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hmmmmmm, to bring up a child is the hardest job i've seen.

Thx guyz but i've checked google and the whole story is just too much,I just need ppl to argue it out maybe i could be able to pick one or two things from here.

Hi ppl ,I need to write an argumentative eassay on this topic China’s economic growth has come with grave environmental side effects. Water pollution is killing Chinese people but I dont know anything about china , can somebody help me out plz b4 I fail ? I need to submit it by tomorrow morning .

YES !!! I've fallen in luv thru NL and my second wife from Nl is carrying our 13th child.

So nao tell us who your dream girl on NL is !! 

Tope_Fl:
Aaah na lie. Them spank me die! with koboko, wire, cutlass ma sef. But still on top of that I get am for brains, lol

Dat na wetin i dey talk say some kids na baddo but atleast you know say your parent try for your life,e better pass make u carry cutlass dey chase dem say na dem spoil u becos of too much pamper.

Is she really too much ?
Can I meet her ?

Na wa oo

If by not spanking them, you believe you are showing them love,if they turn out bad in future, they will turn back and kill you and they will let you know you were the one that ruined their lives.

If you spank them on the other hand n they still turn out to be wayward, you as a parent will be happy you did what you ought to do and people near you will testify to the fact that you didnt spare the rod but that child just want to be bad.

So I believe you should spank if need be and talk to them more but don't let your child dictate what you should do or not do.
You own you child not the American govt, it is you father's name that is at stake not theirs.

You should have asked this question before opening legs .

souffle

Who are the two fighting and yabbing here ? You berra be careful.

I dont see any reasons why I should go thru his fone. who ever calls him or he calls does'nt burva me.How about checking if there was a missing condom,since you alwayz count them before leaving his house   ?

Alhaji by Ramatoulaye

The moderators will has to moderation some people in this forum. see how them are kill english.

@ terrike

I know ur kids are not pako but you,you,you . . . . you are pure pako like moi.
I dont agree with all these studies myself, if spankin were to make kids IQ lower, What about all those tough beating by teachers and those wicked punishments in Nigeria high schools? we still have the intelligent ones among us despite all those beatings.

If you are handsome n rich ,you don't have to worry abt bin a womanizer,women will become menizer for you .

trekkie:
arrant nonsense

wetin be arrant and the nonsense ? se na me talk am ? no be oyinbo ppl .Abeg this thread na for those wey get pikin for obodo oyinbo no be pako like u.

.Does this change your mind about spanking? Spanking can lower your child's IQ


Forget everything else you've ever read about spanking. All the arguments about how ineffective it is or how it can damage the relationship between you and your child, all the other arguments against spanking you've heard 10,000 times before. Perhaps this brand new research, showing that spanking can lower your child's IQ, will change your mind about spanking once and for all.

Professor Murray Straus of the University of New Hampshire has discovered that the traumatizing effects of spanking have a spillover effect on IQ. Specifically, children who were spanked had lower IQs than children who were not spanked. Straus is presenting the results of his research at the 14th International Conference on Violence, Abuse, and Trauma, in San Diego, California, today.

To conduct his research, Straus followed children in two different age groups (ages two to four and ages five to nine). He looked at children who were being spanked and children who were not being spanked. He then followed up to see how all of the children were doing four years later, so that he could investigate any differences between being spanking versus not being spanking.

Here's what he found:

The IQ scores of children ages two to four who were spanked were 5 points lower four years later than children who were not spanked.
The IQ scores of children ages five to nine who were spanked were 2.8 points lower four years later than children who were not spanked.
How often parents spanked their children also made a difference in how well the children were doing. Children who were spanked frequently were developing more slowly than children who were spanked less frequently. Even occasional spankings had a measurable impact on child development.
According to Straus, being spanked is extremely stressful and can become a chronic source of stress for young children. They may experience post-traumatic stress symptoms such as being afraid that terrible things are about to happen and being easily startled. These symptoms are associated with lower IQ.

Straus' findings are already attracting considerable online buzz and the study is likely to be cited in future by the most respected global health and child protection authorities. The United Nations has urged all member states to pass laws making violence against children, including corporal punishment, illegal. Many have done so, but Canada has not.

http://www.modernmedicine.com/modernmedicine/Modern+Medicine+Now/ICVAT-Spanking-Associated-With-Lower-IQ-in-Childre/ArticleNewsFeed/Article/detail/629419?contextCategoryId=40137

So what's your take?

Uju if this is the same guy you've bin doing all these for https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-324085.0.html , all i can say is may devil punish him,if i ask God to punish him he might ask for forgiveness but na devil go punish am !!! .

My only prayer for you is for God to provide you anoda guy,who will love and respect you completely.That guy is Ewu.

@ Deji

I'm done and I passed all the tests.

I'm gonna run the software test now. meanwhile if i get to know the problem is  mechanical fault ,you are suggestin I  return it back to recovery mode rite ? I've returned it back to recovery mode like 3 times before,so can  I still do it ? Thx bruv.

@ Deji

Thx so much. I used it on my bed most of the time but I've stop cos whenever it gets so hot,it kept shutting down itself.
I gonna try what you recommend rite away.I will let you know when I'm done. Thx once again.

My laptop is HP pavillion dv9000. Spilled water on it like 2 mths ago but recently it has bin excessively hot. what is happening and what can I do plz people .

I cant visit him in his hotel room.If he must see me,he should alwaz come to my place.