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zed7:
I'm afraid I will tell you to forget her. People who are religious fanatics are not to be dealt with. Be rest assured her pastor will be the one controlling your wife. Her ideas, thoughts etc are going to be dictated by her pastor.

Her pastor comes before you. Telling you to forget it is the height of disrespect. I detest women who are brainwashed by pastors. Let the pastor come and see you at home if he's so interested in her affairs.

My brother you never see wife. Keep searching.

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Your argument and point is baseless . There's no information up there that points the lady in discussion to be religious fanatic. Extrapolating from your comment, You are not spiritually inclined , neither are you religious , so why do you misconstrue what you are deficit of, in regards knowledge?

Every good church going Christian knows, it's profitable wisdom to seek marriage counsel from your spiritual head, rather still Let Him give his blessings to the couple. Why would a church member get married or pick a spouse without being accountable to the people that oversee you?

The OP is not the kind of husband she needs, and if he's forced to go see the pastor, then the union will probably end in a debacle or a huge mess .
what you wrote up there reeks of atheistic propensity, rather still, you must be one.

Jones4190:
I stop reading were you said general Suleiman I pose as a threat to lives. if I may ask who single handedly push Isis out of Iraq? in case you don't know American are the one aiding terrorist in middle East and the whole word in general

No one is disputing the fact that Soleimani fought well to resist the chaotic attacks of Isis . But that alone does not rationalise him to be the hero of the story. There's is more to that man than meets the eyes.

There you go with the spurious conspiracy theory of America being the aid of terrorists in the middle East. What's your proof? Don't reply if you don't have any.

kelvindj98:
Stop believing all those propaganda on CNN. Even Americans don't believe it Pompeo is well known as a war-monger, he and Bolton will rationalize any attack on Iran because they earn bank from this conflict.
That's how Bush deceived America with the WMD crap that made the war in Iraq possible.
99% of Americans didn't know how Soleimani was before he was killed so they don't buy that talk of American lives being in danger.

We all know money is also a proceed from the spoils of war. Come to think of if, how would majority of Americans know the true nature of Soleimani even when his own people perceive him to be a hero? Only the Stooges are caught in the act , but the mastermind is believed to be invisible or undetected.

It wasn't a conspiracy theory that lead to his assassination, neither was it a presumptuous info but on a classified and ascertained Intel.

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Vaughanlanrewaj:
There's a kind of special danger Iran poses to these people they are not telling us. I think President Trump will eventually apologise and US pay restitution to Iran. There's this sinking feeling that Trump behaved badly in this case because he has no military background and underrated that General before approving his assassination. He could have stopped the threat without killing the war tested General. He made a mistake killing that man and should own up. Period. Unlike the celebration that greeted other killings by US forces, this one truly and really didn't sit well with Americans and that mammoth crowd at the funeral and the weeping Iran Leader was most touching. The ghost of that man will haunt President Trump.

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This is bullcrap up there. Iran pose no serious threat , but will only retaliate proportionately and not otherwise. If they attack Israel or other US allies, then world war commences with immediate effect. They know too well not to attack disproportionately .

ALSO, I saw the news on CNN last night, where the former CIA director, Pompeo , who with his affiliation with the organisation still gets ascertained Intel on serious matters like this. He strongly believes , with the Intel reaching them , there was no doubt that Gen. Soleimani posed a huge threat to lives; He was up to no good with the tab that has been kept on him for months by CIA informats posing as Iranian military in collaboration with US military intelligence.

For you to say Trump has no military background proves your deficiency of knowledge pertaining how the POTUS is to operate. Trump doesn't need to have a military background and wouldn't give any military order without any military advice and strong Intel which prompted the assassination order; He is Chief for Christ sake. There was Intel, Soleimani was welcomed by rebels in iraq ; They had a meeting but the purpose of that meeting was not disclosed.

No doubt, that he , Trump messed with the emotions of the Iraqi people and Iran, because to them , Soleimani is A hero and he was loved. If Trump were to apologise, that would be the only reason he should.
Soleimani was a loose Cannon about to fire, he had to be stopped with no warning.

keryj:
Which plan offers 60gb, how much and at what duration?

Airtel unlimited plan 15 , my 4g router was acquired at 25k and was credited with free 60gb data. I do sub 65gb at 15k, valid for 30days. But they recently increased it to 75gb for 15k, I think a month ago.

That's a nice investment . I have never been in a hurry to use up all of my data at once, tho I make use of Airtel router which offers me 60gb for 30days. I carry it everywhere , 24/7 , making use of it during the day at office and at home.

But, 60gb in 7days? pending my job's nature, if time permits me, I would probably download all those video tutorials on advanced software& hardware programming , pertaining AI. Also I would watch alot of YouTube videos, as internet Tv these days tend to be more interesting than Satellite channels . I'd also make good use of my Netflix sub to download movies as far back 2015.

I'm unable to exhaust my MIFI data , within the supposed expiry date in an interval of 1month . But I have heavy data users around me , to help me utilise it to zero or little amount, esp my younger sis that is a movie freak like me.

Staying alone doesn't qualify one to be financially independent , for all I know, she could be a student or a love peddler whose means of livelihood is gotten from her dependent variables such as parents/guardian or sugar Daddy, respectively.

So, I'd go for a financially independent lady that stays alone. She no go disturb me with bills, but I'm gonna be the gentleman I am.

I love the guy's fashion.Theres something about these posh Muslim ladies, their fashion sense is likened to those Indian ladies we see on Zee world..

I used to have one Fulani Bestie I served with in Kaduna, she was light skinned , had a curvy shape, height and straight nose... She rarely wears her cultural attires, but each time she did over the weekends, my jaw dropped.
Lord knows I wanted to wife her but she said her people won't allow her be with a guy from niger delta.
We ended things after service. I recall stalking her Instagram when she got married , I had to see her on those attires again. Hassantu, kai

Drobitol:
Nothing is free, you give us a ride, we give you a ride...if you know, you know

I know right

marttol:
who is underage ?

The only thing you should do on WhatsApp when it regards to a woman, is to set up a date with her and not ask her to be your girlfriend. Stop acting underaged. Do guys still asks girls out on WhatsApp?

It's pardoned and slightly understandable if you live thousands of miles or km apart, perhaps you're in S.A while she's here, in Nigeria.

ennygal:
Please kindly pm me. I have something important to discuss with you. Thanks

I responded to your email yesterday, but it seems you're having issues with the email. Can we talk here?

Dude, she indirectly sent you a message; She's miss independent. If you are not a gigolo, my advice is you hold on to her if she's truly your spec.

First impression out on a date really matters... While at it, some ladies will just want to seize the opportunity to milk and exploit you... I've had my fair share of opportunists .

The day a Nigerian lady will pay for my meal or anything in my stead, that day I will wife her

you might just have been called , to serve a higher purpose.

Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy...

I was forced to quote you, as I almost choked on my coffee . Can I know why? @the emboldened.

ennygal:
Please kindly pm me. I have something important to discuss with you. Thanks

Hope it's nothing too serious? I dismissed the email as soon as I saw it. But seeing this , I will pm you now so you can respond.

Sometimes these dreams mean nothing.

Newguyhere:
person wey you for just Bleep and dump

It's not about the Sex big man. Those type of ladies are the type to want to exploit you. I don't know how to cut people off, it's better I don't encourage them in my life.

I engaged a random lady some days ago when I and my cousin took his kids to the park. I'm single(tho I have a friend), so my bro told me to approach this lady; She was alone . She's quite beautiful, sounded smart and cool. We spent hours talking and hanging out that day . I appeared average wearing a white polo and a Jean, I noticed she was eying me from head to toe. She asked about my watch and she said it looked expensive , she asked about my job and if I had a ride... I was smiling , I told her I'm still searching for a job and I came with my brother in his car.

I recall asking her a few questions and one of the things I asked her was, "what she wanted in a man", to my amazement, she said she wanted a man that could establish her all round and provide her needs ; She doesn't want to suffer with any man.

My zeal died immediately, as I left that park , I deleted her number and vowed never to contact her. She sent me a Good morning message , I'm not going to respond.

I'm dodging this bullet.

xendra:
lmao, which country? you definitely have never dated a foreign lady.

they have more drama I even feel sorry for them sometime too sensitive. you wonder why more white men are marrying black women, the only time a white woman will marry a black man is if she can use him somehow or you just go for the least among them afterall white na white


and TBH I prefer more white women marry black men they know how to loyal y'all ass up

He said a 'foreign lady ' and not necessarily a white one. I'll choose a foreign lady any day, over some Nigerian ladies. My mom is foreign and she gave my father peace. Even in her stay in Nigeria, she was taken aback by the way some Nigerian ladies behaved; They have this strong entitlement mentality, hoping to be established by a man. Lady what happened to your own dreams and goals?

An average Nigerian girl is motivated to date you because your financially buoyant , wow. They will turn down a gentleman because he is struggling, trying to make ends meet.

Talking about drama: Ladies generally are very dramatic, so it's something we guys have to adjust to. In real sense, an average Nigerian girl can hardly keep up in intellectual conversations when you engage them ; They rather enjoy talking about romance , movies , food, hair and make up. Just a few intellectual ladies in Nigeria I've come across and I was marveled.

iaamxavier:
I only talked about my spoken English not the written But you need to hear me speak though

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iaamxavier:
I only talked about my spoken English not the written But you need to hear me speak though

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iaamxavier:
Well I've never stepped outside the shores of Nigeria

But I can Authoritatively tell you my Diction is extremely Top notch and my spoken English is superb
You need to hear me speak (I'm actually not bragging)

But the secret to that is due to the fact that I watch alot foreign movies and Also listen to foreign music especially American, so this influenced it Alot.

The trick is not just watching or listening you have to carefully Listen to the wordings and try practicing them on your own
Also make use of E dictionary to learn some new words with its pronunciation too

Stop hyping yourself. Your English writing prowess is flawed. You don't punctuate well, and that is something you have to learn in this newyear ,2020.


I'm messing with you bro, but I'm just pointing out the obvious.lol

Thegeneralqueen:
Hi are you still interested in getting married ?

lol.Do you have someone for me?

Teerach:
There are good women out there. You should always go out affirming to you everyday that God is directing your own wife to you and that she's gonna make a great wife. Don't get caught up with social media n their negatives. God direct you to the right woman this year 2020. Amen

Amen! Thanks alot...

Respect Man...

I remember when I got my first job before I was prompted to go do my masters. I was just earning about 210k and my mom was asking me to go and marry. I felt I needed to establish myself before getting married. My standard was to get a house and a car and some good ledger balance before tying the knot. 4yrs after , now, my pay slip is something else I never imagined and I think it's high time I did settle down... But when i look around , I see ladies coming only for what I have. I'm a fine young man, barely 30, no doubts, but will I find someone genuine . Ladies are something else these days and I wish I had married earlier on.

Guys that are earning low should consider taking up responsibilities. Don't wait till you have it in abundance...

The GoAt of all Goats

Like for Ronaldo , share for messi

Ikusojies:
Donald trump prophecy fulfilled..where r d people that r condemning prophets??

Also , a presidential aspirant was arrested and the same is an activist that rose against Buhari.

Alot more has been fulfilled...

2017, 3.8m.... Lexus RX 350.. 2009 Or 2008 model there about .... I Gave my cousin bro and later got my self a Benz ML350 at 7.2m in January this year.

Princecanada:
My issue is mainly sustaining the affection. Love someone today, after few weeks you lose interest. Is that even normal?

I know bro... It's normal. It's just like when you're chasing something and when u eventually get that thing , you'd likely stop the chase cause there's nothing to chase anymore.

You just need to ask yourself why you're going into a relationship at first... Is it to meet your sexual need or you just want someone around you who could give you more attention, or probably you need some validation, "yea , I can actually have a girlfriend"... Trust me, if it's any of the aforementioned motives, it won't last , hence you lose affection easily.

4years ago, I was just like you and about your age , til I upped my game when I started playing with change . I felt I wasn't much of a lady's guy tho . A decade ago, in my early days in uniport , I was more focused on my studies and I could care less about being in a relationship, neither was I looking for who to warm my bed, I couldn't even maintain an eye to eye contact , how much more approaching a lady? ah!!
The few ladies in my department would always flock around me to always help them do their assignments, it was always something I looked forward to do, because it was the only opportunity I could seize to approach a girl in essence to fraternize , as an introvert then . Also, yes I was able to bed some, eventually after learning to be more social in communication... Don't blame me, the hormones were raging...lol

As time went further, I graduated from school, served ,and, still did my MA... and got a cool job...I wasn't even doing the talking , all I did was to look good , make use of good colognes, I mingle to socialise and get a few Contacts and yo' hit me up so we could make it happen... you know how it goes .

Interesting15:
By Sunday Akanni Moshood



The Host of Heaven paid me a visit as a young boy, and the offer was: Walk before Me and be perfect, and in return, I will give you...... In return, I will make you....

what do you mean by this, and how did they visit you? Please elaborate, I'm very much interested.

Some ladies are extra ordinarily beautiful...