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it's all about your true personality...money doesn't make one bad,it only brings out the true character in you......be humble whether Rich or poor...if you find a good man,he will love and respect you and you in turn will love and respect him too.... IT'S ONLY A MAN THAT WANTS TO MALTREAT HIS WIFE THAT'S AFRAID OF HER WEALTH CUS MOST RICH WOMEN WILL NOT ALLOW A MAN TREAT THEM LIKE TRASH... MOST WOMEN TOLERATE ILL TREATMENT CUS THEY'RE NOT FINANCIALLY STABLE TO MOVE ON... nobody wants and deserves to be treated like trash

find someone that fits into your ideology ... marriage is teamwork....how can you marry a woman that tells you she is saving money in case you die(that's if your story is true though)...what if she dies first?...what a shameful mentality!

when I say teamwork I mean in all aspect.. financially, emotionally,morally,chores,kids up keep... everything....it's all about support....not a boss-subordinate relationship

REAL MADRID THE SECOND HALF TEAM

your kid bro saying he gave your parents a grand child first is totally wrong...life ain't a competition...he is childish and lacks wisdom...


but bro don't fight/beat him again..it's wrong for you to do that especially in presence of your nephew...a fool is a fool,they cannot learn by you beating them up...I think your mum has a lot of talking to do into his ears....A FAMILY THAT ONE SEES HIMSELF AS SOMEONE IN COMPETITION WITH HIS OR HER SIBLINGS IS NOT FAR FROM BREAKING...just focus on your life...leave that little boy

really sad

foolishness....why not give them cash instead...

na so buhari talk... bloody liars....old crooks

BELIEVE ANY POLITICIAN AT YOUR PERIL

Lol... SMH...na wa

brave woman, because that psycho would have wasted many lives in minutes

bro, count your losses and move on because if that girl should compensate with "love" for all you did for her..hmmm...she is going to frustrate the hell out of your life at the long run.....

hey,you should be glad that she even told you she ain't gonna be with you...

DON'T GIVE WHAT YOU CAN'T EASILY LET GO OF IN A RELATIONSHIP AND BE VERY CAREFUL OF MANIPULATIVE PEOPLE, PEOPLE THAT SEE LOVE AS A GAME,WHERE ONE PERSON IS THE FOOL(LOSER) AND THE OTHER THE WINNER

it's very possible....


firstly you don't allow a heart break define or redefine your personality...cus it will make you a loser and have you live a caged life....don't get me wrong...learn the lessons, become wiser but never dwell on that past cus it's not worth it.


secondly...as they say if you have a hangover take more alcohol... LoL.....now not necessarily getting into another relationship or start having random sex ...NO...... what you need is Friendship, interactions with people... it helps you understand people more as well as distract you a little from your past..some people tend to use social media but whatever works for you...just interact and maintain an open mind


lastly the worst thing that can happen to anyone is loosing new good and very positive people coming into your life cus of heartbreak and someone that has already forgotten about you and moved on with his or her life happily

JovialJune:
Thank you o jare,

Madame Op that doesn't want her marriage to scatter, your husband that is cheating is not destroying your home by himself abi, and you still dey open leg for am, you are not scared of STD or HIV, you want to remain in a marriage with a disrespectful, cheating, STD infested man in the name of endurance abi? Will he stay with you and endure if you were the one cheating?

Close your legs from him, go and look for other ways to satisfy yourself sexually so as to preserve for health, we only live once o....

na only God go help person for this love and marriage matter sha

Deltatoto:
put ear down u will see sense in his talk too much.how did u pass ur exams in sch?Peter obi is a snake.

you definitely took the exams on my behalf...silly kid...very silly kid you are...you can't even convey your points reasonably like an educated person...have a great day kid

it's fake

GreyLaw:
Wike obviously lacks respect and manners. In life such people never go far. His governorship was a mistake. If such a man ever becomes president no human being alive would be able to talk to him.

It is good to be bold and daring, but it is better to know when to keep quiet and watch.

Wike forgets that to orrow EFCC can pick him up and disgrace him. He forgets that he can be jailed tomorrow. He forgets that things can suddenly turn downside up for him tomorrow. Let him continue.

someone can be reasonably and constructively bold...his cases is just firing senseless shots at anyone and everyone...good luck to him though

ogbuefi677:
Drugs at work

hahahaha...very possible

ybalogs:
only in Nigeria will you see such a being ruling. Too full of himself. Watch it,he will soon go after Jonathan should Jonathan emerge as APC candidate.

oh yes...he will fire shots at GEJ certainly...it's a shame though....I really hope the senseless dog is tamed some day

wike talks too much...too petty... wrong choice of words...ill mannered...

TforT19:
I do it because I want to keep him. Thanks a lot for your advice. I really appreciate.

okay,since you do it to try to keep him,it's better you take a break for now because if you keep initiating it and he keeps turning you down, over time you might start to lose your self worth and feel you are not good enough...and that will affect your confidence as a person..so just chill and allow him want you... good luck

Jose loves winning finals...great guy... congrats

first of all...do you initiate sex cus you are really in the mood or you do it cus you think it will make you keep the man?


secondly, since he is cheating it may be that he is getting satisfied sexually before he gets home ( please madam don't be sad, really trying not to appear too blunt)..but the truth is..since he turns you down most times...it's better you relax for a while but carry out your normal wifey duties and see if he will come to you...it's really risky having a cheating partner cus of infections..


lastly... madam nothing can make a cheating partner to stop... Except they really want to stop...if you like do all the duties...even change his car tyres for him when it's flat...he will still cheat... FAITHFULNESS IN A RELATIONSHIP IS A PERSONAL DECISION LACED WITH DISCIPLINE AND COMMITMENT....wish you the best...but be very careful

Yseone:
Compensations are calculated when you joined the company(that is, number of years you have worked not when you were confirmed or staffed) and it is also calculated based on your current earning.
Although, some company polices differs but this is labour law but i encourage you to confirm again from your HR and find out the company policy.
Goodluck

yes...it's just better he confirms from the HR

if it's naija now he will be called "UNKNOWN GUN MAN/MEN"... I wonder who invented that phrase

your manager go soon move with your money.....go to the bank with him with a utility bill not more than one year ago...valid ID card and get the account upgraded...that talk of "you must bring a bill from the street where you lived when you opened the account" is a BIG FAT LIE....that account just needs upgrade cus he opened it without a valid ID card eg student ID or some association ID card...get any bill issued within one year...it will be done

this will continue as long as the gun policy is not reviewed....too many guns in the hands of psychos

THESE KILLINGS ARE JUST TOO MUCH.

ARE YOU SURE WE ARE STILL UP TO 200+ MILLION IN THIS COUNTRY?

patoski39:
bro, it has been designed that way. It's not the man's fault that she has to pass through that,,, besides theirs is just for nine or probably 2yrs while the man will pass through more for years just to Carter for the said child

well,you may have the points you want to use to validate your assertion but I will never AGREE with you on this...so after delivery...the remaining years is the man only that would take care of the child?...ha!..bro,you really need to change your mentality...well...it's your opinion...but I really fear for your wife....your assertion is too TOXIC...thanks for your time though...my pleasure

eye service

when you get an alert always check your final balance before any other thing... especially when doing business....it's really funny when people are defrauded using fake alerts....CHECK YOUR BALANCE ON ANY ALERT RECEIVED

THIS IS WHAT WE SEE WHEN ADULT BABIES GET MARRIED...can't you two just shut up!!

this man is gradually becoming EFCC customer