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Nairaland / General / Re: 2024 Is The Year Of Nairaland's Resurgence by RexEmmyGee: 9:41pm On Jan 01 |
NL just be like today, yesterday and forever 2 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Guinean President's Unconventional Security Details: Video Sparks Controversy by RexEmmyGee: 6:42am On Jul 05, 2023 |
Person go stay for that uncompleted building shoot am for head 1 Like |
Career / Re: See Average Monthly Net Salary Of Some Countries by RexEmmyGee: 6:54pm On Apr 30, 2023 |
datola:Bring your wife over and split bills 1 Like |
Family / Re: Caucasian Woman's Traditional Way Of Serving Nigerian Husband Food Causes Stir by RexEmmyGee: 4:38am On Apr 29, 2023 |
tsdarkside: Check this page out bro on fb it might change your narrative. *nwanyiocha* |
Politics / Re: Shi’ites Clash With El-rufai’s Convoy, Four Dead by RexEmmyGee: 7:21am On Mar 17, 2023 |
OlawaleBammie: They started with Buratai in Zaria |
Business / Re: A Customer Paid Me With The Old #500 This Morning by RexEmmyGee: 5:55pm On Mar 07, 2023 |
noble71:They are 7 Likes 1 Share |
Business / Re: A Customer Paid Me With The Old #500 This Morning by RexEmmyGee: 5:53pm On Mar 07, 2023 |
ahnie:You're save bro. It's now accepted 4 Likes |
Crime / Re: A Man Attacks A Black Woman In France And Gets Instant Karma by RexEmmyGee: 4:08am On Nov 05, 2022 |
Fahvvy:Your daughter will be attacked and you'll be there to experience it |
Politics / Re: Peter Obi Rally In Akwa Ibom (Pictures) by RexEmmyGee: 4:40pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
Opinedecandid:What's your point bro |
Romance / Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by RexEmmyGee: 10:59am On Sep 26, 2022 |
This life is just complicated. I was watching a program the other day where people are been screened before they enter into a country. A kid from another country though who got admission to learn English in that country was suspected and was interrogated. When asked about his father's pay, the guy knew exactly what his dad earns. He came into the country legitimately and was freed. Imagine a kid knowing his dad salary but coming back home it's difficult for spouses to know that. Anyway I don't know which side to be because I am not married. Everyone has a reason for their decision. |
Romance / Conflict And Abuse Thrive In Secret by RexEmmyGee: 7:09am On Sep 05, 2022 |
We, as a society, seriously need to stop this nonsense of secrecy in abuse. Children in abusive homes should not say anything outside at the detriment of painting their Men and women in abusive relationships should not say anything outside so they wouldn't shame their There are people googling and researching ' What to do if someone you love abuses you ' because they can't even fathom speaking up. They're afraid of tarnishing the image of their abusers. Worse still, most of them are afraid of what society would say about them, the victims. 'What would people say?' has killed many people, left rapists roaming around family gatherings and kept victims in God when relationships with their emotional, sexual and physical abusers. So back to the Google searches. There's barely any answers (well, not the exact answers that the victims are looking for) Why? 1 Many victims come from a place of feeling like they are at fault. (Keyword being many) 2 They are searching for exact cases or scenarios like theirs. So even if they find an abuse story matching theirs 99%, the missing 1% makes their case different 3. They don't even know if it's abuse. They feel a type of way about it. Find similar stories. But, it doesn't sit well because there's just one common advise. LEAVE How do you start the process of leaving someone when you're not even sure it was abuse. (Inserts the fact that they're ashamed to talk to anyone about it). 4 Finally, (especially with Nigerians) Na white people write am. They are too liberal. They don't know what we face daily and how normal these acts are. Hence, they discredit all the information they googled. The worst part? There's a repeat action and they find themselves googling again. A fucking toxic cycle.� The secrecy is what starts the problem. Conflict and Abuse Thrive in Secrecy The world isn't changing soon. I just feel like dropping the judgemental tone would help victims actually feel safe with you. The moment you start asking very stupid questions like ehn, so you're trying to tell me a girl raped you? Or Your gentle partner beat you? Drop the judgement abeg. And don't be propagating rubbish. Because here's the truth. Dear beautiful souls in abusive relationships, it's always better on the other side. It may not seem like it. But it's always better without the abuser. And if it's love and acceptance you're searching for, the only person that can give you that 100% is YOU. Always look out for Number one. THAT'S YOU Treat yourself better. Please.
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Phones / Re: The Last Person You Blocked, What Did They Do ? by RexEmmyGee: 1:38pm On Aug 18, 2022 |
Dbrawllm0098:If Ned nwoke call u like that nko 2 Likes |
Education / Re: The Most Educated States In Nigeria – Top 10 by RexEmmyGee: 6:22pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
Omoh Kaduna wey be centre for learning no make top 10. A state with the highest number of institutions in Nigeria 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Union Bank Sales Graduate Trainee 2022 by RexEmmyGee: 7:15am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Edezzz: https:///FhMAgQVKrTaD8UU3GtzXvT The link is correct. You can use another WhatsApp link as reference so you'll know where to input the other words ( nairaland usually remove it from the link) |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Union Bank Sales Graduate Trainee 2022 by RexEmmyGee: 8:41am On Aug 04, 2022 |
Edezzz:Check your spellings whatsapp should be in small letters. Also check if the link is complete |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Union Bank Sales Graduate Trainee 2022 by RexEmmyGee: 4:06pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
I’ve opened a WhatsApp group for the trainee position please join so we get better info with this link https:///FhMAgQVKrTaD8UU3GtzXvT https://chat(dot)whatsapp(dot)com/FhMAgQVKrTaD8UU3GtzXvT Replace (dot) with . |
Politics / Re: ASUU Strike: NLC Solidarity Protests (Live Thread) by RexEmmyGee: 11:06am On Jul 26, 2022 |
ASUU Kaduna State University Chapter
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Business / Re: Hope I Wouldn't Find Myself To Be Blamed If I Return This ATM Card To The Owner by RexEmmyGee: 9:51am On Jul 24, 2022 |
Search that name on fb. U might be lucky to trace the owner |
Jobs/Vacancies / Accommodation In Ikoyi Or Environs by RexEmmyGee: 6:21pm On Jul 23, 2022 |
Good day all, after numerous job applications, I was fortunate enough to be invited for a 3 weeks training in Ikoyi by Prudential Zenith life insurance. Currently, I have no one around there or in Lagos. Please, I am looking for anyone who can help accommodate me for these period or know a place I can get cheap accommodation around these axis(2, Aromire Street by Kingsway Road, Ikoyi (Zenith Bank Building), Lagos) thank you. |
Education / Re: Nigerian Woman Who Returned To Secondary School After Child Bearing Graduates by RexEmmyGee: 8:41pm On Jun 24, 2022 |
Chao. . in the class, the woman will be like, my son wetin be number 1 |
Programming / Re: As A Computer Science Student,which Language Should I Start Learning by RexEmmyGee: 9:03am On Jun 19, 2022 |
Increase your digital skills get this ebooks now. 3 in 1 package for just 2k 1: Python- how to program 2:Smart phones troubleshooting and repairs. 3:Web design with HTML and css 0.9.0.2.4.7.4.5.9.0.9 |
Programming / Re: I Want To Learn Programming. Which Language Should I Start With? by RexEmmyGee: 9:01am On Jun 19, 2022 |
Increase your digital skills get this ebooks now. 3 in 1 package for just 2k 1: Python- how to program 2:Smart phones troubleshooting and repairs. 3:Web design with HTML and css 0.9.0.2.4.7.4.5.9.0.9 |
Career / Re: How I Moved From Management Trainee To Assistant Manager Within 4 Years. by RexEmmyGee: 10:49pm On Jun 18, 2022 |
My go check comment section. Ican Money no won drop |
Crime / Re: EFCC Arrests 25 Suspected Internet Fraudsters In Benue by RexEmmyGee: 4:35pm On Jun 14, 2022 |
Lightway:if person go teach me, I go learn. I've been looking for funds for ICAN exams no way. Be like yahoo go be next trial |
Politics / Re: . by RexEmmyGee: 8:10pm On Jun 12, 2022 |
Kpengla:Thank you bro. Do you know any means I can reach out to him? |
Politics / Re: . by RexEmmyGee: 7:32pm On Jun 12, 2022 |
PharoahIII:Just pray for me Sir. That will go along way |
Politics / Re: . by RexEmmyGee: 7:04pm On Jun 12, 2022 |
omowolewa:Thank you. Your prayers and help will go along way. I am just confused now |
Politics / Re: . by RexEmmyGee: 7:03pm On Jun 12, 2022 |
ManOfCompetence:I am confused what will I say when they'll be expecting me to write the exam. Hence the suicide thought |
Politics / Re: . by RexEmmyGee: 6:47pm On Jun 12, 2022 |
VeeVeeMyLuv:Thanks bro. Need your prayers too |
Politics / Re: . by RexEmmyGee: 6:41pm On Jun 12, 2022 |
onumadu: Thank you. I am tired of this world. In my bid to gather more for tutorial classes I lost everything. Darkness everywhere for me |
Politics / Re: . by RexEmmyGee: 6:38pm On Jun 12, 2022 |
PharoahIII:I wouldn't if not for the exams. I don't have any means to raise it. If I had, I wouldn't have begged |
Politics / Re: . by RexEmmyGee: 6:36pm On Jun 12, 2022 |
bigpicture001:I've learnt my lesson Sir. I need prayers. I just want to write this exams. Please |
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