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I have said this before and I'll say it again, no woman leaves a man who treats her well.

My own MIL, the highest she can stay for Omugwo is 3weeks, she even try for you sef for that three weeks. She will be running back to her husband.

You see a woman that "nags", it is because she still cares about you, when she goes silent, wetin dey her mind, na only she know. She will endure till the right time to bolt. The man will now be wondering where he went wrong not knowing that he went wrong a long time ago, na manifestation he just dey see.

Treat your wives well, don't be a Lion in the home, be relatable, treat your wives with love and respect, develop friendship and intimacy with your wife that will sustain you both till old age.

I know old women who don't stay for Omugwo cause them no fit leave their husband, such husbands are reaping where they sowed ni. If they were bad to their wives, you think the wives will be running back to them?

What kind of old woman wants to start life afresh, even looking for a job in UK at that old age when she should be enjoying retirement with her husband?

Make una dey ask these kind questions.

Those of you who value the family you left more than the family you started with your wife, continue. You're teaching them how to treat your wife and children if God forbid, you die untimely.

Some of you have wicked family members but some of you won't live long enough to realise this. That man would have sworn his family would protect his wife and kids if something happened to him.

See am now.

See as them treat the wife and kids of the dead man.

May God give men wisdom o.

My son's bus fee per term is 75k.

For this economy.

Seyi wife dey pray abeg.

As much as children of these days will be tech savvy and book smart, I fear a lot of them will not be Street smart. At age 7, he's not too young to be sent on an errand. You and your wife should give your children security and environmental awareness tips. At this age, they should have a fear of not wandering from where they were sent.

As long as it's within the neighbourhood, I feel it's okay o.

KillerBeauty:
Before I respond to any pm on nairaland, I check your post first. Any misogynist, tribalist, and arsenal fan I dismiss your message

It is very important o.

Kevineleven:
Some of them are.

Thank God you said some. Those "some" are the minority in the grand scheme of things.

Kevineleven:
Once the dude is rich, most of you female folks don't mind, even when the red flag is staring into your eyes.

Even the broke ones are like that. The broke ones are even worse.

The ones wey dey this forum, they are rich abi?

Them just dey wake up.

Luckysbab:
There are countless topics/nwes of misbehaving girls on NL. If I see one where you specifically started ranting about poorly raised girls, I'll submit.

You can do one better by broadcasting it on NTA that your girls 'beware'. Palapala.

Na them o.

Luckysbab:
You goofed by using the oppportunity of some drunkard on a degenerate show, with boys and girls, talking nonsense to manifest your concealed disdain for boys, for whatever warped up reason you have. I don't care if you admit to this. It is what it is.

You are the person who has a hidden hatred for women. This post is about a man, but you had to drag badly raised women into it when badly raised women wasn't even the topic.

Rather than contribute to what the topic was, you decided to di the juvenile thing of pointing fingers to reduce the outrage.

Na them o, women, beware.

It is not.

Luckysbab:
And the badly raised girls on the streets are not your concern?

Rather than address the collapsing family values in the society, you chose the men bashing route, as usual. What's the diffrence between you and those poorly raised boys?

What is the topic of debate here is a man who thinks like an animal. When it's about the badly raised women, look for my comment.

Rather than talk about the topic, you're doing "what about those people "?

Poor attempt at deflecting.

Emaprince:
lmao.

It's the truth though.

I done talk my own o.

Ladies, check their social media posts o. Make person no go marry animal think say na human being.

Emaprince:
Invalid comment and advice.

In the end, women will still want those toxic guys.

Being that gentle man who says or does things that pleases women have never paid any man.

Women steps on those men.

Keep trying to fill up a basket with water, you hear?

Them done drop quote o.

Lol

There are a lot of badly raised men like Seyi on this forum. They don't see any good in the female folk, only their mums and sisters are worthy.

We just laugh or ignore them but they will have children tomorrow, sons that will marry your daughters tomorrow.


Before you date someone or marry them, look at their digital foot prints, check their posts and comments. Many of them are animals disguised as humans.

By the time Messi is done with MLS, the league will be grateful.

I never knew Inter Miami or cared for MLS before Messi.

Dude is carrying the league on his back.

By the time Messi is done with MLS, the league will be grateful.

I never knew Inter Miami or cared for MLS before Messi.

By the time Messi is done with MLS, the league will be grateful.

I never knew Inter Miami or cared for MLS before Messi.

By the time Messi is done with MLS, the league will be grateful.

I never knew Inter Miami or cared for MLS before Messi.

Hi @beckycute1, I need to make an enquiry from you please. I sent you a Pm, I guess you haven't seen it. Can I send you another?

The first value or lesson you should teach your daughter if you have one is self worth. If your daughter has self worth, she's 80% set for life.

With all the red flags aunty mentioned above, she still hasn't done the needful.

Ladies out there, stop fornicating and value yourself.

Evolutionlove:
Lol na me and your Papa be Agemate. Usvless Girl.

E pain am. If you see poorly raised boys, e no dey hard to identify them. Na so them go dey display their animalistic tendencies all over the cyber space.

We no fit blame them sha, na genetics in play. Na animal dey born animal.

I won't indulge you in your delusions of trolling.

Uduozuor, Omo asigbe ward.

Ijelenwanyioma:
I gave birth some days ago and today I was told to bring my baby for neonatal test today

Please from this result, how severe is the jaundice? Is it something I can manage at home with sun and unripe pawpaw soaked in water or does he need phototherapy light?
Please help me
Dont just read and pass🙏🙏🙏🙏

How is the baby doing now??

Evolutionlove:
Okay we have heard you Beech.

You should Rest now.

Gutter children in the building.

Everything is not Olosho. Not every dead woman on the street was an Olosho. Even an Olosho does not deserve to die like this. Let's be humane. As long as you're fornicating or committing adultery, you're no different from an OLOSHO. I've said, it, come and beat me.

That aside, there's a serious organ harvesting business going on in Nigeria, it's just easy to blame it on yahoo boys. Most corpses you'll hear of on the street, you'll hear that one or two organs have been removed.

Them dey sell these organs for black market.

tishbite42:
Megan Thee Stallion snitched sha
Out of court settlement would have done it

If na your sister, you go dey talk this thing?

The guy deserves the 10 years. A simple "I am sorry I shot you, things went a little too far" could have sort it out and the issue wouldn't even have gotten to court. Rather, he chose to gaslight her and bullying her all over social media over the incident.

I wish people understood the power of sorry and accountability.

Ijelenwanyioma:
Thank you ma. We are in hospital already and he has been under light since 2pm

Thank God.

It is very high and she will need phototherapy. Delay could be dangerous as poorly treated jaundice can cause cerebral palsy and serious developmental delay.

The doctor who asked you to do the test shoumdt have let you go hoke with the baby, them spos admit that baby.

Under phototherapy, the bilirubin level will be tested every 48 hours to know if its coming down, it would have come down below 12 before they'll discharge. I pray the child won't even need blood transfusion.

This isn't pawpaw water matter.

Run to the hospital with the baby. Let a doctor tell you if it can be treated at home or not. Google children with "cerebral palsy" so that you can know what you're joking with.

brian91:
Thank you for the wise opinion..
We working on our indifferences and all is working well.

I'm happy for you.

It's not too late to learn a skill. He should forget about a wife for now and learn a skill. He can learn how to do POP, tiling or shoes. He should get himself entrenched in a community, like village groups, church and volunteer groups for networking so he can get jobs after learning these skills.

Write a will. It is not a bad thing.