₦airaland Forum

OneCorner:
Lol. Deaf and dumb house help
U people just like lying sha
posting fake stories upandan

that is ehnnnnn.... the stupidity no be here....

LegendHero:
APC have been giving the people of Lagos credible candidates that have consistently delivered so why should the people of Lagos change a working formula to give room for PDP?

From Asiwaju Tinubu who raised Lagos internal revenue from 14.6bn in 1999 to 83bn in 2007 when he left.
He increased the budget size from 14.2bn in 1999 to 240bn in 2007.

To Fashola who was by far the best governor in Nigeria during his period and to Ambode and now Sanwo-Olu a leader with substance who has performed spectacularly well.

Eni ba fe daso funi, to’run re la’n koko wo. I don’t see a reason why people in Lagos will ignore a working formulae for an utopia that’s not even certain.

I disagree that Fashila was yhe best governor in Nigeria. Lagos irrespective of all party affiliations has undue advantage as a former federal capital territory with some of the federal govts most viable assets sited in it. I would argue the likes of Akpabio, chime and the Kwankwaso led adminstrations be given that title. Cos compared to what Lagos generated and how much was actually used or expended in lagos is very low as most of the igr or tax was simply divided amongst apc chieftains and tinubu. We saw how terrible and clueless fashola became as a minister. He was exposed and showed how incompetent he was. As far as I remember even under military regime Lagos state governors have always had undue advantage. Marwa etc

Fahdiga:
After nine years of fighting and killing each other? Yorubas needs to learn a lot about living in peace from the Igbos. Last time I checked Osimbajo and Tinubu are still strangling each other

I dont know if you're igbo but honestly if you are......its a shame. A lot of you so called igbo kids behave like efulefus disgracing us right and left. Talking like kids with no dads... Nwafors typically do not talk like women always looking for petty squabbles..

Do you know what 159000 dollars is?

This shows how easy it' is to be a beautiful chic. Guys even out looking chics... so chics understand how all that fake make up, hair , butt etc they say dem want social justice abi? No worry una go soon be like yankee wey nobody know who be man or woman again. These transgenders are usually more promiscuous and easier to deal with.. Feminism.... well done.. it had hurt women more than ever. Men have always been scarce now you women have to compete with these ones too...well done.

Get married to another man with 2 kids. ..?!!! Men don suffer for thos world shaaaaaaa

I swear to GOD... abia state needs an APC OR APGA ..

This only applies to men... s women....MARRY EARLY...you have a time clock.

Stalin killed more Russians than Germany did... killed almost the same amount of jews and even was an ally of Hitler until Hitler turned on him. He killed in ukraine Hungary Poland czchekslovakia etc. The only people that consider him a hero are communist Russians.... but he built an empire tho. Just like Hitler is still the greatest German leader but definitely an enemy to everyone else.

Woman....?? Give you 20 k and 100k for sex? Is that in pluto... no woman will do it on earth.

DAramis:
This is the second time I am seeing this comment. Does this really happen bro? The other person who made similar comment said something about “cooking the woman up” though he didn’t give further information.

Lastly, what is your view on married woman working in the region of their residence?
Should the husband allow her to keep all her salary while facing the home front by himself?or should he demand certain percentage to be paid into joint custody account monthly?If yes, what percentage is appropriate? 50 or 60 or 70 etc (I am not talking about joint account were the woman donates everything while the husband then spends money for running the house from his salary)

I am asking all these questions because I know money happens to be one of the motivating factor that leads to most problems. No wonder some would not allow their wives to work but rather become a full time housewife

NB: Experienced and married people should also contribute towards answering my questions above.

ok let me break it down.. Forget all the nonsense you read from these witch stories.
A man goes abroad. Probably has no money for school and then starts working in a factory, then moves up to driving cabs ( has no money for schooling as he is sending money back to wife and kids while working.) He is in his 40s. He decides to bring the woman and the kids abroad( a very expensive time consuming venture). They come over. Now he has to get a bigger house in the suburbs, put the kids in school, feed them and also put his wife in nursing school. All by himself with his low income job.. He opens credit card for her under his name and starts building her credit. He has to get her a car too while paying the rent or mortgage.... Now he's in his 50s. He is still carrying the family load alone. His wife finishes cna, goes to nursing school and graduates and starts working( perhaps with some few student loan debt in few cases). The man has struggled to buy a small house while carrying the whole family. Now he's old ie early 60s. The wife starts working. He now has various health issues and is well in his late 50s/ early 60s. He decides he needs to rest and reduce work hours....expecting his wife whom he had trained to step in. She carries 70 percent of family load for a few months and becomes angry. Accusing him of being Lazy and unfair. She now has money. She starts calling the shots and in a lot of cases now flirting /having bf. Going for parties and living the city girl life. The disrespect starts. They start having issues... she becomes really irritated at the man whom she now considers beneath her (women are hypergamous). She start looking to replace him. Their fights increase as she keeps taunting him to get off his lazy ass as she's not a slave. This is the story she starts spreading to garner support. One day she accuses the man of domestic violence falsely. The man has to leave the house he bought from sweat and all his struggling alone. In some cases depending on the age of the child he is forced to pay child support.... the world judges him as a lazy man. HE IS IN HIS 60s ... raised and trained his family especially the now boss babe wife. Suddenly his whole life is destroyed. She teaches the kids to insult look down on their dad as she uses her money to manipulate them. The man is destroyed. Both financially and emotionally. He starts going into depression..in some cases like we hear a lot .. he acquires a gun comes back and ends her life and his. I JUST GAVE YOU A NORM FOR MOST OF THE MEN THAT CAME IN THE 80S /90s AND BROUGHT IN WOMEN. They are all advising younger men.... DO NOT TRY IT. The stories are always similar. Except on very rare occasions. Our Nigerian women are notorious for destroying men when they get here. They want ro be boss babes.

LadyRosa:
The law is good that way, although it may seem unfair. If patriarchal advantages are not checked, women and most especially children will suffer great neglect in every aspect of their early lives.

A man can wake up and leave but let him forfeit his properties for t h e benefits of his kids, who usually here in Nigeria are the most suffered from broken marriages. So many cases of deadbeat fathers chasing his wives and kids and bringing in another woman to reap where she didn't sow.

The reason why Nigeria men over there are kicked out is MAINLY because they refused to accept the fact that the power they have over Nigerian women stops the moment they step out of the country.

well that's why all of una dey find husband like rats seeking cheese. Have you looked at marriage statistics . Why do u think western women are complaining seriously ? Men are just banging and not committing. It's not just naija men. The reason Arabs and Asians, Latinos are taking over is because their women are not stupid enough to challenge their men. But raise successful boys who are taking over..

OyinNurse:
Lol @ reasonable salary. Anyway there are still some of us who married US Citizens and have not gone crazy because of blue passport

You are the few sensible ones.

LadyRosa:
There are lots of women who bring their spouse over there after getting married to them in naija. Most end up misbehaving and divorcing their wives after gaining grounds.
But we don't hear about such, it hardly makes Frontpage.

Na only man dey carry wife come abroad. Many women wey dey carry their unemployed leeches go abroad, only for them to earn a few dollars and start chasing women n and transsexuals like he goat on heat.

talk about being biased.

Lies. ..... there are VERY VERY FEW women that marry men and bring them abroad. Practically none. And even when the men come.. with all the woman's wahala the highest that will happen is he will leave her. He doesn't take her house and recieve child support or alimony. He still loses his kids and probably will be the one paying child support. All round the man loses.

Commotfornigeri:
It goes both ways.

I have a friend whose husband just ran away after securing papers. She left oyibo and went to nigeria to marry him

Left her with kids, bills, mortgage, everything.

So as you encourage men to learn, women should learn too.

I encourage girls to charge their "nigerian husbands" at least $100k as insurance. Forget love, it can be so deceitful. If he flees, then she has consolation. If he stays, they use the money for their kids.

If the man cannot afford it, let him take a walk.

Going to nigeria to marry a husband or a wife is like playing baba ijebu with your marital life.

rubbish .... atleast he ran away. Naija girls will take your whole properties and bring in new bf into house you brought Her into.... WHILE YOURE STILL PAYING HER ALIMONY AND CHILD SUPPORT .

nedugroup:
Has a US Nigeria lady taken a Nigerian man from African to marry her and live with her in the US. I want to know pls cos I have never heard it.

NEVER

LadyRosa:
Hmmm...
You want to bring your wife to USA and still want to use the subjugative laws on here to run her life abroad. Guy, for Away, there's no kinsmen to settle blue black punch marks you guys often decorate her with here in naija.

The laws there are pro-women, you do anyhow, you see anyhow.

Respect your wives abroad OR better still don't marry at all.

I GUESS WE CHOOSE THE LATTER... NO NEED TO TIE YOUR LOFE DOWN WITH ONE WOMAN THAT WILL DESTROY U JO...

Codezz:
Trick and bring her back to naija then dump her.

worst mistake you will make. She can always come back duhh. Except you delete her in naija

Where is her father.....well done ...

Cyphar:
is this actually possible? jeez

na ppl like you don chop all ur cousins sef. The ones that always claim they never knew a phenomenon was possible lol... ova leave your cousins alone..

Oga tell her you no do again. Let her know the marriage is threatened. Leave the house.. You already messed up by confronting too quick. But the fact she lied about a hotel key etc thatss enough to know there is hanky panky.. it's her duty to try make sense out of this situation to you and perhaps convince you. Truth is If she's not cheating she would let you into all her privacy , her phone every detail.. THERE WONT BE DELETED MESSAGES etc if she is cheating she will get a new number, change passwords and delete / change the dudes name in contact. and be more secretive.

If we didn't build it why are we posing with it.. the people that built it are more superior humans to us.... useless black race.

vastolord4:
Lol.. she now drinks from the bottle.. Davido really spoilt this chick..

Nooooooo ... DAVIDOOO DODGED A BULLET... NA MY SISTER BUT, SHES ONE OF THE LAGOS GROWN. Which explains the stupid decision of becoming a babymama.. fall our hand ....

aribisala0:
Well think before jumping into other people's conversations
We do not agree that it was anti Eboe riots because we never discussed that

The only thing that happened is someone said those killed were solely Eboes and I corrected him and you just jumped in and interjected yourself and started talking ignorantly
What we agree is that NOT ONLY EBOES WERE KILLED in the 1952 riots as evidenced by the link you provided yourself

Learn to think before talking or jumping into other people's conversations

oga stop being a bitch ...knit picking. Your SOLELY argument sounds very dumb

aribisala0:
I did not come out doing anything

I just question one fact that the 1952 Kano killings was solely Ibos.

Nothing else


End of discussion

I think we are in agreement that that is false so nothing else for me to add

ok we both agree it was ANTI IGBO RIOTS THEN.. dont know what the argument was.

aribisala0:
You cannot decide for me what I should talk about
I decide what I want to talk about and that was to correct the claim that those killed in the Kano riots were solely Eboes. The claim is false and I chose to correct it period.
So as far as I am concerned you are constituting a nuisance?
I did not say other things are not important. If you want to discuss anything that is YOUR choice but you cannot impose that on ME
Did I talk to you ? You just interjected yourself out of nowhere to start talking rubbish
Go back and see how we started

Oga when did this argument Ecole SOLELY? the argument was that the pogroms were targeted at igbos... you came our and started talking rubbish and debunking facts... CLAIMING IT WASNT TARGETED AT IGBOS... IF YOU HAVE MADE A U TURN AND AGREED IGBOS WERE TARGETED...BUT OTHER PPL ALSO GOT CAUGHT IN THE UNFORTU ATE EVENT THEN WE HAVE NO ARGUMENT.. BIT DONT EVER TRY TO REWRIYE HISTORY THAT IGBPS WERE NOT THE MAIN TARGET.

aribisala0:
That is another issue
You don't just start a foolish argument and when it does not favour you say

"okay lets us change the subject"
What makes you think I would be interested

The issue I responded to was the claim that those killed in 1952 in Kano were SOLELY IBOS

Any other thing is another matter

Oga I will not argue Semantics with you.. THE HOLOCAUST didn't have SOLELY Jews killed, but when you talk about HOLOCAUST its a euphemism for the Jewish mass murders cos they were the main target. The rest were collateral damage. Now I don't know where I argued with you about SOLELY igbos being killed. I sent you neutral journal, where ANTI IGBO RIOTS WAs USED TO DESCRIBE VARIOUS TIMELINES... That means the targets were igbos... we have a video of the leader of the north Ahmadu Bello preaching igbo hate on live tv.... yet you keep shadow boxing.. Every other ethnicity that was affected during the anti igbo riots were collateral damage and their numbers so small and almost insignificant.. THE TARGET WAS IGBO. Man I'm losing hair follicles with you.

Naijadaily:
https://businessday.ng/amp/politics/article/presidency-i-will-consider-contesting-if-apc-zones-ticket-to-south-east-orji-kalu/

I'd rather vote a Tinubu than a Kalu... I swear

aribisala0:
Stop waffling
There is only one point.
The quote was
Those killed were solely Eboes
That is not true
The link YOU provided contradicts that claim

If you are not prepared to address what is a very specific issue then

Shut up and go away

SO THERES BEEN KILLINGS OF OTHER PEOPLE, BUT WHO HAS RECIEVED THE LARGEST AND WHICH PEOPLE HAVE HAD A MASSACRE EVEN SUPPORTED BY GOVT FORCES AND IM NOT TALKING OF THE CIVIL WAR .. CAN YOU ANSWER THIS SIMPLE QUESTION? COS APPARENTLY EVERY KINK I SEND YOU KNIT PICK WHAT YOUBWANT TO SEE.

aribisala0:
First you call me a kid even though you do not know me . Is that not idiocy?


Now did you read what you quoted and the link YOU provided ? Is that not foolishness?

The claim is that only Ibos were killed

Your own link contradicts that.

Have you got a brain?

https://www.refworld.org/docid/469f38c3467.html

Honestly I am shadow boxing with you... what exactly is your point? Are you saying the anti igbo pogroms are all myths or that it was not only igbos killed? The last time I checked Over 70 percent of southerners that have always lived up north are igbos. Plus the target for these pogroms were igbo. The others sffeftex were just collateral damage. I vant be arguing known historical facts you sound the germans asking for proof about the scale of genocide in auschwitz.... im losing hair follicles arguing know historical facts.

I sent you the last link cos it was a documentation that had nothing to do with igbo history perse but general timelines..... HOW MANY ANTI IGBO RIOTS DID YOU READ THERE? HOW MNY ANTI YORUBA/ IZON/ IBIBIO/ TIV/ JUKUN ETC DID YOU SEE THERE....

DubaiLandLord:
Gibberish!!

What year and date is Rivers and Cross River created?

When did Ojukwu declare Biafra?

When did this traditional meeting take place and where?

Minorities in the Eastern region were complaining about been marginalise, and this same people suddenly accepted to be in Biafla with ibos they were claiming was marginalising them? Do you even have sense at all to think this through Mr. Man?

Ojuku can't just decide to secede just because leaders from the minority group gave him ahead to do so

Only through a referendum can such a thing happen.

Ojuku should have learnt to what happened to Adaka Boro.

Adaka Boro also had a valid reason to secede and he didn't even secede with Ibo land.

if you don't know a meeting was held and are asking me for details then there is really no need to argue with you. Go and read different accounts of history books.... better still just read ADEMOYEGAS BOOK.... WHY WR STRUCK... Hopefully bigotry will not cloud reasoning.

Putindbutt:
There was a clamour for the creation of COR states but was denied them. They wanted an independent state from ibo majority.

Just like Njaba people in imo state were clamoring for their own state... this argument is dead.