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milemimi93:
First of all address that issue that your fellow Christians go about motor parks and markets to extort money from people in the name of preaching and praying.

Your Jesus never collected money from people to pray for them or preach to them.


You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother'seye.

How is it my business if anyone chooses to be foolish enough to ditch out their money to anyone in the name of preaching? BTW, the person giving out the money does that at his or her own risk, it is not as if you are being forced to give the money to the preacher.
Your argument is just entirely off the topic of discussion here. You should rather be making reference to how Christians halted your movement while carrying out their religious activities because I don't know if you are aware that imams and mallams also collect money from people they pray for.

milemimi93:
I need a sound minded Christian to give a logical reason or reasons as to why Christianity followers love to disturb the peace of others and also collect money from others by praying at the motor parks and market places.

You might also want to do us a favour by answering the following questions

1.Does the Bible orders Christians to collect money from people in the name of praying for them?

2. What sense does it make after preaching at the motor parks you still rob the listners of this little money by lying to them to give you money for mission work when we all know that the money will end up in your pocket?

3. If the Muslims, Bhuddhist, Hindus and the hundreds of world religions do the same, what would be the case

4. If the Bible never instructed Christians to collect people money at motor parks after praying for them, then, is it some kind of stealing or joblessness

It saddens my heart that while people are advancing technologically and economically, we Africans have deliberately allowed our inclination to religion and religious practices to decelerate and hamper our developmental pace as a people.

The painful thing is that they even go ahead rob the travelers of their hard earn money by puttin fear of accident in them if the don't give them money.

Did Jesus collects money from people while praying for them?

I need Christians to be bold enough to give us sound and logical answers to these questions.

No insult is needed here. Remember we all have that beastly aspect in us, no monopoly to madness..

Respect80

You're as dumb as your opinion.
Just sit down and think about the response you gave.
Don't mistake being dumb for smartness next time

emekaRaj:
if you truely want a honest explanation I will give u.

it's not our plan to do that, it's just a circumstances we found our self in that causes that. we apologize for any discomfort cause to you, but u will do the same if are in our situation. as a matter of fact I have seen in different locations were Sunday worship in church also cause hold ups.

the truth is dis....... our Friday prayers is obligatory and the most important of all prayers just like Sunday worship in church. but unlike Christians who have specific churches to attend their Sunday worship that's is not the case with Muslim, Quran instructed us to gathered every Friday in a bigger central mosque in our area, which means we all in that area have to leave the small mosque in our street and go the central mosque in the area. which is why u always see the smaller mosque in every area closed every Friday, bcoz everyone is going to the central mosque. now imagine all the Christrians have to leave their church in an area (let's say agege) and gathered in one church in the area and worship at the same time, am sure no matter how big the church is it wouldnt be able to take 40% of the Christians in that area and the remaining 60 percent would be left outside.

that is the dilemma we are facing as a Muslim it's not our wish to cause traffic. same thing happened to me yesterday, I dnt like been late for Friday prayers bcoz I like to pray inside the mosque, but unfortunately I was late yesterday ,so inside the mosque is full, the remaining space around the mosque is full and I had to pray on d road.

U r well mannered I must say.
However, I sincerely wish other Muslims understand as much as you do and don't see such act as a right.
Also, I hope we sincerely work towards a balanced solution for this situation cos I believe if things are done rightly, things like this shouldn't be a problem

I don't want to hear this nonsense again o

chicoMX:
Madam the madam

is ya eyes deekoscope?

What's deekoscope?

HajimeSaito:
He is the god of the muslums. If we don't include him he'll be very upset. We don't want him to feel left out

Oh #LuciferChristi the god of the muslums, we invoke you to this thread to give us an answer to the question we've asked. Pls if you are too busy, kindly send a representative

HajimeSaito:
I believe LuciferChristi has the best answer...

How can we invoke Lucifer to this thread pls?

theunnamed:
I don't know about logical answers but I think it's just rude!!!
I remember that Friday I was at agege, the just made me trek under that hot sun for nothing!!

Same thing happened to me today.
I was stuck in the traffic waiting all day simply because our Muslim brothers and sisters had no where to pray but the main road

fuckerstard:
Which village is that happening?

My brother, I can't even count how many places I have witnessed this issue again.
Just this afternoon along Masaka to Mararaba road, the whole vehicles on the main road were stuck in a still traffic until the Friday prayer was done before we continued movement. How unfortunate.

I need a sound minded Muslim to give a logical reason or reasons as to why Islam followers love to obstruct and hinder people's movements by blocking major roads especially on Fridays all in the name of prayers.

You might also want to do us a favour by answering the following questions

1.Does the Quran order Muslims to block and stand on the road to pray before their prayers would be answered

2. What sense does it make after performing ablution and cleansing for prayers, you still stand on the God forsaken road where all forms of dirty materials are washed to in order to pray

3. If the Christians, Bhuddhist, Hindus and the hundreds of world religions do the same, what would be the case

4. If the Quran never instructed Muslims to do so, then, is it some kind of show-off and hypocrisy

It saddens my heart that while people are advancing technologically and economically, we Africans have deliberately allowed our inclination to religion and religious practices to decelerate and hamper our developmental pace as a people.

The painful thing is that they even go ahead to block major township roads that has no alternative routes and the same people will be wondering why the western world is leaving us behind in everything.

I need Muslims to be bold enough to give us sound and logical answers to these questions.

No insult is needed here. Remember we all have that beastly aspect in us, no monopoly to madness...

Ok

I need a sound minded Muslim to give a logical reason or reasons as to why Islam followers love to obstruct and hinder people's movements by blocking major roads especially on Fridays all in the name of prayers.

You might also want to do us a favour by answering the following questions

1.Does the Quran order Muslims to block and stand on the road to pray before their prayers would be answered

2. What sense does it make after performing ablution and cleansing for prayers, you still stand on the God forsaken road where all forms of dirty materials are washed to in order to pray

3. If the Christians, Bhuddhist, Hindus and the hundreds of world religions do the same, what would be the case

4. If the Quran never instructed Muslims to do so, then, is it some kind of show-off and hypocrisy

It saddens my heart that while people are advancing technologically and economically, we Africans have deliberately allowed our inclination to religion and religious practices to decelerate and hamper our developmental pace as a people.

The painful thing is that they even go ahead to block major township roads that has no alternative routes and the same people will be wondering why the western world is leaving us behind in everything.

I need Muslims to be bold enough to give us sound and logical answers to these questions.

No insult is needed here. Remember we all have that beastly aspect in us, no monopoly to madness...

Easzy96:
As a guy, there are basic rules amongst men that you should know and abide by it, if you still want to be considered to be a bro!!!

1. Niggas Before Your Girlfriend
Don’t let your girl ruin your social life, when it is time to hangout with your guys, don’t let your girl ruin that moment. Basically create time for your guys when you have a girlfriend.

2. Never Date Your Friend’s Ex
Whether they have dated ten years ago or hundred years ago, never date a friend’s past girlfriend. If you do, then you have broken the guy code.

3. Your Sister’s Friend Is Off Limit
We say “Brother don’t do family” unless you plan on marrying her then you are good. but “if nah chop am clean mouth”. Then it a no no.

4. Be A Strong Alibi For A Brother
You have to be able to cover for your guy either from their parent or girlfriend, you have to be a strong alibi. for example” May be your friend came home late from a girl’s place, then his girlfriend was becoming suspicious. If they call you to confirm his whereabout… you have to take the responsibility and tell her,he was at your place.

5. Drink Like A Man
You don’t order for maltina or soft drink in the bar, when your friends are taking alcohol. It is better not to take anything at that point.

6. Respect Another Brother’s Privacy
Every guy has his own personal lines. Understand where their line is and do not pass that line. For example, Never watch porn on your guy’s laptop. it a thing.

7. Never Let Your Guy Drive Home Drunk Alone
It is either you call UBER for him or you drive him home yourself.

8. Be a Side kick
If your friend get into a fight, automatically you have to join in and fight that person. There beef is your beef.

9. Never Get Stingy
If you want to be considered to be a bro, Be a giving type.

10. A Bet Is A Bet
If a bet is made and you lose, no matter what. You must follow through with his obligations to carry out his side of the bet.

Source: https://9jalife.com.ng/10-guy-code-every-man-never-break/

Nice talks, but have you thought of how number 4 can get someone into a serious problem?
Claiming you were with someone you were not with.
I have seen where something went wrong and someone was sent to jail because of that

Cute.
But na double neck brace 4 do this long neck if what happened now had happened then

codedguy1:
He has even gotten shorter.

No make laff ki pesin 4 here abeg

Auladimeji1:
What's Congo?

A country where men love to visit... Lol

zyzxx:
since is not like they will get married tomorrow, if she is single she can give is a trier and see the kind of person the guy is and she can even found out what cause is previous action
she can give it a trier

neither yes or no

Not a bad idea

Auladimeji1:
The Op also love the lady but he's trying to see maybe he could also get his chances

U are a bad child. Lol
Well, that's not the case cos I have a relationship which she herself is truly aware of

elyna:
confused at 25? it's either she wants to marry him or she doesn't, choose one and deal with your issue. we've all got more serious issues bothering us.

I wish she could understand this.
She's a good friend and I always tried to let her know that the guys previous action was not a strong thing to hold on to. But u know women always have their way of dragging you to talk about an issue no matter how much you shy away from it.

jonath0012:
Op, it is no big deal... tell her to date the guy joor.. I don't think the guy wanted to rape her. He was just infatuated. He was probably much younger then , and now that he is mature, what is your friend waiting for.


If there is another reason for her not to date him, fine....But if it is because of this, then she should not worry, tell her I said so

You sound like a boss bro.
I thought my mind was too weak because of the rate I easily forgive but some people's reactions has made me realize it's the right thing to do.
Thanks for your position on this

Kingosytex:
My verdict: whether the guy attempted to rape her previously is not the issue at stake. if i understood your write-up, you said that the boy apologised for his actions, so the girl in question needs to forgive him wholeheartedly. i believe that love conquers all things and i strongly believe that the guy genuinely loves her. tell her to give the guy a chance in her life, i believe she will not regret it.

Noted bro.
That's the reason why I tried to ask her if she love the guy in spite of his actions.
Truly love conquers all

Bluezy13:
Attempted murder is not treated as a murder case.

In other news, it is safe for her to engage in the r/ship right?

So friends, a female friend of mine is in serious need of advice from me and the topic on ground seems somewhat controversial so I decided to share this question in order to make comparisons with my views on the issue.

This female friend of mine once found herself in a situation that would have probably left her feeling some regrets in her visit to one of her best female friends house just 2 years ago.
It happened that she visited her friend during the holidays and both of them were having fun while watching a movie from her friends older brothers laptop. As usual with most Nigerian parents na, they began to call her friend every now and then sending her on one short errand or the other leaving her the visitor in the room all alone. After spending some time watching the movie all alone and not being a movie freak, she dozed off on her friends bed while the movie continued to play. After sleeping for some time, only for her to awake to meet her skirt drawn one sided and her friends older brother kneeling in front of the laptop.
Although the young man claimed to be in need of the laptop and in the room to collect it because she already fell asleep, but the way she continuously switched her eyes from her one sided skirt to the young man already showed that she understood what was going on and this prompted the young man to stylishly apologize for his actions.
As if that wasn't enough, this young man ever since then has continued to trail her movement and even got her number from his sister and calls her from time to time asking for them to engage in a serious relationship which should probably lead to marriage.
This young man is 31 now, an architect with BSc and working with a good company while my friend is 25 and would be done with her HND before the year runs out.
On advising her, I tried to ask her if she loves the guy regardless of his previous action towards her but she continues to say she's confused about the whole thing and don't know what to do. But the fact that she's even in contact with the guy shows that she doesn't completely detest the guy and that is why I want to be careful with my advice to her.

For me I want to be rational with my thinking but some questions continues to pop in my mind

1. Was the guy actually trying to rape her?
2. Was he just trying to have a glimpse of how her Congo looks like?
3. Could excessive love for someone make someone do such a crazy thing?
4. And if he truly loved the lady, why didn't he try to approach her in the right way?
So I appeal to all NL gurus in Romance section to upgrade my knowledge on how I should advise her on this very important issue pls.

But all in all, is it safe to marry someone who once tried to rape you

No insults please...

jibs4lv:
Lagosians are not in any bondage oga. Lagos remain the best with best government since 1999 in Nigeria, Lagos can feed other states in this country comfortably and it's showing , Lagos the economic hub of the country remain one of the best city in Africa so tell me how they are in bondage .

Which means thieffnubu was born with the hundreds of acres of lands in Lagos all in his name abi?
Sometimes the damage this thieves does are so severe that people don't even realize they did it

meccuno:
if true, when will the yorubas in lagos who are in the bondage of tinubu, protest and be free from that megalomaniac?

That's even if they have returned to their senses to realize how much damage he has done to them.
They are still ignorant of what Tinubu did to them my brother

youngemperor:
this is a true life story, in fact it is happening to me right now!

during my secondary school days, I had a girlfriend ( my first girlfriend). we were in love but the love was more from her side.

It got to a point that started feeling insecure maybe because i was good looking and intelligent hence girls will be after me.

when we left secondary school, she wanted us to do a blood covenant or take an oath using the holy.. i refused because we were still very young then ( i was 18 and she was 17).

because of my disagreement to what she suggested, we started talking less! we don't call or chat with each other. she letter got married and i gained admission into the university.

she is happily married and blessed with kids. it's over 5 years now, i have graduated from the university and serving now in one of the south -south states. ..

HERE IS MY PROBLEM!
one day i was travelling to lagos to see my uncle, i decided to stop by to see her for the first time in 5 years.. i met her in her provision shop. she was happy to see me, we talked and laughed. we talked about when we were dating ( i was feeling uncomfortable with the discussion because i know it's not gonna change anything) .. she blamed me for the break up.

i left her shop in the evening, when i got to my destination my nightmare started! she cant stop calling and texting.. telling me how much she loved and missed me, wishing that she never married her husband! she continued this for a long time ( two months) .... she wanted to visit me where i am serving. i told her that i stay with roommates. she suggested that we book a hotel room.

she said she want to make love to me ( we never had sex when we were dating) . she wants to get in bed with me by all means.. i tried all i could to convince her that i can't even make her commit adultery.

up to this moment, i don't have peace of mind. i have blacklisted about 6 of her phone numbers, but everyday she calls me with a different number.. i am tired of all these,


WHAT DO I DO?

If you no want make them use pressing iron take iron your dick, better threaten to report her to her husband and run for ur life

ijustdey:
https://www.thecable.ng/2019-poll-four-pdp-governors-are-working-for-apc-says-jibrin



No Nigerian Can Compete Match Buhari's Electoral Value

Is this not madness?
APC is a communicable disease, don't be infected.
Imagine someone believes that no Nigerian can match Buhari's Electoral Value

chloride6:
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Answer na?

How many times we call u?

udo2018:
Mumu Rochas Okorocha always making daft statements.

The elastic limit of that man mumu is immeasurable

Nonsense!
This only shows that APC is always a hundred steps behind this guy and it only proves how dumb APC and its members are.
With this kind of leadership, I just pray 9ja doesn't get skirmish with even the weakest country, because before a meeting is held to get the soldiers ready, 9ja would be lost to the enemy already.

Slow pokes everywhere