For guys in other companies, the union practically guarantees you a 15% yearly increase in addition to any performance based increases you get. As such the average worker in Nigeria earns more than his counterpart abroad (US or UK) in the same company and on the same grade unlike what most people believe. For example, someone in Naija easily makes 100,000 pounds with 5 years experience wc is practically impossible in the UK and this mainly due to strong unions. I'm sure it's strange to some to know that the union sits wIth management EVERY year to negotiate pay and benefits and base it on competitor data. So most times the company that pays most is the one that had the last negotiations (except shell).

15% guaranteed increase per year!!! That's just crazy.

What goes up must surely come down, especially in a case where unhealthy means are used to inflate salaries. Just like the US housing market, I anticipate salaries dropping hard in the near future. Might as well take advantage of it right now.

lefulefu:
see dis one dey talk like say im pack balls of hot amala full mouth

Come to think of it, it was cowardly of me to speak in generalities, instead of calling out the names of the perpetrators, but I'm glad the sole leader has acknowledged my post.

So Lefulefu, wetin dey be sey you too dey repeat material. Why you no fit just post your new story for the thread wey you start the day before? Shey you never catch sey na the same jargons you dey everly yan for all the new threads wey you dey create?

I haven't been on NL for long but I see many redundant threads of that sort by the same guys. One or two might be for jokes but this amount of repetition gets old pretty fast.

Just yesterday, I opened a thread by this seedord247 guy with a picture of a supposedly naija woman whose vagina had been apparently destroyed. His reason was that she was phucking some politician or whatever. Seriously, wtf was that? That cr.ap wasn't even one bit funny.

I know you guys love jokes. We all do, but can you please post something constructive once in a while, and tone down on redundancies?

Tosinville:
Now most black american women prefer an african men fresh off the jet to date rather than going after AA men only if they want to pretend here,

I highly doubt that.

ThiefOfHearts:
Excuses.

It's a legitimate excuse. It's nauseating to have to sieve through a plethora of insults to get to the actual point of the post. If I breeze through a post, I see hints of insults in every other sentence, then I'll more than likely not bother reading it in detail.

Tom28 is a lost cause despite the fact that you continue to challenge his posts yet sandy-jo gets no response. abeg.

If you look back at the sequence of events on this thread, you'll see that I never even replied to any of Tom28's posts until you brought him up.

and I dont see how sandyjo's comment is anywhere near  tom28, then gain Im not one of those slaves that go out of my way to defend white people. They dont do it for YOU.

Sorry, I don't subscribe to the "us versus them" mentality.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=798964.msg9539891#msg9539891 date=1321115757]You just not figured that out?  [/quote]Tom28's wording isn't very stellar, and it is sometimes nauseating to read those kind of posts. I felt obligated to read his subsequent posts after thiefofhearts approved of his opinion.

ThiefOfHearts:
I love how Repubocrat is attacking tom28' views yet had nothing to say about sandy-jo's comment.

LOL typical house negro cant speak against master's worse.

Alailojuti!

Sandy Jo is more than likely a frequent poster that created a new account to troll. However, even if she is real, she is still a lost cause.

I was previously operating under the impression the tom28 is merely crazy in love with black women, so I figured he could still have a rational discussion. Unfortunately, that "all white people are the same " comment has put him along the likes of Sandy Jo. Now I know he's also a lost cause, and why bother with a lost cause?

SuyaEater:
You must love some fat white women the way i see it lol,

An understandable assumption, but an inaccurate one nevertheless.

the whole point is that it is not men who date fat women because of inferiority complex it i the fine looking black men who will date an ugly fat disgusting white women when a fine black woman is around just to gain status, "hey i am dating a white girl"

My point still stands. If your claim holds true, then all men dating fat women have some sort of inferiority complex. We'll have to agree to disagree.

tom28:
lol wether its katy or not the truth remains that white ppl are all the same.When they get used and dumped by those their boyfriends be they african or blk american then they show their true racist colour .Thats why i can never get near a white woman because i dont need their rubbish.

And here I was, thinking you were simply militantly attracted to only black women. Had I known you were also a bigot, I might have approached this argument differently.

I can only hope the the overwhelming majority of peeps don't think like you do.

tom28:
And what is even more pathetic of it all is that these black guys who date obese white women come on TV showing off their fat ugly white girlfriends and saying," yo! nigga!! i got me a whyte gurll" and u will laugh yourself to death seeing these fat white girls wearing weaves and trying to sound like they frm the ghetto and using the N word in every sentence they emit.I mean they so dumb and it makes a comedy spectacle hence white guys really get entertained by it.Honestly speaking i wish we black men would stop making a fool of ourselves around white women and the fat rejected ones for that matter.

Wishes! Wishes! Wishes!

What I wish is for we Nigerians to stop engaging in fraudulent activities that ruin the good lives of many. This includes both our corrupt leaders and the so-called Yahoo boys.

What I wish is for we Nigerians to stop deluding ourselves to thinking we are better than African-american, considering the fact that we live in that poverty stricken poo holes we call Nigeria which is led by the exact same Nigerians.

What I wish is for we Nigerians in diaspora to understand that the only reason we are allowed to foreign land to make the healthy living our home-country couldn't give us, is because of the past struggles by many African-american men and women.
Think about that before you demonize the shenanigans of Black men in america, be it african or african-american.

SuyaEater:
Repubocrat is one of the biggest fools i have seen  on here.

How many times in chicago have you seen an hispanic with a fat white woman or asian man with a fat white woman.

This is not general fat people i am talking about, i am talking about fat white women with black american men.

what don't you get?

It makes us look bad whether you are from the carribean or the motherland, makes us look cheap and makes attractive white girls think they are too better for us, cmon man think!

Life is not a battle of the races. Just because someone thinks they are better than you doesn't actually mean they are. Besides that, I see nothing wrong with a white man thinking his better a particular black guy. However, if a white guy chooses to extrapolate his perception of one black man as the accurate dealing of all black men, then that's his problem, and stupidity on his part. You're not a responsible for his mediocrity and you should pay it no mind.

I, for one, know my stance in life. There are many black and white guys I'd consider better than me in certain scenarios, and there are also black and white guys I'd wipe the floor with.

SuyaEater:
Repubocrat is one of the biggest fools i have seen  on here.

How many times in chicago have you seen an hispanic with a fat white woman or asian man with a fat white woman.

This is not general fat people i am talking about, i am talking about fat white women with black american men.

what don't you get?

It makes us look bad whether you are from the carribean or the motherland, makes us look cheap and makes attractive white girls think they are too better for us, cmon man think!

Guy, the conclusion that some black men have an inferior complex because they choose to date fat white women more so than any other race of men is a leap in logical reasoning.

To me, this implies that there's something undesirable about fat white women, and what could it possibly be? Of course, the fat/obesity.
So if your inferiority complex claim holds true, then any man who dates a fat woman has an inferior complex. It might not be a racial inferiority complex, but it would have to be an inferiority complex nonetheless, unless you are of the opinion that the "white" or "women" word is the undesirable word in "fat white women" which I doubt.

ThiefOfHearts:
Look at this one. It's so obvious that you know nothing of the country you live. Typical house negro 

I'll take that as a compliment. Thank you.

Anita accused your fellow white worshiper Clarence Thomas of harrassment, did anything happen to him? NO

Had the woman been white, he would have NO job right now. Better believe that.

The fool from France that harassed the African maid, the only reason it didnt amount to anything is because the victim in question is a black woman

Did Cain lose his when he was accused of harassment when he was still running his restaurant shindig?

Continue dancing. Delusional clown. I have more respect for tom28 because he at leasts acknowledges the truth re: black men. as for you keep coming up with daft excuses. Olodo. 

I've told you already. Just because Tom28 agrees with you doesn't make it true. No need for the insults.

ThiefOfHearts:
Exactly inferiority complex. Thak you for being frank jare unlike Repubocrat

The fact that tom28 agrees with you doesn't make it true.

Nah that same obsesseion with white yansh that is affecting Herman Cain now. Useless m-oron 

Yes! This is super funny because we all know a black woman would never accuse a black guy of sex.ual harassment. (Sarcasm/)

Cain's wahala isn't "chasing white yansh." His wahala is that he sexually harasses women. Period.

[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=798964.msg9510512#msg9510512 date=1320805795]you wish. What's my problem with your dating life?
I am talking about the forest, you are whining about a tree. who cares abt u specifically?[/quote]Well, that certainly puts me in my place. Thank you.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=798964.msg9510465#msg9510465 date=1320805111]Please don't take this too serious because it isn't.  I don't care if some black men do not find black women physically attractive because there are some black women who do not find black men physically attractive either.[/quote]Then my posts aren't directed to people like you. They are strictly for the hypocrites who have a problem with a preference simply because it doesn't favor them even though they have their own preferences.

What I mean if black women' opinions aren't that important why get upset about it?

Is this a general comment or is this directed at me, because I've clearly stated that everyone's opinion is important. Plus, how do you know I'm upset? and under the hypothetical assumption that I am indeed upset, I still couldn't be more upset than the many women that choose to also reply to my post. Again, it's an online forum.

If you are happy and content with your relationship then you wouldn't be unhappy and upset with opinions of others.

Meh, they aren't dependent. I read a post, and I agree/disagree with the opinion. It's what we all do. I'm not sure how you'd conclude that any one is unhappy or upset because of an opinion.

I mean, if your logic holds true, then you clearly aren't happy and content because you've chosen to disagree with an opinion of mine and I, being the fo.ol that I am, have concluded that you were probably upset and unhappy simply because you disagreed with my mindset.

Irate reactions to comments are usually indication the comments are true.  Hmm.

Again, I'm going to have to disagree with that logic. I see many irate reactions to my post. I guess my preaching is golden.

[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=798964.msg9510353#msg9510353 date=1320803107]It's not entitlement. it's common sense.
Do you see indian men doing it? do you see asian men doing it? do you see hispanic men doing it?
why is it only blacks?

everyone knows d reason why blacks are d bottom of d barrel in US is because of lack of family structure. If too many of your kind can't form community with each other then your culture and race is going to pits.

this is common sense.[/quote]Again, you're making a far-fetched assumption about my dating life which is understandable but inaccurate.

Nevertheless, I do not think the lack of family structure stems from the fact that some black men choose to date non-black women. If anything, it stems from the many complicated baby-daddy/baby-mama scenarios that have become so common in the black community that we now deem it as normal. Black men and women are equally responsible for that shenanigan.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=798964.msg9510197#msg9510197 date=1320800528]My choice to be with a black man has nothing to do with entitlement.  We all have a choice in whom we will date, marry, sex, have children with, and even deal with.  Just because a black woman or man prefers someone that looks like them doesn't have anything to do with "entitlement" the same thing goes for other nationalities.[/quote]It's okay for a black man/woman to have a preference for only black men/women, but if you just so happen to have that preference, then you can't ridicule the black men that have a strict preference for non-black women. That's the entitlement I speak of.

I have noticed that when a black man or woman profess their dating/marriage preferences, it becomes a debate but when other nationalities declare their preferences, "they are respecting their culture".  WTF.   

This topic is always a debate for me regardless of race. It just so happens that it's a nigerian forum and the threads that come up are usually about black or nigerian peeps doing one thing or the other.

I have stated many times, just because someone believes in interracial dating/marriages doesn't mean you have to.

It occurs like intraracial dating. There's nothing not to believe.

I have noticed that many black men get upset when black women doesn't approve of or speak against interracial relationships.  Why?  If black women aren't that important then why are you mad because she is against it?   

Naysayers' opinions shouldn't matter right?   

What do you mean by black women aren't that important? Don't be delusional. Just because a particular black guy isn't physically attracted to black women does mean he doesn't think they aren't important. This is an online forum for crying out loud. Why would someone else's opinion not matter?

See, I try not to divulge information about my dating preferences because people would jump at the opportunity to use it to justify an argument against me even though it's totally irrelevant, but I'm sure many must have concluded that I'm probably hopelessly in-love with white women but that couldn't be any further from the fact.

The reason why I post on threads like this is because I know many many black women in the greater Chicago area who would never give a non-black man the time of the day. Again, there's nothing wrong with exercising your strict preference, but you have no right to feel insulted or proceed to ridicule a man who chooses to exercise his own preference for non-black women.  I never fail to tell them that day in day out.

[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=798964.msg9510065#msg9510065 date=1320798321]this is a flat out lie.

that's like saying there are more whites in prison than blacks. well duh white people outnumber blacks. but the proportion is the logical statistic to look at.

and there are way more black guys with fat white women in[i] proportion[/i] to fat black women.

ie for every 10 skinny black guys with white women, at least 8 are with fat white women.
but for every 10 skinny black guys with black women, only 3 at most are with fat black women. most are with skinny or averagely chubby black women.

at least this is my observation[/quote]Our observations vary. We'll agree to disagree on this one.

Yea I know this. that perception and preference is borne out of inferiority complex.

Again, we'll agree to disagree.

but when a large proportion of the population have this same preference then there is clearly something wrong. either they have been brainwashed into believing that white women are more beautiful than their own mothers and sisters. or I don't know.

See, people raised by intelligent black mothers and sisters would develop a healthy respect and love for women in general instead of loving only black women because they would be smart enough to know that her blackness is not what makes her a great mother.

A lot of men and women have a sense of entitlement. There are black women that feel like they are entitled to a black man simply because they are black, and vice versa. That's a really effed up mindset IMO.

ThiefOfHearts:
Dude you dont get it. Just stop. The fat has nothing to do with the inferiority complex

Then I'm begging you to lay it down for me so I can get it. Tell me what has to do with the inferiority complex ? Please?

[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=798964.msg9509467#msg9509467 date=1320792315]The key point in the topic here is "So much"
meaning that it occurs with an unnaturally high consistency that there is not another reason for it besides a conscious decision on d part of the guy to seek out oyinbo no matter how fat and ugly. and this inturn reeks of inferiority complex.[/quote]I'm not sure I understand your logic here, but I think it's faulty. Perhaps you can elaborate a little.

Anybody with an ounce of awareness would know that there more black men with fat black women than there are black men with fat white women. There are also more white men with fat white women than the latter, so please tell me what makes it so "unnaturally high." I know it's hard for you to understand that a human's perception of beauty can strictly be associated with the colour of one's skin, and nothing more, but it's possible.

sure some may have done it out of "love" or whatever you guys like to justify your reasons. but the extent to which it happens is just so unnaturally high to be based coincidentally on "love" lol

That's your assumption, because I never commented on who I date.

Anyway, I agree that not all black men date fat white women for love. Some do it for green cards, and whole list of other reasons, but these exact same reasons exist in a black man/black woman & white man/white woman combo. So please tell me, why is OP choosing to demonize the black man/white woman combo? It's hypocritical.

And I really do hope that you can elaborate on your initial point because I'm having a hard time understanding how you came to the logical conclusion that it must be an inferior complex because it occurs at such a high rate. There is a gap in that reasoning I can't seem to follow.

I reiterate: If a black man that chooses to date fat white women has an inferior complex, then any man that chooses to date a fat woman has an inferior complex. It's common sense.

SuyaEater:
No it doesn't boils down to that, white men will date fat white women too, but some black men and i mean good looking one will [color=Black]diss fine black women for a white girl who is overweight simply because shes white.[/color] That is what i meant by inferior complex. You will see some fat white women get all cocky when they say they love black men because to them they see black men as easy to get, and they don't go after fat black men but the athletic and fit looking one.

Watch this video


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1XELlGpdJQ&feature=related

We all have varying perceptions of beauty. Beauty could be about body types, eye color, lip size, hair length, the colour of one's skin, and/or a combination of these factors. In this case, white skin equals beauty for said guy. That's not an inferior complex. That's a preference like any other. As a matter of fact, perhaps the guy only cares about what's inside as opposed to the superficial and this so-called fat white woman had the kindest of hearts. That's another possibility one can't ignore.

It's a little myopic of you to think your perception of beauty is absolute.

Another thread down the drain.

Sexkillz, you need to humble yourself and concede. Your rebuttals have been logically countered. Let's call it a day.

SuyaEater:
Nobody cares about nigerian men dating fat nigerian women, in america its a stereotypical issue when i see black american bobos with these overweight taco eating pizza eating hippos, and i ask myself this are you telling me u no fit find one correct akata girl for this city or state.

You have to realize interracial relationships is the only relationship that gets the most attention so people will only see black and white.

Guy, it still boils down to the same point. If it holds true that the black men that choose to date fat white women have an inferior complex, then any man that chooses to date a fat woman has an inferior complex. It's simple logic.

The question you need to ask yourself is, why the qualms with the black man/white woman combo as opposed to others?

It's Propaganda.

First off, dating is not a competition, so no one is losing out on anything.

A lot of people think that a black man is entitled to date black women or a black woman is entitled to date black men, but that is not the case. The earlier one understands that, the better.

SuyaEater:
One thing i know is that a nigerian man will not marry a fat digusting white woman just because, unless they use them for papers. I will rather go back home and get a fine babe to bring to america.

You're not making much sense. If a nigerian man can marry fat nigerian women, then why can't he marry fat white women, unless you intend on claiming that nigerian men never marry fat nigerian women.

Having an inferior complex might be a legit explanation for their choice, but how about the black american men that date fat black women. What kind of complex do they have?

Threads are getting redundantly stupid over here. Mods need to give boys a wake up call.

lefulefu:
Oh so naija girls dont use and dump men because they are the sweet innocent angels who would stay with a man thru thick and thin abi?
Abeg excuse me make i laugh small
heheheheheheheheheheeheheheehe
Abeg goldie na naija women worse pass by far because the only thing wey a naija woman dey interested in na money. A naija woman"s husband would be unfortunate enough to lose his job and instead of the naija woman to console him she will run off with the guy"s best friend.A naija girl would be dating a guy and behind the guy's back be sleeping with the guy"s father,brothers and cousins.You tell me wetin worse passs dat

Although you might have been cracking jokes, you're completely on point.

Fact is, there are black women that use other black men, and there also white women that use other white men, and vice versa. What makes me white woman/black man combination so controversial?