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In my part of Kogi state (Okunland) election rarely takes place. Before you comot cone vote, them go tell you say election done finish and result will be announced. Especially Mopa.

Team "Blood is thicker than water", over to you.

You're better off paying a real estate company to build house for you than to be sending money to your family members. You can sue the company for misappropriation of funds but where you wan carry family members go?

Even family members you think you trust, it's a huge responsibility you're putting on them to handle such amount of money.

Adeshinau98:
He abuse and mistreat her only for him to send her abroad so she can get back at him, you guys must be joking.

He didn't send her abroad. According to the woman's story, her parents and friends funded her move abroad. The man has not held a job since 2016. Her parents even opened a business for him with an office, he squandered the money and kept beating her. He beat her whilst she was 8 months pregnant and beat her till she miscarried a 6 weeks pregnancy.

It's funny how Nairaland refused to post the woman's response with evidences.

You've only known someone for 7 months and she's already your "fiance". Make I just keep quiet dey read comments as usual.

MikeMicheal:
I love your skin, i know good food plays a role, but which cream do you use plsss?

Media 5.5 vitamin c cream and I use a lot of sunscreen.

AnotherAlien:
I'm sure there are folks advertising their tiling business here on nairaland. Just search for tiling / tiler and you will find some handles that can point you in the direction of how they started their tiling careers. Dem folks make good money too if they're good at what they do.

Thank you.

AnotherAlien:
There are female bricklayers, carpenters, tilers etc too. What a man can do, a woman can do better.

I'd actually love to learn tiling. Na where to learn be the challenge.

Are caterers, bakers and shoe makers a joke to you?

I know three women on IG that make shoes.

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

She might have vaginismus. Let her see a gynaecologist, preferable a female gynaecologist.

Most of the men in that field can't relate with what a woman goes through.

Ignore the clown saying she's not attracted to you. It could also be hormonal. So let her see a gynaecologist.

A wrong person is a person u willing to put in the work to make the marriage a happy one.

My sister fell into their hands on Monday, the guy behind the car showed her a knife and told her to give him her phone and bag. She said she begged them to take it and drop her. They dropped her off.

The phone is a dead tecno phone with a dead screen. She was hoping to replace the phone by weekend. There was only 1k in the bag cause she was going to work. After they dropped her off, some women at the bus stop told her to walk forward, that she might see her bag on the floor. She saw her bag at a short distance. The girl is still traumatised.

Anfield247:
@Romanoff where have you been? I miss you so much on nairaland, please take good care of yourself for me

Just your fan on this platform

I've be great o. I'm still here, I just dey reaf from page topics and dey observe.

All the over confidence, all for nothing.

cooooooks:
Is a local government marriage registry certificate enough for canadian immigrantion?

I very much doubt it.

cococandy:
They ask you your qualities and you say you work . Bro really? 😩

His own qualities are that he works like every adult and is a decent human being like every sane human should be.

No spec at all. Na only money e carry come the marriage. That's all.

Women dey marry nonsense o.

Acidosis:
You no try, sir. You earn 700k and all you have to spend on your family with kids is 100k every month, leaving your wife to cook, clean, wash, do nanny work and market runs, and probably still do her regular job, and you expect her to give you hot sex? With which energy, please? The same energy you could have preserved by spending extra 50k on a good cleaner or cook?

Give yourself a heavy knock on the head.

May God bless you sir. I thought I didn't understand. Even 200k for monthly allowance with children in this economy isn't too much.

The only thing he's divorcing her for is her lack of sex drive. Rather than getting help through therapy (sex therapist), he's choosing to throw the baby and the bath water away. Issokay o.

zubizareta:
What airline is this pls

So that we can avoid it.

So na only mouth Doyin fans get.

Westerhoffe:


If only you know that ordinary Ewedu can solve the option of going for CS.

If you also know how to make use of the Shea Butter option, you'd never reach the point of opting for CS.

Rotfl. I laugh in Ignorance.

Asides the fact that you can't have more than 4 CS births and the pain that comes with the recovery, it is safer than vagina delivery in my opinion.

I have seen babies suffer from birth asphyxia during vagina delivery. These children end up with serious developmental delays and cerebral palsy. With an elective or pre planned CS, the date is fixed and the baby is taken out safely.

Don't even get me started on the tears that many women suffer from vagina delivery. I know one that had a tear to her anus, she had to go and have another repair done three weeks after the vagina birth. It was such a horrible experience for her.

All I'm saying is none of the birth situations is easy, all we pray for is a healthy mother and baby.

Customer dome buy market.

jahsharon:
Tailor disappointed as usual. Make e go explain to God. Useless idiots

It is not everyone that has brain matter in their skull, some just have sawdust, some coconut water, some sewage waste.

So sad.

I know a mother who sent her son from Abuja to Benin to "learn" yahoo.

They should lock all of them up.

ComptonGee:
You said you thought you had tamed for life. That alone shows you're the problem here. She probably have been tolerating your inhumane treatment. You treat your wife like an animal all on the name of being a red piller

Wife done turn Bingo wey them dey tame.

If you're still single, dey go through the social media account of the guy wey you dey date. Dey read him comments, they look the comments of people wey him dey like, dey read him posts judiciously. That is the true character of the man.

God abeg o.

Women dey marry rubbish abeg.

From only four people. 61 children.

It's like this DJ was called last minute cause the booked DJ cancelled tori, what is this?

If he was in that night Club with his wife or he respected himself as a married man, where Olosho wna dey accuse am?
Discipline yourselves, if you can win the battles going on between your legs, 70% of your problem done solve.

I hope the truth prevails and justice is served.

maasoap:
Look at you. A woman can nag, and husband should tolerate the nagging because it is a proof that she loves him. But a man shouldn't roar because it is not a sign of love. Well done


And you think all women are the same? The same way all men are the same?

What you people term "naggingg" is when a woman keeps complaining about something wrong you're doing. In order to silence her, una go say she dey nag. It's because she cares about the man and the marriage being better. Marriage is progressive, it should change you. You can't remain as you are and expect your marriage or spouse to be happy.

Didi2d:
You're right

But what about a wife that treats her husband bad and doesn't show respect? Even when the man provides for the family.
Should should the man do

If you think provision is all it takes to be a husband, you're in for a shock.

Aonkuuse:
You know nothing..... no woman leaves a man who treats her well?? which part of the world are you from?? very stupid statement.

So you never heard statements like he is too caring, he's weak, bra bra..... One thing i know is, 80% of women are unpredictable, she will prefer a cheater and abuser for extravagant lifestyle to a loving and caring man

Is this the case with this woman? An old woman of that age who didn't leave since, na now wey she done old and no man go send her.

Make una dey look beyond una myopic gender wars.

Marriage is not as hard as a lot of you make it to be. As long as this world exist, you will reap what you've sown.

If you treat a man who treated you badly, you will reap what you've sown, if you treat your wife badly, you go also collect.

If you're triggered by this, you should check yourself.