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MarieSucre:
This is what I hate about guys like you. She is simply saying the same things that many nairaland guys have said about women. Never did I see you call them out or criticize them for once but when a woman says, "this is what men are saying or thinking about us", you come and attack her like you were blind, deaf and dumb when your fellow guys were calling us olosho, kissing and telling and doing the same despicable things. Kindly pack well sir, thank you.

Saff

Bird of a feather

MarieSucre:
Abeg leave her and go and face your fellow guys who say the same about women. She is not complaining in a vacuum, she did not pluck the argument from thin air, she has read it time and time again here on nairaland. Do your part by calling out guys who say this. simple.

So throwing tantrums unnecessary on social Media is a yes to u

The truth is that most of those girls don't even belong to any league at all. The fit into any league a boy places them on courtesy of his money

Saff:
exactly, but then these guys will shout against it completely to get what they want. But behind your back they’re laughing at you. I even think this situation is better because at least they were speaking for a month before they met up. So they were already familiar with each other before having sex. The guy is just an idiott.

I pity d guy u r with

Saff:
This is it.

They will tell you “ It doesn’t matter, if you sleep with me on the first date it doesn’t mean anything, we’re all mature”

Behind your back it’s a different story. And it has everything to do with their ego and pride. Never listen to their words, always their actions smh. She even paid for your hotel and flight, and you had the nerve to mock her to your friends? Ungrateful cow, you’re not even ashamed.

Listen, you’re a grown man and if you can’t learn to make decisions without the influence of your friends, you won’t go far in life. If you can’t deal with the shame, spare the babe and let her live her life. All these sissy boys sef, can’t make a simple decision for anything. Always gossiping and crying later like bitches. Spits.

Why are you sounding so pained? Is everything alright?

KillaBeauty:
I can relate
#TeamVirgin
#TeamNoSexBeforeMarriage
#TeamNoKissingNoTouchimg
#TeamOrgasmsCanKill
#TeamAbstinence

Pls nobody should quote me abeg

marketing agent

Authoreety:
Afon..

Ja

Who ever that is hoarding our #100 notes should please release them

Esseite:
GEJ... the closest we had to perfect...

Imagine at $74/b everyone is running around like headless chickens, but GEJ/okonjo controlled it at $100/b and holding dollar below N200, while we slept like babies..

I beg to differ. I think it's Yar'Adua

Jamariwolff:
After breaking this relationship over a lil fight which involved him making fun of my academic performance, I blocked him on WhatsApp nd told him to stay away from me offline.
He's handsome and fun.
I'm not my self anymore, I'm presently awake from a hangover yesterday evening over this same issue


I miss those funny night chats with this guy, but I can't get my proud self to apologise right now.

U just told us what he did but never told us what u did to him. U see the problem

U are the real warriors and u will eventually win.

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies do this and watch men treat you like trash

Agent of delay in marriage

So if I see am, I go come dey observe am before I tear race. Op no b me n u o

IamHopeful:
No bro, I think there's a mix up. I think what the OP meant was that her brother lost a 4-year relationship and not that he lost the relationship 4 years ago.

It's alright. Pardon me abeg

IamHopeful:
Did you say anything about "after 4 years"?

If I'm not mistaken, the Op said he has been mourning for 4 years after the break up

Divay22:
Nah.. He will only suffer the new one..
Let him do it himself, he should get heal first before going into another relationship (that's how you take control of your emotions)

So finding a new love equates suffering

Chi59:
It's counter-productive to enter a new relationship without being fully healed from the previous one.

Op, I think 4 years is enough grieving time. It's time he becomes INTENTIONAL about moving on, no matter how hard.

New relationship heals the old one by making u get over it

IamHopeful:
Enter a new relationship quickly and take revenge on the innocent lady . I don't think that's the best option.

Firstly, I think he should think about where he made a mistake in his past relationship, try and work on that mistake and become a better person.

Secondly, he should do whatever pleases him (like listening to music, go out maybe alone or with friends) and make himself happy coz one's happiness apart from God, lies in his or her hands and not in any lady's or guy's hands.

Thirdly, he should give it time, he'll get over everything soonest, time will definitely heal it up. I've been there before and I even came out stronger.

These words make me stay happy:

Love truly
Kiss deeply
Laugh uncontrollably and never regret anything that made you smile.

So entering into a new relationship after 4 years is quick to yoy

Tell him to enter into a new relationship. The best way to deal with a break up is to move on

I'm searching for Messi's name

Why are those fellows smiling in that shot abeg

I don't believe this. Is it that the tailor came to also see that the gown has no hands?

maisauki:
goan pay your bills

We pay for darkness and not light

seunny4lif:
Nice one but
if na me
I go like the money pass the world cup becos after world cup na hungry ooooooh

Sense will not kill u

Misplaced priority. Money they would have used to better their services

eleojo23:
Let our boys not hear this o.

Before they will go and play anyhow thinking that the pig has assured them of victory.

U mean as in assurance

;l

pat077:
torch light

Store it in a freezer with which light

What evidence are they looking for again

JhyMedex:
Reminds me of an episode dt occured like last month..
she accused me of cheatin..i cldnt blame her tho..
shes complained countless times abt d attention i get frm oda gals..

kept ranting abt betrayal n all..Babe said she want to brk up..
i jst responded with ..Aight..
she kept actin like she was cool wit it..she was using smiling emojis sef....

fast forward 2 days leta..babe was throwing tantrums..sayin am amnoying..i make her mad....

sayin even if she said she wanted to brk up ..i wont even try to talk her out of it...i jst told her to do wat she felt like..

.No b u want brk up?!!... She came bak of her own accord....Nw d tables av turned..she played her card n i didnt flinch..
nw she almost worships me..

Do u mind if we talk privately

I don't just want to say what is on my mind