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@OP- True, there mightn't be a correlation between love and a sustained relationship but dude, you said it yourself. Love supposedly has a thousand definitions. One might be compatibility, since you're so focused on lasting relationships/marriages. But that's just one in a thousand and compatibility doesn't always cut it. Tell you the truth, relationships don't have to be sustained to signify the presence of love. Or d'you want to tell us that you've never heard anyone say, 'I left him because i love him'?

@OP- Thanks. Just what i felt like hearing.

Jakesund dat wasn't 4 u. Someone's statement has been withdrawn.

^^^Initiating a break up with his gurl already?

This general belief that 'men MUST cheat' is the only thing that drives all men and fuels their egos. Else, why would a healthy man who isn't a sex maniac or perv, derive joy from jumping across skirts and boasting about it?

Is it wrong? = No. Is it appropriate? = Not Really. Can i do it? = Hell No.

And while some girls may think guys to be fools, some also think of them as great liars. How very trusting are you of that friend of your friend's word, huh? You know how it is with you guys. Almost always dainting some chick's rep, to feed your ego and deceive your fellow gang members into believing that you're Mr. Macho.

^^True. Be elusive sometimes.

Help do what? Deflower her? Don't worry young man, you'd do fine. All men have that inherent capability.

Nothing's impossible. Never say never. The relationship may not last until you're both matured enough but who knows? You might break up to reconnect in future. Anything can happen.

I'll tell you the truth, Orikinla. Availability of funds does the trick anyday. Tag me 'materiallistic' or whatever, but a home's never completely happy without the cash.

^^Yeepee! You're doing well already.

Poster, you'd prolly communicate better with sign language. Cos i sooo do not understand you right now. Now, there's a sign! SIGN for you to TACKLE your communication problems.

Just 19 and 40 tonnes of problems already? Hmmn. . .the thought of you at 30 scares me. Please just try to curb your urge as much as you can, so you don't wind up in jail or psychiatry for grabbing boobsies randomly.

Who's to say that your hands aren't the wrong ones? Selfish, describes your person if you've nothing stopping you from marrying her, but you're denying her marriage and yet, want to keep her for yourself. Please let her be jor. You've got time on your hands while she's got a life to build.

Simple. It's not your time yet. I understand that empty relationship fear and all, but all that's just about your not being ready. Been there and done that, so i know what i'm talking about. But trust me, you don't need a lot of relationships to be able to manage one, once you get started. You get all the gists and mock experiences, just from pep talks with pals and even enemies around you. So don't you go thinking that you're missing out on anything. Cos you sooo are not. Just make sure that you work heavily on your psych, so it can adjust to making you be ready, before you begin to fade away. You know how it is with us, women.

You don't seem like one who wants to move on. You seem like one who's got jokes. Yeah, jokes plus a lot of palavar with your 'down below'.

Buhsayor, please stamp your feet and tell him to STOP calling his ex. And FOREVER too! Buddy buddy relationships after intimate ones are total horse s.h**t, believe me. You should trust your intuitions.

@POSTER- I don't.

'You're coming already?'

I let people think that i'm tough. And i know i'm not.

Oooh boy. You've got lots of problems and yet i can't hold on 2 a single one of them. Anyways, peace i wish u.

One word- CRAZYYYFIANCE.

@Emmz- HeHe.

Hurricane In The Rose Garden. As if our naija industry isn't big enough to embarass us. They had to go abroad and do it too!

*thinking* Yeah, it was that kiss, i remember now. Cos i know he didn't ask me out on a date officially. Not that anybody still does that these days anyway. Hehe.

INK i could date a musulman.

976,920.

Poster, everyone in this world knows the answer, so out with the next question already! I'm gonna have to test your own I.Q by waiting to see whether you actually had more than one question in mind, before you started this I.Q thread. Cos this is becoming a real drag, you know.