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healthserve:
What's your decision now?

You need to decide what you want. What do you want. The sex or your friendship

healthserve:
You will hate yourself years down the line I swear it. It's not like she can't give you. But you'll hate yourself. Forget the sex. Take the friendship bro. Never leave yourself where you'll be stuck between these two, f you want sex, never go for companionship. You caused all of this.let me talk like her. Shry you know

healthserve:
She's not rejecting you. Neither are you sexually unattractive. She simply has psychological blocks that helps her stay in check so she doesn't just succumb to casual sex. If she wants to have sex,especially a first, the mental blocks telsl her it has to be spectacular and for good reasons.

She sees through you that you're trying to exploit your friendships to gain entrance and knows you'll be the hurting sorry if and after you've gotten it


Buy her a drink, she's smart. She's preserving your friendship and protecting your friendship bond from contaminants which you're bringing to the mix. If you want more than sex from her, she'll give it to you. While she may have some attraction, she's undecided about you because even you haven't defined what you want/your stance





Cc XhosaNostra

XhosaNostra:
LMFAO. Go on with your bad self.

XhosaNostra:
Yes. Kissing & telling. You overshared, I expected to hear you moan or something.

healthserve:
You're an emotional thief. What does her decision have to do with your individuality.

Dude, you're stuck with your self-appraisals and self view of yourself.

Look out the window to regain clarity. You'll need it

XhosaNostra:
Are you sure it's not your loose lips that's putting her off sexually? I mean, you've only gotten an appetizer but you're already blabbering on about it like a sex-starved teenage boy. I bet you're the type that screams like one of the 3 tenors as well, so the whole neighborhood can know you're "necking"

Hotfreez:
Are you using Mtn 10MB that you can't check Google?

Yorubaskullmine:
Good thread.

DaBullIT:
Wow


That's a deep speech

Yorubaskullmine:
Good thread.

Argon18:
Lol, it's not really about pussy, I'm not the pussy type, I could even count the number of times in my entire life that I have done things like that, not even up to four.
With the grace God gave to me, I don't think I can flunk, I'm not being proud but I really know that academics is the easiest task for me, I graduated with a CGPA tending towards 5.0 in one of the toughest engineering courses. But I really want to come out with an excellent grade, not average, that is what the point is.

Whyem15:
Richnerd69
As at the time this you posted this, the Ukrainian president had not yet confirmed it and the investigation was not yet concluded. So you were misinforming people about an event for which you had no basis to back your claim

KingAzubuike:
I just watched aljazeera and CNN, there's no breaking news of such there. It wasn't even in their headline at 10pm news Then I read the article and I discovered it's an old news. It's an event that happened last year. Unfortunately most nairalanders don't read














[s]I'll continue to say this, the USA is the biggest terrorists nation of the 21st century. They murdered innocent kids over the years in this afghan war and now look at this .
They assassinated an innocent man on foreign soil with the excuse that he was planning an imminent attack against American citizens. Same man that fought tooth and nail to give Iranians and most middle eastern nations peace. trump claimed he was targeting a us embassy, today he claimed he was targeting 4 before his death. He doesn't even know what he's saying.

Few even know this same USA was responsible for the Ukrainian air crash yesterday. They did it to give the world a reason why we should all turn our backs on Iran.

The USA over the years have carried out numerous attrocities through the CIA, the Pentagon have taken innocent lives, assassinated people yet, bullied everyone yet they want to be respected.

This is a country that have been responsible for the creation of several militia groups like Al Qaeda, Al shabab , isis, they will create more.

telkevog:
May be the man is a mechanic, he is used to sucking petrol out from the tank

pryme:
On what?
how shallow you are?

zed7:
To hell with your opinions. 'Pastors' have done more harm than good. Any sensible person should keep them where they belong - the pulpit. Bringing them into your private life is a recipe for disaster.
You have the power to reach God directly, through His son Jesus.
You are probably an aspiring pastor, seeking to manipulate families and go in between the legs of other mens wives.

https://www.pulse.ng/news/local/pastor-confesses-to-raping-church-member-attempt-to-do-money-ritual/ltcrjqy

http://silverbirdtv.com/uncategorized/24929/how-randy-pastor-raped-church-girl-severally/

https://www.legit.ng/1267393-married-woman-allegedly-impregnated-by-pastor-begs-husband-accept-it.html

https://punchng.com/31369-2/

pryme:
You did not have to quote him. Dont be a hypocrite.

Dissme:
Is it the word of God that ought to be respected of that of a pastor? There is no problem for the Op to see her pastor that's respecting her choice which is good but disrespecting her man by telling him to forget it is selfish and unintelligent on her own part. Op be careful while you compromise.

pryme:
You sound more shallow than the one you quoted.

Dissme:
See someone that is spiritually inclined, is that what your spirituality entails to reply a troll with a barbaric curse as well. Pretenders everywhere...

Didn't you read that part in Op story when the said girl threatened him to forget it?.. Pastor over God that will kill the pastor someday... Every religious person is not a good human and not every good human is religious.

ehmmy11:
Oversee ko overboard ni

Oversee kill you there

ehmmy11:
Op you are a real Man thumbs up.... Your mom didn't raise no fool

You have already understood the whole man of god thing.. One day monkey go, go market e nor go come back.. That's how the said wife will be sampled by the so called pastor.. Even father the kids sef

She has already submitted herself to his authority what happened to praying about it herself.. She will always seek his opinion before obeying you.. Trust me you don't wanna be in this situation


Will you now become the pastor's member after marriage??
How will you feel when he uses you for example during service??

Oboy japa no time