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Celebrities › Re: Verydarkman Buys First Car From China. Nigeria Economy Weeps by RISQUE: 11:21pm On Oct 18, 2025
Shawarmagirl:
When I travelled out of Nigeria is when I know Nigeria is a use grin less country. That's why I vow Nigeria will never ever happen to my children.
You can never know how useless they've made Nigeria to become till travel out.
Family › Re: Wife Faints After Husband Insists On Divorce by RISQUE: 10:14pm On Oct 18, 2025
Politics › Re: See Why Military Coup Is Hard In Nigeria.. by RISQUE: 10:13pm On Oct 18, 2025
Toruibestate:
I once asked a recently retired Major General in Nigeria Army why coups no longer happen easily in Nigeria. He explained that things changed drastically after the attempted coup that nearly claimed the life of former military ruler, Ibrahim Babangida.


According to him, the military intelligence system was completely overhauled after that incident. It became so advanced, sophisticated, and deeply embedded across all security units that planning or executing a coup today is almost impossible without being detected early.


That’s why, since that time, Nigeria hasn’t witnessed a single successful coup.


@Ditari of Ijaw.
Military coup in Nigeria is not hard. Believe me, these guys will strike again. The presidency needs to be careful though.
Career › Re: Doctor Compares His 7-year Salary In Nigeria And 6-month Salary In The UK by RISQUE: 10:09pm On Oct 18, 2025
DyshApp:
A Nigerian medical doctor has stirred serious buzz online after comparing his earnings in Nigeria to what he now earns in the United Kingdom.

According to the doctor, identified as Dr. Tolu, he spent 7 years working in Nigeria without ever earning up to ₦185,000 monthly, even while juggling multiple jobs.

He revealed that after finishing medical school, he moved back in with his parents and lived with them till he was almost 30 years old — without owning a car.

However, after saving up to write the required exams and moving to the UK, his 6-month salary abroad reportedly surpassed his entire 7-year earnings in Nigeria.

Here’s what he wrote on X (formerly Twitter):


https://x.com/tolubinutu/status/1979021061573206219?t=Ug1tTovARqx5rkcb3tBEdQ&s=19

This revelation has sparked discussions about the state of healthcare salaries in Nigeria, brain drain, and why many Nigerian professionals are relocating abroad for better pay and work conditions.

Is the UK really that much better, or is it just hype?
Sometimes I wonder why people keep comparing salaries in Nigeria and the UK. In the UK, the average salary a Healthcare Support Worker earn in the UK is £2074 after tax and that's over 4 million Naira. If you live in a low cost area, rent is about £450-520 per month, groceries £50 to 100, clothing, use vinted or temu. If you are someone that's meticulous without a family yet, you can save quiet a lot even after sending money to family back in naija. No matter what, UK is still the best buy. grin cheesy cheesy grin
Politics › Re: Coup Plotters Planned To Assassinate Tinubu, Shettima, Akpabio - Premium Times by RISQUE: 10:03pm On Oct 18, 2025
Floky215:
It would have been one of the most happiest day in Nigeria and for Nigerians....
Will you stop this nonsense? No matter how bad the APC and the present government are, ousting them through assassinations is a no no. This is heartless from you.
Celebrities › Re: Regina Daniels & Ned Nwoko's Marriage Crashes Over Domestic Violence (Video) by RISQUE: 7:25pm On Oct 18, 2025
ThroneNGamez:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lzZKHB8RILs







https://www.instagram.com/stanleyontop_news/reel/DP9BZq6jIOE/

Her brother cries out. See the third screenshot.
That Regina small brother dey threaten to scatter Ned Jaw cheesy grin
Celebrities › Re: Regina Daniels & Ned Nwoko's Marriage Crashes Over Domestic Violence (Video) by RISQUE: 6:57pm On Oct 18, 2025
ThroneNGamez:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lzZKHB8RILs







https://www.instagram.com/stanleyontop_news/reel/DP9BZq6jIOE/

Her brother cries out. See the third screenshot.
I'm surprised that you guys are surprised. A marriage that wasn't built on love rather a family's quest to get out of poverty. grin cheesy grin grin angry
Politics › Re: Margaret Obi Appointed As A High Court Judge In UK by RISQUE: 9:09am On Oct 18, 2025
yarimo:
They should be careful and also monitor her 24/7 before she claim ownership of that Court undecided
When you give birth to a child, never pass down a low eeeeeeeeeyyyyeeeeeee Queeeeeeeeeeeeee to him. It's a pity.
Food › Re: What's This Called In Your Native Language? by RISQUE: 8:58pm On Oct 17, 2025
Morbeta11:
What's this called in your native language?🤔
Icheku
Politics › Re: Presidential Pardon Still Under Review — FG by RISQUE: 9:18pm On Oct 16, 2025
Foreign Affairs › Re: Tory Wants Kemi Badenoch Removed As Party Leader Ahead Of Next General Election by RISQUE: 1:20am On Oct 16, 2025
DoctorStanley:
It is only a POLL! Likely a manipulated poll at that. Polls also found Trump losing to Kamala by a wide margin. Polls and the Press in general tend to be quite liberal
This is the UK not the US. Whether your analysis is correct or not about America, I still want to remind you that this is the UK.
Politics › Re: Bayelsa Governor Diri, 23 State Assembly Members, Others Resign From PDP (Video) by RISQUE: 4:22pm On Oct 15, 2025
Crime › Re: Car Snatched At Gunpoint In Alakahia–rumosi Area Port Harcourt (video) by RISQUE: 11:24am On Oct 15, 2025
EdonhappenTv:
A Toyota Avalon 2015 model was reportedly st0len at gu.npoint around 8:30 p.m. on Tuesday, opposite the Primary School along the Alakahia–Rumosi axis of Port Harcourt.
According to reports, the arm€d assa!lants fled with the vehicle along with three mobile phones — an iPhone 17 Pro, iPhone 14 Pro, and a Samsung Galaxy S8.
CCTV footage obtained from the scene has captured the incident, showing the moment the arm€d men carried out the operation and made away with the vehicle. The footage is currently being reviewed to aid investigation and track down the perpetrators.
Members of the public are urged to report any sighting or useful information regarding the st0len car or suspects to the nearest police station.
A ₦2 million (Two Million Naira) r€ward has been announced for anyone with credible information that could lead to the recovery of the vehicle or the arrest of the culpr!ts.
Source; Portharcourt Force

Watch the video here https://www.youtube.com/shorts/4oX5zUB23Y0
These demons don't know they were captured on cctv grin cheesy grin cheesy

Them wan go flex another man sweat.

E no go reach 48hrs them go apprehend them.
Family › Re: Married But Feeling Single: I’m Losing Myself In This Quiet Marriage by RISQUE: 11:30am On Oct 14, 2025
breadtoaster:
Please, those of you who are married — how do you cope?

I am married to someone I don’t think is my friend. We dated before marriage, but during that time, I had a very senior friend whom I always went to for advice, help with decisions, and assistance with things that required initiative or “manly” effort.

My husband, on the other hand, is very quiet. Living with him feels like living in a graveyard — no TV, no outings, nothing lively. It’s not that he isn’t intelligent (trust me, he is), but he’s too lazy to put his mind to work sometimes. By 9 p.m., he’s already asleep. He eats, goes to work, and that’s all. He has no drive for more. Whenever I talk about progress or goals, he says, “It’s a process; it’ll take years to come to fruition,” but he never thinks of ways to get things done efficiently or on time.

So in terms of ambition or drive for achievement, I’m suffering living with him. I feel alone. I’m scared that his lack of motivation and his slow, passive lifestyle will kill my own drive. I’m not even extremely driven myself, but I know I want to achieve greatness. That desire pushes me, but I’m afraid that living with him will make me too relaxed and unmotivated — and I don’t want that.

Before marriage, I had friends — both male and female — with whom I shared advice and ideas. I’ve always had male friends because they tend to be driven. From them, I learned about crypto, stocks, business ideas — they inspired me. But my husband doesn’t trust them or me around them. Since we got married, I can’t talk to most of these friends at home unless I’m at work. It’s affecting me mentally. I’m scared that my circle for growth and greatness is being trimmed down, and soon I might start behaving like him — with no ambition or hunger for achievement.

Women, how do you handle such relationship dynamics?
How do I keep my drive while being married to such a man?

Every Friday night, he’s already asleep. One time, I dragged him to a lounge on a Friday night, and he was dozing off there. I ended up dancing alone while other couples danced together. If there’s something important we’re supposed to do, he won’t take initiative or push for it.

For example, I suggested we start going to church regularly to build our spiritual life. One Sunday, he woke up first and went to bathe. When he finished, he didn’t wake me up, and by the time I opened my eyes, it was already late. When I asked why he didn’t tell me, he said he called me but I didn’t answer. For me, I wouldn’t act that way — especially when it’s something that helps build our faith together.

We also planned to pray as a family. We did it for two days, and then he forgot — and honestly, I’m struggling to remember too. I don’t know if our marriage is under spiritual attack or if it’s just his personality, but my mental health is suffering. I’m not happy. I don’t genuinely smile anymore.

He doesn’t know how to pamper me or show warmth. If I complain about something, he just lashes out. He didn’t date much before marriage; he was one of those “spiritual brothers.” I was spiritual too, but I thought quiet men were more romantic or deep inside. I was wrong. I feel like he’s choking the life out of me.

At home, I can’t even make calls freely — he gets unknowingly aggressive if I’m on the phone and says things like, “Don’t you have things to do?” So I can’t talk to the people I’d love to.

After our marriage, he had issues going to my family, claiming I blackmailed him because of earlier arguments. He would get upset about small things, like me dancing to Afrobeat music. He’d say I shouldn’t, then later deny he said it. Or if we go out to eat, he’ll say we should leave early or that the place will soon close, even when I just want to relax and enjoy being outside.

I feel alone, yet married. I miss home. I’m not sure what to do.

It even took us one month after the wedding to consummate our marriage. We were both virgins, but his manhood wasn’t functioning well, and we had so many arguments that our emotional connection broke down. I felt it literally fall apart. Now I feel like I’m just living with someone.

He often says, “We’re not aligned,” or that he trusts me only 60%. If I go out, he sometimes gets angry or accuses me of lying about where I went. I can’t stay indoors all day like him — I’d just die inside.

I need help. I feel like I’m losing myself. When I visit home, my mother’s voice feels loud or too much, my friends when i talk to them, it feels like they are talking too much — not because they are talking too much, but because I’ve been living in such silence that I’ve lost touch with voice, morelike in a graveyard.

I am even crying as I type this, and he is sitting somewhere on the other side asking me if my head is swelling or what is making me cry.

I’m just… tired. feeling so strongly emotionally starved tooo.
Lots of issues. People should learn when to divorce and move on. Marriage is not a do or die affair. The red flags are numerous.
Politics › Re: Lady Finds Emotional Letter In Late Father’s Bible Years After His Passing by RISQUE: 8:16am On Oct 13, 2025
Education › Re: No Work, No Pay - FG Warns ASUU Against Strike by RISQUE: 7:25am On Oct 13, 2025
IJAYA001:
ASUU wan go break as usual, you think Tinubu is Buhari. You will learn in hard way.
This one has gone nn̈nnnnnmnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnuuuuuùuuuuutz.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Katy Perry And Justin Trudeau Seen Passionately Kissing On A Yacht by RISQUE: 7:12am On Oct 13, 2025
[quote author=AnonPoet post=137105891][/quote]The mwonkkkkkiiiy wey create this thread no even know Say Justin na former Canadian prime minister say canada don get new Prime Minister grin grin grin grin
Celebrities › Re: Tinubu Grants Maryam Sanda A Presidential Pardon After Killing Her Husband by RISQUE:
BlueStripper:
Ya Allah! What's happening to our President?

This one is uncalled for. Allow Convicted criminals, especially those who were convicted for murder, to face their jail term.

There are a lot of innocent Nigerians languishing in jail while awaiting trial.

Mr. President, GO AND RELEASE THEM OR INAUGURATE A SPECIAL COURT TO LISTEN TO THEIR CASE, AND ISSUE JUDGEMENT WITHIN 3 DAYS.

THATS HOW TO DO THINGS DIFFERENTLY SIR!
Man wey dey confused, no dey surprised say him no even know the names and crimes of persons he granted pardon to. That's how terrible this current leadership is. No direction, no due diligence just cut and join leadership. Someone might have smuggled that ladies name into the list.
Politics › Re: Tinubu Considers Dropping Wike As Lagos APC Elders Ask Him To Work With Fubara by RISQUE: 7:32am On Oct 11, 2025
ogugwa1992:
EXCLUSIVE: Tinubu considers dropping Wike as Lagos APC elders ask president to work with Fubara



https://www.signalng.com/exclusive-tinubu-considers-dropping-wike-as-lagos-apc-elders-ask-president-to-work-with-fubara/
Una want Wike to get BP? grin cheesy cheesy grin
He will start another morning conference meeting for Tinubu every Wednesday.
Travel › Re: Countries That Recently Relaxed Visa Rules For Nigerians by RISQUE: 7:29am On Oct 11, 2025
Great100000:
For Nigerian travellers, a number of countries are making it easier to obtain visa and to visit, study, or conduct business within their borders.


Source: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/10/full-list-of-countries-that-recently-relaxed-visa-rules-for-nigerians/
I was expecting to see the US.
Celebrities › Re: Tim Godfrey Says Gospel Artists Deserve To Be Paid For Their Work by RISQUE: 6:52am On Oct 11, 2025
voiceoftheupcom:
https://eyesoflagos.com/tim-godfrey-says-gospel-artists-deserve-to-be-paid-for-their-work/
If you are a gospel artiste - Yes
If you are a gospel minister- No.

Therefore, being a gospel artiste, Tim is entitled to his wages.
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Says She Hasn’t Received Her Flowers Yet by RISQUE: 6:50am On Oct 11, 2025
Crime › Re: Somtochukwu Maduagwu: Arrested Suspects Reveal Why The Gate Man Was Shot Dead by RISQUE: 5:52pm On Oct 10, 2025
Chenu60:
VIDEO: Somtochukwu Maduagwu: Arrested Suspects Reveal Why Gate Man Was Shot, Killed



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fug_oRw6P5E?si=-DZ3sXpQXkLa_y61
There's something fishy about this entire thing.
Politics › Re: Tinubu Names Prof. Joash Amupitan As New INEC Chairman by RISQUE: 4:51pm On Oct 09, 2025
EvilMerodack:
Rest, she is retiring next year. Tinubu didnt force her to resume civil service 34years ago. If she started later, she would have remained there

Most of you dont know much about anything
There are people I engage in this forum not someone like you. Reading your comment even makes it laughable. If she's retiring next year, what stops him from waiting till early next year to appoint someone else? Mr. Too know.
Politics › Re: Tinubu Names Prof. Joash Amupitan As New INEC Chairman by RISQUE: 3:30pm On Oct 09, 2025
Newsgeek24:
https://news360ng.com/breaking-tinubu-appoints-joash-amupitan-as-new-inec-chairman/
If the acting INEC chairman were to be Tinubu’s tribes person, he would have kept her till whenever but see how quickly he rushed to announce Amupitan as INEC chairman, why didnt he allow the woman conduct at least one election?. All these things wey una dey do for this country, make una continue.
Politics › Re: Aso Rock Bans Wike’s Monthly Media Briefings Over Embarrassing Outburst by RISQUE: 7:33am On Oct 09, 2025
umarnuhu1900:
Presidency bans Wike’s monthly media briefings over embarrassing outbursts by FCT minister

The presidency has barred the Minister of the Federal Capital Territory (FCT), Nyesom Wike, from holding his monthly media briefings, citing concerns over his conduct and potential destabilisation of Rivers State, according to inside sources.

Sources close to the presidency told Leaders.ng that the decision was taken because Wike’s briefings have become notorious for harassment, threats against political opponents, and inflammatory rhetoric.

“One of the reasons for the ban is that in Rivers State, relative calm is returning after Wike successfully lobbied President Tinubu to declare a state of emergency when he was denied access to Rivers’ treasury by Governor Sim Fubara,” a source revealed.

Another source noted that Wike’s repeated attacks on Rivers elders who tried to mediate between him and Fubara stirred concern that he might reignite chaos.

“The president’s camp is worried that Wike’s outbursts, especially towards those elders, could plunge the state into another political meltdown,” a senior aide in the presidency revealed.

He, however, revealed that Wike is adamant and is already putting pressure on the president’s Chief of Staff, Femi Gbajabiamila, to call off the ban.

The crisis between Wike and Fubara escalated publicly in early 2025, culminating in Tinubu’s emergency rule in Rivers State, a move supported by the National Assembly.

While both Wike and Fubara later agreed to a truce brokered by President Tinubu, tensions remain high.

The presidency’s decision also draws from corruption allegations against Wike, including media reports that he secretly purchased three lakeside homes in Winter Springs, Florida, using large cash transactions and later transferred ownership to his children via quitclaim deeds.

In addition, activist Omoyele Sowore has petitioned Florida authorities to seize those properties, accusing Wike of money laundering and failure to declare assets to Nigeria’s Code of Conduct Bureau.

Domestically, Wike has been accused of land grabbing in Abuja and arbitrary revocations of land allocations.

“The optics are perilous for our government. A minister who cannot be controlled is painful for the presidency,” one of the officials said.

Officials said Wike will still appear before vetted media interactions when necessary, but the blanket monthly sessions are suspended until further notice.

https://leaders.ng/2025/10/09/exclusive-presidency-bans-wikes-monthly-media-briefings-over-embarrassing-outbursts-by-fct-minister
grin grin grin cheesy
Education › Re: FG Breaks Silence As ASUU Prepares For Nationwide Strike by RISQUE: 7:32am On Oct 09, 2025
Foreign Affairs › Re: 92-Year-Old Cameroon President, Paul Biya Doing Non Appearance Campaign by RISQUE: 6:53am On Oct 09, 2025
[quote author=ThroneNGamez post=137061169]Source:
is an extension of Nigeria. You keep hearing and reading funny news everyday but nothing ever changes. Instead, it keeps getting worse.
Politics › Re: Rufai Oseni Of Arise TV Declares Himself "SAN" by RISQUE: 12:56pm On Oct 08, 2025
brain54:
Rufia is the subject of this thread isn't he...?

Your question is whataboutism!
I made a mistake dignifying you with a response.

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