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I didn't promise to marry her

I am currently in a dilemma,I don't know the step to take. I came across a lady last year October after defending my Bsc .We started flowing with each other to the extent we fall in love for each other. As times goes ,I realized that she was not privilege to further her education.My love for her began to decay. After my defends,my parents have not been sending me money again and life began to be tougher for me. She is working in fast food restaurants as a manager of the restaurant and her brother is in Malta and do sent her funds.She has contributed to my wellbeing both financially and materially. I have attempted to break up with her for 3 times but each time I planned I couldn't do it because I still have a soft touch for her. I constantly told her if a good man comes her way that she should consider because I currently don't have the financial capacity to proceed her marital rites all these are just excuses to make her have a second thought about me. I stop sleeping with her since last year December because I don't want to exploit her any longer. The truth of the matter is that this lady is older than me. I am currently 29 while she is 32. When I told my parents about what am going through, my mum blamed me of allowing the the lady to develop deep feelings for me and ask me to go ahead and marry her while my dad instructed not to do so if I don't love her but ask me to compensate the lady for time wasting by paying her off. The only money that I realized in my newly established business is 500k and
I wouldn't want to use it in paying her off because I might return to squares. I don't know the step to take because I don't want her to be devastated and sad. Please nairalanders , I need you guys help.

The brain lecturer from the department of Geography and Natural Resources Management decided to test his students using Burna Boy popular interview saying.
You go explain tire...no evidence.

Hatred...Governor udom administration is full of hatred...simply because he defected to another party...he decided to use EFCC to front his hatred....the impotent umo eno that lacks waec certificate as no good governance ambition towards the state...#justiceforoba.

A poor man who has no money to attend cinema ,clubs or any social gathering as a source of fun will only take his wife as the only source of fun,by doing that the wife will now turn to sex machine and baby making factory.

Killing your brothers and sisters because of the so called non-existent biafra...if you ask them what motivates them to look for independent they will tell you that they are being deprived as if they are not being given opportunity to elect their representatives to the upper and lower federal houses...remember,when the children of Israel wanted to be free from the Egyptians they were others tribes ...they didn't asked those tribes to follow them...so if you want to be free go and be free alone..don't come and persuade me to follow you because you have seen my resources..get your independent with your five states and remain a landlocked country and no access to the coast let me see how Nigeria will allow you to develop..long live Akwa Ibomites,Long lives Nigeria

There is so much joy when someone just gain admission to study in the university...I was very good in Geography even before I enter secondary school.I got A1 in my O level Geography result and that gave me the impetus to seek for an admission to study geography in the University of Uyo. fortunately,I got admission in my first attempt,it was quite impressive.In my year 1(100L), I struggle and scale 3.52, I was not happy though I thank God. When I enter 200L, I came across courses like Cartography and Climatology, that's when I realised that geography is not only what I imagined.. Cartography lab. was my friend, I do slept there like a street Wanderer. Initially, I was a kind of bragging type but the stress that am going through have humble me,my dad once said that I have repent. My main aim is to graduate with second class upper,I just pray God to finish my 200L with at 3.6 and nothing will stop me not to graduate with second class upper.With God and guts, nothing is impossible... studying Geography in Uniuyo is like going to US Navy training...

Village girl is even the worst....is better to get someone that has exposed than to get person that have never seen anything yet...

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Can't you mind your business

Nothing where beret no go see for Mercy Chinwo head... Bandits of benefit

Old men that are still using 19 century methods to teach..calling theirself professors...

Damn, aba as dirty as pit toilet

Good one,Kaduna sabi body past Kano

Coconut plantation, scam pickcock paint, scam automobile industry,scam tomatoes industry,scam Now solid mineral, where is it found?

"If only you will be willing and obedience, you shall eat the fruit of the land" ,Fruit of the land is not in heaven is on earth..and this is the evidence of the fruit of the land.. I love you Daddy and i pray always and forever let ur blessings follow me..

Chelsea vs Napoli, UEFA Champions league 2012

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Everyday blacks, Africans Americans.tell them to come to my hometown am gonna show them land to build houses before the white majority begins ethnic cleansing and sweep them all off.

Wait o, who is marginalizing the Igbo? or do you even know the meaning of marginalization? , they are being allowed to vote their representatives to both the upper and the lower house in the National Assemblies, they are being appointed as ministers...If the Igbo so desire of the so called mockery biafra they should go to their representatives to raise the issue in the house and let others house member delibrate on it. And if they want to be free let them be free alone let them shun the south south..

Let him go and sleep, his power is no longer needed.

Am not a skeptic, but I want to tell you that the Isreali govenment are putting all this just for tourism

What is it again...provide job opportunities for guys...A Poor person has nothing to do with airport..Go and do your own lets us see, stop turning bouncer ontop of another man's briefcase...this airport was build by another man's administration

Political propaganda, since i was in primary school, now am in 300L in the university, Ibom Seaport...

Police brutality, every year The Nigeria Police Force are busy recruiting animals to the force...I rather pay a visit to the red sand than to be a member of untrain dogs

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