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[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=838273.msg9909820#msg9909820 date=1325877197]Morale of this post is:  Don't introduce the Bible if you only open the bible twice a year.  Read it and understand it.[/quote]Better yet, they shouldn't even use any religious quotation as grounds for their opinion in a secular discussion.

Amu Igwe:
The topic of this thread is silly but funny as hell.

I agree. The last two topics on this issue were impressive.

It's Supply and Demand IMO. If Nigerian women you come across are allegedly faking, then it's probably because the men in their vicinity like fake women.

Alas, Swallu succeeded in deceiving me into opening this redundant thread. The topic of the thread definitely peeked my curiosity.   Good stuff!

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=835678.msg9867814#msg9867814 date=1325309087]^^which point?

go easy on your paranoia.


if you have a point at all, then why not divorce whoever you're with right now instead of hanging around waiting for news about others.

lead by example.[/quote]Ok.

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=835678.msg9867778#msg9867778 date=1325308339]^^by all means, you should definitely know the extent to which you were deceived.

be sure to let your carer know s/he'll need to budget extra time to follow you around as you hunt for clues.

make sure your walking stick is strong and steady.[/quote]I see your point and I disagree. The man has chosen to stick to his principles regardless of his age, and I admire that.

tavon:
damn thats a whole lotta horse tail. i mean weave

Horse tail or not, her facial structure is still on-point.

Agybabe:
Thank God I didn't click on the link. Nothing there will be of any importance to moi.

Why so? Are you a barren woman? 

@poster next time, you can just learn how to copy and paste.

Ok, I will.


*Fixed.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=835678.msg9867676#msg9867676 date=1325303843]
I agree on the paternity test as well but I don't necessarily agree that it won't alter his relationship with his children. I've seen men who have walked out on their families having found out that the child wasn't their own. My family knows of a woman who kept the paternity of her child from the father--when the child's father found out, he was heartbroken and couldn't look at both the mother and child the same way anymore. He know it wasn't the child's fault for what her mother had caused but he just couldn't bear the pain. Sadly, the truth of the child's paternity contributed to his death.[/quote]Ok, I agree. That could happen, but I'm still of the opinion that he should go ahead with the test if he has any suspicion of that sort.

If I were put in a similar circumstance, I would want to know the extent to which I was deceived.

slimyem:
there's no point.
I'd just forgive and live with it.
Better than dying alone.

I am going to have to disagree.    Btw, what's up with the Ageism from some on this thread?

The man is simply sticking to common principles, and I'll add that demanding a paternity test would be a fairly logical subsequent step considering the fact that she kept the secret for so long, and only confessed after she got caught. The results of the test will most likely not alter his relationship with the children, but it could justify his decision to get a divorce if the results are unfavorable.

[quote author=190_@ link=topic=835153.msg9860779#msg9860779 date=1325220527]  [/quote]*SMH*   

You're a very strange boy.

[quote author=190_@ link=topic=835153.msg9860747#msg9860747 date=1325219953]you are becoming one of my favorite utterly thick posters

I might have to un-card you.[/quote]

https://a7.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/s320x320/383912_10150568808638408_644063407_11097853_1532257314_n.jpg

Lmfao!

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=833028.msg9846998#msg9846998 date=1325039065]Research.[/quote]

Research as in I should go do some research?

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=833028.msg9844409#msg9844409 date=1325006307]It was self explanatory. It means Corporate America isn't the only country Desecrating Africa.[/quote]How is Corporate America desecrating Africa?

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=833028.msg9843983#msg9843983 date=1325001721]Corporate America is one of the countries that are Desecrating Africa.[/quote]Please elaborate.

Guy, you neva tire?

claremont:
Let's assume that all the Nigerians I meet around where I live/work/play are lazy and corrupt, it still doesn't prove anything. It still doesn't prove that most Nigerians are lazy and corrupt. You guys who make that kind of huge assertion still have your whole argument in front of you.

Think about it this way: Most people in Nigeria aren't unemployed but many are, and that's bad enough.

seedord247:
broo especially in south Chicago, Englewood to be precise.

Yea, Englewood is a bad neighborhood but I doubt that has anything to do with the corrupt practices of Nigerians.

What I was trying to get at is that Nigeria, as a country, is relatively corrupt. It's hard get things done over there without having to cut corners in some way. A survey was done a couple ago that concluded that Nigeria tops the ranks as one of the countries where it's incredibly difficult to conduct business. Some of these practices have become second-nature to us and many of us have been desensitized, so we can't even identify it.

I'm presently in the recruitment process for job in Nigeria, and I'm quite elated that I might actually get this job solely on merit as opposed to having connections. But guess what? This company had to outsource a phase of their recruitment process to a recruiting firm that have absolutely no affiliation with Nigeria, so that peasants like us can stand a chance against the others with all the connections one can imagine.

freecocoa:
Where's the joke in what he wrote?

The joke was the inaccurate statement. Many Nigerians patronize corrupt practices. Perhaps most don't, but many do.

claremont:
I am damn serious actually. As far as I know, media reports about Nigerians cannot be considered to be objective evidence that most Nigerians are lazy and corrupt.

Actually, you're correct. We can never really know if most Nigerians are corrupt, but we do know is that many Nigerians are indeed corrupt, and that's bad enough.

One can argue that this sort of dealings are merely restricted to our Leaders, but our leaders are the products of the same environment we all grew up in.

claremont:
but I don't believe there is any proof that many Nigerians are corrupt.

LOL! Funny joke.

1. I'm pretty sure I'm slim because I play a lot of futbol.

2. I'm not really into quintessential fat women, but then again, this is somewhat relative. The kind of women I'm sexually attracted to would be considered fat by some.

3. As for clothing, I downsize my denim every other season. I won't be surprised if I start wearing spandex sometime in the near future.

I'd like my wife to be a medical professional. The thought of being able to get free health advice literally turns me on.

But on a serious note, I'd be satisfied with any profession that would render her financially independent and happy.

2buff:
Believe it or not, You're not always gonna respect each other. That's a given if you look at life realistically.
There'll need to be a higher codex of conduct guiding the union besides just your whims.

When it comes to that, the bible makes it clear what it should be.

I guess my initial comment about Mutual Respect should have been, [b]My winning factor is Mutual Respec[/b]t.  I reckon that sounds less narcissistic.

Anyway, Mutual Respect exists when couples can acknowledge each other's strengths and weaknesses, and be humble/comfortable enough to assume the role of a leader or follower depending on who clearly possesses the better expertise in that particular circumstance. From my experience, relationships of that sort allow couples to achieve unprecedented levels of sync.  that other archaic set-ups can't replicate.

And make no mistake about the fact that, if you are not a good follower, then you can not possibly be a good leader and vice versa. See, contrary to mainstream propaganda, both attributes are indeed mutually inclusive.

Lastly, I'm not a Christian.

It's a stupid quotation. Only individuals harboring undeserved feelings of entitlement subscribe to such baloney. I'm not obligated to tolerate lacklustre behaviour because you performed a stellar deed a couple ago.

The winning factor here is Mutual Respect.

Speaking of coincidences, TEPNG just posted some jobs on their website. Unfortunately, they aren't technical positions and neither are they entry-level.

SuyaEater:
I am not against it either but all these black men need to have some sense, all these white women won't date u in ordinary life but as soon as u get money they are all over u,

Meh, there are also many black women that wouldn't have dated them in ordinary life.

That Hoops chick from flavor of love is dating Shaq presently. We all know she's gold-digging but we don't hassle about it because she's black. One can only imagine how much ridicule their relationship would have been subjected to if she was white.

LOL! I won't beat a dead horse twice!

*Closes thread, re-opens new tab and proceeds to self-service to pornographic videos of obese caucasian women*

Why, you ask?, Well, because I mud@bleep!ng can! That's why.