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We all know the stereotype that women love bad boys because nice guys whine about it all the time. But there is some truth to the stereotype. A recent study showed that men with “bad boy” traits such as disagreeableness, narcissism, psychopathy, and Machiavellianism did indeed have more romantic partners than humble and agreeable guys.

While I am not suggesting a guy become a bad boy (or that women date them), nice guys could learn a thing or two from bad boys—minus the jerk behavior, of course.
1. Bad boys will talk to any woman they meet.

While a “nice guy” is quietly building up the courage to talk to the woman from work he has stared

at for months, thirty bad boys have already hit on her. The odds are pretty good she has begun dating one of them, while the nice guy is still mentally preparing to talk to her.

The narcissistic bad boy has no problem using a lame pickup line on a hundred girls a month. And even if 99 girls reject him, that one success a month will put him ahead of the nice guy who is too afraid to talk to any girls.
2. Bad boys are confident.

Most people don’t like cocky guys. However, most of us like whiny, needy, and pathetic guys even less. A bad boy may be bad news in many ways, but his cocky “Who cares what anybody thinks of me?” demeanor is more attractive than the “Woe is me, I can’t get a date” attitude of some nice guys. In terms of attracting women, narcissistic overconfidence beats crippling insecurity any day.




3. Bad boys are charming.

Psychopaths aren’t all criminals. In fact, there are more psychopaths in business leadership positions than in prisons. Psychopaths are often well-liked and manipulative charmers, and they know how to use humor, charm, and compliments to make a girl feel good, even if they don’t mean any of it. The bad boy has already won a girl over with his charm before most nice guys can get an awkward “I kind of like you” out of their mouths.


4. Bad boys will talk to even the most guarded women.

Every guy who has ever gone to a club is familiar with women who get dragged there with their friends, hating every second of it. They glare at any guy who so much as looks like he is going to approach them. This scares off most guys, except those men who are so self-centered that a woman’s hostile body language doesn’t even affect them.

The bad boy approaches these “difficult” women, turns on his charm, and occasionally connects with them. It is not just the case at clubs. Bad boys will approach girls that other guys are afraid to approach, including those women that other men have determined are “out of their league.” Why is that really pretty girl with a bad boy? Likely it is because a “nice guy” was too afraid to talk to her but a bad boy wasn’t.

If you are looking for quick bleeping (please, be wise!), you can go ahead and get yourself hooked to a runs girl for all I care. But if you are looking for a nice, ambitious, focused and omiemieristic grin young woman, then you should observe the following traits of a runs girl, who might just be out there to ruin your entire career and get your whole life messed up!!!



1) A runs girl hardly talks about the future as regards her academic pursuits! By their fruits, ye shall know themgrin How can you claim to be an undergraduate, yet you frown and feel uncomfortable when you discuss with a young man on a date? What would she want to discuss with the guy then? Should it be se.x or how jump from one night club to the other? If you go out with a girl on a date and she frowns at the slightest hint of study, quiz, assignments, exams, research, etc, run away from her! The possiblity that she is a runs girl is very high! Chai!!! Unu ge gbum mmadu grin



2) If she goes on a date with you, observe her responses carefully. The truth is that, she doesn’t want to engage in any intelligent conversation with you. Gush! Intelligent conversations that deal with life’s reality bore her a lot. She is just interested in how much you are ready to give her and where and how soon the bleeping would take place! Run boy, and don’t forget to write a ‘thank you’ letter to me grin



3) Watch her movement in school. They are mostly on and off. They travel a lot…to Lagos to bleep Tomide…to Onitsha to bleep Dike…to Zaria to bleep Haruna…to Warri to bleep Chief Omiragua grin. They are hardly found on campus during weekends except they have ‘clients’ in town!



4) They look very expensive all the time. Though they might be very cheap! As cheap as 500 naira per round! Don’t let their brazilian hairs, expensive communication gadgets (phones, ipads, etc), make-up, artificial nails and eye-lashes deceive you! They are all fake! Try to go see dia papa house; na zinc house! grin



5) You hardly visit them and meet them studying. When would they have time to study when they are busy sending unclad pics to their clients and negotiating meeting points and oloshoristic visits!



6) They always use near-unclad pics as their display pictures on social networks. Those pics where their big butts, boobs and laps are revealed flagrantly! All these are done to sell ‘market’. No decent girl does that.



7) They are the ones that bleep those pot-bellied and goatee lecturers that look like Victor Osuagwu in other to pass exams! No decent girl who is intelligent and knows what brought her to school would do that.



We all know some gurls can pretend to be decent, but the above are clear signs you should watch out for!



God bless everyone reading this post!



Feel free to Add yours.

Opiosko:
Old man maturity is not the accummulation of yrs.

Old man I know ok

Wats d meaning of all these

nellyelitz:
My boss openly said he's tracking us with his mobile phone whenever he calls, said he can track anyone of us provided the sim is registered.

He caught our driver and one of my other colleague last week. This is affecting my movement and I've tried most of the mobile apps but I find it hard to see any app tracking a caller without his GPS being activated. True caller is not working either.

Please I need help from an expert.

Thanks

ol boy u no go fit dey lie again o

Up till today....hahah

Wat of end of discussion na

Well don't blame davido....look dude is rich n can f...k any naija babe any groupie...not only he is rich if u r in d showbiz world...punany plenty...naija babe's are too loose when money is there.....

As for this top ashewo in abuja wey he got pregnant..she wanted it...but shame to her and her family glod digger. wh.ore.....

She is known for f.....k n s...ng top politrikcian in abuja...#allgyalsnaashewo

@15 already a B****h shame to her

Start a beer palour business jare..the business is booming....oooo.....start small small later u go buy fridge plasma TV n stereo....n later u go dey cook kpomo pepper soup fried meat....from there men of substance will patronise u n even dash u money to assist u....from there u don be chairlady ooo

Hhahha money for hand back for ground...depends on how u want the love...na....naija gals na MONEY oooo don't be fooled wit money u go conquer dem without money u r just a fool to dem n u go feel bad when dem show u pepper

4 litres..omo una wan turn me to camel?

Hahhaa he boobs just big like derty...with her thin waist...her lips is good for BJ

For me a lady is ripe for marriage at 25yrs and a man should be 35 we are talking about maturity here ok

Bash may be enjoyin like a king there..he is influential na...u think someone like bas will suffer there na VIP he dey n he is looking for new talent to catch n coach in boxin

We don hear....my b**** will continue to give me BJ steady...I love havin BJ

If he dies how dat wan take concern me

Don Jazzy #IDJA....where is Oga titus...

Dis one the juju wey dem take tie am dey for inside one thick forest for benin hahahhaha #mugu must continue to dey pay

joywendy:
Damn

LMAO! Nlanders chai


Seriously when you leave the country abroad no one cares what tribe or country you are from, to those over there you are BLACK. I doubt if she has been to her parents home country before and some people are already claiming her

help me tell them.........they dont know anything ..once you are born abroad you are not a nigerian by nationality......nigerians here on NL are very annoying.....on tribal issues.......

Please how is Sugar - sugar free?

haaaa na people brothers n pikin be this oo.....haba...naija shoot n kill its a crime

exxell:
Umu Igbo na eme ofuma.... In short, IGBO AMAKA! O LORD GOD, PLEASE GRANT OUR BIAFRAN DREAMS... Amen.

tribal bigot...see dem shame..look she may be bearing duru for now...in the next 50 years she go change name and bone naija...Mr igbotic she dey feed u?

Pls dis is old new na and old pictures and most of these pics. R untrue...jare for kirikiri no be people dey go and comeout....yes our wicked government is not helping as much but that pics is a false pic

Lagos is far more the safest and best I beg I hate abuja I hate PH I can manage calabar and enugu

Nigerian pastors are hustlers and big businessmen.....thats all I know....ok church na office for naija

Nigeria ooooooo I beg na where Sean tizzle dey find him next pay check jare....