₦airaland Forum

Coldfeets:
If the sole reason why you want 'success' in this life as a man is for you to be able to keep a girl, then are totally _fucked up through and through.

Seconded.

DO

alBHAGDADI:
That is how you Muslims react to every issue. When things don't go your way, you send your terrorist wing to cause destruction and put fear in people using terror. Yet you deny that they are your brothers in the mission to make Islam dominate the world. How do you intend t0 dominate the world when you don't preach to non-muslims? All you do is breed almajiri children anyhow and forcefully Islam people through jihad.

If any Charlie Hebdo type attack should happen in Nigeria, MURIC will be surprised at what will happen to them. That's when they will know that they bit more than they can chew.

As a Muslim, is anything wrong with Falz's video? Was Islam mentioned? Is hijab that dates before Islam only peculiar to Islam?

Be honest with yourself. Failure to admit the truth really means you will be one of those who will side with Satan and shed Christian blood during the great tribulation.

Come home to Jesus now and flee the association of evil doers who think they can fight for God.

My Muslim friend, come home to Jesus

Don't mind the fellow, this country needs a donald trump to put these fellows in their place. The number of young girls battling with VVF and RVF due to their perverted views on sexuality has not been an issue, it is girls wearing Hijab to dance that is the issue, the number of innocent blood speaking against them has not been an issue it is girls wearing hijab to dance that is the issue.Kano a supposed muslim state abuses 3 MILLION bottles of codeine and youths there even sniff glue to get "high", the girls in Hijab did no evil abi, it is dancing that is now an abuse to your religion. Your cup has not full yet, that satan you want to serve, one day you will see his face and have eternity to ponder over your evil deeds. Everything violence, like you have a monopoly to be violent.
NONSENSE

3babes:
I had to create this account now.

There is this girl i meet in while leaving school, I love her so much but after a while i discovered when we sleep together in the room i will see fresh human blood stain on the floor. Most times two drop of blood stains. I ask her she said she never knew how it got there.

Leta she pointed accusing fingers to almost every one sharing the apartment with us so we started praying hoping that God will interven.
She is a good prayer who speaks in tongue, in fact that attracted me to her, cos she prays a lot, at times in hostel she can lock her self indoors praying.
As the year came to an end, all occupant packed out remaining just my friend and I, but still yet we still see the blood on the floor.
Then recently i got a place in another state then invited her to come and see me that same night i saw fresh blood on the floor, in fact it continued for 3 nights she spent.
When she left all blood stop, of recent i invited her again then it continued, I told her i won't continue with the relationship again.
She started accusing me of being responsible or I know something about this blood stain. She cried all through the night and slept out side


This blood stains drop around 10:30pm to 12pm that's what I noticed,
I have seen her trying to check if am asleep by touching at some point.
I have seen her looking at me at middle of night ( when got up flash touch saw fresh blood blood)

Each night if I wake her to see it.. After discussing she will just open her leg for all night sex (she gives me sex to forget all about that)
Before i sleep I will make sure i check every where, use net to sleep, mob the tiles, Check around for clues


But if am awake through the night no blood stains will occur.
This blood stain is bigger than 3 mosquitoes combine, so I have ruled out the possibility of that
It appears in same spot,at times on my power bank.
Most times if I woke up to clean first blood... Another fresh ones drops before morning

1. she is staring at you, while you are asleep. I once had a gf like that,at first i thought it was all romantic,but after some very strange and devastating incidents which I escaped,it turned out the girl was a serious demonic marine agent.
2. Blood. Man the truth is that's your blood going so or a ritual is being performed each time you sleep with her. Leave her and go for deliverance before she wrecks you totally.
3. She tries to bribe and blind you with sex, same as that karashika ex-gf of mine, na God save me o. Stop being pussywhipped, no devilish vagina is worth hell fire...You need Jesus. and for your information, those "prayers" are not being answered by God, worst case scenario, she is making devilish incantations on you.
May God deliver you. That Girl detests you so much she woudnt mind to see you burn for a billion plus years in hell and you are talking love, you need help to re-calibrate your brain

ImaIma1:
God is really merciful. So you guys pray together after engaging in pre marital sex. Don't you feel guilty or awkward praying to God at that point?

as in some people sef....no fear of God. This guy is using his destiny to play ludo and he is talking about Godly girl. Fornication is EVIL!! period. If at this stage of "christianity", he measures spiritual growth by "speaking in tongue" he needs to have a proper mental assessment.I just they vex for am here....

rusher14:
You call your lecturers by first name in the UK. In Nigeria you are doomed should you refer to a professor as Dr.

I insist Leadership in Nigeria is a microcosm of our general society.

Exactly. The leadership is a reflection of our mindset and way of life as a people

wizod:
i had a similar case, i found out dat she refused to change after series of warnings and i made her my intimacy gadget though without her notice even till date. One day she wil see me wedding card, why not do likewise.

and she will swear for you...been down that road before..Does not end well..Why not just call it quits with her?

ebby9z:
When you tell them to read, they won't. Daniel Goleman got you covered here.

Seconded bro... You got his book social intelligence and his talks about neural wi-fi?

ebby9z:
No wonder Africa continues to retain the back seat in the affairs of the world. The only thing we're contributing to the advancement of the human race is women with big bum bum and men with long pricks.
We don't invest in research, but invest in Big Brother, politics and religion. So sad.

Africa has brains....but the environment is not helping. You will soon hear of some awesome names.soooon

zombieTRACKER:
Celebrated for having sex in a toilet on live TV






No wonder Audu ogbe came back as minister after 35 years..... Nigerian youths are useless

seconded....almost

preciousfeb:
I can relate with your experience very well. However, I have bad news for you. You just got urself married to a lady from the satanic kingdom. Any attempt to ought out will be paid with death on you except you will create your own spiritual stronghold to break lose. Let me tell you some of your experiences. She act like your queen because that's who she is to you spiritually. She controls people around you by telling you things about them that are either true or false. By this, she decides who come close to you and who does not. I pray God help you

This guy is saying the truth. OP needs an encounter with Jesus ASAP

ihatebuhari:
Marine spirit

Thank you, you know what's up

tunjibadosnen:
Your types are the one destroying not only the education sector but the entire country by encouraging illicit acts due to your spoilt nature

how do you expect the country to grow without discipline? acts you can't practice in overseas and be tolerated you come here to display such at will....

let's join hands to condemn unruly behaviors among the upcoming generation so that the country can grow and be better for all of us...

so he must forcefully shave their hair? what if he injured them in the process do you know the health implications? there is a difference between disciplinary action and cold sadist behaviour, and this man I must say is a sadist. Its just unfortunate that no one gave him a serious beating outside the school. That is how they used corporal punishment and damaging words in primary schools to create a generation of timid people with low self esteem who seek validation by engaging in social vices like cultism and thuggery for politicians just to feel important,when they cannot even stand up to the political class which is damaging this country. The same persons "disciplining" (if there is a word like that) us have the wonderful record of meeting Nigeria as one of the best functional states and turning it into a shit hole within one generation. If they were so good, why was the country destroyed on all sectors during their regime?
Be factual and stop being sentimental.

ooshinibos:
the genetics of the brown man , hatred for one another ...we like killing one another ..why are only the victims black young people ..
until we build a black nation ...nothing will change ..same thing is happening in Canada , USA ;ALL BLACK NEIGHNOURHOOD ...poverty and crime ...something is not right , I think its genetic disorder ...

its a curse. Black people are always the first to spew out nonsense claiming they are victims of racism fromt the whites..but that is a disgusting piece of B.S.
1. During the era of the slave trade, most of the slaves were sold out by greedy chiefs of their communities or prisoners from inter community or inter tribal wars. You see the black man sold his fellow black man to the white man.Stupid people
2.Hip hop culture has as one its central themes, a black man oppressing his fellow black man, murdering him, taking his "bitch, starting wars for no reason in the name of beef and calling the ones who refuse to be drafted into violence pussy ass niggers....who is the fool now? shebi if your race is being oppressed,its much better if you are being united and stand together with one voice, rather than being fragmented into gags and all that.
3.In the words of J.cole in January 28 (keep a black nigger dying by a black nigger gun). Over 70% of unnantural black deaths are masterminded by fellow blacks..yet they have the guts to scream black lives matter...I'm not saying the whites are innocent, but when you treat yourself with disdain you should not expect someone else to treat you with respect...

confused set of humans. They need Jesus

SaudiBoy:
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You see there is more to this story that meets the eye.
That is why I decided to be calm about this whole issue, because it has really opened my eyes, I don't believe this has to do with the money i loaned because the sisters husband also loans money from me atimes,
And pays back, I was very very close to them.

I only soft pedalled on this issue because it is very clear to me there is a grand script been planned by my sister in-laws out of jelousy, because she has been childless for 7 years of marriage.

My wife made a statemet that startled me, that she will send me divorce papers, and that the baby been just 2months, court will award her custody and she will just give the baby to her sister and travel out.

Then i started working on my wife's senses, talking to her until she became soft and we settled my wife she needed time to heal, I offered her to come back home and heal she said know that her sister just had another miscarriage and she needs to be with her.

Now the day my wife came to visit me and decided to sleep over, the sister called her, I pretended to be asleep and I could hear the sister say, now now now, u Don run go sleep there bcoz of sex. The next day it was clear my wife didn't want to go back, I dropped her off around 2pm and before the sister agreed to to open gate for her, it was war after much exchange of whatsapp message

Sorry about your plight bro..I am sincerely sorry. However here is my take..I guess you came to nairaland to seek solutions..soi am about to suggest some for you. Here it goes
I tackle problems on 3 levels...
1.spiritual (what did i miss, wrong foundations, adverse cycles, violated principles, possibility of attacks, etc.)
2. Mental (my mindset, attitude, belief system, mentality,depressed, optimistic or pessimistic, faith or doubts, psychology etc.)
3. Physical (am i putting enough effort, is there a more efficient way to do this, are my working tools or methods right for the task? etc.)

So I will try to tackle your challenge from these 3 perspectives.
1. PART 1 :SPIRITUAL ASPECT
You said somethings that are interesting; you are a product of a broken home..There is a possibility of a wrong foundation or recurring negative cycle of unstable marriages running in your blood..one generation can start it, and one generation can end it. Decide to be the one who ends it..and I tell you, physical effort is not enough. I will get to the solution at the end of this section. You also mentioned that your sister-in-law is a major antagonist...well pray for your family. You also said that you dated for 8 years and I am guessing pre marital sex was involved..I am not judging as it really is not in my place to do so..but understand that Sin gives any institution a wrong start (In this case your marriage), then finally address the individual issues in your wife's family spiritually and your own issues spiritually.
About your business,there is a spiritual protocol for restoration...I will show you how
The solution
A. Get into God's family..repent of all known and unknown sin and accept Jesus into your life.It is the legal way to have God operate on your behalf. Note God can do and undo but then he has his principles.
Then very importantly, Forgive your wife.
B. About your foundations (your wife's family, your own family, and the cycle of broken homes peculiar to your family) read colossians 1 vs 13-15 and 2 vs 13-15. Tell God that Jesus has removed you from all authority of satanic manipulations and foundations. Tell him that for every accusations that the devil may bring against you (specifically the pre-marital sex and generational sins), you plead the blood of Jesus, that Jesus settled every debt and punishment for sin on your behalf and you cannot come and pay again, also read ezekiel 18, you cannot suffer generational cycles . Do this consistently in prayer..you will see an improvement..
C. About the possibility of any external attacks on you and your family, read Numbers 23 vs 23. There can be no enchantment or dvination against you..pray it and plead your case before God..he will answer.
D. Pray to God for mercy and enter into a covenant of service with Him...ask him to deal with your foundations...The easiest way to deal with adverse cycles is a covenant of service with God. You must not become a pastor, just make yourself useful in the house of God. A service unit as you are led by God will do (NOTE: do not be zealous without knowledge o, apply wisdom)
E. about your restoration, read Joel 2, read the passage on restoration, read ezekiel 37 about the dry bones rising again understand that there is nothing that God cannot do. He will restore you if you engage him with his word in faith. Pray those two passages. Also engage the tool of praising God, Read psalm 67, understand it...then touch the ground in your in your home or at your place of work or your instrument of earning a living(but most especially the ground, spiritual people both christians, pagans and occultists know that the earth bears record, listens and speaks and as a child of God you have authority over it in Christ Jesus) and speak to it that according to God's word in psalm 67, you will praise God and it will yield its increase for you. Praise God regularly in your home and fill it with worship. It creates an atmosphere for the Holy spirit to dwell in.
Above all Just as God to have mercy on you. You really need it, everyone does. Pray for your wife though she has hurt you, intercede for her. In God's scheme of things, the husband serves as a priest and the wife is an altar which births possibilities. consecrate her in prayer (true spiritual christians do this, it is a principle). Tithe, it works
Be wary of who you share your problems to,there are false prophets and true prophets, be wary. Just ask God to lead you he will.

PART 2 THE MENTAL ASPECT
In life, spirituality has its place, the mind has its place, in fact your spirituality can be limited by your mind. so every man needs to work on his mindset to achieve success in life.
A. You have fears. You fear that your home might be broken just as you were a product of a broken home. replace this fear with faith that you will have a sweet stable home. Build your faith on God's word, pray it to God from his word, say it to yourself and let it sink into your subconscious mind. You see fear and faith are both facilitators of different outcomes,one negative, the other positive...choose faith! Psalm 128 is a good place to start
B. Once again forgive; I dont know how to stress this but forgive..You see in the universe, a very important law is that you will sow what you reap..not neccesarily where you reap. So dont sow the negativity of hatred or resentment..I know its painful..but sow forgiveness and leave it all to God. However take action where necessary..You are in charge of your home..apply wisdom and dont be weak.
C. Believe deep within you that all will be well...your business, your family and everything
D. cross examine yourself for mannerisms that you feel could have added to this problem..from your part...do a deep souls search..your thought patterns..what you thought of your wife, your in-laws, your family, your self
E. Do not give in to depression

PART 3 (THE PHYSICAL ASPECT)
A. About your business, fix it...with prayers and find a smarter way to go about it. seek financing options that do not require excess debt. Equity can be a better option especially if it has a contemporary buyout clause.When next you venture into a business, build a corporation around it, and gain ROCK SOLID control of it. This protects your personal assets from being touched in case of any mishap. Then make yourself personally a creditor to your corporation, this way the corporation is obliged by law to pay you, do this so that excess money does not stay in the corporation but flows to your account.NEVER make your personal account the corporation's account..but make your personal account a creditor to your corporation. Other benefits include tax deductions.I cannot simplify more than this, meet a lawyer friend to explain to you (I say friend,so you won't be charged, make it a casual conversation and get as much information as you can)
B. About your family, make your wife understand that you love her and are doing everything to keep the family.Also ask her why she should be adding to your sorrows rather than helping you in this trying times, is he for you or against you? If she is sensible she will understand that life does not work in the direction she is heading. Confront the sister with wisdom and tell her husband to call her to order. Do not get into an arguement with her or worse still a fight with her, make your point and leave.
C. clear your head...give yourself a mental break before you suffer a mental breakdown.
D. check on your wife and kid wherever they are regularly..make the sister's husband know that you do not want your wife under his roof.
About the divorce, do not engage her..if she sends you the papers, carry the papers present it before God and pour your heart to God, tell him that marriage was his idea, commit your marriage into his hand and ask him to preserve the marriage. Rebuke the hand of the devil on the marriage. Do not engage her with divorce proceedings...
E. See a respectable elder for good counsel. Not anyhow marriage counsellors.

Others as God's spirit leads you

In all, life is a risk, but the risk is minimized by having things under control or under the control of someone who has your best interest at heart (GOD), it consists of what we see around us (The physical and material world), what goes on in our heads( the mental world) and what we cannot see and may or may not imagine (the spiritual world). Success is more probable when we do due diligence to these planes not neglecting any.
So be Wise. God be with you.

MrCoker:
Foolish man with foolish ideas.

Foolish girls will read this now and start saying one failed gospel musician said this, while he is married oo.

I pity you all, because you will teey in your father's house , if you read and abide with such a stupid idea.

In this age, where sex doll is taking over?, continue.

watch your tongue. Which failed? once again watch your tongue

prinsam30:
there's no negative effect anywhere, it's a mutual agreement, that's why it's called CONTRACT......

mind u, my first daughter is graduating Nxt year from university of Pretoria and she's only 18yrs old, my second daughter is in year two in Manchester metropolitan university, UK. they all have great moral up bringing....

it all depends on how u function as a man and as a father

tell me how you arranged the modalities

kamsibabylove:
i dont think it works on some men coz i cheated on my bf 3 times and he forgave me now we have a daughter and wil be getting married in oct.

I will strongly warn you not to marry him...he is "in love" now which is just fear of loosing you; his "prized possession"...when him eye go clear he will hate you so much he might just murder you. I was once there..cheated on..almost pinned pregnancy on me, STD carry join, was faithful too..then the final crack on the wall..she did some diabolic shii which hit me up real bad..u can say my village people finally found my near-delilah because since age 4 I have always tormented those people both spiritually and physically...after some serious pain I left. My life turned out pretty well in all aspects except that. 2 years later, God is still restoring me...I'm helping quite a number of persons, paying fees and all that..you can say I'm a nice guy..I have always been so..I still pray to God every morning to give me the grace not to visit her home and set her ablaze


Do not ever cheat on a man who truly loves you and go back to him....it seems you have not heard of crimes of passion...There is a thin line between passionate love and murderous rage. ...only fools fail to realize that the teeth the hyena uses to groom its cubs is the same it uses to bite off their ears.

someone truly loves you and you delibrately keep on hurting them....then you start disturbing heaven you want a good man at 35..smh..

BTW im with a good lady now..and I treat her like a queen..I'm just a nice guy.