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Y would y say such a thing like taking your life, do u gv up that easily for something that isn't even a problem? Come off it dear. It's a simple solution...y remain around ppl u feel don't like u? Y do u keep living inside ur own bondage? Babe, if you're not comfy around ur ppl whom u practically share your everyday life with, pls leave as soon as u can b4 it's becomes something else

Even d sex kpa kpa is nothing to offer because it's a mutual benefit

She will not come and tell us how she bounced and possibly insulted or disgraced other men with genuine intentions 4 her but comes here to cry over d one she thinks is suitable 4 her possibly because he rides a car, looks tooshed and rich. Well, what goes around they say comes around...u got urs today, don't worry, d man will get his soon

Well am sure she's on some men's so called hit lists, but am actually interested in d rep she has given to her man regardless...so let's give her that

calmness0:
Op, This is a very serious matter.

I honestly don't think your wife deliberately intended to poison your mother.

I believe it was just laziness on her part to Cook separate meals.

The simple truth...case closed

1. A better Government
2. A better Government
3. I say a better Government ehhhh

kolakolex:
U re very correct.There are other ways he can make them understand that he were not comfortable with their lateness.

Replying him was too petty on the part of the HR or whoever sent that mail,they should have ignored him.it show they were pained

This world is a small place and they can still meet and do business the future.

Unfortunately for both parties,this mess is documented and can be used against any one of them.

I am not even concerned about the applicant cos obviously he doesn't need a job or should I say,that job, cos anyone who has no job at hand will always be humble, no matter d amount being offered.
I am greatly disappointed with the d HR. Can u imagine d level of unprofessionalism displayed in that write up, both in writing and in character? Instead of focusing on other serious matters, somebody took time to remember, word for word, what an everyday applicant said during an interview and decided to write back, reminding him of same words as if it's a child's play. So that means d HR takes every one he or she interviews very personal like say d thing pain am or like say she no get another business. She has belittled d company in many ways than one. Lolz, yes I used d pronoun 'she' because d HR behaved like a woman in an everyday normal settling

Well, this was how abuja stadium looked after it was unveiled. How far d stadium now? It's really not about building, but very importantly maintaining...

If u ask me, I'll say this is very unprofessional from both parties (applicant and HR or whoever wrote that mail)
I swear, if I was the CEO or MD, that HR personel is a goner. Sometimes it's even better u just keep shut

If this is true, then that school must be dowen

Bola146:
Jesu! How much is the lady earning? Must it base with his salary? Even if you earn #1m with no proper spending, it wouldn't last

Where did this obviously well mannered and sensible feminine creature fall from? I doubt if you're a babe though...even if u r, I doubt if ur Nigerian

Haba, is it too hard to understand? They are only giving back to thier customers 4 petronizing them on d roads with thier paypass. Just another fine business strategy 4 next yr.

That woman will shine on anything...

Nairalanders...they will always dwell on blames rather than try advicing if they have any, or just waka pass.
Well brother, as it stands, 8 solid years u have managed to endure, I think u could simply continue enduring especially 4 d sake of ur children like u rightly said. Am sure this one done pass "sit her down n talk to her". What u are seeing is just who she is, selfish!
I commend your mature act though...playing cool or along otherwise some other person would have also stopped her ppl from coming to your house, but 2 wrongs doesn't make it right. Just make peace with your siblings without her in d picture. Do whatever thing u can to make yourself happy as u carry your cross in peace

Remember when I use to crush for her...she has faded over time both in beauty, style and life style

You said it all...he only reluctantly agreed to having one child. I am very sure deep down in his mind he cannot remain faithful to that assertion 4 too long. He probably agreed hoping not to spoil ur mood since u guys r still getting 2 know each other n hoping also 2 change ur mind on a better day. I don't see any average african man accepting 2 have just 1 child when having more isn't a problem, especially knowing there's a probability of having that 1 child 2 b a female n ofcourse, I am very sure that 95 out of 100 african man will always want atleast a male child.
I feel your taking it too far by having second thoughts about him. For me, talking about having just one child is not a day discussion, let alone going as far as telling him to loose his firtility as a man...trust me, it's too much to handle in one straight thought. Am also sure u haven't even thought about d disadvantages that this can cause u 2 as a couple, 4 instance, d loss of d only child over time.
U also need 2 understand that we are all humans and such idea sounds quite selfish at first thought. so u need to take it easy

cayorday89:
Know your worth just in case you are employed to be the P/A of Nigeria's next president.

And who doesn't know this? As far as am concerned, it's either op is just showing off cos he's obviously currently employed with a pay much more than what's being offered, or he probably has too much to sustain him until he finds a job that is "his worth"

I still don't understand the essence of this post. How did this make front page?

Abeg body no be firewood. But u wont show us pictures of same men doing thier jobs when they are fully up and feat. By the way, what could be more worse than a government that has been asleep for 6 years now only to wake up only when adversity is to championed and go back to sleep again

What advice does he want? Let him simply pay if he's a big boy or beg to renegotiate since he has no use for woods. That's the litle price to pay for carelessness or malfunction. It happens to everyone no doubt, he should be grateful no life was lost in the process

I don't just understand. Is she forming "I don't have sex on the first night" or what
So she is even asking for more money meaning she is even an olosho! Rubish
Oh is true oooo, she might be seeing her period that night

Come to think of it... Why would I not rather fill the bottle up with free water than buy methylated spirit, which might even be more expensive that the supposed vitamin syrup I intend to sell and also which would atleast keep the baby in dsame condition rather than worsen it and get exposed?

Kokadomfreedom:
You know what you want and from my observation you made your choice already by going for the bank job since it meets your expectation. Na job wey go give little freedom to develop ourselves we dey find oo

And his choice is the perfect one. The extra 4 hours is very very very valuable, much valuable than the extra 5k

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we got so close and have always spent on her, going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel.

She do make demand from me and have always responded..but I suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that I should wait but she keeps requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all..

So I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something?

Me don't understand guys ooooo. Babe wey like u will never resist u abeg

Oooooomen I cover my face in shame for my state representative (imo) choooooow!!!
But is not by force to contents na.

Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.

Bro, if this is d only problem u have with her, (and u even say she also apologizes later), my brother u don't have a problem na. With all u have said about her, pls she is an A grade 4 a partner. No body is 100%. There is always a bad side to everyone. She uses foul words and curses because that's d best way she can actually express her anger. Brother, is it not better than having d one that will break and spoil things in d house or even threatening u with a knife? It's even better than those that will keep mute n say nothing, lol cos u don't know what's on thier minds.
My advice will be that u deal with that part of her life.I don't want to say u talk to her cos am sure u had probably done that already. Just try abeg, manage that part of her excesses. I understand how it is to be insulted, especially by ur woman cos I also hate insults. So what I do is I try as much as I can to avoid getting her or anyone infuriated to such level. And if it does happen and she insults me knowing fully well that I hate such, I'll simply leave d house just 2 ensure I don't do something I'll regret cos 2 wrongs doesn't make it right, n make sure I am inassessible to her for some days and punish her emotionally cos that's d only way to punish an adult, just like we flog a child when they do wrong.

I for like see how them do the cells

Lolz, who else also taught they saw "f***" written as a signature at first sight?

Mumu man

If u ask me, it is a simple decision. Your heart will know no peace until u HV done that u feel u wish 2 do. No matter what happens to u, u will keep telling urself that u would HV been better off if u had gone into ur tech career. So if u ask me, I'll say quit ur teaching job, go into that your heart desires so that u can satisfy ur thirst which isn't actually bad. After all, u will keep being fraustrated doing a job u HV no joy over, or a job that ur take home can't even get u to ur street. And if say after a yr or 2 in d process of pursuing ur dream u couldn't pull thru, trust me, u can always, I mean always get another teaching job brother since u already HV d experience

As educated as the professor was, I am very certain that he was in his right senses when he used a stranger as his next of kin, even after given birth to children after all these years. From d stories u told about him, it is clear that dis said man is more to what d eye can see. D only persons that r indirectly wise r ur aunty's kids 4 having saved themselves d energy, expenses, sleepless nites, strategies, headaches, worries n if care not taken high blood pressure, and of course useful time that would have been spent on trying to get those properties bk cos as far as d law is concerned, am sorry to say but they had no father.

Mtcheeeeew... And I rushed to click thinking I saw "Buhari to be sacked..."