₦airaland Forum

GoTV:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, i think Nigeria needs to emulate Saudi Arabia by limiting the rights and opinions of Christian women especially. A driving and social media ban for women in Nigeria is good to start with. Women are becoming more bold and their actions if not curtailed with strict rules will keep bringing down men of repute. Biodun is the victim today and I'm ashamed of how we Christians are dragging his innocent name in the mud.

We Christians have a lot to learn from our Muslim counterparts who would rather resolve their differences in private rather than bring shame to Islam and their mosques.

The freedom Nigerian women enjoys breeds the evil and abominable idea of feminism which is the driving force of false rape accusations. Timi and his foolish wife should be locked up and keys thrown in the ocean for bringing disrepute to Christianity.
The federal government should enforce the death penalty for false accusations of rape . Until this is done, there will be more women coming out to bring men down with rape.

Fake born again like you ranting like a bird.

Even Pastor Adeboye & other men on God who have spoken on the issue gave a balanced & unbiased opinion.

But in your own case, you're condemning Busola already instead of remaining neutral.

Nonsense.

wink2015:
FINANCIALLY BROKE "CRACK HEAD" KEMI OLUNLOYO IS BEING PAID BY COZA CHURCH TO CARRY OUT DIRTY PROPAGANDA AGAINST THE TIMI DAKOLO AND HIS WIFE, BUSOLA DAKOLO, THE RAPE VICTIM OF PASTOR FATOYINBO SE.X SCANDAL.

THANK GOD, TIMI DAKOLO AND BUSOLA DAKOLO DID NOT GIVE HER THE INTERVIEW OPPORTUNITY THAT SHE CRAVES FOR TO RESURRECT HER ALREADY FAILED JOURNALISM CAREER.

KEMI IS JUST ON A LANE TO BLACKMAIL THE DAKOLOS.

LET THIS COZA PASTOR PROVE HIS INNOCENCE.

NOT YOU KEMI OLUNLOYO BUYING OVER THE MATTER!

NA WHERE SHE EVEN LEARN THIS KIND OF JOURNALISM ?

RUBBISH !

I tire oohhh for the woman.

She has announced on more than 6 occasions that she has "retired from journalism" yet before you say jack, she'll start disturbing everyone's peace with one investigative journalism or the other.

Nonsense.

Rik500k:
if this investigations are found to be true, then this busola of a woman has a lot to tell Nigerians and world at last, she has a motive or she's being sponsored to do so. You told us you were meant to nurse a baby who from ur claims was born in 1999, from this investigation, the man's first issue was in 2002, you said he banged you on top of his Mercedes-Benz car trunk, which investigations found out he never had a benz till 2003.
even if she was raped as claimed, this evidence alone can turn around the whole issue on her and her family.
even from the way she told the rape story, she enjoyed every bit of it, she sounds like one who likes to be dominated during sex

So you actually take Madam Kemi serious? Go & watch the interview & stop displaying your ignorance.

The only time she mentioned 1999 was when she said she was still in secondary school & only came back for one holiday period and discovered that her sisters had started attending the COZA church.

BizBayo:
What of the baby sitting part?

Go & watch the interview so that you can answer the question by yourself.

mickykhe:
In as much as i dont really like dis woman kemi, but she do make necessary investigation and revelations on most topics, this is good journalism in her own part.

The woman is daft, simple & short.

I still drank Krest after I left University & that was after 2004.

The website only said they had started withdrawing Krest from "Lagos" in 2001 to allow for another brand to sell. It didn't affect other parts of the country.

karma2000:
Cunts now lying I said it karma will soon expose other liers soon

In her 2013 confession, she never said she was raped by the Pastor.

She openly admitted that they were both having an extramarital affair.

She's only clarifying because some bloggers are claiming that she too was raped.

KenModi:
In a bid to advertise sale of airtime, you couldn’t take an extra minute to read the post properly before commenting.

Where did she say she slept with the pastor or has attempt to manipulate automatically turn to sex

In her 2013 confession, Ese never said she was raped by the Pastor. She openly confessed that they were having an extramarital affair. You are free to google the story.

OTayobami:
Front page is a goal....please it OK with this coza matter, we don't know what to believe again.

Timi say na him dis-fargin him wife, small time wife say na pastor Gucci disfargin her shay girl fit disfargin twice ni?

Timi said he never claimed she was a virgin. There's no one that has provided an interview he granted where he said such.

Joromi12:
Was she a chiormistress Did u no claim she was a virgin

He never claimed she was a virgin. There's no one that has provided an interview he granted where he said such.

Busola said in her own interview that she left COZA church shortly after the incident and never returned there again.

Chanchit:
But this same Ese has come out to say she just felt like causing commotion. She actually admitted that the sex was consensual, she just felt used, whatever that means. So if the pastor decides to keep quiet then, I won't blame him.

Whether consensual or not, you must remember that the person she accused is the senior Pastor & General overseer of the church. Such an allegation ought to have been addressed back then.

Mayor08:
He might have done this or any other one, but i still stand by my point that he didn't rape busola, They had sex and she is trying to cover up...We all know the pastor cannot explain what truly transpired(he is handicapped) cause of his congregation, he can only accept or deny the allegation.
Timi met his wife a virgin(he said that himself), someone accused her of infidelity and sleeping with a coza pastor sometime ago, Timi and his wife were choristers in the church and somerhing transpired for them to leave.. The allegations of her infidelity and past sexual encounters would have triggered Timi to question her seriously, seeing her marriage is online and there are people threatening her with it she then came out to play the rape and victim card.. May all rapist rot in hell, same as manipulators and liars

Where did Timi say his wife was a virgin when he met her? Where did he grant such an interview? Where is the link of his post saying such.

Don't say what you don't know. Timi & Busola were both choristers in another church (not COZA). That was also where they got married.

In her interview, she stated clearly that she left COZA church shortly after the incident & NEVER RETURNED there again.

baby124:
It’s the shame. She will want to pretend that all is well. If she refuses to go to the church, people will ask questions. It’s apparent her family members were still attending the church even after she opened up to them. Her family really failed her. Even in this revelation, none of them came out to defend her!

This story of her crying though is fake and was started by Kemi Olunloyo

She stated very clearly in the interview that she left COZA church shortly after the incident and moved to Winners Chapel.

I don't know why people are spreading lies that she got married in COZA.

Mk12:
CAN should relax abeg there are worst scamming pastor in Nigeria who are part of CAN .
he did not rape her . they had consensual sex like any of us and she enjoyed it that is why she is not rushing to file lawsuit against him.

this Dakolo said he married her a virgin so the coza guy must be very powerful. he raped her and virgined her back for Dakolo. abi Dakolo no fit identify virgin ?

If there was truly any interview granted by Timi where he claimed he married her a virgin, I'm sure you would have seen the link by now.

Stop believing every lie you see on Instagram or Twitter. Timi did not grant such an interview.

Beremx:
OK noted.

I just want to ask one question. Is it possible for Timi Dakolo 's wife to have developed Stockholm syndrome for the randy pastor after the rape? Because me I don't understand why she continued going to the church after she was being raped.

Just asking

Go & watch her interview. She said she left the church shortly after the incident & NEVER RETURNED there again.

It's not every comment you see on Instagram or Twitter you should swallow.

Offpoint:
Can someone close to that BBQ of a guy/girl please advise him/her? He's suffering from NL addiction and has no clue. that's the first nairalander I've seen on everything thread, the first to comment more than twice on every thread, the first to reply every quote, the first who's on nairaland in every hour.

Someone should help him/her, worse s(he's got the most annoying comment on nairaland.

make una help am o, I wonder what time they make BBQ .

I'm just concerned o, and nothing more.

Any post or comment from always makes me sick & tired.

When I see his/her post on Nairaland, I always wish there was a way to SNOOZE his/her comments indefinitely so that I don't ever have to mistakenly set my eyes on them.

itsme01:


I won't bother myself on who is telling the truth between Busola and Fatoyinbo but Timi Dakolo's stupidity as a man and head of the family

Timi Dakolo ti je efo riro,

Timi Dakolo braged on several occassions of marrying busola a virgin and how pure she was..... Alas!!! Aparently She had been disvirgined at the age of 16 by the Spiritual head of the Church they both attend with their kids....

This is what happens when a Dunce weakling is the head of a family, the woman starts manipulating him, and using him to fight her past battles, appearing in his music video as video vixen (his career/workplace), and calling all shots

The main reason Rape victims get their face blured in news, and their names protected with the judiciary opting for a secret trial is because, humans are judgemental, and sometimes some stigmatize (even their children would be part of this embarasement and future cyberbully).
Now Timi Dakolo as the head of Busola's family had two options, as a man charged to protect the diginity of his family

1: Confront the alleged rapist of your wife mano o mano (just as Busola's elder brother reportedly did) and get Fatoyinbos facts.

or

2: Instantly call your Family Lawyers and relay all what your wife told you in their confidence and seek legal guadiance to forestall, embaracing lawsuits and get your story properly vetted and interogated before going public.

But Instead they contacted an hungry Journalist/ Vlogger/ Blogger with a.badly packaged story of a rape that happened four different time at four different location to a teenager without use of force , threat with weapon or coersion.



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Where did he brag that he married her as a virgin?

Did he grant any interviews where you quoted him from? Or is just becuz someone made some baseless claim on Instagram or Twitter & you believed It?

Y'all are just a bunch of hypocrites in this country.

1984och:
I think she was only trying to save her marriage cos timi heard stuffs from the church gossip about his wife and fatoyinbo.. If not, one would ask: you were still cool with the pastor after the incident. You enjoyed the luxury. You were given a car. You never told the church elders that you were raped all these while. Why now after 3 kids? I think timi would even be the one to regret this later.

If I were in his shoes:

Busola: honey, that stuff u heard is not true. He raped me and bla bla bla bla.

Me: let it slide. Let sleeping dogs lye. We can change church if u want. I'll love you more. It won't change anything. God will pay him back someday.


Anyways, let's just watch and see how it ends!

Where did you hear all this crap that she was given a car?

She left the COZA church shortly after the incident & NEVER RETURNED there till date.

She also met & married Timi Dakolo while they were attending another church. They DID NOT wed at COZA.

Stop believing every trash you see on Instagram & Twitter.

Chriswazo:
My best read on this episode;

COZA Rape Controversy & The Age of Social Lunacy by Dodoh Okafor

1. On what basis did hundreds of people abandon their morning chores this Sunday to go picket the premises of the Common Wealth of Zion Assembly Church in Guzape Area of Abuja and Lagos?

2. Because a certain woman alleged (without any scintilla of proof) that she was raped? Because 5 women said the Church Pastor had inappropriate sexual relationships with them? Or because Segun Awosika said he has "30" women willing to testify against the COZA founder in law court?

3. What really was the essence of the nasty, rowdy, uncoordinated protests? To embarrass the church? To humiliate the pastor? To get the pastor to step down?

4. Pray- are those protesters really interested in pursuing a strong campaign against rape or were they on a vendetta mission?

5. I do not know what other people may think but here's what I am convinced about: many of those who jumped into this rape issue are being manipulated, misled and used as pawns in a complex game of chess by those who are adept at using the media to manipulate the gullible.

6. The man who conducted the interview that sparked the outrage is a certain Chude Jideonwo- one of the many crafty revisionists Nair El Rufai, Bola Tinubu and their lackeys employed to market Buhari in 2015. You are entitled to your opinion but I am convinced by Jideowno's involvement that a lie is involved, that a campaign to hoodwink the masses has been set in motion and with what I know of social media- a mechanism for creating a media storm has been activated.

7. The lady is probably dishonest and no rational thinker should believe her without at least asking a few important questions. I consider her motive to be suspect at best- reason being- what does she intend to achieve by coming out to tell a story that sound poorly fabricated, lacking in substance and designed to bring opprobrium to a man she had a choice to either deal with or avoid.

8. Many would remember the old Igbo adage that can be simply translated to imply that a raging ocean cannot drown a man whose feet it did not see. Fact is- Mr Fatoyinbo never dragged or nailed the buttocks of any man or woman to his church. Anyone always had the option of walking away the minute you became uncomfortable with his body body language or suggestions.

9. Mr Fatoyinbo did not just see anyone and grabbed her by the waist neither is there any report that he ever saw anyone on the street and pulled his car by the roadside, pushed her side and "opened his zip"

10. To be certain, I am not one to support the violation of trust by anyone in authority especially people from whom much is expected. Pastors, priests, teachers, uncle's and aunties, office superiors and village elders have a great responsibility to carry themselves with dignity and restraint at all times.

11. I am not one to blame the victim but when forceful sexual acts keep occurring and the victim never summoned up the courage to report to anyone but rather submits herself whenever her molester comes around for me has a different interpretation.

12. To imagine that the said Busola Dakolo kept submitting herself to Mr Fatoyinbo, attending his church, singing in his Choir, and as I heard- allowing him to wed her tells an entirely different story. It does not add up. Mrs Dakolo in my estimation may not have told us the entire story or perhaps she is playing a terrible game.

13. It pains me to see Nigerians swallowing that story hook line and sinker because some known social media influencers bought into it. This says a lot about how we have deteriorated in our capacity to think and reason.

14. When did we sublet our thinking power to social media influencers and celebrities? If these men and women care so much about rape- why are they not protesting against the mindless rape and killing of women by fulani cattle rearer/terrorists across most states in southern Nigeria?

15. If they care about women, where were they when a certain Elizabeth Ochanya was raped to death by a man and his son? How much did today's sudden philanthropists donate to support the prosecution of the perpetrators of what undoubtedly is a grave act of wickedness?

16. How much social media awareness did they raise when Eunice Elijah was killed by a band of lunatics in Kubwa Abuja? Why are they not interested in seeing that those behind the dastardly act are brought to book?

17. Where am I driving to? Again to be clear: I would be eager to see rapists and other criminals or those who violate the trust of young girls prosecuted and made to serve their punishment. But I would do everything I can to stop the triumph of online mob action against an assumedly innocent man.

18. Accusation is never conviction. Speaking emotionally while being filmed does not amount to presenting a hard evidence before a court of law. Has social media replaced conventional courts or is there something I am unaware of? Aren't injured people supposed to take their matter to court?

18. Is Mrs Dakolo seeking for justice, revenge, emotional appeal, to create mischief or just to destroy Mr Fatoyinbo? What exactly is this all about? Blackmail or some publicity stunts because none of it is clear to me.

19. Again I ask: what was the protest about? Was the protest against Fatoyinbo or COZA? Shouldn't a protest against Mr Fatoyinbo happen in front of his house? Why did they go to disrupt church programs at COZA today? Shouldn't COZA and Fatoyinbo be separate entities? How come the so-called lawyers who lined up at Guzape today missed this point? So COZA should be brought down because a certain woman told a disjointed story to Chude on camera?

20. Why are people so silly? Where's Stephanie Otobo? Why did she stop regalling us with tales of how Mr Johnson Suleiman "raped" her in Jamaica?

21. I would conclude by advising everyone to be circumspect about what's presented on social media. Truth is- the social media in most cases is structured to weaken your capacity to think, steal your power of logical and deductive reasoning from you and what else? Make you a fool.

22. Buhari and his handlers understood that it is very easy to sell lunacy on social media and the leveraged it to come to power- Ill prepared, with a vindictive mindset and you know where that has landed Nigeria.

23. Interestingly - the same group that sold Buhari to Nigerians in 2015 are behind this Busola Dakolo rape tale. I insist that there's a whole lot more to this hullabaloo.

24. You ask- what of the other 1000 girls that also accused the pastor of rape? I reply with: when did public opinion become the basis of adjudication in matters that require sensitivity and tack? Remember millions of people have voted for Buhari since 2015. Does that confer on Buhari the administrative skill he does not have?

25. What else? Who remembers the women who came forward to accuse Brett Kavanaug of rape soon after he was nominated for a Supreme Court position? When are we picking the US Supreme Court?

Let me end with an advice: never sublet your thinking to anyone- especially people whose agenda you do not understand.

Bros, you need to get your facts right & stop believing every trash & lies you see all over Instagram or Twitter. If you took time to watch the interview, you'll not be ranting here.

1. First & foremost, in the interview she granted, she made it clear that she was no longer comfortable attending the COZA church after the rape incident & she completely withdrew from all their church activities including the choir.

2. She also clearly stated in the interview that she left COZA shortly after the rape incident & started attending WINNERS CHAPEL. Go & watch the interview so that you can stop distorting the facts.

3. Busola Dakolo NEVER worshipped again in COZA after she left the church in the early 2000's till date.

4. Those who know the Dakolo's have confirmed that both Busola & Timi Dakolo were worshipping in the same church (NOT COZA) in 2010 at the time when she was a chorister while he was the Choir Master.

5. They got wedded on 31st March 2012 in the church they were both attending. (Google is your friend).

6. The Dakolos certainly DID NOT wed at COZA.

NaijaCelebrity:
[b]"With the way you are going naked, I don't think you can be a bride"

She said honest OPINIONS not "options"

AutoReportNG:
Thank you FG... At last we can move about in peace

See more of Ijora, Surulere and more roads here

https://www.autoreportng.com/2019/05/aftermath-presidential-order-these-are.html

So when Osinbajo gave the same order last year when he was the Acting President, why was nothing done about it?

See how you guys are exposing yourselves with your APC propaganda.

Rest in peace HungerBAD.

IamD18:
Wether true or not, nobody will give a damn atom of seriousness from what's coming out from a prostitute.

You automatically loose your pride and respect from the society once you start giving sexual pleasure to men for money. Have it in mind that these set of ladies includes girlfriend who sleeps with their boyfriends to be financially rewarded.

They are nothing but hoes disguising as girlfriends, and should never be taken serious by any reasonable person.

And the men who patronize them are what Nonsense & your stinking mouth!

frankyychiji:
He's afraid of sarrki

He's a big coward

ANIOMADEI2018:
SAI BABA

KEEP SPREADING FAKE NEWS TO INSTIGATE CRISIS IN NIGERIA.

VERY SOON YOUR IDENTITY WILL BE DISCLOSED

SAI BABA

This is trying to hide using another moniker.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
Third marriage, mind you!
He did a secret wedding with another Ghanaian woman barely 5-6 months of divorcing Damilola, which was likely his reason for divorcing her.
What if she didn't agree to the divorce?
She might have been eliminated!
So, Damilola dodged a bullet.
He uses women, when he is through, he moves to another.
He is still legally married to the Ghanaian woman when he went to marry this woman secretly!
The pictures and video leaked when he married this white woman.
So, obviously there is a problem with the marriage as the white woman had found out he is a scammer

Oga, these your bloody lies don't add up. Where did you see pictures that he secretly married any Ghanaian woman?

Nonsense & your stinking mouth.

aribisala0:
The first black female mayor was Lydia Simmons

The first Nigerian female mayor was Lola Ayorinde 1999.

There was no noise because it is natural no biggie

Eboes and lies

Eboe founded the internet

Angelina Jolie shops in Onitsha market

Orji Uzor Kalu is so rich he banks with the World Bank

Go & hug transformer!!!

[quote author= post=78160269]May the evil Boko boys and all their sponsors be brought to book ASAP.
Everyone sponsoring and supporting Boko Haram in our dear nation will all die painful deaths, they can never escape it.
This is one of the evil vices the evil politicians left behind for us in their wasted years of our country.
Animals.[/quote]Hypocrite like you! I thought PMB had the magical solution to the BH.

Yeye dey smell...

Iamleaving:


Dear Nairalanders,
My account Richdad50 have been blocked again for no reason. This has reached a new low and a deliberate attack with the intent to frustrate me and kick me out of the forum.

I am confident Myndd44, Lalasticlala will do the needful to correct this anomaly from their subordinates. Richdad50 will be patient and hopeful that no one moving further will suffer this level of injustice and shame.

Richdad

Don't let them frustrate you bro. None of them can kick you out of this forum.

I enjoy reading your posts.

BafanaBafana:
What's the similarity between this one and Leah? Why are you people so daft na? Why?

See the kind of people I'm sharing country with

Please what was Leah's crime except being a Christian?

Why has FG not negotiated for her release after ALL the Muslim girls were set free by Boko Haram?

SilasNwude:
hmmm this woman is biting more than she can chew
she should remember that Buhari is an unforgiven terrorist bastard
she should please stay away from this terrorist government
she has family to take care of

not suprised omotola and the likes of FFK are yeroba Christians the real omoluabis
not some yeroba Muslim impostors

cc
cilicmarin ngeneukwenu Clerverly
sarrki
midolian
seunmsg
madridguy
passingshot
deomelo
Butterflyle0
abduljabbar4
modath
Corrinthians
Tetehjewels

senatordave1
Omenkalives

So it is true that NgeneUkwenu is also Cilicmarin & Clerverly He/she is very shameless indeed.

perpeling22:
thanks very much.

You're welcome

Abaje195:
and this shit made front page.... mods why naw

You didn't want it to reach front page abi? Cuz it's your brothers that have dominated the list.

Hypocrite & tribalist like you!