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mizztee234: Hey guys,

So I have been dating this guy for a few months and it is long distance.

Lately, there have been a few issues, I would call him and he won't pick. He would give excuses like he was asleep and the worst was "I left my phone in the office"

He hardly ever tells me he loves me or misses me. He puts the reason for this down to him not being emotional.

He finds it really difficult to say sorry even when he is wrong. I have asked if he still wants the relationship and he says yes.

Initially I felt like he was the one for me but I am not so sure any more. I think my biggest mistake is letting him know how much I love and care about him. He is most definitely taking me for granted and playing mind games with me.

It hurts because I am not cheating and to be honest I have the oppotunity to However i'm beginning to feel it might be time to move on and accept the fact that I have made a mistake by letting the depth of my feelings known.

What do you guys think? I am so confused because I really do love him.

dats wat they call a total control guy. Dat guy too much.Dats how all nija guys suppose dey

190: Hehehehe - A sharp nija man don host her loco

Hehehe!

hahahahahahahahahaha. Roflmao! Hahahahahahahaha

makky: Saw him just this sunday, and today I got a text on my phone from his friend, his marriage iv!
Ive bn in shock since morning, dnt knw who to talk to cos i dnt kip friends, i absolutely may go suicidal on this. A man that didnt even have a house, a job, no money when i met him. I cook for him, he spent virtually all his time at my place, even most times borrowed as lil as N200 from me. He cried at the bustop one evening begging me not to let go, that single tear kept me. I dnt have a regular job, I buy & sell things just to keep going till a job comes. Ive chased suitors away all in d bid to make this man feel save cos i believe in tomorrow. He is a divorcee, i didnt worry abt that. I stood by him since last year till he got a house dis february. Bx march i started noticing things. Ive asked him severally what d problem was but he said its just stress cos he got an event contract with a company. At a point he even borrowed some money from me, got to find out that it was cos of d girl he is planning to marry that came visiting bt he was too broke to host her.
This life and thd men in it are heartless. Tell me how i can ever love another? Am dying silently, please i need friends to talk to or even a proper job to help me get over this hurt, am self destructive!

chai ya d gurl is suffering. But gurls r heartless too.Remember dat

Definately nt for nigerian gurls. Your cash will take care of all dis. Get rich or die trying

lefulefu: One of my pally wey dey date one fine igbo girl wey im meet for one beer palour for onitsha is curerently worrying wether im babe really love am as he love her.Ever since he meet dis babe na so my pally dey spend all the spendable on her.From wetin my pally tell me he buy this babe one expensive blackberry phone and ever since na im dey subscribe the BB for the babe monthly.Also two months ago na dis my pally take all the financial load for dis babe papa for im birthday and anything dem be ask he just give dem without complaining.To really show im deep love for dis babe na so my pally rent one expensive bungalow for one residential area for dis babe and he also dey make sure dat the babe account is always filled with money.Wetin my pally no fit understand be say upon all these things wey he dey do for dis babe she no just dey appreciate and she no even dey show am love.he say anything he visit her for house na so she go just squeeze face and sometimes he go see her with different men and anytime he ask her wetin she dey do with those guys na so she go just shout for im head and start to dey quarrel.In some cases she go say the guys wey dey visit her na her brothers and her cousins .Most cases he say dis babe small thing go just dey make her vex and in the presence of of im friends she go dey call am mumu.my pally say he don tire for dis babe behaviour and he sef don dey wonder wether no be the money wey he dey give her na im she really like.My pally need una help ooooo

its very easy tell ur pally to drink panadol with bleach. Mumu boy.Come on fling d gurl with her clothes outside d house. Make him no forget to collect d phone too

Its just so sad and dis heartning wit what is happen in dis country. How can group of men heavely armed just walk into a university with no single resistance.Its very clear the whole north is happy with dis boko haram tin and its very sad that people in d south arent doin anytin abt it. Everybody is waiting for dat day nigeria's own twin tower will go dowo ie more than 5,000 people will die in just 10mins.Mark my words is gona happen and send shock waves then it will b too late. Dis country is gonna divide.Its just inevitable. No matter how GEj likes it.He can only delay it.

Papa Crotch: All these stolen vocabs from the dictionary doesn't cover your unclothedness. You are a fake ass double id manipulative jail bait. Deal with it, some members are smart enough to see your corny ways. In your next life, try, being Seun instead that way you would have enough money and credit of achievement to actually scoring real life punnies instead of thriving on another man's success. Dumb ass uproot your brain from your anus and act like a man for once.

now u knw d only line i like in this diss 'Dumb ass uproot your brain from your anus' . #Fact

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i like u a lot Killz but menh dis too too dry. Plz pour more water on it.

onila: he was robbed downtown and the thugs took his wallet and all his money..i saw him complaining to the bus station officers that he needs 2 go home bt he aint got money

he ws so cute and sad.....i approached him and gave him some money 2 travel back to his destination(another city)

he almost cried @ my kindness and generousity...he kissed me on my chick and said "te amo" meaning I love you in spanish...aww spanish guys are so sweet

I know nairalander ACIDTALK will be proud of me

MU square. Occupy transformer. Ode!

190: WTF is onila

if she wears red pants then im game


if she doesnt then she should retrace her bootay over to where i am for quick construction


did annonymous just bury sexkillz again - rotfl

hahahahahaha. Menh is good to see u again. Lmao

Omo i for like follow play dis niraland derby match oh but i dan retire since. Am now all stars

anonymus11: abeg make we hear word. anything to get noticed and accredited on nl. u no dey tire abeg leave gospel u are black at heart more than d devil, u r just lucky nl romance consist of gullible stupid foolish emotional wrecks who have refused to dig deep into ya past and discover d devil in bow tie and frog like pigments.............................. u dis thunderbolt for masqurades with 3 fingers, find somewhere bury ya head, u r filt to think u got away wit ya autrocity n living as a free man on nl. u r very lucky. ........"nl no go make me work or go to school" dt na ya new slogan............................. stay here when u r dead, i will hand ya ashes to pigs dt is where u breed n deserve to rot u slimy wet dreams physiotheraphist.

chai e be like dis fight go even tough pas tommorow manchester derby oh. Latest Score 1-0. I dnt need to mention whose leading. U all know. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

anonymus11: abeg make we hear word. anything to get noticed and accredited on nl. u no dey tire abeg leave gospel u are black at heart more than d devil, u r just lucky nl romance consist of gullible stupid foolish emotional wrecks who have refused to dig deep into ya past and discover d devil in bow tie and frog like pigments.............................. u dis thunderbolt for masqurades with 3 fingers, find somewhere bury ya head, u r filt to think u got away wit ya autrocity n living as a free man on nl. u r very lucky. ........"nl no go make me work or go to school" dt na ya new slogan............................. stay here when u r dead, i will hand ya ashes to pigs dt is where u breed n deserve to rot u slimy wet dreams physiotheraphist.

omo see finishing. Dan dan dan' awwwww oh!! Oh!! FATALITY !

onila: I will dip my three sharp nails in your damn eyes
hor-ny as-s fuc-kers cant control your selves when a fine pretty bit-ch is studying

why do some men do that stup=id sh-it

so how is this a romance tin. Is like ur mother breast fed u with goat milk.Stupid bianchi

[quote author=Onegai]I'm not naming names. But is that men don't know what they want? Because if they tell you about the chick they mess up, she is always the very definition of what they want, yet still...

Sharrap! There. What do u knw.Is it gurls that know what they want. U nigerian gurls r rubbish.

kitty kat: If u don't let go, your hands won't be free to receive what Gods has to offer. Cos they are closed still holding onto the old shit.

You r not in love, you r just scared that you won't find another person. There are a lot of beautiful, young smart, well behaved women looking for a young man to call theirs. They would also be by your side 247, to encourage u to achieve ur dreams.

The choice is urs. Remain there in fear when u have the choice of launching out into the deep and meeting someone who would take you for whom you are. Pls trust me on this, take a risk meet new ppl. For someone like u, you need to meet at least 4 - 5 chicks weekly not for dating or intimacy. Just simple hello, what's ur name, what do u do, maybe can I have ur number? This will help u build ur confidence in bits until u r ready for a real relationship.

Don't give up and settle for less.

f nigeria had at least 1million gurls like u,d country would have bin a better place.I find it so hard to believe dat is a gurl dat wrote this.Keep it up

nnana4top: @nekye thanks for the advice. @kitty kat thanks for the advice, but an adage say the devil u know is better than the angel u dont know. Am not too good at women issue, i have only had two GF my whole life. My fear is starting a new one. Thanks

ie dis.

My broda u dnt need to read in between d lines. D bianchi is taking u 4 a big mugu.I knw how hard it is for u .But neva entertain dat thought u cnt live without her. No gurl is indispensable! I repeat no player(girlfriend) is bigger than his manager(her boyfriend).D moment that player think so,kick d player out. Kick Her OUT like polio. Dnt call ,text her. U'll will get over with time,believe me.

My broda u dnt need to read in between d lines. D bianchi is taking u 4 a big mugu.I knw how hard it is for u .But neva entertain dat thought u cnt live without her. No gurl is indispensable! I repeat no player(girlfriend) is bigger than his manager(her boyfriend).D moment that player think so,kick him out. Kick Her OUT like polio. Dnt call ,text her. U'll will get over with time,believe me.

Seun is a big man,he's too big to respond

bennyraz: @OP. Ladies and money are inseperable. It seems like you bleeped her overnight at the hotel before the wedding. Kai, u sef na sege daboroba! Eating what is not yours? If you see and you know all the things women do before they get married, you just feel sorry for the husband to be. The other day i chatting with my friends and i was advocating that i would never marry a dis-virgined girl. They laughed at me because they knew i was requesting for what is 90% impossible. Yes, i know. But how do you want someone of my status to marry another man's chewing stick? M'banu. It's suicidal. You get it right? How many d1cks have been down there? Those are part of the reasons are aint in a relationship. And i don't think how would be in one soonest. When you can get the milk at affordable price, why bother about the cow?

my brother,u get sense die. E be like u b my twin bros. Nigerian gurls r ruBbish.Simple as dat

Its man utd 1st. D gurl should take back seat. No TIME

Drogba- Dr Ogba(doctor ogba)

Nigerian gurls r rubbish simple as dat

dabrake: after my 1st 2 break ups, i decided 2 upgrade my game by bringing in the brutal psychological factor. Guy, believe me, it works perfectly. Na who dey do love? Omo, if I recognize a potential bad gul, na chop and clean mouth oh. The sweet thing be say dem nor go see my wallet.

o boy i dey tell u. U get sense die. Dey no go see ma wallet

Sometimes fate marks a man out..But like sir alex ferguson will always say: dont give in. Just do a gov Amaechi.Hope u knw his story in uniport. Non of his mates 2day r beta off dan him.

My broda u no hate them reach me. I hate them die.!

Yeah trust ur instincts nd guts.Dnt do anytin 4 her.If she will stay,she will stay.Que sèra sèra