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Ryan03:
had to put it down. Someone said there is an app that can remove the sticker I used in covering her face. Dont want to risk it

its a lie, no such thing. Repost let us see

Short guys can easily be knocked during a heated argument . pls don't be a short guy

iLegendd:
Please, don't ever ask a woman out in this life. It's the greatest mistake of all time. There is a way to do it 100% nice guys don't know.

I didn't read the op's post, but whatever he does, he shouldn't bea push over or Mr. Nice Guy.

I'm neither a fan of asking ladies out. The op seems like he wants a serious relationship, he likely has a code, hence, he wants to define it at first beforehand.

You can elaborate a little more or be a bit explicit with the bolded texts.

Do you love her? If you do then go ahead to ask her out bro...The least she can say is "no". You wont die, Man up.

masterfactor:
local man cannot come and kill himself. Can't wait for Sergent Rodriguez sex scene

it would have been a party but Rodriquez don't like saxe

Local man heard Rodriquez is lesbian, next he went home to jerk off... LMAO such a perv




:

That dude Saxe derives pleasure from lesbians nd lesbo porrno... Such a wankerr

RiP to that bitch ...

Op, who body shamed you? If that's you up there, then I f**king need help 'cause I'm skinnier than you are and I eat alot ... c'mon get serious and Geddifok off

Y'all are quick to give him an advice in other areas but choose to ignore that this lad gave out too much unnecessary info which in turn exposes him and his soon to be girlfriend .


Boy, I could hunt you down with your little info, if I was a psycho serial killer.. Pun intended ...


On a serious note, from your post, I've evaluated you to be too naive, but still, you're just a kid. Who told you f**king her is the best way to own a lady? Unless you just want to be f*ck buddies, if so, don't read further...

You don't ask a girl for permission to be her boyfriend if she's at your reach, you act like one already . Take her out! All you've been doing is being a study mate and you feel you've built enough attraction to own her? Start by asking her what she does for fun, and then ask her if she'd like to hangout and that you know a place... It could be a walk together and grab a drink(this can create an avenue for holding hands) , not necessarily the nicest place, or an eatery to spend your change.

Trust me, she would oblige to your meeting and hangout. Ofcourse she isn't attracted to you, but by doing this, you'll begin to build attraction by luring her out. Arrange the next meeting and don't show up. If she asks , tell her something came up and you'll make it up to her...This will make her ponder a bit. Remember, you're building attraction. Then give her space . If you're not a hostel boy, Invite her over to your place and prepare something, better still, have her come over and you both go to market and let her prepare something for you both to eat... Watch movies together, have a talk and relax and there you go. The atmosphere is set... Reach for a kiss, don't be shy ...

theTransporter:
G, your friend is being blind and irrational, give him d advice you can, if he insists to fly away then let him be. *A girl that loves you will not give you condition of breaking up, instead she go first go ova there and arrange for your coming*..... my niqqa, as am seeing this condition.. AM THINKING IT WILL END IN TEARS..... cos this lady will now be feeling like a god over your friend... I Don talk my own ooo

Exactly what I told him @the emboldened. Still, my guy is strong headed and deluded. He says "she can go over there and get any man she wants" ...So he doesn't want that to happen and miss a "lifetime opportunity " and he's got prospect that she will transform his life for good.

So, I have this friend of mine, we were and still best of buddies right from childhood. We are both from humble backgrounds, and still made something tangible out of life.
We've been through alot... We've had each other's backs over the years and still...

Fast forward to early this year around January , my friend Chuks(not real name) met this hot Chick at a party of one of our mutual friend, and they both hooked up and they began dating the following week. Although he's got a girl he wants to marry and they've been dating on and off for yrs since our university days and service days... 2weeks after he met this new girl, she began to spill out some revelations about her family, and it happened to be that she was from a very wealthy home, and not just that, but her father is a well known politician y'all might know in our city, Port Harcourt.

These revelations came after he persuaded her to tell him the source of her luxurious lifestyle, Clothing & jewelry. Ever since, she has been showering my friend chuks with gifts like expensive wrist watches and gadgets ... Some times they go shopping and then adds to his wardrobe collection every month with expensive wears. They eat and drink out at expensive hotels and bars...To ice the cake, on his birthday, she took him out in the night, after he had spent the day out with his wife to be.

This new lady bought him a white Mercedes car and a grand piano (he is a good pianist ) on his birthday in June. That night he professed his love for her and they promised never to leave each other . This got his fiance questioning if he had other side hustles due to his obvious expenses and excess luxury. Tho he can afford them, but the rate at which he gets new and expensive things is alarming.

I've been covering up for him all this while, his main chick complained to me on how he has suddenly changed, and sometimes cancels plans because something always came up. She is a good woman and has been loyal to him over the years. I feel sorry for her.

I've been invited to hangouts with them a few times and I must confess, this lady is in her mid 20's and she's drowning in money . All this has been going on right under his fiance's nose , and now, the great shocker came when she revealed that her dad is having her relocate to Europe to have run her Phd and manage his company over there... Guys, She wants my friend to resign from his 6figure paying job, abandon everything and follow her else they break up and she will forget about him for good. She hasn't assured him a job yet but he's sure of her and she's leaving by December.

Now, I've been talking to him for 2days for him not to let down his fiance, plus he has a good job in one of the oil multinationals in ph and I knew how hard he strived to get to where he is now . He shouldn't just throw everything away for some spoilt rich brat who might dump him...He's beginning to see me as an enemy of progress and He's thinking of resigning next month.

Guys, what would you have him do if you were in his shoes I'm done advising him.

Latty88:
23rd is the real deal!

my birthday mate

AryaSand:
Proctor's cousin knows Ghost had no hand in Proctor's death.

Sure... He also knew Proctor trusted Ghost to have sought refuge in his penthouse and besides Proctor had told him about their ordeal.

I didn't know that Proctor's cousin, Benny, got more street rep. I took him for one dummy dude playing gangster ... That guy surely knows what's up and I don't think he's gonna buy Ghost's story of who killed Proctor..

Keisha might just end up like Holly, she thinks she can help Tommy to get rid of Ghost, but she doesn't know they both need each other right now. Jason is a problem that must be solved like Milan. With Ghost's knowledge of Tommy being Proctor's killer, he's a liability to Tommy now, but I know Ghost won't snitch on his own. He should use that as a leverage to get Tommy to work together with him in taking out Jason.

dollytino4real:
gather thick hair 4 ur chest first u hear!

crazy

niyidenrele:
or the facial expressions,when his girlfriend,was telling him to ditch Tacha...The dude looks so much like Eminem

yeah... That guy deserves an Oscar for his facial expressions

"Eminem looking Flop" ... so much resemblance.


I'm just finding out that Dre is actually a Nigerian and a yoruba demon too

I knew Proctor was too smart to have gotten rid of all his evidence against Tommy. He was more loyal to Ghost than he ever was with Tommy... He would have voluntarily "ratted" out Tommy with the evidence, if not that Ghost would also take a hit too ...meaning if Tommy goes down , Ghost goes too.

Giving his daughter the Chip was a contingency plan in case death came knocking... Alisa will take them down soon enough if that chip gets to the feds... I see Justice taking its full course eventually. Tommy might not go down without a fight like Kanan... But I know Ghost is going to Jail on a light Sentence for sure, and when he comes out he will be the "Rag to Riches" business man he'd always wanted to become. He can't go Scott free without being punished, else the whole season encourages drug trafficking.

And Tariq is a mother fucker that needs to learn the hard way.

I've been wishing death for Tommy ever since he killed Angela... Killing Proctor made me zero my mind on him completely. Kanan killed Gangstas , but Tommy killed Harmless people with no defence. But still he's the only character that makes me laugh hard... The facial expressions he made when he told Tariq on phone to keep the back door open and get da fvvck out ...

masterfactor:
True talk,Effie is a snitch, I suspect her working for Vincent

I don't think she's working for Vincent but some other drug Lord . Remember she called Tariq the "competition" in her text to UKNOWN... perhaps they've got other distros in that school working for some other connect ...This we might find out later as the season proceeds.

I hate that Saxe dude.. he's becoming a pain in the ass and too pushy like his former colleague, John mark. He has to go but it will take time .

With Proctor's last statement recorded on his daughter's pony, Saxe is surely going to bully him to the brink and definitely lure him to snitch on both Tommy and Ghost. If it comes to that, he would seek immunity and release the evidence of recordings from the laptop of Bailey Markham to Saxe... now that would be a big problem...


But Proctor is smart enough to talk his way out of this one I hope. His statement only proves that he wished his wife dead, but he obviously didn't kill her... except he did strategically. She could be heard chanting gibberish in her high moments. She died to excessive drug intake, an autopsy will show that.


My boy Tommy should be pulling the trigger on Keisha anytime soon..I mean he's good at it ... That bitch would snitch if her son's name is mentioned by the Feds, esp from that Saxe dude.

FromZeroToHero:
You never see anything. You were busy chatting with yourself.

Tell me something I haven't heard all day.You're not the first tot wannabe to say this .

pcicero:
Mtcheww. As if your explanation changed anything. You could not muster enough courage to send the message and you're tearing us down online for exposing your ridiculous thread.
Yeye paper tiger.

Gosh, to think I'm even relating with an adult. The message was sent. Don't be dumb. How did you scale through high school? Don't be acting like I sat on your brain

pcicero:
Caption should read, 'Man send messages to no one (himself), screenshot attached'

We can see sender or respondent's details and messages are not delivered or read. So, we can reach our conclusions.

Quit acting like you need to be schooled. The screenshot was taken immediately I typed those stuff cuz I might delete them if she doesn't read it in 10mins... I typed all that due to anger/emotions and in the next 10-30mins I might delete them if my mood changes, but She wasnt online, of which she called me later after getting my messages.

Chukapage:
Aunty free matters Op na wimp the lady in question don block am sef

I don't have to explain myself. Maybe you haven't sent a message to someone and it wasn't delivered because the receiver's data wasn't turned on or was probably used up.

ashawopikin:
Why won't she miss Her ex wey don bang her tire? U never even see d pant you are here typing noise

Alas! A dimwit that reasons with his phallus

MariaLavina:
When I read your post the first word that came to my mind is Insecurity but reading through comments I thought you are just an overly sensitive (emotional being) but this post confirms my initial perception.
You are INSECURE!
You believe what happened in your former relationship will happen again and your lady being a beautiful one increases your anxiety. You don't believe in the relationship because you don't believe in you being enough, that prompt your question' am I not enough'? Lol dude that question will be difficult to answer by any one especially when it's asked by someone you barely know for two months. My question to you is, Do you see yourself being enough? Are you valuable enough? How do you see yourself? Do you think she's too good for you? Work on your state of mind (esteem and confidence) You lack those two.



Now to telling an ex you miss them(him/her) Honestly speaking it is wrong especially when you are in a relationship. It refreshes memories and awaken desires to be together again. It is like saying there is a vacuum somewhere your current partner isn't filling and if there should be anyone to know this it should be ones current partner and not an ex. However we all should realize that ex's were once part of our lives and some can not be easily forgotten so it's normal to miss them. Op, telling your girlfriend you needed some space is wrong. You should have let your plight known to her, and work things out.That is how to build a relationship, your actions at such an early stage of your relationship shows you don't value her and sadly she might have interpreted it that way. You don't just pull out of things that way, you should have given her a benefit of doubt.

Deep and true to an extent. Thank you. I will work on both my self confidence and esteem.

PrimadonnaO:
But how do y'all do the LDR thing? Were you guys already dating and living in the same town before the distance happened?

She was based in my state, and we were acquaintances. I decided to take it a little further than that 2yrs later , then she had already moved to another state. I wanted to a make a move before hand in person(she told me she had a thing form me then) . So we just clicked, whilst reminiscing about how we first met and how shy I was then. We already arranged to meet again next month. She's to stay a week.

GraGra247:
You are perfectly correct. Any lady that behaves that way and finds nothing wrong with it will CERTAINLY cheat.

Even to the extent of adding 2 love emojis. She's still very much interested in her Ex.

FACTS.

blesskewe:
U are fighting for her but she doesn't want to fight for you

I guess so. She called me 30mins ago still telling me she would stop, but she doesnt see any wrong, and if I want the pin to her social media accts, I can have them. She's so pretty, she must have tons of guys in her dm. I'm afraid I might see a lot more enough to scatter my heart in pieces. So I'd pass.

PrimadonnaO:

These things aren't always that serious. Yes, you're overreacting! I talk to my both exes.

One is always sending pictures of us from way back whenever he stumbles on it. Just two weeks ago, I found one inbetween my books... from 4 years ago and I sent it to him. We laughed over it and all.

Let your boyfriend know about the emboldened and how you keep encouraging your exes(thereby leading them on) , and let me know what happens thereafter. Thanks.

But trust me, there's nothing there. Perhaps, if I had a boyfriend like you and he had seen our conversations, he would have been jealous or upset. But really, there's nothing between us. I blocked him on Whatsapp but when either of us calls, we can stay on the phone talking for well over an hour.

So, just imagine how ordinary "I miss you" is getting you worked up .

This is the problem I'm having, her inability to see the wrong in her deeds. It's a young relationship starting from scratch, and she's suppose to earn my trust little by little, but with every iota of trust she earns, she breaks it the next moment by raising a suspicion in me.

Lady, it doesn't matter how little , or harmless "I miss you too" might seem , if it will break your relationship, then don't do it. Trust is earned, not demanded.

Davash222:
Story. Eve’s daughter don block you since.

Lol OK...

Davash222:
E be like she don already block you sef.

She wasn't online as at the time I sent those series of texts... Even up till now.

So , I've been dating this girl for quite some time now, and it's a long distance thing, barely 2months and it's been going all fine and smooth. She's to come stay at my place for some time next month.
One month in, she told me I'm her best friend and the only guy she can trust with everything even her secrets(we share deep things together, and talk for max 4hrs daily on phone ), and that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me and all...
One day over the phone, she told me about one of her exes, a guy she use to know and love and how they both split and went their separate ways .

Going through her FB page days later, I saw a pic she posted and I unconsciously swiped through the comment section(not my thing) , and I saw this particular guy, her ex to be precise(the one she told me about) , telling her he missed her with a love emoji added, and she replies with "me too" + a double love emoji and with a face that's about to cry.. This comment was made 1month 2weeks into our relationship.
I was a bit pissed and then I confronted her over the phone and she told me it wasn't a heart felt thing and she didn't mean it , and besides "it's a normal thing to miss someone", she said . I angrily told her, "it isn't just anyone but your ex!!. Why should you miss him. Am I not enough!? " .Then, I ended the call and sent her a chat. Maybe I'm over reacting, or maybe I need to be worried, but it's not a good feeling I have about this. I don't know, maybe, I need space, or I need to just let her go because she totally sees nothing wrong with it.