Romanoff:


My dear. My mum's very close friend is struggling to raise three girls cause her husband ran away, say she no born boy.

topoftheworld:


All children is from God, we have female doing grate and making their parents proud, it all depends on how u brought them up..
That idea of male child that some of genders bring to marriage is so annoyed to me.

siofra:
He was a redpiller

Tueh!!!

PrimadonnaO:
We weren't dating. We were just good friends, so the planned surprise proposal was shocking

When I got a hint of what was happening, I didn't show up.

When we talked about it later, I still didn't want to. The man had identity crisis, plus a patriarchal disposition I wouldn't be comfortable with in a life-long partner.

TheRedpillguy:

He was not, if he was he wouldn't be asking you about marriage stop the lies.

Fejimummy:
One said that I should drop out of uniben in 300 level to attend yabatech because he lives in yaba... Who does that

He wants to ruin ur career in ur own eye
Bcus Las Las ,he will still dumped U

Romanoff:


Nah. Not on strong opinions like children. I am mature enough to tolerate mistakes made by my partner cause I'm not perfect. But a man who holds strong opinions on something that can mar a marriage isn't one to be taken lightly.

If such a man married your sister and they are unable to have male children, how do intend to convince him it's him who determines the sex of their children?

Would you be happy if your sister was thrown out of the house by such a man or if the man goes out to look for a supposed male child?

Think deeply about this.

justscorchone:




This is not a made up gist or baseless talk, I know this women reach house, I’m pro women but then I’m just stating what I know is a common thing amongst your folks, y’all should sit down well and select who y’all want to settle down with and stop looking for flaws and making petty excuses and still come out to say all men are trash or there are no decent men out there. When y’all are more interested in fine boy with finances.

Kalatium:
Ladies what was your reason?

Mods pls move this to Fp , lets learn.

ceaser:


Keloids, though can be repulsive when florid, but they are not something unsurmountable. He should have found out more how to get them removed without recurrence. And sincerely I feel you could have helped him out with researching on how to remove that little minus.

I know of a guy who was dating a pretty lady but with bad dentition, and I mean very bad dentition as in the type that will shame Evi Edna Ogholi's. Her incicors were literarily jutting out, pushing her upper and lower lips forward.

What did the guy do? He simply went with her to see a dentist and paid for the treatment to have her put on braces. Just for a few months and now she can smile beautifully without worrying about people wincing. They are now with kids, beautiful kids.

Another one was so thin and doesn't have a masculine voice. So i always felt I was talking to a girl or small boy.

This is nothing but the truth.

Rosement:

Don't propose to a lady until you are sure she wants to be your wife. A friend of mine once asked me how I would feel if he propose to me, I was honest with him, I told him that I only see him as friend and nothing more. We were close, he might have assumed I was interested in him.

Don't guess, find out. You can make your marriage proposal a surprise but don't take your partner completely off guard, don't let your proposal come out of the blue.

Make sure you and your partner are on the same page, you guys must have already discussed issues relating to marriage. That does not mean your marriage proposal will not come as a surprise, to propose find a time and a manner that your partner won't be suspecting.

blessuponetime:


See you in Shiloh very soon, best believe.

blendz4real:
Nigerian girls! Make una dey dia dey luk 4 100% perfect man until una reach 40yrs wey menopause begin ask una out. Na him una go recognize say what God cannot do does not exist. Anyways, b4 accepting anyone's marriage proposal b careful 2 seek God's counsel. Always rmba dat not every man dat can pay ur bride price is ur husband. I come in peace, but if u need a reparation 4my comment den "let me c wat I can do."

Romanoff:
Hmmnn.

Might not be a proposal but someone who claimed he wanted a relationship with me cause he wants to marry me said something when we were getting to know each other. This is what he said that made me turn back and face my father's house, "I am sorry to say this, but a man is not complete without a male child".

Since I knew that I didn't have a store house for male children nor did I have a guarantee of bearing him a son, I told him I wasn't interested in the relationship or marriage.

To my surprise, dude insisted on knowing why I turned him down after some months, I told him his comment about male children put me off. He tried to convince me he didn't mean it the way I saw it but I just wasn't convinced.

AgreatMan:


There is more to that story, perhaps, the male child thing was the final straw or ur excuse to cut him off.

Every man wants to have a male child.

If u were raised in a different environment where husbands didn't divorce their wives cos of male child, you would have married d guy regardless of his male child opinion.

Was the guy making a ridiculous request or was your opinion about male children shaped by your environment? There is more to this.

JovialJune:



Explain advanced biology to us mister scientist, with graphical quotations, verified links and concrete research, not something from your ass.

Randy100:
If you are a good biology student, you will know that each ejaculate has an equal amount of both x and y chromosome. A man is giving his wife the equal amount that can either give a boy or girl, whatever happens to the sperm inside a woman should be solely her fault I come in violence, peace is overated.

BarrElChapo:


How can it be that you guys would go from friends to proposing ? I thought its friends to dating etc

post=105129561:
We just asked the closest female around us now and she says "He refused to buy me BARBECUE on the day of the proposal!!"


It is well!!

JADEK04:
First time I gave a lady a ring in my life,
She rejected it,
And I can never never in my life does that again,
Her reason was that
Is too early for me to do that....that she need a time to think and decide.

The5DME:
The number of women who've commented on this thread ain't up to 10.

Romanoff:


Well, he didn't come to beg. He came to find out why. He's entitled to his opinion and I'm entitled to mine. It doesn't mean I'm feeling myself.

I am married and I believe he's well on his way to getting married or even married already.

So why e dey pain you?

Randy100:
If you are a good biology student, you will know that each ejaculate has an equal amount of both x and y chromosome. A man is giving his wife the equal amount that can either give a boy or girl, whatever happens to the sperm inside a woman should be solely her fault I come in violence, peace is overated.

JovialJune:



Thank you, which will eventually come when I'm above 50 with my husband by side and grandkids.

So take your nastiness and baselessness to your female siblings and mother at home.

Romanoff:


Not all of us go about fornicating all over the place.

Now bye.

PrimadonnaO:
We weren't dating. We were just good friends, so the planned surprise proposal was shocking

When I got a hint of what was happening, I didn't show up.

When we talked about it later, I still didn't want to. The man had identity crisis, plus a patriarchal disposition I wouldn't be comfortable with in a life-long partner.