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CelebritiesRe: D'banj And Ashish J. Thakkar, African Youngest Billionaire Pictured Together by Revolva(m): 10:43am On Feb 28, 2015
Dbanj will not go and sing and make hits na to dey snap with billionaires with no reason of makin deals with them.....#ogatitus
FamilyRe: I Can’t Cope With His Big Manhood- Wife Tells Court by Revolva(m): 10:40am On Feb 28, 2015
Hahaha omo d guy na mandingo sha....lol d woman fear she taya for d d...k
CelebritiesRe: Don Jazzy’s Mavin Records Releases New Photos by Revolva(m): 7:42am On Feb 28, 2015
grin grin grin angry angry angry where is oga titua ejan nla....lol....omo donjazzy team is the winning team..dbanj is loosing day by day
RomanceRe: After Sex, Do You Tell Your Partner, "Thank You" by Revolva(m): 7:26am On Feb 28, 2015
embarassed embarassed embarassed I JUST DANCE SEKEM SEKEM..always
CrimeRe: Ways To Identify A Pick Pocket In A Commercial Vehicle by Revolva(m): 11:30pm On Feb 27, 2015
grin @op If u like bring ways to identify a pick poket...dem go still wash u..if dem wan collect from you....dem go obtain u...but this picking poket hustle na old format na nobody dey do am again na
RomanceRe: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by Revolva(m): 4:44pm On Feb 27, 2015
angry na when e don red...time don dey go for her side she go dey say dat....lol
Jobs/VacanciesRe: KOKO TV Is Hiring In Nigeria! by Revolva(m): 4:41pm On Feb 27, 2015
Koko TV....is it owned by eja nla skibanj...huh? am just asking
PhonesRe: HELP!!! Is There Anything I Can Sue MTN For? by Revolva(m): 4:36pm On Feb 27, 2015
Mtn so annoyin omo Oga dem dey sue breeze omo mtn na go still win u...oo dem get mouf o
PoliticsRe: "I Am Ready Group" Unveils The Longest Banner For Buhari In Lagos (Pictures) by Revolva(m): 4:19pm On Feb 27, 2015
Ok na longest banner...buhari don dey shake jonathan ooo
RomanceRe: 6 Things That Could Destroy Your Relationship by Revolva(op): 4:16pm On Feb 27, 2015
diddydiva:
so what?

you think you have the right to plagarise?

calm down huh? am not a mod neither am i the original owner of this post so save your energy till when it is needed
I think say u wan go call police..na....i ave d right to plagiarise ok sweetheart
RomanceRe: 6 Things That Could Destroy Your Relationship by Revolva(op): 12:23pm On Feb 27, 2015
diddydiva:
seen this somewhere.
So wat..?
Romance6 Things That Could Destroy Your Relationship by Revolva(op): 9:22am On Feb 27, 2015
There are no perfect relationships, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't expereince a measure of peace with your partner.

However, a lot of relationships end abruptly even when it could have been prevented, but because the couple are too immersed in their anger, they can't find a permanent solution to their problems.

There are some characteristics that either you or your partner may possess, that could ultimately ruin your relationship.

Criticism: Relationship expert John Gottman, who wrote The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, is known for determining the success of a marriage within five minutes of meeting the couple. One of the deciding factors is evidence of criticism. Gottman knows couples will complain in their relationships, but he differentiates complaining from criticism. Criticism is more 'global' because it attacks the person and not their behaviour. So, how do we know if criticism has crept in? An example would be, "The reason you didn't pick up the kids is not because you forgot. It's because you are a terrible father." Know how to spot criticism, because it could be killing your relationship.

Mind reading: The easiest way to set a relationship on a death spiral is to play armchair psychic. Mind reading takes a posture of assumption instead of listening, judgment instead of compassion. When we try and read the thoughts, motives, and intentions of another person, their voice is taken away. It dehumanizes the partner and does not give them room for explanation. We all struggle with this one because it's easier to play 'mind reader' than listen to your partner. If you say, "I know why you did this…" there's a possibility mind reading has entered the relationship.

Unrealistic expectations: When you begin a relationship, there are certain underlying expectations. These boundaries get wrapped up in behavior and action. This might be particular chores around the house, how money is spent, or how children are disciplined. Problems emerge when these expectations become unrealistic and the partner feels crushed under the weight of their failing behaviour. Most likely this will lead to an unhealthy relationship.

Control: The desire to control your partner, according to is rooted in fear and insecurity. A controlling attitude has more to do with us, and less with the partner. When control enters a relationship, an underlying fear is buzzing behind the surface. It may be fear of not knowing the future. Fear of abandonment. Fear of being seen as a terrible spouse. Until we get a handle on our own insecurities the partner will suffer. If we constantly say "Don't do that," or "Stop doing this," we might be a control freak.

Comparison: Comparing your current partner with a former relationship is a guaranteed disaster. The comparison is unfair. No one person is the standard for all relationships. If they were so great why did the relationship not work out? Testing your current relationship, based on a prior one, is a good way to kill your relationship before it begins. Relationships are complex because of timing, maturity of the partner, and emotional stability. These factors change over time.

Routine: All relationships get stale. When partners get comfortable with one another they stop doing the little things. Eventually, boredom and disinterest set in. But this is normal. It just means we need to mix it up. Maybe we need a new routine. A date night every Friday night. A vacation to an exotic locale. Taking up a hobby together. Or finding different ways to communicate with one another. Routine doesn't need to have the last say in a relationship. Identify it. Mix it up. Watch your relationship come back to life.
Music BusinessRe: Please How Much Will It Take To Blow A Music Artiste in nigeria by Revolva(m): 11:14am On Feb 26, 2015
it depends on the artist truly if u spend 15 milla on a wack artist no matter how do the best PR n best promo nobody will know him...look at oritse femi that guy has talent n music in him...he has something to sing ...conscious n culturally...blend with galala style..n afro dancehall he has the voice....he has been in the industry since with his group jungulist but many nigerian dont know him as at then all they say its razzz ajegunle music.....look at him now...with the helping hands of investors that gave him few money to shoot a standard video of his song BETTER he has made it....ok....why wont he blow... ...

look if u dont ave musical talent i beg no sing unless u r wasting ur time
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FamilyRe: Woman Gives Birth To Baby Without Arms In Ogun (the Baby Pictured) by Revolva(m): 10:46am On Feb 26, 2015
grin grin grin grin lol notin wey person no go see for naija
CelebritiesRe: Banky W Mocks Arsenal Goal Keeper On Instagram by Revolva(m): 10:43am On Feb 26, 2015
make e self go keep na/...ori nla
CrimeRe: How I Lost A Colleague To Lagos Bus Drivers by Revolva(m): 9:51am On Feb 26, 2015
R I p sha but all this religious fanatics na wa o
RomanceRe: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Revolva(m): 9:27am On Feb 26, 2015
Hahaha @op na ur type no dey give ur bf sex dats why he has naked the gal next door on d street or carry ashewo come house come bulala haha omo no be new thing so...u think say na ur soup he go dey chop every time he go taya am...gal if u leave. dis guy it's possible the guy will get marries to another babe and you go dey old dey go..husband scarce o
RomanceRe: Signs Of A Potential Wife-Beater by Revolva(m): 9:24am On Feb 26, 2015
LadyX:
How do you relate with your partner?
You don't need to know and I will like to beat u also
RomanceRe: Signs Of A Potential Wife-Beater by Revolva(m): 12:11am On Feb 24, 2015
I am one pls oooo I ave all the qualities
FoodRe: 10 Reasons You Should Stop Eating Too much Instant Noodles (must See) by Revolva(m): 11:53pm On Feb 23, 2015
They can't stop people from eating it it's the best meal an average nigerian can ever think of...and all dem abokis n fast food vendors are using it as a big time biz..but to me this is a factful issue it's not too good to eat noodles toooo much Ooo cos it's an inorganic food
FoodRe: Campaign Bread (pics) by Revolva(m): 11:45pm On Feb 23, 2015
With all this nonsense nigeria never better
CelebritiesRe: Genevieve Nnaji Buys Multimillion Mansion In Accra by Revolva(m): 11:42pm On Feb 23, 2015
Genevieve is the biggest ashe.wo in naija....hahha atiku money dey inside the mansion project also
HealthRe: 21 Million Nigerians Have Mental Problems – Expert by Revolva(m): 10:49pm On Feb 23, 2015
I dey tell una there r many mentally deranged people in this country...I swear....stress too much poverty yakpa....infact in nigeria iif u wake up ur day is never ur day.....
RomanceRe: 3 Steps Of Making A Girl Fall In Love Without Spending by Revolva(m): 6:07pm On Feb 23, 2015
I laff in spanish Oga u must spend money ok sorry
CelebritiesRe: ”you Only Beg Girls For Money,i Will Finish Your Dead Career- Wizkid Tell Skales by Revolva(m): 3:31pm On Feb 23, 2015
Wizkid sef too dey vex look how d dude writes on twitter? Sef...hahah na wa oo omo I beg make e cool down skales shak body is a smashin hit the bit by jaypizzle production murder all Wizkid beat
CelebritiesRe: Denrele Edun Finally Reveals He Is Gay? by Revolva(m): 3:24pm On Feb 23, 2015
You see I don't believe dis dude is gay...he only act like one to sell his personality in the showbiz world...ok
RomanceRe: Annoying Things Guys Do When Chatting With A Lady(1st Time) by Revolva(m): 11:55am On Feb 23, 2015
As u see me I don't use any how people pics as dp....cos am a business...man...omo I get babe wey I wan ynash for Bbm no hard feelings if I no u r a. desperado..i will prepare for d babe...love kor
InvestmentRe: Chisco Transport Buses Burnt In Lagos By Hoodlums by Revolva(m): 11:05am On Feb 23, 2015
This country is a sad n useless place to live in..imagine some idiot burnin down another man's business
CelebritiesRe: Chidinma Looking So Fine In This Traditional Attire (photo) by Revolva(m): 11:03am On Feb 23, 2015
One word. - not intrested

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