₦airaland Forum

Olarewaju89:
God bless your home dear

Amen.

The way they've turned babies and children into commodities to be sold and bought in Rivers state is shocking.

Olarewaju89:
I'm sorry, have you marry?

With two children sir.

Girl wey you spos to marry, you take am do boyfriend and girlfriend.

Some fell in love with people whose character wasn't marriageable.

When time came for them to marry, they chose level-headedness over love.

If you ask me, ot not necessarily a bad thing. Many who claimed to be in love with each other got divorced after they realised love is not enough to make a marriage work.

For a marriage to work, it takes two people totally committed to each other and making their marriage work.

If you have to ask anyone "what are we"? It means you didn't value yourself enough to define what the person wants from you from the beginning and now, you're now in a situationship. In order for them to further waste your time, they will now tell you "let's not place any tag to it, let's just follow the flow and see where it leads".

Awon time wasters isonu.

Throw Erica in this mix abeg.

This is a flesh eating bacterial infection. Take the child to the hospital, forget the gbogbonishe they are telling you to use here.

I laugh. This guy is talking based on his environment. If you're a Nigerian woman, better not fall for what this brother is saying.

This matter ehn.

Both of them are wrong.

The pastor has good intentions but the execution is poor. The bills to sponsor people to study in a foreign country must be huge, no be by force say them must study for Cyprus, he can still sponsor them to a government University here in Nigeria.

The boys on the other hand are ungrateful. They could have sorted this issue with the pastor by suggesting that they send them back to Nigeria to complete their studies.

Make them come back to their dancing mai guard work.

Evolutionlove:
Oh No Wonder.

Well I have always known you to be useless.

It pained you so much, you took out time out of your unemployed situation to edit my comment.

Eya. Pele. Forgive your parents for doing you wrong.

Evolutionlove:
Brainwashed MooMoo.

Who told you God was the one who instituted that shiit.

A product of a failed marriage has spoken.

Dino is better than a Yahaya Bello stooge. At least, Dino will keep us entertained.

I received the same text. I'm just wondering why they have to do this.

It's giving "abeg" vibes. If you won an election legitimately and by popular vote, you no go need to dey do all these things.

Shebi na una win?

sweetkev:
So who should come first ? Your wife ? Can your wife take a bullet for you ? When problem too heavy she go japa but your mum will always be there no matter what. You must be a simp with low IQ

If you're not ready to put your wife first, don't marry. God that instituted marriage said a man will leave his parents to cleave to his wife. If you're not ready to leave, don't cleave to anyone's daughter. Stay with your mother and build with her, let her birth your kids and also manage your finances.

You people marry out of the need to satisfy your urges. You don't look for value or substance in a woman, you marry nonsense and then come online to cry foul and corrupt the minds of young men due to your own marital frustrations.

I dey sure say you get sisters, no worry, e go reach them.

DrDunamis:
Indeed but I pray the Lord help him to see the error of his actions and swiftly make amends.

With the myriad of those hyping him, telling him he did the right thing?

I very much doubt it.

DrDunamis:
Very rude and disrespectful fellow. How could you speak to your mother in law in such a manner? If you were bother by the amount of her visits, why didn't you speak to your wife to subtly let her mum know?
Na wa ooh
The rate and level of dishonour is just too alarming

He now came to Nairaland (the HQ of angry, bitter and poorly raised men) for validation.

Oya, take clap.

👏👏

ZIMDRILL:
lets take your version children nolonger have regards for adults, but does adult have regards for newly married ? its a two ways system not one way

If it was his mother, will he talk to her like that?
I feel sorry for the woman that married a poorly raised sycophant like him.

A simple talk with his wife would have fixed it. "Honey, don't you think your mum visits us too often, seeing that we are newly weds? I think you should talk to her so she can reduce her visits"

If that approach doesn't work, talk to FIL.

But no, he decided to disrespect his MIL like a child raised from the gutter.

If his wife puts the bed, isn't it her mother that will still come for Omugwo?

The geh sef no get sense, you talk to my mother like that, I'll wait for your own mother for front. Let all of us kuku be mannerless and uncultured.

Women dey marry idiots. People no longer have regard for elderly or the marriage institution.

You did something terribly wrong and you're in a forum where children will hail you for validation. When something goes wrong with your wife that will need the intervention of your family and hers, which mouth will you use to appeal to her family since you've decided to burn the bridge that will take you there?

It's men like you that will say "your mother comes first before your wife", it's still men like you that will bring down thunder and brimstone when your wife disrespects your mother.

One thing I've learned on life is to treat people the way you'd want to be treated.

The food wey you dey cook dey front dey wait for you.

coputa:
So, you can live comfortably in Abuja with 50k monthly salary

300k monthly.

Team blood is thicker than water, over to you.

Just pray you have good people in your family from your father down to your siblings.

Yesterday, I read of a mother who encouraged her son to kill and rape his sister as sacrifice for yahoo yahoo.

I don't see the monarchy existing after William sha.

There no way this one is legal. He probably has no papers.

Persephone1:
I remember having this conversation (the bolded) with a friend and her response was I overthink and I'm planning for the end of something that hasn't happened yet. That was the only time I ever discuss such topic with anyone.

Most times people are never true with themselves. Change is constant, nothing is permanent. Lol

It's good to plan for everything o.

If you're a Christian, the only grounds Jesus allows for a divorce is infidelity, that's if you can't get past the betrayal.

If you're a Christian woman, divorcing your husband over his infidelity isn't wrong. What's wrong is If you now start a sin of immorality, fornicating, especially with married men.

That's why it's good to be independent so you can care for yourself and kids. That's why as a woman, it's good to agree with your partner about the number of kids each of you can take care of incase of a death or any eventuality that will make one person alone care for the kids. (God forbid).

KFClga:
RIP

Uncle say na "Good".

This is what happens when you rush into a relationship/marriage without healing first.

You felt you couldn't take care of your daughter by yourself and rushed to procure another mother for her.

Any woman who loves you will learn to love your daughter and understand that your daughter is a part of you. The woman might just be manipulating you with sex and you're thinking you're in love.

Were you not in love with your wife that died, how did the love just die barely a year after she died and you immediately "fell in love" with the woman who hates your daughter?
Carry your cross Mr lover.

Imagine marrying a guy with a mother like this.

Imagine if he now always picks his mother's side all the time.

Good thing you know your mum is toxic.

managingpartner:
A very wrong assumption, married women are worst off. A married woman can comfortably have a romantic affair with your husband under your roof without you knowing.

It is safe to say, both the married man, married woman and single lady are all culprits.


quote author=Romanoff post=122754347]Even best friends should be kept at arms length especially when they are single and you are married.

I won't even allow any married friend of mine that kind of access to my husband. If the married friend has sense, she'll know her boundaries and I she's unfortunate to not have any, na to dead that friendship.

Even best friends should be kept at arms length especially when they are single and you are married.

UnusualEmissary:
Maybe you should erase that comment before Nairaland boys wey no get joy descend on you

I full ground dey wait any clown wey pass him boundary.

Go to the registry to find out. But being separated for that long and without children makes getting a divorce easier.

MasterJayJay:
He returned from rest to rest again.
What babablu bulabu statement.

Resting after resting.