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RomanceRe: Man Bought ₦125M Duplex In Lekki For His 19-Year-Old Side Chick by rickpat(m): 8:59am On Mar 16, 2022
HIS MONEY,HIS LIFE,HIS CHOICE...NA WA
PoliticsRe: Does Aso Rock Have A Bunker In The Event Of Nuclear Detonation? by rickpat(m): 8:39am On Mar 16, 2022
we only have Graves and cemeteries
PoliticsRe: APC Commeces Sale Of National Convention Forms, N20m Tag On Chairmanship Post by rickpat(m): 8:36am On Mar 16, 2022
POLITICS TOO DAMN EXPENSIVE!!
PoliticsRe: Electricity Has Improved Under Buhari - Presidential Aide Bashir Ahmad by rickpat(m): 8:34am On Mar 16, 2022
na wa...these politicians are really CURSED BEINGS... you will be saying a lie with boldness, just because of what you gain?...Too bad...VERY DISGUSTING!!!
FamilyRe: Help: How Do I Greet A Neighbor That Just Gave Birth by rickpat(m): 8:32am On Mar 16, 2022
say this ..

congratulations,thank God for safe delivery,go close to the baby and say "your baby is so cute"... smile...add 1k if you have for the baby.. ask when is the naming ceremony for the baby ...just ask of the name of the child. .talk randomly and say you got to catch up with something...shikena...you move...

hope this helps ooo
FamilyRe: My 3 Year Old Drawing by rickpat(m): 8:14am On Mar 16, 2022
he or she did very well... considering his or her age
PoliticsRe: APC: I Have Never Lost Any Election In 44 Years Of Politics – Abdullahi Adamu by rickpat(m): 9:48pm On Mar 15, 2022
so how does that reduce the price of PMS,jetA fuel, diesel, cooking gas or kerosene....

OGA POLITICIAN GO BURY YOUR UGLY HEAD IN SHAME PEACEFULLY!!!!!
RomanceRe: Honest Opinions Only by rickpat(m): 9:20pm On Mar 15, 2022
first of all..let the Babbage from your previous go by relating and getting friendly with Ladies again


secondly don't let anyone pressure you to get married cus if you are pressured to get married, pressure will still force you out of that marriage.

what you need now is not a relationship...you need to start relating with the female folks the right way,so you can bury that mindset you have developed over the years.. it will take a while for you to get rid of that mindset and find love again... IF YOU ALLOW HEARTBREAK TO CHANGE OR DEFINE YOUR PERSONALITY,THEN YOU HAVE LOST YOURSELF TO SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T EVEN CARE/REMEMBER IF YOU EXIST....free your mind and start building a lovable heart again..all the best
Foreign AffairsRe: Russia Imposes Sanctions On Biden, Blinken, Other US Officials by rickpat(m): 6:51pm On Mar 15, 2022
the sanctioned is now sanctioning!!!!.. amazing
Nairaland GeneralRe: Back And Better by rickpat(m): 12:52pm On Mar 15, 2022
candidlady

How are you doing?Just remembered you hence this message...don't know why these words came to mind though but I just want you to know that YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, SMART, WISE,A BRAVE AND COURAGEOUS WOMAN,don't let anyone make you feel less..have a blessed day and week ahead....don't beat up all the nairaland guys o... lol...you have strength o... be safe and happy...good afternoon to youuuuu!
FamilyRe: Who Has The Right To Children Between Father And Mother That Are Not Legally Mar by rickpat(m): 11:14am On Mar 15, 2022
Court will decide who has the right in case of if one party wants sole custody...if the court grants it..then the party that wants sole custody gets the child..please note that this is for minors..UNDER 18 or 21 depending on the country

once the child is an adult (18 or 21 years depending on the country) has a right to choose who he or she wants to be with..

NOTE THAT THE COURT RULING OVERIDES ANY TRADITIONAL OR RELIGIOUS BELIEF
SportsWho Wins The EPL?? by rickpat(op): 11:02pm On Mar 14, 2022
I think Manchester city has bottled it after this goalless draw with Crystal palace.

I never gave Liverpool a chance cus if the afcon but the way they breezed to victory in games in the absence of mane and salah was amazing.

At this point I feel Liverpool has a greater momentum going into the tail end of the season.

MAYBE LIVERPOOL WILL WIN IT!!
OR

CAN MANCHESTER CITY BE ABLE TO SEE IT THROUGH?

TIME WILL TELL!!!!!!
RomanceRe: Juan Carlos Escotet Alviarez Death: Billionaire Son Dies Rescuing His Fiancée by rickpat(m): 10:55pm On Mar 14, 2022
really sad!!
Foreign AffairsRe: Germany Asked Poland To Stop Sending Trains With Ukrainian Refugees by rickpat(m): 10:24pm On Mar 14, 2022
EVERYBODY JUST DEY PARA FOR THIS WORLD
Nairaland GeneralRe: Am 22'years Old..and My Dad,is Still Beating Me,..please! What Should I Do.. by rickpat(m): 10:22pm On Mar 14, 2022
wizonlyson:
..bro..if u are living with me, u will feel for me..like i didnt think he is my real biological father..and my mother dead, when am 12..
sorry about your mum bro,you doubting if he is your father makes me feel he beats you at every little provocation..it's more like abuse but what I can say is just manage,it's a path you have to strongly walk through...we all have story bro... keep your head down and focus...
Nairaland GeneralRe: Am 22'years Old..and My Dad,is Still Beating Me,..please! What Should I Do.. by rickpat(m): 10:14pm On Mar 14, 2022
wizonlyson:
embarassed embarassed embarassed..am about 22 this month..my dad is still beating me, anytime i offend him.. my life is being fustrated, by his hands..am confused..i feel like am homeless.. please!!!..what should i do to end this, agony life am living..i need your help.. abeg..
really sad...but again you haven't proved your maturity to your parents..I mean show it in your character,the way you respect them and obey the rules in the house.. you can't say cus you are 22 then you would sleep out or come in late for instance...please this is just an example o..if you give you parents maximum Respect...they will see you as matured and respect you in return...that's it...prove you responsibility and maturity to them
RomanceRe: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by rickpat(m): 10:10pm On Mar 14, 2022
Candidlady:
You made sense with you post


But sir how many real men do we have?

Ihave seen like ten threads this year alone if not more than.. How they met Jan asked her out same Jan and smash same month... Na wa o

All in the name of love!! Kai
real men are few..just as real women are few too...about meeting on Sunday and having sex on Monday morning..is between the guy and the girl...she has a right to say NO..right?..the thing is just don't let anyone force you..it must be your will and consent...I have seen cases where a girl tells a guy no sex and sleeps with other guys...I have seen cases where a girl sleeps over in a guy's house and no sex...the girl would go and mock this guy in front of her friends...the thing is just have standards..make friends,relate with people,you will surely separate the goats from the sheep...trust me
RomanceRe: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by rickpat(m):
Candidlady:
Eventually the guy will still make the move.. So why waste time with him... Sandra didn't lie in her book that all men want sex while women want love!!!

OP all they want is FORK like someone who bout to eat spaghetti !!



RUN SISTER
well,that's not true..not all guys,the ladies should set the bar a little bit high when it comes to sex...if you want it,cool...if you don't spell it out...I can say..I have seen people date without sex...generalising is not too good..it's a case of decision and discipline


no disrespect to the OP or the ladies but any LADY THAT FEELS ALL A MAN WANTS FROM HER IS SEX,JUST PROVES SHE HAS NOTHING TO OFFER...real men looks beyond sex
PoliticsRe: BREAKING: Nigerian Police Denies Going On Strike by rickpat(m): 9:44pm On Mar 14, 2022
POLITICIANS SHOULD GO ON STRIKE!!!!!
Christianity EtcRe: Why Can Black Magic Not Give Correct Football Scores by rickpat(m): 9:40pm On Mar 14, 2022
same reason India hasn't won the world cup
RomanceRe: How Do I Change This My Mindset About Men? by rickpat(m): 9:38pm On Mar 14, 2022
Preshieben:
Omoh...
I know I'm not supposed to be worried but I have to

Whenever a guy approaches me,no matter how nice and lovely he looks,
All I think is,he just wants to explore my pussie and move on..and gbamm I'll just ghost him and this goes on with every guy I meet.

I've had failed relationships, infact the last one ended when I discovered my ex bf was cheating on me with my cousin that I'm four years older than and I'm sure that I've moved on completely but I don't seem to trust any guy any longer

The way I reject men who approach me cos all I think is "he only wants to fvck you, nothing else" is sooo alarming, and I fear if I continue like this,I may not marry

How do I change this mentality?
How do I change my mindset about men abeg?
maintain an open mindset... mingling doesn't mean you will end up in anybody's bed.

Be patient and reserved...wait till the guy makes moves regarding to sex...don't be too judgemental...just wait...and while mingling also bring up issues pointing towards "NO SEX".. and see the guy that would stay and the ones that would leave...
SportsRe: Cristiano Ronaldo’s 807 Goals Breakdown by rickpat(m): 9:30pm On Mar 14, 2022
BABA DON TRY
FamilyRe: Chimerism & DNA: How True Is This Condition? by rickpat(m): 9:16pm On Mar 14, 2022
so the husband doesn't have a trace at all in the saliva or hair of the child?...well done


so why is the husband's DNA not showing the DNA of the twin brother?... cus he has dual DNA...the child picked one,which turns out to be DNA of the twin...

The fact is the husband may have cells from the twin but doesn't mean he will not have any cell of his own...so a trace him must be seen in the child...OP please read deeper...chimera doesn't entail a child not having any genetic trace of the parent
RomanceRe: How Many Months Or Days Will A Man Wait For A Woman To Have Sex After She Give B by rickpat(m): 6:29pm On Mar 14, 2022
once she is ready and fit enough...no specific time.... delivery can be very stressful

all depends on the method of delivery as well...you don't expect to start having sex with a woman who gave birth through caesarean section early...she should be given time to heal..
FamilyRe: How Can I Help People Or Give To Them Without Them Abusing The Privilege. by rickpat(m): 6:25pm On Mar 14, 2022
Ibime2003:
Move on might be easier for strangers, but for a family member, they can call, they even know where someone lives. And when you tell them, i am not loaded at the moment. You will start hearing so many things with that entitlement mentality vibe. How do one help and move on in such situation without making enemy out of it?
you will make enemies but have your SANITY INTACT
Foreign AffairsRe: Pregnant Ukrainian Woman In Viral Photo Dies After Russia Bombed Maternity Ward by rickpat(m): 11:58am On Mar 14, 2022
SAD
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Army Graduates 559 Repentant Boko Haram Members by rickpat(m): 11:51am On Mar 14, 2022
AMAZING...

AND WE HAVE THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE IN CORRECTIONAL FACILITIES OVER PETTY THEFT...

THE FOOLERY IN THIS COUNTRY IS JUST TOO MUCH... PEOPLE THAT HAVE KILLED,RENDERED MILLIONS HOMELESS ETC.. UNA WELL DONE
SportsRe: Where Are The Nigeria 2009 Players Now? Any Picture Of Them Now? by rickpat(m): 11:47am On Mar 14, 2022
AGE CAUGHT UP WITH THEM...LOL
PoliticsRe: Umahi: How Wike Masterminded Court Judgement Sacking Me by rickpat(m):
COMEDIANS

meanwhile no standard road, potable water,power, adequate and affordable shelter,job and investment opportunities...the list is endless.

And some wild and silly dogs called politicians will still be talking in this country.

WHO RAISED POLITICIANS? OR ARE THEY NOT PRODUCTS OF BAD PARENTING?...with all the canes we use on kids,the western world still raise better leaders.. LoL
FamilyRe: How Can I Help People Or Give To Them Without Them Abusing The Privilege. by rickpat(m): 9:53am On Mar 14, 2022
help and move on...that way you don't give them the chance to abuse the privilege... WHEN YOU ARE ALWAYS AVAILABLE,THEN THE CHANCE OF THE PRIVILEGE TO BE ABUSED IS HIGH
RomanceRe: How Do Itell My Folks by rickpat(m): 5:29pm On Mar 13, 2022
Candidlady:
My parents are trying to match me with a guy. Son of a family friend of ours. Note he is handsome, funny, and money is not an issue.


He just got back to the country, he is always at my place. Very funny dude. Iam not interested in a relationship with him.

Now the problem is mamana and fad wants it to work by fire by force... They feel iwill have the sense of responsibility once iget into a relationship

How do itell em igot a partner already and note if eventually itell em igot a partner they would wanna see the person ...

My dad might not even care but you see my MA? She will skin me alive lol.. She wants a grandchild lol
This is serious,some people would advise you do what you want that it's your life and all that.

your mum wouldn't accept you and your partner.

your dad,you ain't sure of his reaction...the match making with the guy is something I wouldn't support..that's wrong



well,it is this what you really want for yourself?a female partner?..I don't condemn or judge people but I just hope you won't regret the decision about your sexuality....it's easy for people to encourage and tell you it's your life ..those people can they take such decisions for themselves?..just have a rethink..life is not always about us doing what we want at that moment...it's about the long term...do you feel 100% that the female partner would make you happy all your life?..

what if your female partner changes and gets a man for herself in the future?..what if at some point you or your partner desire biological kids?...Just be wise in making your choice when it comes to delicate issues..you need to slow down... SOME THINGS ARE EASIER SAID THAN DONE....please don't introduce the female to your parents... people will say they should accept you for who you're...will that same people accept their daughter if she made such decision?...take a break,tell your folks to give you time,tell your partner to give you time...tell the guy they are match making u with to give you space...just have a deep thought about everything...besides a relationship doesn't give any sense of responsibility...so your folks need to let you be...JUST TAKE A TIME OFF EVERYTHING...think about everything,be analytical..NO SENTIMENTS...i know you love and care about your mum..so please...think about everything..I really wish you the best and happiness in all you do and all your endeavors

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