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women put their life on the line when giving birth to a child... there's nothing wrong if the husband gifts her something after delivering...no matter how little...the problem is you gifting what you know you can't afford...a woman that loves and appreciates you would appreciate any gift you give her to welcome her back from the labour room....even if it's a wrapper or anything at all...women love gifts,dates and keeping important memories


A DOCTOR ONCE SAID TO A MAN..."IF YOU SEE WHAT YOUR WIFE GOES THROUGH IN THE LABOUR ROOM,YOU WILL NEVER BEAT HER FOR ANY REASON"...

yes...both of you have the baby but she goes through the pain and risk....it's very very insensitive and stupid for a man to call child bearing "normal thing".....my conclusion is gift what you can afford...if you feel it's entitlement...oga marry your wife as you like.. nobody force you do anything...and remove eyes from the way other man dey marry their own

MARRIAGE SHOULD BE FOR ADULTS?...so I thought....childish complain

my opinion

I see pep in his looks....will he be pep in his brain too?...time will tell

Juliearth:
You are right about the name. Early to bed, early to rise...6 hours slumber a day is pretty fair.

yeah... early to bed, early to rise.....6hours ain't bad at all..... cool I gat ya name....have a pleasant day Julie

IT'S NOT EASY STAYING ALIVE IN NIGERIA

most likely from 2021...but it's better you ask someone in the HR department... company policy differs

Juliearth:

hey...trust your day went as planned?

you popped in here at midnight (1am), I'm a little curious, please hope you do have enough sleep at night?

now let me play a little smart if I can get your name right.....your name is JULIET..JULI for short?.. please don't tell me I'm wrong...*covers face*... Lol...

hope my questions are not too much?...sorry if it is though

do have yourself a wonderful and fulfilling day ahead....let me steal your words..."cheers to a great day"...*winks*...

jeez..and he got such a pretty lady....some black/brown skin ladies can be really pretty...I wonder why people bleach their skin


CONGRATS MAN...WHAT LOVE CAN'T DO, DOESN'T EXIST....LOL

Juliearth:
Thanks a million for the compliment, Patrick. I promise to put up more cookery videos here in no time. Cheers to a beautiful week!

...wow... you're really smart...the way your got my real name... Lol... I'm amazed...you must love cooking

Tunagee:
Exactly. I have used advice given to others here to even help my similar situation, and it was worth it. We all have our divergent views.

ofcourse

Livadesh:
Abeg I'd like to be your friend. You won my heart with this comment; No jokes. It's glaring that this simp OP doesn't have a mind of his own. He's not qualified to be called a man because every man should be responsible for his actions or inactions and not putting his failures on someone else.

friends are shall be..how are you doing?

this lady is cute...maybe your character as a police officer is the issue....some men find uniform women attractive...just be yourself... surely you will get a man...a sensible man will see through your profession/looks and see your through personality

take a stroll, if she really needs you she will pull you back...stop acting like you are the only one that the relationship is important to.... relationship is a TEAMWORK...take a stroll,if she doesn't pull you back and improve on her behavior towards you...then take a WALK FOR GOOD....any woman telling you she ain't ready for a relationship is just cus she hasn't seen who she likes and really falls in love with... Except she has a very valid reason of not wanting a relationship at that moment...good luck


my opinion...

Lol

juliearth


hello,how are doing?

I just read through some of your post,I must say there are quite insightful, unbiased and polite...it's really a kinda difficult to see comments here free of tribal, religious or gender sentiments.

one of the post really got me thinking deep...hence I chose to APPRECIATE your efforts...

let me not take much of your time writing an epistle...take doing your thing...and before I go .. nice meals you put up there..

stay blessed and have yourself a blessed week ahead.... juliearth...nice Nick...stay safe and take Good care of yourself...cheers!!!

Vulturereloaded:
How many more deaths before he performs?

on a serious note...these killings in anambra is really too much... I'm really speechless

so soon??
wait the Prof will deliver

are you been threatened or harassed to be in that relationship?...stand your ground... don't let anyone manipulate or intimidate you to be in any relationship you don't wan to be in...good luck

LaLiga will take legal action against Paris Saint-Germain over their renewal of Kylian Mbappe's contract after the forward decided to snub a move to Real Madrid and stay in France.
The forward, who had been widely expected to join Madrid when his existing deal expires on June 30, has now signed a new three-year contract with PSG, the French champions announced Saturday.




Moments before the announcement, LaLiga released a statement confirming an ESPN report that the league would be filing a complaint over an alleged breach of finance rules.
"LaLiga will file a complaint against PSG before UEFA, the French administrative and fiscal authorities and European Union authorities to continue to defend the economic ecosystem of European football and its sustainability," the statement read.
"This type of agreement attacks the economic stability of European football, putting at risk hundreds of thousands of jobs and the integrity of the sport," it continued. "It is scandalous that a club like PSG ... can close such an agreement while those clubs that could afford the hiring of the player without seeing their wage bill compromised are left without being able to sign him. ... PSG is assuming an impossible investment, seeing that it has an unacceptable wage bill and large financial losses in prior seasons. It is violating current UEFA and French economic control rules."
Earlier on Saturday, LaLiga president Javier Tebas called PSG's renewal of Mbappe "an INSULT to football."
Tebas said on Twitter: "What PSG are going to do renewing Mbappe with large quantities of money (who knows where and how they pay it) after posting losses of €700 million in recent seasons and having a wage bill of over €600 million is an INSULT to football. [PSG president Nasser] Al-Khelaifi is as dangerous as the Super League."
Tebas has been an outspoken critic of PSG under owners Qatar Sports Investments -- a subsidiary of Qatar's sovereign wealth fund -- as well as the Abu Dhabi-backed Manchester City, describing their business models as "financial doping."
He has also attacked UEFA's FFP controls as being inadequate.
"What isn't understandable is that [PSG] are able to reject offers like the one they received for Mbappe," he said last September, after the Ligue 1 club had refused to sell the player to Madrid in the summer transfer window.
"The controls in France are failing. They're doing damage to the European market. UEFA's system is mistaken. We're going in the wrong direction."
Tebas and PSG president Al-Khelaifi became unlikely allies in their opposition to the European Super League after its attempted launch last year.
Tebas described the project as a "coup d'état" and "a joke." PSG refused the chance to join as one of its 12 founding members, with Al-Khelaifi leading alternative efforts at reform as new chairman of the European Clubs' Association.

seeking advice is an opportunity for you to sample so many opinions especially the unbiased ones....at the the end it's your responsibility to sit down think through all the opinions garned and take the decision that best suits you .... nobody here force you to take any decision ....so it's wrong for you to start saying you almost lost your girlfriend because of advise you got here...good luck

lol....na wa

more like what we see in James bond 007 movies

continue then...your life,your body

OfficialAwol:
Yea!

But a lot of ladies don't seem to have it and that's why they keep falling for the wrong guys and getting their hearts shattered.

no just Ladies though.... everyone needs to be careful when it comes to love, relationship and getting into marriage

OfficialAwol:
I understand your point but some guys, once a lady asks them anything pertaining marriage, they begin to see it as pestering for marriage.

From then on, if they lady is nice, they'd say she's nice because she wants marriage.

If she misbehaves, they'd say see somebody that wants me to marry her.

That's why I'd suggest that the moment a lady notices her guy isn't serious about marriage and marriage has become her priority, she should start giving other men chance in her life and detach herself silently from the time waster.

exactly ... wisdom is really key

if the price is true ...innoson has done really well....I applaud him....this is what we need... results....not tribalism and judgement based on the tribe of a person....thumbs up sir

it ain't rocket sense....if you see a guy that really wants a future with you...matured sensible lady would know....you must not even ask him when he is coming to see your people.....but if the relationship has last for long ask ooo.....some guys are time wasters.. after five years they go and marry a lady they met five months ago...same applies for both gender

tribalism no go kill us.....I know this anioma man being the governor is really paining the delta South and delta central especially the urhobos....


very very foolish mentality we have in this state and NIGERIA at large....is it who is the governor we should rate or his performance..... I'm not a fan of okowa or his government or any politician cus all are thieves...but if you must criticize his government...be reasonable with facts and not some myopic tribalistic comments...I feel it's lame and dumb to use tribalism as a political tool or governance assessment.....WE WILL NEVER MOVE FORWARD WITH SUCH MENTALITY...IF HE IS MY TRIBE...HE IS THE BEST,IF HE IS NOT MY TRIBE..HE IS BAD WITHOUT USING FACTS... SHAME ON FOOLS AND FOOLERY

have you been playing the role of an elder brother in his life?


have you been giving him the love, respect and support that you seek from him to him?


have you been leading my example?


THAT THING YOU WANT FROM PEOPLE WHY NOT GIVE IT FIRST?


if your answer is yes....then your bro is absolutely wrong and disrespectful


if your answer is NO....then you got issues...lead by example oga.. whether you go or not wedding must hold.... the priest won't even ask after you before joining the couple....and your bro will now completely disassociate himself from you....good luck

o boy who ask you?


keep giving naija bloggers and lonely naija online community something to feast on .... rubbish

they are so young, innocent,very clean mind, open-hearted,not greedy and just love themselves honestly, selflessly and truly