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topoftheworld:
All children is from God, we have female doing grate and making their parents proud, it all depends on how u brought them up..
That idea of male child that some of genders bring to marriage is so annoyed to me.

Not all men understand this.

Fiscus105:
Wen u married, (if you haven't) "moreeeeee" than this will be uttered by ur partner, maybe you would run by then.

If you know basic biology and you know how to answer question thrown at you, you would have told him, sex of kids is 100% determine by husband.

Nah. Not on strong opinions like children. I am mature enough to tolerate mistakes made by my partner cause I'm not perfect. But a man who holds strong opinions on something that can mar a marriage isn't one to be taken lightly.

If such a man married your sister and they are unable to have male children, how do intend to convince him it's him who determines the sex of their children?

Would you be happy if your sister was thrown out of the house by such a man or if the man goes out to look for a supposed male child?

Think deeply about this.

topoftheworld:
U are trying to avoid story that touch ba?
The guy is not mature for that statement.

My dear. My mum's very close friend is struggling to raise three girls cause her husband ran away, say she no born boy.

Fiscus105:
If what you posted is truth, I pray God should give you grace to be able to stay long in husband house

It is the truth and it's because I intend to stay long in "husband house" that I turned him down. I can't marry who will throw me out for not bearing male children.

I've seen it happen to other women to open my eyes and go into marriage with someone like that. Marriage is a long time commitment, it's stupid to go into it with someone who can throw you out because you no born boy.

Baltimore22:
Don't you think he neva meant it? Just tell us his d**k was small, and not all this plenty talk about male child.

Not all of us go about fornicating all over the place.

Now bye.

Randy100:
The guy is a mumu man for coming to beg you. He should be unapologetic about expressing his desires. See as you are feeling yourself over nonsense.

Well, he didn't come to beg. He came to find out why. He's entitled to his opinion and I'm entitled to mine. It doesn't mean I'm feeling myself.

I am married and I believe he's well on his way to getting married or even married already.

So why e dey pain you?

shegun4sur:
You should've considered giving the second chance because he may have said it out of stupidity but is now matured

I couldn't afford to take that kind of risk. Marriage is a life time commitment.

nokspos:
you did well, this is how this half educated men go about frustrating the lives of innocent women after marriage. simple secondary school biology they won't understand.

I know too many women raising their daughters alone cause their husbands threw them out for not having male children.

I learn from experiences o.

Sterope:
He said he doesn't mean it that way

Yes o. Tried several times to convince me he didn't mean it that way but I japa for my life. Let a woman who has a store house of male children marry him and make him complete.

I nor fit.

Hmmnn.

Might not be a proposal but someone who claimed he wanted a relationship with me cause he wants to marry me said something when we were getting to know each other. This is what he said that made me turn back and face my father's house, "I am sorry to say this, but a man is not complete without a male child".

Since I knew that I didn't have a store house for male children nor did I have a guarantee of bearing him a son, I told him I wasn't interested in the relationship or marriage.

To my surprise, dude insisted on knowing why I turned him down after some months, I told him his comment about male children put me off. He tried to convince me he didn't mean it the way I saw it but I just wasn't convinced.

piyoo91:
Seems u are a barrack girl? I hav been following some of ur comment here, u sounds like one

Nah. I'm not. But I've lived in a barrack in short periods. I had an aunt who was married to a soldier.

I remember when living around a military base or body used to give a sense of Security.

I actually read through your entire post and realize most of what you put there is the truth.

Men who maltreat their wives don't know that the children are watching. Men who are dead beat fathers that let their wives train the kids don't realize the kids are watching.

Men who sleep around and their children know don't realize that the silence of their wives and children is not due to stupidity.

I've seen many of such men abandoned in old age and learned not to judge or lay blames on the children.

These days, you will see people type on social media "Na papa wey do us well we go take care of for old age" or "Na papa wey treat us well we go give befitting burial".

If you're not ready for marriage, don't marry, marriage is for responsible people. A responsible man who is willing to be faithful to one woman and take care of his family.

The general about to chop Nominations today.

LiquoRose is head of house.

JMK needs to lose weight.

She had a good time but body no gree when carry.

creolehunt:
You're in ABJ?

Yes

Rain dey fall for here. My signal is lost.

Giel:
I don't like Maria but abeg naira is too small. Unless big brother wants to do eviction by abeg naira which will give her an edge.
That's too cheap na.

I don't like her too. But I feel like she could have been given immunity and Abeg naira. That secret task made her enemies.

favelli:
Hi, do you mean the yam should have been soaked in water before frying? If yes warm or room temperature water

Slice the yam, wash, salt in a bowl and add a little water into the bowl of salted yam. Pour into the fryer with little water. It will give you this akara seller moist fried yam.

doyin01:
Even tega too said she does not like garlic and she do not like tasting it but whitemoney made it in a way that made her to eat it .....so many cooking brands will already bye eyeing whitemoney for an endorsement..

I like the fact that the dude can cook. It is going a long way to break the "women belong in the kitchen" stereotype.

Aww. White Money made Yousef start eating Swallow. Yousef said the way White Money cooks it made him like it.

I thought Sammie had received sense. Why is helping Angel take out her crochet?

I hope it won't lead to another jealous outburst o?

armadeo:
Brunch. Fried yam/plantain and goat meat sauce.

Next time, add water in your fried yam to keep it moist. It's going to be bitter and crunchy this way.

As long as that's what you were going for.

You see guys like Boma, they are the reason a woman should respect herself.

The same Boma that follows the guys to shame Angel and mock her is the same one who picked Angel over Queen, the yeye woman who was following him all over the place, embarrassing herself.

AtoningBlood:
Forcing sleep.

She's not even asleep, she's beside Saskay and Peace.

LiquoRose is thinking about her life right now.

Queen dey cry.

Now White Money drinking soup like water.

Eww.

Cross's feelings has been hurt by Saskay. I mean, he cut his locs for her.

Hopefully, Queen will stop fooling herself and fooling around with Boma.

Lord Commander Pere is crying cause Maria put him up.