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Well detailed
Thanks for sharing

Carry her go court make she pay every dime..she dey mad.

Nothing justifies this act of uncouthness.
Some ladies sha

Might be another fake news

Girl you did right by quitting that relationship. You are a strong lady.
It baffles me really to see guys with no future ambition, no focus, zero vision but wanting to date independent ladies.

Your story is just similar to mine only in my own case I did not say yes to his relationship proposal because I saw the lazy man traits in him but we were really damn close. Dude is so damn lazy, prefers following his friends around than getting his ass down at the age of 30. Funny enough I even had to help him secure a little paying job of 50k dude refused the offer on the ground that the salary is too small. No plans for the future, ask him what he wants and see him beat about the bush.

He's just sitting tight waiting for one big money or big job to miraculously land on his laps when he's not even that Intelligent. Anyways miracles happen!

mind you we both finished service last year October and he's a very nice person.

Imagine someone you look up to doing this to you, this man deserves to be castrated.
How do some men even get aroused by mere looking at kids?
I don't want to think of the fact that one conscienceless lawyer will to stand for this one in court even after going through the facts, even though we know he isn't going scot free.

But then, how do we prevent this unseemly reoccurring pattern of sexual abuse on kids? Especially when it is coming from someone they look up to.

You see number 4, avoid them like plague.
Even when they get the opportunity to work, they would find an excuse not to take up the job. either nah, salary is too small or nah, the job is a demanding one, etc.
No viable prospect, their girlfriend na their bank

Bottom line is, lazy guys are real and are usually filled with so much pride and entitlement mentality.

My love for twins eeeh.
May God bless and keep them.

Very touchy actually. Your major focus should be on making yourself a better person, better in every respect.

For now forget about your kids and build yourself intellectually, financially, career wise, character wise and spiritually.
And let the above changes be perceived or seen by people around you.

Shalom!

Youngpo413:
Not in naija.

I leave you to your believe

Welcome to the world cute pie.

AYO95:
kul I hope u are not in difficult phase as well nd hope u have something u are doing

Yes I have, though I'm in a difficult phase of my career.
It's a passing phase though

AYO95:
I know u wanted to quote me but mistakenly the wrong person.... thanks dear, are u also in ur 20s?

Yea, I am

F

doggedfighter:
You are an inspiration. Keep soaring

Wow! Keep soaring dear

Kenya and bad news are like 5&6

hopefulLandlord:
What makes you so depressed to the point of contemplating suicide? do you mind talking about it?

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Personal issues, I wouldn't like to bring online. But I'm fine now.
thanks anyways.

I'm sure this guy might even be the smiling and boisterous type, people like that usually hurt the most.

Most people see me as a very happy, energetic lady and all that, they don't see the pain because I have mastered the act of hiding it. Most times have thought of committing suicide but when i remember my parents and siblings and a lot of persons that believe and look up to me, I drop the suicide thought.

I mean life is damn hard.
Rip to him.

It's a choice.... not everybody is a cheat. I finished my service jejely and Left

Really crazy

The only thing that would give me reason to quit a job is if there is no work to do.
Personally I'm a workaholic always having a productive output. I hate idleness.

I don't think the scar calls for having insecurities.

This is better imagined....truth be told, I can't see my self quiting a #42 million job
The could both reach an agreement, maybe manage the marriage from their different locations.

Inukwa quit, banking job that is not even guaranteed self

Your assumption of every lady being a LovePeddler holds no water. It's a fallacious one. Just because you met a suppose decent lady who cheats doesn't make every other lady out there a cheart, pls.

There are still genuinely good girls out there.

Putaihe

Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

This way too painful, how could someone be this heartless

iCauseTrouble:
I have received more than 50 broadcast on my WhatsApp about corona virus in Nigerian this morning.... They said Salt and Water during ebola, still waiting for what they will say for corona

Ohh.. you've not heard about the garlic ish. I got the garlic broadcast this morning. I couldn't stop laughing...naija eeh.
Las Las we will all be fine

I tell people this,"the fact of your virginity should be something known to you alone..yes do not bother disclosing to a second party except you've gone deep in a relationship with the pretence you are not a virgin.

I'm saying this because have come to realize that most guys once they know you are one, they become quick in taking advantage of you.
Every virgin should learn to play along as a non virgin.
My thought though.

I was invited for an interview by this company. Please what’s your friend’s experience with them so far. I have searched and could not even find their official website and all. Please, respond as the interview is tomorrow

Please I'm seriously searching for a firm to work with.
Any help would be utmostly appreciated.
I reside in Abuja. 3 years post call

Albertone:
I can relate because mine is chronic.

But,according to people,one needs to build a good network of people around.To help with job placement,to get clients(if business oriented).

My fear is,that is the truth.How do one get successful without people?

And I keep asking myself the same question.how do one get successful without people? My job requires me having Friends and client. Smh

Being an introvert can be a blessing and a curse too...my profession requires me to go extrovert but then introversion has eaten deep into me..
I can stay indoors 247..I try to avoid visitors at all cost