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iamphenomenal:
I first thank Almighty God my Redeemer who delivered me from the shackles of porn and masturbation
I also extend my thanks to my lovely online support group on this forum, Masturbation Quitting Challenge Thread https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread

This habit started in February 2017 when I accidentally discovered 'something' that gave me a skyrocketing sexual pleasure. It was all spontaneous, but I was very excited. I tried more. Enjoyed it. Tried again. That was the beginning of my doom. However, I thought I was really enjoying myself and exploring my sexuality. I later accompanied this habit with porn and it became a full-blown addiction

To keep this write-up from being too long, I would not be able to narrate my experience in details. I lost a lot. This habit cost me a lot. It nearly took away my sanity. I was so much addicted that I could never resist it. I just had to do it, even if I didn't want to. Some fateful nights, I did it right inside my church.. - I'd love to write more and continue, but let's just leave it like this to save time and space

God is good. I came across a support group which turned around my life. This community opened my eyes to a lot of truths, the bitter truths hidden by the society. I had been lied to about masturbation. This community is a brotherhood, yet anonymous. Everyone is free to share his true life story and real experience - as opposed to the media and the Internet's version. Our community is also full of testimonies. Members report drastic changes ranging from day 15 of abstinence - all which served as a great motivating factor. Our founder recently celebrated his 2 years freedom

I've experienced a lot of positive changes in every aspect of life - physical, spiritual, mental, social and relationship, financial, and psychological. Again, space won't permit me to be listing them singly - but trust me, I don't have anything to gain from lying or exaggerating. I am entirely a new person. How much I would like to list my achievements in the past one year!

Dear reader, if you masturbate and you are ready to quit for good, please and please take action NOW! You see, let me highlight some of the popular lies that were wrought from the pit of hell in order to promote this destructive habit and therefore deceive/destroy men
- Masturbation can be done in moderation. It's not a problem as long as you're not addicted
- Masturbation is the same as real sex
- It is a way to release some sexual tension so you don't end up raping or molesting females
- It boosts sexual health, eases stress, etc

You don't have to experience the bitter lessons by yourself. I'm giving you this life-saving truth for free. Many addicts realized the truth after 10, 20, and even 30 years of illusion. They look back in regrets. We have them in our community. Don't take this for granted. Do not experiment with your life. Quit masturbation now. I will not be able to list the evils associated with masturbation, all hidden from camera. Don't listen to what others say. You own your life - save yourself. Start now and go at least 30days free and prove me wrong!
If you think you can't do it, join us and you'll be surprised - no matter the level and duration of your addiction, you can be totally free. DO NOT LISTEN TO NAYSAYERS!

Years ago, I was a slave bossed around by this habit. Today as I speak, I lead a team fighting against masturbation and its related ally - pornography. The lovely warriors in our community made me their President. I'm so grateful and I'll forever be

Dedication
Technically, today is my 400th day. I've never, not even for once, watched porn nor masturbated for more than a year now (impossible? Haha I also thought it was impossible). Today, I dedicate this landmark to my brother, Onelove508, who is also celebrating his one year freedom on this day. Hallelujah!

Credits
• God the Father, the Son and the Spirit
• Nairaland NoFap Community https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread  The Pioneer Nnamebuka and all my brothers there
• Global NoFap Community - Reddit, Fight the New Drug, NoFap YouTube channels et al
• Joseph Okechukwu YouTube
• Brian Tracy's No Excuses: The Power of Self-discipline
• Apks - Reboot, StopM, Iron Will
• Righteousness2 - Sir I made it!
• Mynd44, lalasticlala, Seun
• All Nairalanders
I couldn't have done this without you all

Long live the NoFap Community,
Long live Nairaland

The President,
Nairaland NoFap Community™

Brother you don't really know how happy I am to be reading this, I was so fucking addicted to masturbation till recently. At first it was ok , I loved the feeling and sensation but little did I know that I am entering into a deep shit, I started masturbating on 2013 till few months ago. I was praying deep inside my heart for God to help me . Every trial always prove futile. I have a habit of speaking to the universe every morning before I go to work. I just made it one of my prayer point . Just one morning I felt the urgent urge to stop , I thought it was like every other trial I failed so I gave myself a week, the urge completely went away, it's 4 months and I notice my sexual urge is no more like before, I don't usually lust after women like I use to . I am hopeful that one day I will gladly say it's been 3 years of no masturbation so help me God

Poster I understand how you feel , I have been there before, the best you can do for urself is to apply no contact/ radio silence treatment. You can browse about it.it helps otherwise depression will eat u up

People attacking dangote must be very mad, I am an IBO . it makes no sense attacking a man who saw the loophole in the industry and decided to gain from it and u call it monopoly. How many years have we been crying and begging the federal government to build us functional refineries? They kept on making false promise. If we have enough and viable refineries private sector like dangote would not have thought about it . this will bring these oil thieves down to their knees. If you can't process it locally there is no need to have the license in the first place . they would rather lift crude from here ,refine it outside and leave out the components of crude oil and go for only fuel and still shortchange the government. Kudos Dangote please do the same in the steel industry

My broda I advice you to leave ur parents place and find an apartment you can afford, I am from anambra(onitsha to be precise) with the same age bracket and I was faced with this kind of predicament. The truth is u can survive leaving alone but fear of not being able to pay for rent is what is drawing u back from taking a bolder step. Staying alone will give u more clarity and determination to push forward, knowing that u have a bill to pay makes u to dare for more. Don't give in to this fear. Nothing grows in ur comfort zone
Nwannem nalie, find ur apartment and u have peace of mind. Parents can frustrate person well well

Kai!!! I fucking hate dis country .black man is cursed

Na so

;DCheap publicity, this one is trying to be popular by faking beaten, how you go wear army cardigan come Dey form psquare for road?. Ntoor I Don catch you

What is wrong with these people? I still maintain 'Islam is a threat to humanity'
Believe it or not it's true

Nice one gtb

Lost frequency - are you with me

Craig david - insomnia

Selena Gomez-good for you

Brymo-duro

Infinity - one direction

Even in Enugu, chaiii I pity those aboki shoemakers cos if we hear any gbim!!!, na bad market for Muslims in Southeast
Just saying

Welcome to change

The yourba's don turn to wailers, una never see something
Sai baaba, one thing I know about the ibos is that you will always know where they stand but with our South western brothers.. The case is different
Saiii baba

This people sef, can someone please be kind enough to show me her tattooed private part

Gallant soldiers rest in peace

On point Sir, forget all this criminals trying to sabotage our Legislative institution

Ok nah una don arrive abi..iissssokkayyy

Kai So these abokis dey fear abi

Nonesense all these bloggers sef smmh

Fine man,God bless ya

dis boko boyz never finish?

my opinion
Our problem in this country is that we are too biased and sentimental to our own detriment ,am not a fan of Gej or that of Gmb but it's too obvious that Gej can't handle this country,he failed to control the thieves that surrounds him from looting our nation's treasure ,he never allowed the EFCC send some sacred criminals to jail,even at that he couldn't even control his wife MAMA PEACE from becoming a menance to nigeria's polity,we all know that the office of the First lady is not constitutionally recognised although the funding and it's staff is been done by the federal government,she engaged herself in a tussle with some of the south-south PDP governors,her domineering attitude struck fears into the heart some of jonathans cabinet and governors that made them rever her. her scuffle with rotimi amaechi led to a more disastrous end.it was obvious that jonathan in not incharge of his own family talkmore of Nigeria ,Many notable nigerian told jonathan to call his wife to order,this led to another exchange of words in the Media btween MAMA PEACE and Nobel laurette Wole soyinka,it wouldn't come as a suprised when former Nigerian president,Obasanjo alleged that Nigeria has five Female presidents which are okonjo iweala,allison madueke,stella oduah ,MAMA PEACE and GEJ, while GEJ is the weakest of them all.Nigeria is a very complicated and sensitive country that cannot be ruled by a weak character.in a bid to fight insurgency GEJ has succeeded in destroying the military,his calm demanour made military chiefs to take him for granted,corruption,and sabotouers became a trending lifestyle and character amomg military officers, even when there are cases of delayed salaries among the soldiers he kept quiet,there was no life insurance for soldiers in the battle field,money that was supposed to be payed to the families of soldiers who fell on the battleground where squandered by top corrupt military officers ,there was nothing to boost the morale of soldiers fighting in the field, soldiers were ill equiped to fight their counterpart(bokoharam)who has more sophisticated weapons that was a more reason why we hear annoying headlines of soldier dropping their weapon in war front and running away into the nearest country,we also heard of young soldiers out of frustration attempted mutiny due to inadequasies and corruption among their seniors, Am not saying that they are right for trying to tople their seniors but after they have been punished why has GEJ not checkmate these corupt generals
during the buhari certificate saga, i was suprised to hear people saying the oldman didn't go to school,then i asked the same people ,is it possible for buhari to go US Army war College without his certificate?could he have attened Mons officer cadet school in UK without his certificate? when asked of his certificate buhari said its with the army. The Army came out pointblank and denied being in possesion of his certificate infact According to the Army he was accepted into the then Nigerian Military training College which we know today as Nigerian Defence Academy based on recomendation of his secondary school principal in kastina. The story changed when Buhari was declared winner of the just concluded Presidential election,The same Army who denied being in possesion of buhari's certificate came out again telling us that they have found his certificate .it is clear to a blindman that the Military has been politicized .The Nigerian Military is in bad Shape ,An institution that is suppose to protect us is now a tool of manipulation in the hands of corrupt power brokers in the country.these people de see us as mumu oooo
wielding power is one thing ,knowing how to use it to effect change positively is another,Nigeria is bigger than GEJ ,corruption has eaten deep into the nigerian society under his watch,in my opinion he was not meant to be a president but due to stroke of luck became one ,that which is commendable .Nigerians should learn to say no visionless leaders.just like the late Afro singer Fela said Nigerians are suffering and smiling .Fuel pump price used to be N65 until one day we heard of subsidy scam ,the price doubled since then it has been a game of little decrease and increase in price of fuel yet we are not complaining,the federal government came out and said that there were a group of oil cabals scaming the federal government in the name of fuel subsidy,GEJ said he knows who they are and yet why are they not being punished ,why are they not in jail? because it was all a scam. Nobody is asking Question.the Masses kept quiet.Now $1 =N200 ,why is it like that .Under his(GEJ) Watch okonjo iweala and some bussiness Cabals gambled with out economy and we are suffering.Take a look at our Health Sector its nothing to write home about ,health insurance is just an illusion yet we are suffering and smiling.nobody is asking questions, lies everywhere,the money generated by EFCC has become the Story of FROM ONE THIEF TO ANOTHER ,billion of naira that was recoverd from pension office,where is it? Which sectors was the money channelled into? we are not asking questions.issue of steady power supply is now story for the gods .No job ,even those whose managed to get one don't even have job security..Six weeks to the Election the military began a massive attack on Bokoharam ,within the space of six weeks bokoharam was wiped out and recovered places captured by the islamic militants,Why was this action not taken four years ago? All this lives that were wasted are they not relevant?these people are playing politics with the lives of the nigerians,toward the election the pump price for fuel was decreased by N10 just to win the heart of the people and some days later it increased by N11,who is fooling who? we don't even care or even ask questions ,inflation everywhere ,The problem is we are conversant with pain and troubles,we are used to sufferings that we no longer no if we are suffering or not,we just don't care. it amazes me when a lawmaker during his campaign tells the people that he will build roads and street light,you see people jubilating,where will he get the money to build roads and street light? is that the work of a lawmaker? we don't ask questions,That's our main problem,until we learn to ask questions these old fools will continue to ride us
Am not saying that GEJ is corrupt ,NO all am saying is his war on corruption is below average,Corruption cannot stop development but will hamper it.GEJ's administration was destroyed by corrupt officials who surrounded him.Nigerians should rise above regional and ethnic politics and think of better nigeria.buhari should be given a chance ,As it stand buhari is the only man that can lead nigeria to a greater height,a general with no foul stench of corruption,lets not begin now to judge him until four years later
Alot of people are of the opinions that the igbos will suffer in buhari's regime This is an unfounded assertion and believe you me the igbos will not only survive but will benefit more in this regime ,we have seen the worst and this is the height of it ,things will only get better.for those prophesying doom on igbos better go back and check again
the game has changed,the former players are no longer in the game,those criminals should prepare for jail i enjoin my fellow Nigerians to wake up
never again should we be taken for granted in this country
never again shall there be insecurity
never again should we be relegated to the backyard
let us pray and hope that things will work out for good

una de craze so una no fit advice person,

am a scorpio november 4 by horoscope and am currently dating an Aries girl march 26 ,it haven't been a month since I started dating her but all I feel inside me is dat this whole relationship is a game, she seems to care all about money, there was a time she asked for airtime and I told her to come down her house and pick the card she ignored me,I called her like 5times she ignored my calls but when i sent the card she flashed back ,now she is demanding money to go to market and I don't have it with, de funny aspect of this is am a sex being by nature, I love sex and I have come to leave with it long time ago and funny enough i haven't even touched her talk more of cuddling her and with her attitude I don't think she would even allow me anywhere closer to her,don't get me wrong but sex Is a way I can be assured am not a maga and besides I don't loose in anything I do,it naturally kills me.now she is demanding for money she doesn't even want me to bring it to her house or maybe come to my house n get it,she wants me to bring it to a friend with an excuse that she busy with her training ,I have these strong feeling that she is a player but with this look on her face she seems so vulnerable. when I met her on our initial conversation I asked her of her birthday which is march 26 but when I was with her at a fast food joint she went ahead to ask the people working there how they do rent out the place for birthdays ,looking at her she was serious with the enquiry ,on coming back to d table she was like 'god this place is very costly for booking birthday parties' me self was like 'I thought ur birthday is still 4months to come ' but she replied with a kind of tease " y are u asking would u borrow d money?, " I ignored her.the issue with me is not dat i can't play the game along with her but whenever I see her the vulnerability in her hits my conscience very hard and I don't wanna hurt the wrong person, I might ttbe wrong or right thats y I need an advice ,if I do it my way trust me I WILL NEVER LOOSE I just want to be sure if she real or fake,on a normal day to pick my calls na war after some time she will come up with an excuse, am calm on the outside but am not calm in behavior .me self na sweet boy!! no b say I too 5n but girls de find it hard to resist me dats my personality n beside she is not my first n would not b my last

am a scorpio november 4 by horoscope and am currently dating an Aries girl march 26 ,it haven't been a month since I started dating her but all I feel inside me is dat this whole relationship is a game, she seems to care all about money, there was a time she asked for airtime and I told her to come down her house and pick the card she ignored me,I called her like 5times she ignored my calls but when i sent the card she flashed back ,now she is demanding money to go to market and I don't have it with, de funny aspect of this is am a sex being by nature, I love sex and I have come to leave with it long time ago and funny enough i haven't even touched her talk more of cuddling her and with her attitude I don't think she would even allow me anywhere closer to her,don't get me wrong but sex Is a way I can be assured am not a maga and besides I don't loose in anything I do,it naturally kills me.now she is demanding for money she doesn't even want me to bring it to her house or maybe come to my house n get it,she wants me to bring it to a friend with an excuse that she busy with her training ,I have these strong feeling that she is a player but with this look on her face she seems so vulnerable. when I met her on our initial conversation I asked her of her birthday which is march 26 but when I was with her at a fast food joint she went ahead to ask the people working there how they do rent out the place for birthdays ,looking at her she was serious with the enquiry ,on coming back she was like 'god this place is very costly for booking birthday ' me self was like 'I thought ur birthday is still 4months to come ' but she replied with a kind of tease " y are u asking would u borrow d money?, " I ignored her.the issue with me is not dat i can't play the game along with her but whenever I see her the vulnerability in her hits my conscience very hard and I don't wanna hurt the wrong person, I might ttbe wrong or right thats y I need an advice ,if I do it my way trust me I WILL NEVER LOOSE I just want to be sure if she real or fake,on a normal day to pick my calls na war after some time she will come up with an excuse, am calm on the outside but am not calm in behavior .me self na sweet boy!! no b say I 5n but girls de find it hard to resist me dats my personality n beside she is not my first n would not b my last